[QUOTE=dutchah;16884819]The sad thing is that this is true for 90% of girls these days[/QUOTE]
In Highschool, maybe.
Because you think it's a good idea to post a picture of yourself half-naked on the internet.
Stop treating girls like potential girlfriends and more just like normal friends. Also stop being an awkward loser. If you have to "sum up courage" just to talk to a girl then you don't deserve a girlfriend.
If that doesn't work, there's only one holy item that'll get you the girls you want...
BEHOLD:
[IMG]http://i27.tinypic.com/2wbus6d.jpg[/IMG]
THE WOLF SHIRT
[QUOTE=jusmumbo;16879763]What thing over my abdomen/chest? I really look like that which is why Im confused about why its so freaking hard for me to hook up.[/QUOTE]
You're not gonna be half naked for the vast majority of the time you're talking to a girl so you can't just depend on your looks.
You have to sound like a man, and not just look like one. I'm not talking about your voice, I'm talking about the words that come out of your mouth.
Clean your fucking mirror OP. :Dawkins102:
[QUOTE=Livewire123;16876637]In todays world, you have to treat a girl like shit for her to like you. The days of being nice and actually caring about the girl have gone.[/QUOTE]
This is true.
But I find it is not that fun, seeing when shes the meaner one....
Okai, some pointers.
- Don't treat em like friends. Be a lover first and a friend second. Flirt, chat, talk about sex. You have needs and so do they. Show em you are sexually active and a predator when it comes to things. You will achieve a whole different type of reactions if you do that. If things don't work out, you can always make her a friend and use her to get to her hot(ter) friends. When things don't work out it's no big deal, there are always advantages. (Sometimes they will come back out of jealousy once you start dating her hotter friend)
- Up your confidence. Despite the fact we live in an emancipated society, women still want to be able to have the impression they choose a guy and they want to choose the best. So act like you are the best. Remember Barney Stinson from How I Met Your Mother? At one point he just crawls out of the garbage in a green suit full of stains after a night of drinking and blurts out 'I am awesome'. (Youtube it) When you achieve similar 'state of mind' you can probably say that there is nothing wrong with your confidence. Women can smell confidence.
- Treat em with no respect. Most insecure boys who want a girl treat a girl they want like they are already in a relationship. No! Treat em as such later. When you are single, go out with em and go out with a lot of others. Respect has to be earned!
- Cut in the middle. When things are going great, just leave. Haven't you notice those situations when you are having a great chat until you both fall silent. You know when you hit this bottom the girl feels nothing anymore. Chat finished, both people go to normal. When you leave in the middle, you leave her when things are great and she will remember you for this.
- Upping the game, remember what I said before? Date others? Just plainly chat, flirt and have fun with other girls. Doesn't matter if they are single or not. Non-single girls have girl-friends too, and if you both end up between the sheets, it's not your problem but the problem of her current boyfriend. Believe me anyone would steal from anyone if the stakes get high. When you meet more women, you can choose the girl you like. Plainly flirt with another girl in front of the girl you where flirting with a few minutes before. No respect, no chivalry! When women see you get along with a lot of them and realize you might have something that is desirable. (Sometimes you achieve funny situations with this tactic. I had a girl that begged so hard for my attention again that she poked me with a fork during dinner.) And when things go wrong with one girl (eg she acts as a bitch) you can always be a plain jerk and make her figure it out and have fun with another girl. This clearly breaks you away from a perhaps previous state where you met one girl, went for her, was too needy and chased her away and felt sorry for yourself afterwards.
- And lastly, women aren't into logic like men. Don't expect em to do something... just don't. When you think a woman will act logic, forget it. When you expect a woman to act according some logic scheme you are wrong. E.g.: Don't expect em to give you a signal when to kiss or don't expect em to kiss you at all. Women are emotional beasts. Make em feel things, when you can make em feel joy, happiness, security, anger, despair and frustration. Then you are on the right track. Why did I included the negative feelings too? This is because when she doesn't cares about you, she won't feel any of those either. If you can make her feel something, you can take advantage of it.
Actually there are a lot of books/online material available and it really is worth the effort to find out how a woman works and comparing this material. Once you know the rules, another world will open.
Ok you know what? When I was younger I used to get guys asking me out *as a joke* to mock me (I used to have bad acne) and I still didn't bitch this much. Stop moaning about how girls are all teases when it's not what's the problem. We're not all airheads. I met some right dickheads in the past but I also met people who weren't, and then met someone really great who I'm really happy with. You just have to not keep going for that kind of girl who messes around and plays flirting games, because it'd be just as pointless as me assuming that the entire male population is made up of idiotic chavs.
[QUOTE=lettuce_head;16884947]
BEHOLD:
[IMG]http://i27.tinypic.com/2wbus6d.jpg[/IMG]
THE WOLF SHIRT[/QUOTE]
God damn that's hawt! I'm all flustered!
It's because there is a skull-and-crossbones on your pen0r.
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[QUOTE=PieClock;16885014]Clean your fucking mirror OP. :Dawkins102:[/QUOTE]
This, and why do you still have an old CRT monitor?
[QUOTE=lettuce_head;16884947][/B]Behold:
[img]http://i27.tinypic.com/2wbus6d.jpg[/img]
the wolf shirt[/quote]
Holy shit those are some sly motherfuckers
OP, you don't need a girlfriend, all you need is you
[QUOTE=ElBoricua;16885437]OP, you don't need a girlfriend, all you need is you[/QUOTE]
and your hand, and some tissues to clean up afterwards.
:lol: I wonder.
[QUOTE=Livewire123;16876637]In todays world, you have to treat a girl like shit for her to like you. The days of being nice and actually caring about the girl have gone.[/QUOTE]
it's sad,
but totally true.
Wow...
You cant get one because you don't have an awesome avatar like me
Hmm, not sure.
I bought two of those wolf shirts and I can get any woman I want when I wear both of them
psp401.com
cosmic duck
Jaanus
Benji
grea$emonkey
I don't understand your avatars mr moderators.
[QUOTE=Silversoda;16885574]it's sad,
but totally true.[/QUOTE]
Yup totally true. Nowadays everything is about competition. So be a sophisticated jerk (not an asshole). When a woman has the chance of choosing between a total jackass and someone that inhibits jerk habits but knows how to dress and knows how to properly pronounce words ..... I think most of you already can guess the answer...
Another set of hints:
- Fear of rejection when approaching a woman? Think of it this way, you went up there. You politely wanted to have a chat and get to know her, you wanted to be interested in her and she blows you off the moment she sees you. There is clearly something wrong with that girl, what an immature reaction. (Off course don't show up as a complete hippy, this doesn't works with regular women you meet.) She really doesn't deserve your attention.
- Never, but never be treated as such a friend which they can whine to. They have girlfriends that they share the bathroom with to do that kind of talking to. Politely move those discussions out of the way, try to have a fun/flirty talk. But when they don't listen go for the door and be gone. You demand to be treated with respect, and you will be treated as such. Friends zone sucks and if you sniff it, run like hell. Just ditch em for a month or so and watch if they come back. (If they do they where into you at some point)
- If they say they have a boyfriend: don't change your attitude. They will spot that you where only there to get in her pants. Clearly steer away from all boyfriend related topics, have a great time and bang her hotter friends.
When a woman feels she has no control over you and you being there just makes her more jealous she will want to jump your bones at one point. (Relation or not)
Also what I do, I treat em like they are in my friends zone. This really grinds their gear a lot if they have interest in me. (If not then they are gone, for the better) I go on yapping about a nice girl I met at one point and then I go over to spending attention to them. I love sending off mixed signals. It catches em off guard.
Also remember, when playing games you can lose. This is the same with girls, face the possible outcome of losing 'your game'. Once you are perfectly fine with the consequences of your actions: game on!.
Nice combo up there. :golfclap:
Also, holy shit at this thread.
[QUOTE=lettuce_head;16884947]Stop treating girls like potential girlfriends and more just like normal friends. Also stop being an awkward loser. If you have to "sum up courage" just to talk to a girl then you don't deserve a girlfriend.
If that doesn't work, there's only one holy item that'll get you the girls you want...
BEHOLD:
[IMG]http://i27.tinypic.com/2wbus6d.jpg[/IMG]
THE WOLF SHIRT[/QUOTE]
[img]http://farm4.static.flickr.com/3424/3756428012_f5d09ba248_o.jpg[/img]
[QUOTE=Voice;16885635]psp401.com
cosmic duck
Jaanus
Benji
grea$emonkey
I don't understand your avatars mr moderators.[/QUOTE]
They've joined a millennialism cult and are now looking down on us.
[QUOTE=RichardNixon;16886188]They've joined a millennialism cult and are now looking down on us.[/QUOTE]
Oh, that's pretty cool.
[quote]- Don't treat em like friends. Be a lover first and a friend second. Flirt, chat, talk about sex. You have needs and so do they. Show em you are sexually active and a predator when it comes to things. You will achieve a whole different type of reactions if you do that. If things don't work out, you can always make her a friend and use her to get to her hot(ter) friends. When things don't work out it's no big deal, there are always advantages. (Sometimes they will come back out of jealousy once you start dating her hotter friend)[/quote]
[quote]- Treat em with no respect. Most insecure boys who want a girl treat a girl they want like they are already in a relationship. No! Treat em as such later. When you are single, go out with em and go out with a lot of others. Respect has to be earned![/quote]
[quote]- Cut in the middle. When things are going great, just leave. Haven't you notice those situations when you are having a great chat until you both fall silent. You know when you hit this bottom the girl feels nothing anymore. Chat finished, both people go to normal. When you leave in the middle, you leave her when things are great and she will remember you for this.[/quote]
[quote]
- And lastly, women aren't into logic like men. Don't expect em to do something... just don't. When you think a woman will act logic, forget it. When you expect a woman to act according some logic scheme you are wrong. E.g.: Don't expect em to give you a signal when to kiss or don't expect em to kiss you at all. Women are emotional beasts. Make em feel things, when you can make em feel joy, happiness, security, anger, despair and frustration. Then you are on the right track. Why did I included the negative feelings too? This is because when she doesn't cares about you, she won't feel any of those either. If you can make her feel something, you can take advantage of it.[/quote]
What is this, the guide to one night stands? Are you guys really so desperate to say you have a girlfriend that you'll treat every woman you know like shit?
Actually no. I don't treat em like shit, I treat em manly and fair. I don't go pampering em and they can't expect me to take their shit. I am a shit magnet. I look cute and cuddly, and I attract abusive women and women that just seek me for using me. When I am strict like this it is my only defence. (The only women that don't like my are my ex-es) I do take a strong stance towards this whole thing. Because I know when you put things in practice it always turns out a bit milder. But yes sometimes it just takes to be firm.
And yeah I do know more than those tactics. It's just. Usually the needyness of people scares em away. I do have a ton of other tactics up my sleeve. For instance I know topics that I can keep a girl talking for hours, I do know how to make her special and I do know when and how to compliment.
I never did achieve one nighters with those tactics. (been using em only for a few months) Other things like a new girlfriend, special friends and fuck buddy's yes. One nighters? No... (too bad actually)
When I am in a relation ship then the respect can start, if you are single it's just playing games. It just a whole different situation. (Just checked your profile, sorry pal you are 15. You probably don't know what I am talking about.)
@mods
Oh, you fuckers, not [i]this[/i] shit again. :tinfoil:
@Enira
[quote=Enira]- Upping the game, remember what I said before? Date others? Just plainly chat, flirt and have fun with other girls. [b]Doesn't matter if they are single or not.[/b] Non-single girls have girl-friends too, and if you both end up between the sheets, [b]it's not your problem but the problem of her current boyfriend. Believe me anyone would steal from anyone if the stakes get high.[/b][/quote]
For the record, yes, it [i]does[/i] matter. Not even in terms of morality; it matters if you like your well-being. If you happen to pick a girl that has some kind of super possessive boyfriend, you're in trouble if he finds out. As a matter of fact, one of my ex's cheated on me with this guy (though he more like took advantage of her). He's in pretty close proximity, or at least at the time, was. Now, I'm a pretty decent person with a lot of self control. But if I ever met the fucker, [b]I would break his arms[/b]. Just so you know.
My problem with the whole "you're a loser get a girlfriend" mentality is, people treat women simply as trophies.
You got a girlfriend, congratulations. How does that make you any less of a loser or a dick? Why can't people just treat women as actual people rather than trying to fuck them left and right whatever chance they get?
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[QUOTE=Scyze;16887092]For the record, yes, it [i]does[/i] matter. Not even in terms of morality; it matters if you like your well-being. If you happen to pick a girl that has some kind of super possessive boyfriend, you're in trouble if he finds out. As a matter of fact, one of my ex's cheated on me with this guy (though he more like took advantage of her). He's in pretty close proximity, or at least at the time, was. Now, I'm a pretty decent person with a lot of self control. But if I ever met the fucker, [b]I would break his arms[/b]. Just so you know.[/QUOTE]I do know it's hard. All my girlfriends are lost due to cheating. But I simply stopped caring how I lost em. I've been watching girls their behaviour lately. It seems to me like they simply go from one guy to another nowadays. It's just steal-steal-steal. That's why I take that stance towards it.
I do believe in fair play though. I will never go badmouthing the current boyfriend or do things behind his back. I do up the competition for this one girl and see if he keeps up. I did that twice the past three months, twice I lost and twice the relation was strong enough. I play games and I know when I am beaten and when not. I am not completely without morals.
[QUOTE=Scyze;16887121]Addon edit: Enira knows what he's talking about. When you're not [i]with[/i] someone, you have to lure them in, not be super nice or else there's no excitement. Girls want guys who are exciting, mysterious, dangerous. So you have to be that, [i]first[/i]. Why do you think girls go for jerks? But when they actually stay with them.. Hey, they're jerks. Inexperienced women can't find the right kind of dangerous/mysterious/exciting/whatever.[/QUOTE]
Thanks mate ^^
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