Super Friendly Social and Love Advice v8 - Stop spamming her with texts. - General

dude you cant rely on a forum for the answers to everything on life just go out there and be the guy whos company she clearly enjoys

[QUOTE=cricket50;51424258]dude you cant rely on a forum for the answers to everything on life just go out there and be the guy whos company she clearly enjoys[/QUOTE] yeah you're right. I just get anxious and overthink things sometimes. I'll just offer to buy her drinks and hopefully that goes well. I'm just afraid of offending her I guess? but I also want to be nice so it's weird

its really nice i found a girl i can talk to about anything now. i havent felt depressed since she entered my life

[QUOTE=Crpto2007;51424786]its really nice i found a girl i can talk to about anything now. i havent felt depressed since she entered my life[/QUOTE] Just remember dude, if you rely on someone else to provide your happiness you'll wear them out

[QUOTE=Crpto2007;51424786]its really nice i found a girl i can talk to about anything now. i havent felt depressed since she entered my life[/QUOTE] damn i miss that feeling

Has anyone here ever cheated on a significant other? If so, why? Would you ever do it again?

Y'know being hopeless with girls is actually better than having a chance because I am at peace with reality and knowing I can't change things is liberating

[QUOTE=OrkO;51425276]Has anyone here ever cheated on a significant other? If so, why? Would you ever do it again?[/QUOTE] I have. It was long distance, we argued a lot,, we weren't very sexual anymore and I was in a bad place mentally. Split up soon after coz it just wasn't working, I think now I'd have the balls to break up before it gets like that again.

[QUOTE=OrkO;51425276]Has anyone here ever cheated on a significant other? If so, why? Would you ever do it again?[/QUOTE] Yes, when much younger. Relationship wasnt providing what I wanted so started looking elsewhere. Absolutely the wrong way to handle it ad it ended badly. I would certainly try to avoid in future.

[QUOTE=Crpto2007;51424786]its really nice i found a girl i can talk to about anything now. i havent felt depressed since she entered my life[/QUOTE] I think you would benefit from learning to meditate.

[QUOTE=NixNax123;51424330]yeah you're right. I just get anxious and overthink things sometimes. I'll just offer to buy her drinks and hopefully that goes well. I'm just afraid of offending her I guess? but I also want to be nice so it's weird[/QUOTE] I think you should be fine as long as you don't push it. You offering to pay is a nice gesture - if she refuses, don't try to convince her otherwise and you'll be fine.

[QUOTE=SebiWarrior;51425933]Y'know being hopeless with girls is actually better than having a chance because I am at peace with reality and knowing I can't change things is liberating[/QUOTE] Relationship nihilism. [editline]25th November 2016[/editline] It's not the truth.

[QUOTE=SebiWarrior;51425933]Y'know being hopeless with girls is actually better than having a chance because I am at peace with reality and knowing I can't change things is liberating[/QUOTE] Look, if you've given up on ever getting with a girl, just say so. Don't shroud it in such pseudo-philosophical nonsense.

[QUOTE=Sir Whoopsalot;51426664]Look, if you've given up on ever getting with a girl, just say so. Don't shroud it in such pseudo-philosophical nonsense.[/QUOTE] I think that's what he did.

You're at peace with the idea of being socially non-functional, which is essentially a deeper level of depression than overt depression. Even Mew2King has girls interested in him - and not just because he's a god of smash bros melee. I promise you that, despite literally everything you may have experienced so far, you are not an evolutionary dead end.

[QUOTE=joshjet;51426665]I think that's what he did.[/QUOTE] Maybe it's me but 'being at peace with reality' and 'knowing you can't change things is liberating' strikes me as dancing around the issue. Either way, an attitude like that is dangerous.

I'm not saying I have given up on finding girls, I must've expressed myself awfully I meant that now that I've tried with every girl I wanted to try, I am at peace knowing that, until I meet somebody else, I can't do a thing anymore. I will definitely try with the next one, and go through the anxiety and pain again, till it ends up in one of the two ways it can. Until then I can focus on more pressing matters i am a melodramatic guy what can i say [editline]25th November 2016[/editline] and from what I know, from the outside I appear very intimidating and enigmatic, while I know that on the inside I am insecure and needy af. not exactly good qualities to have, considering I dont have any social status to make up for it

I dunno, I have 2 or 3 girls in my life right now that probably would be interested in me if I tried to pursue a relationship with them, but I just reached that point in my life that I don't really give a shit. Like my vision of romance changed a lot in the past few years and it kinda lost that "alluring magic" that it used to have back then. I just don't have the patience or energy for it anymore. Besides the last couple of girls I have met just left a bitter taste in my mouth. They would use man just to feel good about themselves and have a illusion of superiority. I know that not every girl is like that but it just kills any motivation for me.

well the girl I was supposed to meet in glasgow ended up ghosting me, which is a huge disappointment. at least the gig was fucking incredible :speedfap:

Everyone who sees me and my girlfriend together think we're siblings :godzing:

Sent some snapchats out. Hopefully i can find someone to hang out with tonight.

Any advice on asking out a TA? I'm like 4th year and she is more-a-less a first year grad student. I was thinking of waiting until the last day so there's no conflict of interest, but I don't know. Maybe I shouldnt do it at all? Thoughts?

[QUOTE=Zenreon117;51428353]Any advice on asking out a TA? I'm like 4th year and she is more-a-less a first year grad student. I was thinking of waiting until the last day so there's no conflict of interest, but I don't know. Maybe I shouldnt do it at all? Thoughts?[/QUOTE] Not at all.

i havent been this happy in a long time. talking to her everyday and just being around her makes my day

How do I stop loving someone?

[QUOTE=The bird Man;51436965]How do I stop loving someone?[/QUOTE] stop giving a shit, remove any memories and any ties with them, hang out with friends and do stuff you enjoy. do stuff that helps de-stress you too on another note guys im entirely new to this relationship thing. im 19. no issues so far 2 weeks in and she makes me really happy. but i was wondering if its normal to feel like you aren't trying hard enough or feel like you are doing the wrong thing

You know it'd be great if people reciprocated when I talk to them on tinder.

[QUOTE=MrDwarf11;51427893]Everyone who sees me and my girlfriend together think we're siblings :godzing:[/QUOTE] I'd say it's worse when everyone thinks me and my sister are a couple if we go to the mall or something together :v: [editline]28th November 2016[/editline] [QUOTE=duckmaster;51440617]You know it'd be great if people reciprocated when I talk to them on tinder.[/QUOTE] Not a good place to actually talk to many girls. POF or Okcupid for that. Tinder is much less for meaningful conversation and more for hook ups or the occasional person who actually wants a relationship/friend in my opinion. Doesn't mean you can't have meaningful conversations on there though

[QUOTE=MrDwarf11;51427893]Everyone who sees me and my girlfriend together think we're siblings :godzing:[/QUOTE] Me and my ex girlfriend used to joke about if she kisses me or I kiss her in public, the other person would yell "mom said not to do that!!" really loud. I'm not a fan of showing affection in public anyway.

[QUOTE=Kite_shugo;51440619]I'd say it's worse when everyone thinks me and my sister are a couple if we go to the mall or something together :v: [editline]28th November 2016[/editline] Not a good place to actually talk to many girls. POF or Okcupid for that. Tinder is much less for meaningful conversation and more for hook ups or the occasional person who actually wants a relationship/friend in my opinion. Doesn't mean you can't have meaningful conversations on there though[/QUOTE] I'll probably check those out eventually.