I'm gonna have to start busting my ass off so I can have my own little apartment while studying. Sure, the school campus provides me with a free one, but it's very confined, severely lacking in kitchen equipment, and if you set off the fire alarm(which can happen very easily because the ventilation of the "kitchen" doesn't work), you're facing a 825 euro fine.
I rather work myself to death than live in fear of paying a ridiculous fine each time I cook something that isn't a soup.
Just gotta find someone who's willing to be my roommate so we can split the fees.
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[url=http://momsdish.com/recipe/251/ferrero-rocher-cake-recipe]this is really good[/url]
Yo send me some
[QUOTE=bitches;50892810][t]http://foxcock.me/web/dump/Phone%20Camera/Camera/food/IMG_20160812_141012574.jpg[/t]
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[url=http://momsdish.com/recipe/251/ferrero-rocher-cake-recipe]this is really good[/url][/QUOTE]
oh jesus christ; dont tempt me
[QUOTE=Purple Gecko;50893811]oh jesus christ; dont tempt me[/QUOTE]
too late
you already bought the ingredients
I am covered in insect bites my life is misery i am so itchy
I've been making food puns at work all morning. They're all so done with me.
So i pretend that i stopped and started telling them a story about my car.
It went a little like this:
So i was talking to my sister about how crap my car was and that i need a new one, she asked me what i was gonna do since i said i don't think it'll last much longer, i asked if i could borrow some money to get something good, unfortunately not but she said i could... Avacardo.
It got a few laughs. Im happy.
You know what's a funny thing? Paranoia.
It can make you crazy. Mad. Insane. Is he ignoring my texts? Maybe he doesn't like me. Maybe he doesn't want to go out tonight. You go absolutely bonkers going to the worst possible outcomes, and your friends rein you in and assure you it's just in your mind. And you go yeah, it is, and keep going.
You go out to the mall. You have a great time together. You go back to your place. You play some Rock Band together. It's a typical night, you're happy and having a great time even with the stress of school and your new job looming overhead. You can get through it, now that you've got him with you. That person who you've loved for all of your fucking life, and are now finally dating. For once in your life, something is going [I]right.[/I]
You drive him home. You think it'll be like all the other nights. Maybe we can make out again, and I can go home with that fuzzy feeling. You spend an hour in your car parked in front of his place just talking, shooting the shit. Laughs, jokes, all the stuff you love to do with him. But you begin to notice something. He looks a little uncomfortable. You say "hey, wanna kiss?" and he's trying to divert the topic. You want to be there for him. Something on your mind? A penny for your thoughts? I want to be there for you. You can talk to me.
It takes some time, but he decides to tell you.
There was nothing there.
He never felt attracted to you.
He "tried", but just couldn't find it in him to see you as more than just his best friend.
You bargain and bargain, maybe with some more time you can turn him around.
This was the night you were going to tell him you love him. Some fucking timing, huh?
He spends an hour explaining it all to you, how he tried to give it a shot this last month, how he didn't feel the desire to hang out and make plans. After all, you were the one who always asked him to go out for dinner. You always made the plans.
But at this point it's all going in one ear and out the other. Tears are running down your cheeks and you're gripping the steering wheel. He says he understands if you don't want to talk to him, but he still wants to hang out and be friends. Were it so easy, as the Arbiter once said.
You leave silently. You scream. You throw on "No Easy Way Out" in some attempt to be ironic or something. You tell yourself don't drive like a maniac and reel in the emotions, just for the trip home. But the thoughts are still there.
That whole month of happiness, of finally feeling like someone in the world could share things with you, that you weren't alone and shlubby and ugly. It was just a lie. A big, fat lie. You were right to be paranoid. You wish you didn't prod him to speak up, just so you could've lived that lie a little longer.
As Cypher said in The Matrix, "Ignorance is bliss."
[QUOTE=greeley;50894063]I've been making food puns at work all morning. They're all so done with me.
So i pretend that i stopped and started telling them a story about my car.
It went a little like this:
So i was talking to my sister about how crap my car was and that i need a new one, she asked me what i was gonna do since i said i don't think it'll last much longer, i asked if i could borrow some money to get something good, unfortunately not but she said i could... Avacardo.
It got a few laughs. Im happy.[/QUOTE]
I have an offel reputation when it comes to food puns, most people camembert them though perhaps I should simmer down before you lot give me the cold shoulder, I'll leave you lot to stew in your own juices while I remenise about the first time I spotted dick.
[editline]16th August 2016[/editline]
I'm sorry, my dad was full of these, I havn't seen him in ages but I musn't get upset over such a trifle... as my marmite say
What are you, fuckin' gay?
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Sin doesn't mean shit because when I'm deep in that ass I'm already in heaven.
Or when someone is deep in mine.
How have i only just heard this fucking awful song.
Why the hell have i listened to it like 20 times already.
[video=youtube;Bznxx12Ptl0]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Bznxx12Ptl0[/video]
[QUOTE=~Kiwi~v2;50894317]This went rude to lewd real fast.[/QUOTE]
Rude to lewd no lube.
[QUOTE=Thomo_UK;50894322]Rude to lewd no lube.[/QUOTE]
That is incredibly lewd
And probably also kinda painful
Turned in my boxcutter and name tag this morning. Walked all the way there too. Actually felt alright. Feels like that weight is off my shoulders now.
Guess I better look for colleges or something now.
[QUOTE=Mysterious;50894372]Turned in my boxcutter and name tag this morning. Walked all the way there too. Actually felt alright. Feels like that weight is off my shoulders now.
Guess I better look for colleges or something now.[/QUOTE]
Considering what you've told me, it was a very strong thing to do. Good job!
[QUOTE=Mysterious;50894372]Turned in my boxcutter and name tag this morning. Walked all the way there too. Actually felt alright. Feels like that weight is off my shoulders now.
Guess I better look for colleges or something now.[/QUOTE]
From what you've told me too you'll do fine.
I remember walking away after finishing my job, except I still kept the shirt and apron because fuck them keeping it.
Welp. I was talking to this dude via tinder a while ago (bad idea), and ended up blocking him after him telling me his picture is from 8 years back, which was definitely douchy on my part I'll admit. After a few hours I get a text a text from him saying "you actually blocked me?! It was a joke you idiot!". Tbh I would have contacted him and apologized had he not called me an idiot. Now he's trying to reach me through my Facebook (again saying "I can't believe you blocked me it was a joke!!) and I'm not sure if I should be worried or not. I've been rejected/ignored/blocked enough times to move on pretty easily but I'm not sure what to do when someone else can't.
Definitely made some mistakes here, but in the end I kind of feel like I dodged a bullet especially since we haven't even talked too much nor met in person. Gonna be taking a break until I can learn to deal with this shit better. Did any of you guys ever end up in a similar situation?
On a semi related note, actually met a really nice dude last saturday and went on a date with him. It went amazingly well. We even scheduled a second date next weekend! Which is a first for me in this awful Tel-Aviv ram & run scene. Genuinely excited to meet up with someone for once.
I've had people spam me for not responding to them. This just activates my maximum silly drives and eventually they block me, for me.
[QUOTE=ScreamingGerbil;50894468]Welp. I was talking to this dude via tinder a while ago (bad idea), and ended up blocking him after him telling me his picture is from 8 years back, which was definitely douchy on my part I'll admit. After a few hours I get a text a text from him saying "you actually blocked me?! It was a joke you idiot!". Tbh I would have contacted him and apologized had he not called me an idiot. Now he's trying to reach me through my Facebook (again saying "I can't believe you blocked me it was a joke!!) and I'm not sure if I should be worried or not. I've been rejected/ignored/blocked enough times to move on pretty easily but I'm not sure what to do when someone else can't.
Definitely made some mistakes here, but in the end I kind of feel like I dodged a bullet especially since we haven't even talked too much nor met in person. Gonna be taking a break until I can learn to deal with this shit better. Did any of you guys ever end up in a similar situation?
On a semi related note, actually met a really nice dude last saturday and went on a date with him. It went amazingly well. We even scheduled a second date next weekend! Which is a first for me in this awful Tel-Aviv ram & run scene. Genuinely excited to meet up with someone for once.[/QUOTE]
Although it was bad of him to call you an idiot and then try and find you on other media, that was kind of creeper-like, but if i was him, i'd be really miffed off aswell if some guy blocked me after i said a joke that wasn't offensive towards anyone, especially if you guys talked for a bit and i found that you were a cool guy. If i was in your boat, i would apologise, and tell him why you did it and it was wrong of you to be that shallow. If he then still goes off on one, you can block him again because at least you apologised and you both got closure.
So I um might have a big crush on a guy I have recently been talking to.
I ask him what his hair is like and he just posts his selfie.
He looked sooooooooooooooooooooooooo cute :excited:. (Too bad he's in US :saddowns:)
Doggo at the first rest stop we stopped at, before he stopped liking me and forgot the meaning of happiness
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Doggo when he refused to stop looking at the window, but was so tired that he kept falling asleep sitting up lol
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Shortly before I ruined things
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I attempted to pet him and this would not stand so he hid in the corner from me and refused to lay back on his bed or look at me for several hours
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he still won't fucking eat
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and he short circuited yesterday morning when i was scratching a spot he likes having scratched. he tried to itch it like most dogs do, but he also curved his back all funny and his mouth was stuck in a weird fashion. this dog is fuckin' weird though
[video=youtube;fwqROy1UY-0]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fwqROy1UY-0[/video]
I haven't given up, but this still sucks. He doesn't really wag his tail at me. He'll be happy and a bit affectionate when I first come home or let him come out of his crate in the morning, but to a much lesser degree than he is with literally anyone else. I take him for two 45 minute walks a day, bought him a nylabone that he refuses to touch (but wants to lay on, wut), still can't get him to eat, and find him generally acting super submissive and fearful of me. Despite the fact that I've not made any threatening moves towards him and the only time I've raised my voice is for prompt corrections. No amount of "good dog"'s, belly rubs, or other words of encouragement can get him to wag his tail or look me in the eyes (i.e the face from the first pic was a one-time thing)
Also my parents are still pissed at me for getting a dog, so I don't really have anyone to talk to for advice besides my sister. who is too busy with school, work, and her trying puppy to be of help.
Anyone got any tips for dealing with when your lifelong love rips your heart from your chest and leaves you a crying mess who can't sleep
[QUOTE=paindoc;50895021]Doggo at the first rest stop we stopped at, before he stopped liking me and forgot the meaning of happiness
Doggo when he refused to stop looking at the window, but was so tired that he kept falling asleep sitting up lol
Shortly before I ruined things
I attempted to pet him and this would not stand so he hid in the corner from me and refused to lay back on his bed or look at me for several hours
he still won't fucking eat
and he short circuited yesterday morning when i was scratching a spot he likes having scratched. he tried to itch it like most dogs do, but he also curved his back all funny and his mouth was stuck in a weird fashion. this dog is fuckin' weird though
I haven't given up, but this still sucks. He doesn't really wag his tail at me. He'll be happy and a bit affectionate when I first come home or let him come out of his crate in the morning, but to a much lesser degree than he is with literally anyone else. I take him for two 45 minute walks a day, bought him a nylabone that he refuses to touch (but wants to lay on, wut), still can't get him to eat, and find him generally acting super submissive and fearful of me. Despite the fact that I've not made any threatening moves towards him and the only time I've raised my voice is for prompt corrections. No amount of "good dog"'s, belly rubs, or other words of encouragement can get him to wag his tail or look me in the eyes (i.e the face from the first pic was a one-time thing)
Also my parents are still pissed at me for getting a dog, so I don't really have anyone to talk to for advice besides my sister. who is too busy with school, work, and her trying puppy to be of help.[/QUOTE]
Honestly I think you'll just have to take a lot more time.
He's acting submissive because he sees you as the de-facto boss, my dog is generally very playful with me because that is his own personal character but also because he doesn't see me as being above him (That is my for my dad.) I forgot how long you've had him for but if he isn't used to his surroundings being in a home with multiple people he might not know what to do, when I got my dog who has originally abandoned he would act the same, he wouldn't know what to properly do and instead attempt to rummage in the bins or sleep under the table outside.
[QUOTE=Diet Kane;50895027]Anyone got any tips for dealing with when your lifelong love rips your heart from your chest and leaves you a crying mess who can't sleep[/QUOTE]
you gotta suppress that feeling and move on, get distracted etcetera. it'll go away after a while just don't think about it too hard.
[QUOTE=Diet Kane;50895027]Anyone got any tips for dealing with when your lifelong love rips your heart from your chest and leaves you a crying mess who can't sleep[/QUOTE]
Just keep moving forward and leave the past behind.
[QUOTE=greeley;50894678]Although it was bad of him to call you an idiot and then try and find you on other media, that was kind of creeper-like, but if i was him, i'd be really miffed off aswell if some guy blocked me after i said a joke that wasn't offensive towards anyone, especially if you guys talked for a bit and i found that you were a cool guy. If i was in your boat, i would apologise, and tell him why you did it and it was wrong of you to be that shallow. If he then still goes off on one, you can block him again because at least you apologised and you both got closure.[/QUOTE]
Yeah, yeah, you're right. I sent him an apology. Hope he won't lose it!
Guess I was kind of used to the shallow side of the pool. I'll definitely use it as a lesson haha
[QUOTE=Thomo_UK;50895063]Honestly I think you'll just have to take a lot more time.
He's acting submissive because he sees you as the de-facto boss, my dog is generally very playful with me because that is his own personal character but also because he doesn't see me as being above him (That is my for my dad.) I forgot how long you've had him for but if he isn't used to his surroundings being in a home with multiple people he might not know what to do, when I got my dog who has originally abandoned he would act the same, he wouldn't know what to properly do and instead attempt to rummage in the bins or sleep under the table outside.[/QUOTE]
Well, I'm not entirely sure he's acting precisely submissive. He doesn't try to lick under my jaw, and isn't sending a lot of calming signals like yawning or licking his lips. Mostly just seems disinterested. Being a husky, the clever bastard may be training me to pet him on his terms so my plan today is to ignore him as much as possible, even on our walk. He can choose to engage on his terms, I'm not trying that hard anymore.
Still have to get him to eat though. He managed to run into my roommates room and eat some of her dinner, I let him out to go use the bathroom and he sprinted in there before I could get him. I also told her to not leave her door open, but she did that anyways so welp. My fault, though.
[QUOTE=Diet Kane;50895027]Anyone got any tips for dealing with when your lifelong love rips your heart from your chest and leaves you a crying mess who can't sleep[/QUOTE]
Biggest mistake I made was not going out anymore. Keep going to work, classes, hanging out with friends, etc. Hell, do that even more. Continuing with your life will help you so much more than you might realize.
[QUOTE=paindoc;50895021]*dog*[/QUOTE]
Only advice I can give is try not to be overly affectionate, don't try to fuss them all the time.
He's been brought to an entirely new place with things he doesn't know or understand, he's confused and will be for a while.
Just make sure that food and water is around for him and give him time.
It can take anything from a few days to a few months for them to get used to their new surroundings.
Or you managed to pull the same stunt my parents did, adopted a puppy farm girl before she could be used, she's absolutely fine with anyone who isn't 14~30 and male, whatever they did to her at that farm it's made her naturally skittish to anyone who fits that range.
She's a lovely dog but mentally damaged from abuse.
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