Super Friendly Social and Love Advice v8 - Stop spamming her with texts. - General

nah I'm just gonna let nature take it's course and own whatever genetic lottery I win. I'm not about to start smearing rogaine on my face and ending up with a beard that goes right up to just under my eyeballs.

i grow facial hair like a prepubescent mexican boy and it looks fucking terrible which is fine because my girlfriend hates facial hair, so i guess i got lucky

I just wish my fucking mustache would join up with my beard neatly and look like a FULL beard rather than just a mustache AND beard. And chest hair, I wish I had some decent chest hair too.

[QUOTE=RenegadeCop;52828916]I grow hair around my nips, I feel so hilarious when I don't shave it.[/QUOTE] i feel so filthy when i've got a date and have to shave my nips in the shower. like i have zero chest hair, but i get two lil rings around the ol nips which look hilarious

im pretty sure all my body hair is just on my head, because i have really thick hair on my head and pretty much none anywhere else except my dick which is also fairly light

I'm pretty sure all the chest hair I was supposed to have had ended up on my arse instead.

Somehow managed to get the hairyest chest, shoulders, arms and legs in my family. But I also had a wicked bad hairline since 16

As soon as I turned 18 my hair started falling off my head and crawled all over my body. I have a sweater vest all year around. Plus I can grow a beard pretty well. Just don't have the connected parts between mustache and beard. Shit is dope. I just need to lose weight by dieting better and working out again. Been going out with this cute ginger girl who is really short. I'm 6 foot 1 and she's like hardly 5 foot. Leaning down to her is really funny to me. I don't think it will last though, I'm at this point in my life where I'm focusing on my professional life. She's working to become a special ed teacher. She smokes a shit ton of weed and complains about having no money all the time because she uses it to buy weed. Either way, I never indulge in the ganja. I just get super paranoid when I'm high, no matter the strain. Which is good because I'm going into government contracting and I have to take a pee test. I feel like if I ever had a polygraph test and they ask me if I ever did drugs it'd just read,"Loser" in bold impact font.

I've got very hairy lower legs, yet nothing on my thighs or arms. I've got a single hair growing out of my nipple and no chest hair. I can't grow a beard, but I've got 3 pieces of hair coming out of a mole on my neck. "Welcome to the Jungle" starts playing when you enter my pants. I'm an anomaly.

Did anyone else just straight up shave their pubes the first time round and have to experience [b]the itch[/b]

That's why you use some kind of moisturizer afterwards. You itch because your skin tends to dry out.

I'm a fucking hairy manbeast and I [B]own it[/B]

[QUOTE=Kirbyfactor;52830048]Somehow managed to get the hairyest chest, shoulders, arms and legs in my family. But I also had a wicked bad hairline since 16[/QUOTE] This isn't uncommon. High testosterone levels make you hairier (along with genes of course), but also one of the products of your body processing T also is the trigger for balding, so the two go together pretty often. (genetics also influence that of course too, but lower T might allow you to skirt it or avoid it longer, where for you it set in super early)

yeah, combinations of all kinds can come. I only got hair on my legs and im balding since a year or so. Nothing too extreme but testosterone can give you all sorts of results, specially when you hit your 20's and he second hormonal change happens.

I'm just lucky I don't have a hairy back.

[QUOTE=IAreLegend;52831242]Did anyone else just straight up shave their pubes the first time round and have to experience [B]the itch[/B][/QUOTE] Jesus christ Little tip, [B][U]DO NOT[/U][/B] shave downstairs, then use this fucking satan spawn [t]https://www.ocado.com/productImages/195/19562011_0_640x640.jpg?identifier=0c5f64caefa6b997765a526aff8a52f6[/t] That was the most uncomfortable day of my life

[QUOTE=IAreLegend;52831242]Did anyone else just straight up shave their pubes the first time round and have to experience [b]the itch[/b][/QUOTE] I don't shave ever, fuck having razors down there I just trim using small scissors and care

I fell in love with a girl who already has a boyfriend and can't fucking stop thinking of her. What do?

[QUOTE=Fruitpunch;52831628]I fell in love with a girl who already has a boyfriend and can't fucking stop thinking of her. What do?[/QUOTE] minimize contact with her and distract yourself. it'll pass, but you absolutely have to distance yourself

Think of other people, and don't think of her as a potential romance (so, force yourself to think of her as just another person). And remember, you fell for an idea, not for a person. And you cannot love somebody you don't truly know anyway. I once crushed on a classmate as she was starting up a relationship with another classmate, felt like a despicable attempt of a homewrecker once I realized what they had, and then, due to circumstances, she ended up becoming a quite good friend of mine. And, nowadays, I can say I'm glad a pair of friends of mine found each other (and I'm glad they are my friends; caring as hell people, always eager to drink a coffee and have a talk, and to introduce you to their other friends). And I do not see my old crush in said friend, as she is a person I now know, rather than an idea to pin over. Don't be [url=https://xkcd.com/513/]this.[/url] Even if a healthy romance involves plenty of Philos on top of Eros, building up Philos expecting Eros just doesn't work.

been texting with a tinder girl for a while. Started on Monday, then got radio silence for three days and assumed it was over, w/e Then suddenly I get a long text friday apologizing for not responding and explaining that she's terrible at texting and was crazy busy, etc, etc. So I text back, then after an hour get another response, text back, another three hours before anything. You get the point, it's hard to keep a conversation up with her which sucks because she does seem pretty cool. So I sent her a text tonight basically saying she seems cool and I'd like to get to know her more but the texting thing isn't working. I proposed lunch tomorrow, then joked and said "hear from you in three hours :P" Got an almost immediate response back: "nah I chekc my phone when I'm drunk ;)" So I texted something to the tune of "lol I was wrong then, wish I was drunk but doing laundry" and now it's radio silence again. So unless any of you guys have a different view, I'm of the opinion that this is a lost cause and I should probably forget about it. The whole half a day between texts really doesn't make me feel to optimistic that there's anything here.

[QUOTE=Pascall;52831302]That's why you use some kind of moisturizer afterwards. You itch because your skin tends to dry out.[/QUOTE] i've moisturised the almond sack and general area after shaving, it doesn't help. once the hair grows out again it itches like a devil.

[QUOTE=loopoo;52832267]i've moisturised the almond sack and general area after shaving, it doesn't help. once the hair grows out again it itches like a devil.[/QUOTE] Get yourself a deep moisturizer something like this: [URL="https://www.superdrug.com/Nivea/Nivea-For-Men-Intensive-Moisturiser-Creme-50ml/p/247073?gclid=CjwKCAjw-NXPBRB4EiwAVNRLKtbZCE6tvFY5Xfq7mgVTG7muK86rXAn0StndsLPRj_vSkGAN40XYVhoC4kQQAvD_BwE&gclsrc=aw.ds&dclid=CMDK3srAldcCFTAw0woddJoCAw"]https://www.superdrug.com/Nivea/Nivea-For-Men-Intensive-Moisturiser-Creme-50ml/p/247073?gclid=CjwKCAjw-NXPBRB4EiwAVNRLKtbZCE6tvFY5Xfq7mgVTG7muK86rXAn0StndsLPRj_vSkGAN40XYVhoC4kQQAvD_BwE&gclsrc=aw.ds&dclid=CMDK3srAldcCFTAw0woddJoCAw[/URL] it won't completely stop the itch but should reduce it, do your best to fight it and it should go away after 10 - 15 mins.

[QUOTE=_Maverick_;52831533]Jesus christ Little tip, [B][U]DO NOT[/U][/B] shave downstairs, then use this fucking satan spawn [t]https://www.ocado.com/productImages/195/19562011_0_640x640.jpg?identifier=0c5f64caefa6b997765a526aff8a52f6[/t] That was the most uncomfortable day of my life[/QUOTE] nah man that stuff gives you a nice fresh feel, it's not bad at all this shit on the other hand felt like dipping your genitalia into a bucket of ice cold water, so cold that it stings and there's nothing hot enough in the world to bring back the feeling to the area [img]https://www.original-source.com/media/catalog/product/cache/46/small_image/648x771/9df78eab33525d08d6e5fb8d27136e95/b/l/black_mint_1.1465385424.png[/img] [editline]29th October 2017[/editline] fuck forbid that you had the bathroom window open and a light breeze rolled in, that made everything 10000000x worse

i put that on my balls all the time, i walk out feeling like frozone from the incredibles

[QUOTE=The golden;52833574][I][/I] Try to push for other methods of communication. Or just go for a meet-up! I've said this before here but some people just [U]really[/U] hate texting, myself included. I find it so annoying having to continuously pick up my phone, fuss with the annoying touch keyboard, make sure everything sent properly, then put it back in my pocket or on my desk. I also frequently fail to notice when a message arrives and will either notice much later or whenever my notification-reminder reminds me that I have an unread message.[/QUOTE] Well that's the thing, I've tried for a meet up twice now. First time she said that she was free the next day, to which I posed a time and place and then that was when she ghosted for three days. Then after she came back again she asked what I was doing that night, to which I responded nothing and asked if she wanted to grab a quick dinner or something. Once again she ghosted the rest of the day and didn't text back until 5am on Satuday. Honestly I've been trying but I've pretty much lost any interest because it's impossible to have any sort of conversation.

I've been wanting to get my T levels checked for a while, but I feel like I can't cause I've been pestering my GP a lot recently. I've had 2 blood tests in the span of a month to figure out why I feel tired all the fuckin time, first time was just a general check and it all came back good, second time was to check for celiacs which I thankfully don't have (but I really thought I did cause after eating pasta / bread, I get messed up stomach issues). Is it easy to get a blood test to determine T levels in the UK, or do GPs not really like doing that? Cause I don't get limpdick or anything, so I feel like they'd tell me to stop wasting time and taxpayer money. [editline]29th October 2017[/editline] I've heard the self-test kits are garbage.

[QUOTE=loopoo;52833984]I've been wanting to get my T levels checked for a while, but I feel like I can't cause I've been pestering my GP a lot recently. I've had 2 blood tests in the span of a month to figure out why I feel tired all the fuckin time, first time was just a general check and it all came back good, second time was to check for celiacs which I thankfully don't have (but I really thought I did cause after eating pasta / bread, I get messed up stomach issues). Is it easy to get a blood test to determine T levels in the UK, or do GPs not really like doing that? Cause I don't get limpdick or anything, so I feel like they'd tell me to stop wasting time and taxpayer money. [editline]29th October 2017[/editline] I've heard the self-test kits are garbage.[/QUOTE] I mean right now you might as well be employing your GP through taxes healthcare is your right. Take advantage of that while it's still the case.

Suggestions for things to do for a date We only met one but she wants to meet again but I don't know what to suggest we do. I'm suggesting cinema which I think is fine(?) We are not the "Go out get hammered in a nightclub" type.

[QUOTE=Dave_Parker;52833965]You can have low T and be balding early, it's more to do with the hair follicles sensitivity to DHT.[/QUOTE] As I said, also genetic, but DHT levels are related to T so a higher T also means higher DHT and even higher sensitivity follicles will lose hair etc. Everything in the body is a complex relationship of course