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just bought this shirt, Oswald The Lucky Rabbit.
fuck yeah.
[QUOTE=FuckaNinja;25031322]A blow to my defenses but I'll be ok. I stand by my argument.[/QUOTE]
Yeah gg
[editline]10:25PM[/editline]
Makol that shirt is amazing let me borrow it.
[QUOTE=Pascall;25031303]I would probably not go after a guy with an "I'm With Stupid" shirt simply because of the fact that it's not humorous at all in this day and age and knowing that, I will make the assumption that the man himself is pretty outdated and immature in his humor.
Is that a fact? No. But it is a pretty fair guess. The guy could be amazing and funny and great. But half the time I'll just go on my way since nothing in particular sticks out to me about him.[/QUOTE]
well (atleast me) only ask a girl out after i know them so what they wear would make no difference at that point
[QUOTE=Sputn!k;25031270]yeah but unless you are wearing a dick costume they aren't going to make very serious decisions without talking to you first
The "im with stupid" shirt. It's horrible and everyone hates it. But does that mean the guy in the shirt is a dick? Will i hate him? not necessarily[/QUOTE]
it doesn't change how the way you dress affects how people treat you
Then again even if I am a female, what I like isn't anywhere near the representation of what the female gender likes.
It varies. There are girls who don't care about appearance and will befriend any lowly looking guy who dresses like a hobo simply because their shirt says "i liek gaemz".
[QUOTE=Pascall;25031339]Yeah gg
[editline]10:25PM[/editline]
Makol that shirt is amazing let me borrow it.[/QUOTE]
you can get this one.
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[QUOTE=imasillypiggys;25031345]well (atleast me) only ask a girl out after i know them so what they wear would make no difference at that point[/QUOTE]
True, but usually you have to find some initial attraction, no?
If you're into metal, you're not going to go after a girl who is bleach blonde and is decked out in Hollister, now are you? Maybe she's into metal too. But you wouldn't get that vibe by just looking at her so you'd probably just stroll on by.
I always go with the casual look. Shirt(preferably t-shirts(plain ones) or poloshirts), loose jeans(not really baggy, but fuck you with fitted) and a pair of sneakers(preferably mid tops). Then just throw on a hoody if it's getting colder.
Also for the musics fact, I'm open minded. Listen to almost everything, from pop to electro(house, dnb), reggae and propably my favourite: hip hop.
[QUOTE=Pascall;25031381]True, but usually you have to find some initial attraction, no?
If you're into metal, you're not going to go after a girl who is bleach blonde and is decked out in Hollister, now are you? Maybe she's into metal too. But you wouldn't get that vibe by just looking at her so you'd probably just stroll on by.[/QUOTE]
you just described my exgf, good job.
Hoodies are nice during winter. I don't understand people who wear them during the summer though. I just stare at them and wonder if their sweat could fill a small pool under that hoodie.
[editline]10:28PM[/editline]
[QUOTE=Makol;25031395]you just described my exgf, good job.[/QUOTE]
I am psychic.
[QUOTE=Pascall;25031381]True, but usually you have to find some initial attraction, no?
If you're into metal, you're not going to go after a girl who is bleach blonde and is decked out in Hollister, now are you? Maybe she's into metal too. But you wouldn't get that vibe by just looking at her so you'd probably just stroll on by.[/QUOTE]
good point but what my main point is that i dont think (or atleast hope) the kind of girl that would like me would not really care if i wear some cheap shirt that i got for 5$
[QUOTE=Archy;25031351]it doesn't change how the way you dress affects how people treat you[/QUOTE]
I seriously doubt you're going to look this guy straight in the eye and tell him "you look like shit in that shirt"
[QUOTE=Archy;25031351]it doesn't change how the way you dress affects how people treat you[/QUOTE]
Now that's a stupid thing to say. It might play a little part in FIRST IMPRESSIONS, but that isn't going to affect the way someone treats you in the long run. That is determined 100% by your personality.
[QUOTE=FuckaNinja;25031503]Now that's a stupid thing to say. It might play a little part in FIRST IMPRESSIONS, but that isn't going to affect the way someone treats you in the long run. That is determined 100% by your personality.[/QUOTE]
unless the person is really shallow
[QUOTE=imasillypiggys;25031458]good point but what my main point is that i dont think (or atleast hope) the kind of girl that would like me would not really care if i wear some cheap shirt that i got for 5$[/QUOTE]
That's true. But what I'm saying is, a lot of girls base their potential boyfriends by how they dress since clothes are generally a reflection of what the person may be like. So it's always a good idea to maybe dress to impress, especially if you're in the market for a girl (or a job for that matter). Won't hurt to sharpen up a bit. If you can find clothes that are nice and that fit you well and look good for $5 at wal-mart, then by all means, please do.
It's when people just throw on any old ratty thing and expect people to "see past my outer appearance" that they have a problem.
[QUOTE=Pascall;25031381]True, but usually you have to find some initial attraction, no?
If you're into metal, you're not going to go after a girl who is bleach blonde and is decked out in Hollister, now are you? Maybe she's into metal too. But you wouldn't get that vibe by just looking at her so you'd probably just stroll on by.[/QUOTE]
I would.
Usually if I find a girl physically attractive, I try to talk to her and find out what she's like. If I don't like her personality, I walk away. It has nothing to do with the clothes she wears or what she likes.
well if a girl cares so much on what i wear that she doesnt ask me out then it would have never worked to begin with (this has happend to me twice in real life)
That seems like a horrifyingly tedious way to sort through potential significant others.
[editline]10:38PM[/editline]
I don't know about you but I'm not going to go up to each and every person who may or may not be what I'm looking for and quiz them until I find out if they're my type or not.
Needs more Leather Jackets, Jeans, and Los Angeles County Jail shirts.
so if I wear that amazing Oswald shirt will I appear childish and be ignored by females?
[QUOTE=Pascall;25031556]That's true. But what I'm saying is, a lot of girls base their potential boyfriends by how they dress since clothes are generally a reflection of what the person may be like.[/QUOTE]
Lol, a woman doesn't base a man's boyfriend potential based off of first impression. Honestly, when have you EVER seen a girl walk up to a guy and say "I like your clothes, you must have a nice personality. You can be my boyfriend." Never, because that doesn't happen.
I always thought that one good way to figure out a person's personality was to spend time with them and get to know them, but I guess now even that is determined entirely by your clothes. I bet if I bought some hollister clothes I would have a girlfriend in no time right?
[QUOTE=PeanutTHENINJA;25031640]Needs more Leather Jackets, Jeans, and Los Angeles County Jail shirts.[/QUOTE]
Of course I use that more for intimidation than attracting the opposite gender.
[QUOTE=Pascall;25031599]That seems like a horrifyingly tedious way to sort through potential significant others.
[editline]10:38PM[/editline]
I don't know about you but I'm not going to go up to each and every person who may or may not be what I'm looking for and quiz them until I find out if they're my type or not.[/QUOTE]
no but if a girl that cares that much about clothes isnt my kind of girl
[QUOTE=FuckaNinja;25031651]Lol, a woman doesn't base a man's boyfriend potential based off of first impression. Honestly, when have you EVER seen a girl walk up to a guy and say "I like your clothes, you must have a nice personality. You can be my boyfriend." Never, because that doesn't happen.
I always thought that one good way to figure out a person's personality was to spend time with them and get to know them, but I guess now even that is determined entirely by your clothes. I bet if I bought some hollister clothes I would have a girlfriend in no time right?[/QUOTE]
you're pretty thickheaded
[QUOTE=Pascall;25031599]That seems like a horrifyingly tedious way to sort through potential significant others.
[editline]10:38PM[/editline]
I don't know about you but I'm not going to go up to each and every person who may or may not be what I'm looking for and quiz them until I find out if they're my type or not.[/QUOTE]
You don't judge someone's personality by their clothes. You just don't. You can get an impression, sure, but judging their whole person by something so meaningless is pathetic. This is why people go on dates and shit, so they can get to find out what the other is like, THAT's how they determine if they're boyfriend/girlfriend material, not by the fucking clothes they're wearing.
Honestly what the fuck is this? "Oh, that girl has a cute shirt on, I'm sure she's a loving and compassionate person who would just be the perfect girl for me!" Or "Oh that guy has nice shoes, I bet he has a wicked sense of humor and would make an awesome boyfriend."
Don't tell me you guys are this shallow.
[editline]03:43AM[/editline]
[QUOTE=Bman212;25031698]you're pretty thickheaded[/QUOTE]
You can't be serious.
[QUOTE=FuckaNinja;25031651]Lol, a woman doesn't base a man's boyfriend potential based off of first impression. Honestly, when have you EVER seen a girl walk up to a guy and say "I like your clothes, you must have a nice personality. You can be my boyfriend." Never, because that doesn't happen.
I always thought that one good way to figure out a person's personality was to spend time with them and get to know them, but I guess now even that is determined entirely by your clothes. I bet if I bought some hollister clothes I would have a girlfriend in no time right?[/QUOTE]
You are mistaken, my friend. Most women DO base a man's boyfriend potential off of what they look like. It's shallow and horrible, but it's true. Like I said earlier, I'm not going to waste my time onn someone who is a horrifyingly sloppy dresser because that's often a reflection of who they are. Tell me another reason why someone dresses the way they do. The comfort factor is a moot point because ANYTHING can be comfortable (except some high heels, but that doesn't apply in this situation) as long as you wear it properly. I'm not going to wear a Slayer shirt if I don't like Slayer. So the same works in reverse. People will wear Hollister because they like the style and the type of clothes. They want it to reflect who they are. Most people who wear bright colored clothes are pleasant and often bubbly. People who wear darker clothes more often tend to be more serious and less outgoing. It's just a simple fact really. Of course there are variations everywhere. Humanity is full of variations.
But what I'm saying is, the initial attraction is based off of appearance and that includes their clothes. I don't solely stare at a man's face and say "wow, he's good looking, I guess I'll go and say hi. Doesn't matter if his shoes have twenty holes in them and his shirt looks like it's been through a shredder. I bet he's nice!"
Personally I like someone who knows how to dress. It's an important factor for me because I grew up not knowing how. I want someone to balance out my fashion sense. That's a personal preference yes, but clothes are also important to a lot of women out there. You don't often see well-off and sophisticated women dating men who dress like a homeless person do you? Rarely.
If you're into the girl who dresses like she just came from the local dump then by all means, go for it. She'll probably appreciate how you dress and look too. But for people who whine and moan because girls don't find them attractive and then put absolutely no effort into their appearance have no one to blame but themselves. These people are also extremely ignorant to the female mind and are anti-social to begin with, but that's another topic.
That was a lot to type.
[QUOTE=Pascall;25031775]You are mistaken, my friend. Most women DO base a man's boyfriend potential off of what they look like. It's shallow and horrible, but it's true. Like I said earlier, I'm not going to waste my time onn someone who is a horrifyingly sloppy dresser because that's often a reflection of who they are. Tell me another reason why someone dresses the way they do. The comfort factor is a moot point because ANYTHING can be comfortable (except some high heels, but that doesn't apply in this situation) as long as you wear it properly. I'm not going to wear a Slayer shirt if I don't like Slayer. So the same works in reverse. People will wear Hollister because they like the style and the type of clothes. They want it to reflect who they are. Most people who wear bright colored clothes are pleasant and often bubbly. People who wear darker clothes more often tend to be more serious and less outgoing. It's just a simple fact really. Of course there are variations everywhere. Humanity is full of variations.
But what I'm saying is, the initial attraction is based off of appearance and that includes their clothes. I don't solely stare at a man's face and say "wow, he's good looking, I guess I'll go and say hi. Doesn't matter if his shoes have twenty holes in them and his shirt looks like it's been through a shredder. I bet he's nice!"
Personally I like someone who knows how to dress. It's an important factor for me because I grew up not knowing how. I want someone to balance out my fashion sense. That's a personal preference yes, but clothes are also important to a lot of women out there. You don't often see well-off and sophisticated women dating men who dress like a homeless person do you? Rarely.
If you're into the girl who dresses like she just came from the local dump then by all means, go for it. She'll probably appreciate how you dress and look too. But for people who whine and moan because girls don't find them attractive and then put absolutely no effort into their appearance have no one to blame but themselves. These people are also extremely ignorant to the female mind and are anti-social to begin with, but that's another topic.
That was a lot to type.[/QUOTE]
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well because i dont date shallow girls then that means wearing what ever i want is like having an anti shallow devise so that way i dont have to deal with them
[QUOTE=imasillypiggys;25031827]well because i dont date shallow girls then that means wearing what ever i want is like having an anti shallow devise so that way i dont have to deal with them[/QUOTE]
That is an excellent point of view. But what I'm mainly lecturing are those people who can't understand why no one is attracted to them but don't do anything about it, you know? If you're happy with how you dress and aren't interested in attracting anyone except people who are exactly like you then enjoy yourself and your fashion sense.
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