sometimes I worry that I come off as desperate and then something like this happens
[QUOTE=~Kiwi~v2;50921065]Is it bad that I think relationships shouldn't be a big deal to everyone else?
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As in my own relationship and others knowing. It shouldn't be a big deal right?[/QUOTE]
Fairly laid back, so I never cared too much about them. Bros before hoes, for certain reasons. >.>
Not to be rude, but the whole "guys i'm lonely :(((" schtick over and over again comes off as incredibly desperate and can put people off of you. Trust me, I know how it feels to be lonely, and it's not fun, but it is what it is, and you learn to cope without letting it consume your whole life.
I'm not saying never talk about being lonely if it makes you feel bad at all. It's not good bottle yourself up like that. Don't make that the only aspect of who you are, though. Eventually, people get really sick of hearing about that and won't want to be around you.
[QUOTE=Mysterious;50921105]Not to be rude, but the whole "guys i'm lonely :(((" schtick over and over again comes off as incredibly desperate and can put people off of you. Trust me, I know how it feels to be lonely, and it's not fun, but it is what it is, and you learn to cope without letting it consume your whole life.
I'm not saying never talk about being lonely if it makes you feel bad at all. It's not good bottle yourself up like that. Don't make that the only aspect of who you are, though. Eventually, people get really sick of hearing about that and won't want to be around you.[/QUOTE]
So if I'm lonely people don't want to be around me.
Well that explains a lot, I guess.
[QUOTE=ECrownofFire;50921166]So if I'm lonely people don't want to be around me.
Well that explains a lot, I guess.[/QUOTE]
That's not what I'm saying at all.
It's completely okay to be lonely. When you moan about it constantly and make it the only thing about your personality, that's when people start to sour on you.
Certainly not saying you need to always hide how you feel and pretend to feel okay and be happy. That will lead to even worse issues. Just don't let it consume you, yeah?
When people talk about such negative things I always feel like a dick for coming in and attempting to talk about positivity in my life so I end up just not posting things because I see it so often and I feel like I'm just acting like certain users do whenever they aren't banned..
[QUOTE=~Kiwi~v2;50921065]Is it bad that I think relationships shouldn't be a big deal to everyone else?
[editline]21st August 2016[/editline]
As in my own relationship and others knowing. It shouldn't be a big deal right?[/QUOTE]
Probably easy for someone who's in a relationship to take it as granted when compared to those who aren't in one.
It's not a big deal for you since you're in one, while it might be a big deal for someone who hasn't been in one ever/for a long time.
However, people who tend to do almost nothing but say "I'm so lonely :'c" really aren't helping themselves. There's someone out there for everyone, but that someone ain't gonna show up if one sits on their ass and weeps about their loneliness all the time.
Not really for me. I'm not worried about not being in a relationship because I've never been in one and would probably fuck it up anyway. I prefer looking for Friends with Benefits.
I think it's pretty easy to be in a relationship and not come off as a braggart. People shouldn't care that someone is in a relationship or not, but in the same vein, you shouldn't try and make them care, otherwise you'll come off as really insecure.
[QUOTE=Pvt. Martin;50921550]Not really for me. I'm not worried about not being in a relationship because I've never been in one and would probably fuck it up anyway. I prefer looking for Friends with Benefits.[/QUOTE]
You can't be afraid of failure. Failing is the most important thing you can do, you learn so much from it and you get more confident from enduring it. The more you fail, the more you succeed if that makes any sense. I'm probably wording this like an idiot.
[QUOTE=Louis;50921313]When people talk about such negative things I always feel like a dick for coming in and attempting to talk about positivity in my life so I end up just not posting things because I see it so often and I feel like I'm just acting like certain users do whenever they aren't banned..[/QUOTE]
Don't let this happen. No one should ever feel bad for posting positive things in the face of negativity. I'd encourage it in fact. The way people react to it is on them, not you.
[QUOTE=Pvt. Martin;50921550]Not really for me. I'm not worried about not being in a relationship because I've never been in one and would probably fuck it up anyway. I prefer looking for Friends with Benefits.[/QUOTE]
Obviously, as it is with other things, it differs from person to person.
I myself would love to have someone to come back home to and cuddle with after a long day. But as it stands right now, I don't have that luxury. But I don't tend to say anything about my longings for affection as it's not anyone's business.
Trust me. When you're alone, feeling like that is completely natural. It's something that you just need to talk yourself through and let pass. I feel like that a lot, and sometimes, I do have to cry, but after I cry, I feel a little bit better and try to go about my day cuz that's the only thing I can really do about it.
My friends and my family are the only thing that keep me going, even if I feel like I'm a burden on all of them. Without them, I doubt i'd even be alive right now.
[QUOTE=Rubs10;50920100]i dont believe you im gonna have to try it for myself[/QUOTE]
I'll volunteer as tribute for this experiment.
Doing it out in the open sounds really fun, tbh. Not where everyone can see you, just outside in general.
Though, a little bit of risk adds to it >.>
It is interesting.
I wouldn't mind an audience.
All that said, I do find myself feeling ashamed at feeling so lonely and helpless a lot, even though I know all of it is my own fault. I'm trying to fix my anxiety so I can actually talk to people without panicking over nothing, but it's an uphill battle.
This isn't Blogpunch though so I'll stop :v:
So awesome to be back at college. Good times ahead :-)
You know what's awful?
Seeing the person's nudez while being too far away to have some fun with them. DANG IT.
-forget it I don't want to get into it here-
When you get comfortable being around ur bf enough to act like a retard and find out he's also a huge idiot too.
Hell yeah.
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[QUOTE=~Kiwi~v2;50921585]I'd rather see you post more since you're down to earth. IMO.[/QUOTE]
Thanks Kiwi ily
Being retarded is the best characteristic anyone can have.
A buddy of mine and I were walking through the mall and it didn't take long for us to start stalking Pokeman [B][I][U]GO[/U][/I][/B] players and panting like gorillas.
People who can act like fools in public without shame earn my undying gratitude.
I woke up today and I feel like every bone in my body has been twisted around and such.
I never really understood why some people go out of their way to harass Pokemon Go players. Especially since probably a lot of Pokemon Go players are also the type of people who don't go out much, so having some guy just borderline bully them for just playing a game will just make that person want to stay inside even more.
I see someone playing Pokemon Go, I let them be, unless they might get hurt or otherwise hinder themselves or others.
There's a Pokémon GO hotspot around my town, has like 3 pokéstops next to each other AND it's right next to a bar, so you could just grab a beer and catch some pokés, I decided to give it a spin and it was nice bickering to people.
Maybe I should rephrase - I don't bully, but go out of my way to talk to them. Always a fun conversation with strangers, if you can call most of our interactions conversations.
I think I have started a massive misconception of my actions using poor word choices and exaggeration.
*snipped for being an ass*
[QUOTE=Minimal;50920764]That feel when no bf
:s::disappoint::frown:[/QUOTE]
I only date ghosts
[QUOTE=SenhorCreeper;50924663]I only date ghosts[/QUOTE]
[video=youtube;ip1XtsAdn2o]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ip1XtsAdn2o[/video]
Do I qualify?
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