My friend is consumed with power. - General

[QUOTE=Shoupie;21235635] But I didn't, not really, because she loves cock. A lot. Vagina, too, apparently. (Personally, I'm not ready for a relationship of any kind right now, especially with her. [B]I don't even know if I like girls.[/B]) [/QUOTE] /thread Also what the fuck, it seems most of Facepunch is friends with not-so-normal people.

[QUOTE=DaFreshLemon;21239356]/thread Also what the fuck, it seems most of Facepunch is friends with not-so-normal people.[/QUOTE] You're stupid. [editline]09:16PM[/editline] Or ignorant, both quite plausible.

[QUOTE=Shoupie;21236170]Do you want me to use it just to be nice?[/QUOTE] It's the thought that counts :P

She doesn't put out to random, horny strangers online? [i]What[/i] a [i]bitch[/i].

[QUOTE=lemon_lover;21239407]You're stupid. [editline]09:16PM[/editline] Or ignorant, both quite plausible.[/QUOTE] But, but.... I tought you loved me :(

You should have a nice sit down and talk it through with her.

[QUOTE=DaFreshLemon;21240783]But, but.... I tought you loved me :([/QUOTE] I'm sorry, lemon juice clouded my vision.

[QUOTE=Shoupie;21235635](Personally, I'm not ready for a relationship of any kind right now, especially with her. I don't even know if I like girls.)[/QUOTE] I instantly stopped caring

[QUOTE=scorpion8754;21241024]I instantly stopped caring[/QUOTE] Why? No lesbian action involved?

I think the OP needs to stop thinking he knows so much about this girl and such.

[QUOTE=Pepin;21241089]I think the OP needs to stop thinking he knows so much about this girl and such.[/QUOTE] OP is female and from my understanding it seems she knows enough to be concerned and rightfully so. But I do partially agree, she should get to know her better before rushing into support mode. Just my two cents though.

[QUOTE=Pepin;21241089]I think the OP needs to stop thinking [B]s[/B]he knows so much about this girl and such.[/QUOTE] :eng101: damn ninjas fucking everywhere my god

OP, you REEEEEAAAAAALLLLLLLYYYYYYY need to put that flashy bold "I'M A GIRL" thing at the top

You may want to talk to someone that actually knows how to solve this problem, like a professional. Just my two cents.

[QUOTE=Shoupie;21236068]I don't know where to get weed.[/QUOTE] Try talking to your local minorities.

[QUOTE=Shoupie;21235635]It's really getting quite disturbing. She goes on sex chat sites and deliberately fucks with people while I'm on the phone with her. Yesterday, she told me this: "Mm, yes. He's playing with his nipples." "Why?" "Because I told him to. I love this power, haha." Then I politely excused myself because the rest of the conversation was basically her giggling maliciously and I had dinner to eat. But I digress. Anyway, I was doing some thinking, and I wondered if maybe this has to do with her past of sexual abuse (which she hates talking about, but I've been friends with her long enough to know a little). So since she had no control when that happened when she was little, do you think she's compensating for it now by being controlling? Normally, I wouldn't be too concerned about her personal business. But, you know, she's interested in me sexually. I know that. I used to just think she was joking, but then I asked her seriously the other day if she really meant all the sexual stuff she said about me, and she said, "Yeah, of course. I'm bi. I thought you knew that." But I didn't, not really, because she loves cock. A lot. Vagina, too, apparently. (Personally, I'm not ready for a relationship of any kind right now, especially with her. I don't even know if I like girls.) Anyway, she's pretty aggressive and she could easily take advantage of my passivity. I just want to help her get over her past sexual issues, but she won't talk about it. She covers it up with pretending to be aroused by things like rape and sexual humiliation because if she can convince herself that's normal, then the trauma of her childhood won't seem so twisted. I want to tell her that. I just don't know how to bring it up without scaring her or putting her back in that place she was as a helpless little girl that got taken advantage of by her step-dad. Because of him, she might not ever know the intimacy of making love. Just fucking. Okay, yeah. I'm a romantic. So anyway, how can I help resolve her issues, or at least make her open to talking about them? I'm worried about her. I want her to be able to get off on things without power being an issue anymore. She could be so much happier. What can I do for her?[/QUOTE] do this [media]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uY6k50qB4Ys[/media]

[QUOTE=The golden;21236103]Sounds like a massive inferiority complex.[/QUOTE] It is. She's going to become a rapist. No seriously. This is how male rapists start out. It's not always about the pleasure or whatever, but the feeling of power. She might rape men, but they either won't care or will not tell anyone. You said she was bisexual? That's probably her fear of men. If you really want to help her, ask her parents or whatever to get her counseling so she can deal with this. Don't tell her directly, she will balk at it and you probably won't be able to convince her, as you don't seem quite the persuasive type. Be there for her when she rants about how her parents are being stupid or whatever, just make sure she can get through this. She is buried in her fear and depression and has built a shell to deal with it and not tell people. Another thing, try not to settle for just the school counselor; get a professional. School counselors are so used to kids being evasive and guarded that they mistake real fear for hormones. She has a [B]real[/B] problem, my friend, and if you are really that close to her, you won't let her keep on doing this. You may not realize how much that rape affected her. What are the details? Was it a person close to her? A random stranger? Does she have any physical scars that she has to deal with when people see them? Was it once or was it many times? She would probably be totally different if she wasn't raped. Her problems are because of that, and that's where you need to start. Also don't let her pressure you into doing things you don't really want to do. She may want to control you, too.

[QUOTE=lemon_lover;21241282]OP, you REEEEEAAAAAALLLLLLLYYYYYYY need to put that flashy bold "I'M A GIRL" thing at the top[/QUOTE] Why? Anyone of fairly average intelligence could figure it out for themselves, right? Besides, I don't want to be broadcasting my gender everywhere I go. I don't want to look like a crazy man-hating feminist or anything... [QUOTE=Dyson6;21241491]Try talking to your local minorities.[/QUOTE] But I [i]am[/i] the local minority. My town is mostly populated with Mormons; now where will I get weed? [QUOTE=Muffinbuster;21241652]It is. She's going to become a rapist. No seriously. This is how male rapists start out. It's not always about the pleasure or whatever, but the feeling of power. She might rape men, but they either won't care or will not tell anyone. You said she was bisexual? That's probably her fear of men. If you really want to help her, ask her parents or whatever to get her counseling so she can deal with this. Don't tell her directly, she will balk at it and you probably won't be able to convince her, as you don't seem quite the persuasive type. Be there for her when she rants about how her parents are being stupid or whatever, just make sure she can get through this. She is buried in her fear and depression and has built a shell to deal with it and not tell people. Another thing, try not to settle for just the school counselor; get a professional. School counselors are so used to kids being evasive and guarded that they mistake real fear for hormones. She has a [B]real[/B] problem, my friend, and if you are really that close to her, you won't let her keep on doing this. You may not realize how much that rape affected her. What are the details? Was it a person close to her? A random stranger? Does she have any physical scars that she has to deal with when people see them? Was it once or was it many times? She would probably be totally different if she wasn't raped. Her problems are because of that, and that's where you need to start. Also don't let her pressure you into doing things you don't really want to do. She may want to control you, too.[/QUOTE] Thank you for taking a genuine interest. I'm pretty submissive, and I think that's why she likes me so much. Because I'm usually kind of easy to control. I don't like it, but that's how I am. She's said and done multiple things to me that I wasn't comfortable with, but was too much of a pussy to say so. She either doesn't pick up on my subtle cues that I'm not into it, or she doesn't care. I don't know. You know, I don't think she even realizes how much the abuse affected her. I don't know every detail since like I said, she doesn't like talking about it. But what I do know is that she was a little girl when her step-father molested her. I'm not sure if it was once or more than once. The man also routinely had sex with her 16-year old sister while their mother was away. (Her mother and her step-father are both still married since they have two sons together now and the guy is a lawyer, so he brings in a lot of money, which is essential if you've got kids to take care of. Still doesn't justify staying in that marriage, though.) She doesn't live with her mom and her step-dad anymore, though. She lives with her biological dad, who's kind of an asshole but at least he isn't abusive. The last time I tried to talk to her about the abuse, she got really uncomfortable so I just changed the subject. I don't know how to approach the topic again.

[QUOTE=coolrider102;21238187]Hello, My name is Dr. Urstet Gregory Sanchez She has brain cancer. The tumor in her brain is pressing up against her centrubial lobe located next too the corfex module. When pressure is applied to this part of the brain the patient suffers from XES Sydrome which is a rare chromosomal deformation on [b]the Y Chromosome[/b]. The only way to reverse this is by a complex series of surgerys to reduce the size of the tumor causing XES Syndrome. My cousin's brother's girlfriend suffered from this desease and it is serious business. I am really a doctor.[/QUOTE] Women don't have Y chromosomes I revoke your credibility as a doctor.

Tell her to tell the guys that shes actually a guy at the end of the convo. Then to post these conversations here. They'll be [I]hilarious.[/I]

[QUOTE=Jeremyc428;21241563]do this [media]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uY6k50qB4Ys[/media][/QUOTE] I don't know why, but I started laughing hysterically about halfway through that. Now I feel kind of awful.

bolo santosi has comptetition

[QUOTE=Shoupie;21242053]I don't know why, but I started laughing hysterically about halfway through that. Now I feel kind of awful.[/QUOTE] I started laughing hysterically when I saw that Robin Williams was in a drama role. [editline]12:10AM[/editline] [IMG]http://i39.tinypic.com/ddom06.jpg[/IMG]

[QUOTE=Shoupie;21237526]I don't know if it's just that. I think everyone's at least a little bi.[/QUOTE] I get the feeling that mostly everyone on FP is gay. I'm straight. It feels as if I'm the outcast. But it's normal to be straight, so everyone one else is the outcast? FP is fucked up...

[QUOTE=Superstormj;21242396]I get the feeling that mostly everyone on FP is gay. I'm straight. It feels as if I'm the outcast. But it's normal to be straight, so everyone one else is the outcast? FP is fucked up...[/QUOTE] Straight isn't necessarily "normal". Who are you to judge what is? I know for a fact that most FPers are big fans of the pussy. I'd say maybe a third are gay, at the most. Personally, I'm tired of hearing tits or gtfo. Someone once threatened killing a baby chick if I didn't flash myself, which is tender for me since I'm a vegetarian. He was bluffing, I'm sure. Right? ^^;

[QUOTE=Shoupie;21242559]Straight isn't necessarily "normal". Who are you to judge what is? I know for a fact that most FPers are big fans of the pussy. I'd say maybe a third are gay, at the most. Personally, I'm tired of hearing tits or gtfo. Someone once threatened killing a baby chick if I didn't flash myself, which is tender for me since I'm a vegetarian. He was bluffing, I'm sure. Right? ^^;[/QUOTE] He might of ate a raw egg.

[QUOTE=Shoupie;21242559]Straight isn't necessarily "normal". Who are you to judge what is? I know for a fact that most FPers are big fans of the pussy. I'd say maybe a third are gay, at the most. Personally, I'm tired of hearing tits or gtfo. Someone once threatened killing a baby chick if I didn't flash myself, which is tender for me since I'm a vegetarian. He was bluffing, I'm sure. Right? ^^;[/QUOTE] Statistically straight is normal. Your average person is definitely straight, or else we would be dying off. Normatively straight is normal. It doesn't break any rules made up by the society. The same cannot be said for homosexuality, it's still illegal in some places and the general attitude tends to be negative elsewhere as well. Norms don't need to be written down.

[QUOTE=Superstormj;21242396]I get the feeling that mostly everyone on FP is gay. I'm straight. It feels as if I'm the outcast. But it's normal to be straight, so everyone one else is the outcast? FP is fucked up...[/QUOTE] You've been here two years, and it took that long to come to a conclusion like that?

[QUOTE=Superstormj;21242396]I get the feeling that mostly everyone on FP is gay. I'm straight. It feels as if I'm the outcast. But it's normal to be straight, so everyone one else is the outcast? FP is fucked up...[/QUOTE] That's doesn't mean they all love the male genitalia. I'm have some of the same characteristics as the OP (I'm a romantic and a vegetarian), but I'm still attracted to the female body. A lot of us are virgins though (me included). Why do nice girls always go for the assholes?

[QUOTE=Relys;21243826]That's doesn't mean they all love the male genitalia. I'm have some of the same characteristics as the OP (I'm a romantic and a vegetarian), but I'm still attracted to the female body. A lot of us are virgins though (me included). Why do nice girls always go for the assholes?[/QUOTE] Because most girls are insecure and feel they don't deserve anything better than an asshole. That's what I think, anyway.