I was just involved in a love triangle... and I am absolutely crushed to hell and back when the trut - General

[QUOTE=pimptastix;36136890]He may have had sex with her, but its not his fault she cheated. She choose to unless op raped her...[/QUOTE] Well he knew she had a boyfriend, he could've been a decent enough guy to say "I don't want to be the one to help you screw up your own relationship."

oh I bet she's pregnant I can't wait until tomorrow's episode of 'Master Kief - 117 heartbreaks'

Moments like this make me glad that I'm not into relationships

Sloots gunna sloot. Strong slut move on her part, telling you she's in a open relationship. She just wanted that fresh D. You didn't do anything wrong OP.

[QUOTE=Bleach Qeef;36137224]Sloots gunna sloot. Strong slut move on her part, telling you she's in a open relationship. She just wanted that fresh D. You didn't do anything wrong OP.[/QUOTE] Well except sleep with a girl who reported she was "open". Spotty intel leads to failure and disaster. [I]Always[/I] confirm your sources.

[QUOTE=Kylel999;36137048]Just because it's an open relationship doesn't mean she's going to leave him for somebody else. So, still, joke's on the OP[/QUOTE] non-exclusive ie; she has a boyfriend but she can have sex with other men [editline]30th May 2012[/editline] [QUOTE=Jergee;36137087]Well he knew she had a boyfriend, he could've been a decent enough guy to say "I don't want to be the one to help you screw up your own relationship."[/QUOTE] if she were truly in a non-monogamous relationship then it would be far from screwed up

[QUOTE=Lord of Ears;36137400]non-exclusive ie; she has a boyfriend but she can have sex with other men [editline]30th May 2012[/editline] if she were truly in a non-monogamous relationship then it would be far from screwed up[/QUOTE] Except its obvious now that she [I]wasn't[/I] in such a relationship, therefore it [I]is[/I] screwed up. And yes, Rate me dumb because I don't believe the words coming out of some random girls mouth that justifies cheating. Horny as hell or not, the words "I", "Have", and "Boyfriend" in any arrangement that doesn't explicitly put YOU as "Boyfriend" should be a massive ass red flag.

lol, i'm sorry but you can't be serious here i feel for you in some way, i have a lot of trashy relationships myself but god knows i would never mess around with another woman if she had a boyfriend, open relationship or not you let your dick do the thinking for you when your brain should've, you really deserved this

[QUOTE=S31-Syntax;36137563]Except its obvious now that she [I]wasn't[/I] in such a relationship, therefore it [I]is[/I] screwed up.[/QUOTE] obvious NOW, but, like i said like three or four times, the burden of proof lies on the one doing the assertion he had no obligation to vindicate her claims [quote]Horny as hell or not, the words "I", "Have", and "Boyfriend" in any arrangement that doesn't explicitly put YOU as "Boyfriend" should be a massive ass red flag.[/quote] that's very old-fashioned of you

[QUOTE=Lord of Ears;36137867]obvious NOW, but, like i said like three or four times, the burden of proof lies on the one doing the assertion he had no obligation to vindicate her claims that's very old-fashioned of you[/QUOTE] Guess I prefer the days when cheating was something one usually wished to avoid.

[QUOTE=S31-Syntax;36138286]Guess I prefer the days when cheating was something one usually wished to avoid.[/QUOTE] the days you never lived in? you should watch Mad Men.

This just in: Cheating is okay, the horny girl said she was in an open relationship.

[QUOTE=S31-Syntax;36138318]This just in: Cheating is okay, the horny girl said she was in an open relationship.[/QUOTE] do you actually read other people's posts or do you just assume what's written and go from there? when you are in a real open relationship, it's not cheating.

[QUOTE=thisispain;36138356]do you actually read other people's posts or do you just assume what's written and go from there? when you are in a real open relationship, it's not cheating.[/QUOTE] My point is the [I]horny, hormone influenced girl[/I] said the phrase "I'm in an open relationship" because "we're pretty serious" would probably make one who dislikes cheating back off and reconsider. She was horny, she wanted his dick. She said what needed to be said in order to get his dick. Now they all look like dicks.

[QUOTE=S31-Syntax;36138383]She said what needed to be said in order to get his dick.[/QUOTE] i don't think mentioning that she has a boyfriend was to "get his dick".

[QUOTE=thisispain;36138403]i don't think mentioning that she has a boyfriend was to "get his dick".[/QUOTE] Do I get to pull the "do you actually read posts" card now? :dance: I never said she did.

Did we establish whether or not this was op losing his virginity? Then this would just be "you were my first time" creepy obsession. If not, op should have figured it out or asked the bf. people in open relationships are used to being asked that. Rookie mistake, chalk it to that and move on dude.

Seriously OP, how beta are you to be freaking out over a girl you knew for two weeks and fucked once. If I was her boyfriend I'd kick your ass just for the sake of manning you up, and then I'd kick your ass again for fucking my girlfriend.

[QUOTE=Dankie;36139768]Seriously OP, how beta are you to be freaking out over a girl you knew for two weeks and fucked once. If I was her boyfriend I'd kick your ass just for the sake of manning you up, and then I'd kick your ass again for fucking my girlfriend.[/QUOTE] wow look at you [editline]31st May 2012[/editline] the moral paragon strikes again

[QUOTE=Dankie;36139768]Seriously OP, how beta are you to be freaking out over a girl you knew for two weeks and fucked once. If I was her boyfriend I'd kick your ass just for the sake of manning you up, and then I'd kick your ass again for fucking my girlfriend.[/QUOTE] Different people have different minds so they can become attached more easily and no you wouldn't because the OP could be well built and as an adult you should have some self control assuming you are one because what you've suggested as to what you would do is childish.

[QUOTE=Lord of Ears;36139797]wow look at you [editline]31st May 2012[/editline] the moral paragon strikes again[/QUOTE] I'm sorry, do you have an argument to make or do you just like to flame people because you can't conjure one up? [editline]30th May 2012[/editline] [QUOTE=DigitalySane;36139820]Different people have different minds so they can become attached more easily and no you wouldn't because the OP could be well built and as an adult you should have some self control assuming you are one because what you've suggested as to what you would do is childish.[/QUOTE] I'm sure if I was in a long term relationship, and some guy has the nerve to cheat with my girlfriend and then the indecency to call it a "love triangle" I would take physical action regardless of my maturity or how big OP is.

[QUOTE=Dankie;36139833]I'm sorry, do you have an argument to make or do you just like to flame people because you can't conjure one up?[/QUOTE] your posts are my best argument against you

[QUOTE=Lord of Ears;36139894]your posts are my best argument against you[/QUOTE] Gee, that was a really convenient response for you to avoid actually having to provide a valid point. Do you always do this when you get proven wrong?

i already gave two or three very valid points, and i don't believe i've been proven wrong yet

[QUOTE=Dankie;36139833]I'm sorry, do you have an argument to make or do you just like to flame people because you can't conjure one up? [editline]30th May 2012[/editline] I'm sure if I was in a long term relationship, and some guy has the nerve to cheat with my girlfriend and then the indecency to call it a "love triangle" I would take physical action regardless of my maturity or how big OP is.[/QUOTE] Even if he did not know that you had not agree'd to an 'open relationship' in the first place, and most of the blame for the incident rests with your girlfriend? It really does seem that, possibly stereotypically, most men always seem to become angry at each other whenever their lovers betray them rather than becoming angered with their lover. The same could be said for women. People like you make such a stereotype seem true to life. [editline]31st May 2012[/editline] Although I do oppose the concept of open relationships, I don't think the Original Poster was really to blame for this like I did believe previously.

You know op it's not a real love triangle until you do her boyfriend as well.

[QUOTE=U.S.S.R;36140015]Even if he did not know that you had not agree'd to an 'open relationship' in the first place, and most of the blame for the incident rests with your girlfriend? It really does seem that, possibly stereotypically, most men always seem to become angry at each other whenever their lovers betray them rather than becoming angered with their lover. The same could be said for women. People like you make such a stereotype seem true to life. [editline]31st May 2012[/editline] Although I do oppose the concept of open relationships, I don't think the Original Poster was really to blame for this like I did believe previously.[/QUOTE] I already stated that she would go, of course I would be angry with my lover. But somebody to say that their 2 week relationship compares to the years I spent with that same person would anger me beyond control. Both parties are at fault, it takes two to cheat, so of course I would be angry with both of them, but physical action against one you've loved for years and stereotypically of the opposite gender is second instinct.

[QUOTE=Mind Infection;36140053]You know op it's not a real love triangle until you do her boyfriend as well.[/QUOTE] Yes. Fuck him. [I]In the anus.[/I] [sp]with your penis[/sp]

[QUOTE=Lord of Ears;36139943]i already gave two or three very valid points, and i don't believe i've been proven wrong yet[/QUOTE] Of course you don't believe so, your standpoints on this argument are morally influenced. I can't prove you wrong, simply because to you, your morals will always be right. What you are trying to say here by calling me a "moral paragon" is that your morals on cheating and adultery are superior or correct opposed to mine? Well that's just incredibly ignorant of you. You're arguing under the influence of your own moral beliefs, that is just a great way to logically prove your point isn't it?

no but you did just put a whole lot of incorrect words in my mouth so thanks for that