Sex, Girlfriends and Shit VII: "Power Moves For High Quality Women" - General

[QUOTE=Kite_shugo;51456040]that usually works for me but like Sebi said it can also have the effect he said. Honestly the biggest things that have made me last longer are thinking really hard about it, alcohol, or the one time I found out inadvertently that small amounts cough syrup makes you last long as fuck. Switching positions seemed to help too. I've seen that numbing spray shit for your dick but I don't think I wanna screw with that stuff also, my merge fucked up[/QUOTE] save penetration for last then, so at least if you finish quickly it won't be that bad for her

[QUOTE=Kite_shugo;51455810]anyone got tips for lasting longer in bed as a dude? No matter what the fuck I do the first ejac always comes faster than I want or anticipate. It's always been something that bothers me and I'd imagine... bothers any girl I've been with sexually cause I've definitely had girls not want to continue once I finished 1 time, even if I wanted to continue[/QUOTE] I used to joke with my ex that as soon as I stick it in I'm like "oops I'm done already, sorry" but if I'm close I either try to think of something else (which tbh I don't like doing because I wanna enjoy the moment) or slow down or even take a quick break. depends on who you're with and if they're cool with stopping for a minute or 2.

usually when I go for round 2 I last a lot longer

Positions definitely have an impact Any cowgirl position barely affects me, doggy's fine, but missionary makes me explode quickly Experiment a bit, figure out the positions that work less and more, and take it from there

tbh the best advice for not lasting long is to get good at going down on her so at least she's satisfied even if you explode after four pumps

[QUOTE=E = MC Hammer;51461078]tbh the best advice for not lasting long is to get good at going down on her so at least she's satisfied even if you explode after four pumps[/QUOTE] going down on people is a genuine pleasure as well if they are clean

yeah dude it's the best or it's a chore, depending on how they react, but hopefully it's the best

[QUOTE=E = MC Hammer;51461238]yeah dude it's the best or it's a chore, depending on how they react, but hopefully it's the best[/QUOTE] It's absolutely the best when they forget that I don't speak their native language and start slipping Russian.

[QUOTE=RenegadeCop;51462204]Never go down with stubble on your face[/QUOTE] Funny really, she told me I should keep trying to grow my facial hair (the key word is trying, I don't have the genes for beard growing, so it's pretty mediocre still after over a month...)

[QUOTE=Kite_shugo;51455810]anyone got tips for lasting longer in bed as a dude? No matter what the fuck I do the first ejac always comes faster than I want or anticipate. It's always been something that bothers me and I'd imagine... bothers any girl I've been with sexually cause I've definitely had girls not want to continue once I finished 1 time, even if I wanted to continue[/QUOTE] I've found for a long term solution is to eliminate viewing pornography (watching porn is about reaching the highest state of arousal the fastest and your body learns and adapts to trying to reach climax as fast as possible). Although that tip I believe to be the most key some people can't seem to put down the pornography, so other tips are when you penetrate just sit then and wait for awhile, until it feels comfortable. Slowly move in and out and stop immediately when you feel your about to ejaculate (if it is too much just pull out and start again). It is best to have someone that is patient and can understand what your going through. Just take things really slow and don't do what pornography has taught you, and adjust to your body's sensation. Last tip would be pay really close attention to your body's sensations (don't visualize anything in your mind).

Hey I'm glad the topic is already on sex so I don't have to make an irrelevant question post. So last night I hung out with this girl and I that have been talking for a few weeks. We've made out before, but nothing physical. That night we end up at my place and things start getting pretty hot and heavy. To preface this story, I had never had consensual sex before (I had it one time before but I really wouldn't call it "sex" and it really affected me negatively). I didn't actually know how far we were going to go, but suddenly we are naked and I am just eating her out. She seems to be enjoying it, while I'm trying not to think of anything and just go with the flow. After I give her oral for a few minutes, I come back up and find out my dick is pretty much 75% flaccid. Welp. She realizes this and jerks me off to try and get me hard (she was really nice and understanding about all of this; she likes me a lot) but to no avail. So I end up fingering her until nothing happens and then I just lie down half-on her with the most defeated look. She looks at me and seems to be really happy with everything and just enjoying my company and that I'm there. She starts getting herself off and I take this as a cue to help her by kissing various parts of her body and all that stuff. She succeeds, and then I realize I'm hard (making out with people makes me hard but not eating people out? what is this), so I go in for the kill. I go in, don't really know what I'm doing, and finally understand what to do, get about 5 good bouts of the in-out, in-out, and then pull out. We cuddle after and talk about how it was my actual first time with someone I didn't regret it with, blah blah, she still seems really supportive and it seemed like she loved it even though it wasn't great. Then 30 minutes later we go for round 2 and I last a lot longer (as the above poster said!). Now that was good. Sex is actually pretty nice. Anyways, my question is, should I be worried about not getting hard in the future, or should this be a one time thing? Because I find myself in a pickle when making out is the only thing that gets me hard, but I like foreplay to include oral. What do

Could be that you're just into certain things or you were nervous. Sounds like it worked out, ultimately, so I wouldn't worry. Use it as an opportunity to explore and find out what really gets you going and what doesn't. But it doesn't seem like an issue.

[QUOTE=NixNax123;51468575]Hey I'm glad the topic is already on sex so I don't have to make an irrelevant question post. So last night I hung out with this girl and I that have been talking for a few weeks. We've made out before, but nothing physical. That night we end up at my place and things start getting pretty hot and heavy. To preface this story, I had never had consensual sex before (I had it one time before but I really wouldn't call it "sex" and it really affected me negatively). I didn't actually know how far we were going to go, but suddenly we are naked and I am just eating her out. She seems to be enjoying it, while I'm trying not to think of anything and just go with the flow. After I give her oral for a few minutes, I come back up and find out my dick is pretty much 75% flaccid. Welp. She realizes this and jerks me off to try and get me hard (she was really nice and understanding about all of this; she likes me a lot) but to no avail. So I end up fingering her until nothing happens and then I just lie down half-on her with the most defeated look. She looks at me and seems to be really happy with everything and just enjoying my company and that I'm there. She starts getting herself off and I take this as a cue to help her by kissing various parts of her body and all that stuff. She succeeds, and then I realize I'm hard (making out with people makes me hard but not eating people out? what is this), so I go in for the kill. I go in, don't really know what I'm doing, and finally understand what to do, get about 5 good bouts of the in-out, in-out, and then pull out. We cuddle after and talk about how it was my actual first time with someone I didn't regret it with, blah blah, she still seems really supportive and it seemed like she loved it even though it wasn't great. Then 30 minutes later we go for round 2 and I last a lot longer (as the above poster said!). Now that was good. Sex is actually pretty nice. Anyways, my question is, should I be worried about not getting hard in the future, or should this be a one time thing? Because I find myself in a pickle when making out is the only thing that gets me hard, but I like foreplay to include oral. What do[/QUOTE] Guaranteed it's just nerves, but for good measure quit watching porn and quit jackin' it. You'll be fine.

to be fair not everyone gets hard eating someone out, especially if your partner isn't very vocal or expressive

So my mom found a used rubber next to my bed and is basically not letting my girlfriend come over next week from out of town. Fuck

God forbid someone have [I]consensual safe sex.[/I] Not in [I]this house,[/I] mister!

Ya my parents are conservative as fuck. They won't even let me sleep in the same bed as her. There was actually a big shit storm when I was ~8 yrs old when a female cousin of mine (~11 I believe) had a sleepover and we shared a bed.

That sounds kinda gross lol. Throw it away at least, man...

I matched with 4 girls on Tinder who are all really cute and all share interests with me, and they're all trying to set up dates. Should I go with all four and narrow down from there? EDIT: Two of them are too far away and we've agreed to go on a coffee run if they're ever "around." I've got a date set up with one of them, and the other one I'm still talking to. Makes the situation a little more manageable.

[QUOTE=RenegadeCop;51476066]So why did you leave a used condom next to your bed?[/QUOTE] I pulled out before I finished and pulled the condom off for a money shot. And by pull off I mean flung the damn thing. Also it was 2 am and I was fucking exhausted and lazy and it was sorta hidden underneath a pillow behind my bed. Figured the chances of my mom finding it were low before I picked it up

i'm not going to say that's your fault but it's basically your fault especially when you know your parents are like this, i'd be paranoid as all hell

So today, I learned that my LDR girlfriend is a transgirl. Ultimately, I still love her (I can understand why she didn't tell me earlier), though it did bring up questions. But the question that bothers me most out of this was if I did wrong. The reason I found out was because I confronted her about it, when in hindsight, I'm thinking that maybe I should have instead waited for her to out to me. Is it wrong to have confront her? Or is it necessary to know her better?

My girlfriend figured out how to make herself burp like I do. She said she then spent an hour doing it. I'm so proud

[QUOTE=RenegadeCop;51480251][t]http://i.imgur.com/PWc9RiF.png[/t] This was on my feed. It is just so wrong I felt like I had to share.[/QUOTE] idealise/idealize [quote] idealize verb regard or represent as perfect or better than in reality. "Helen's idealized accounts of their life together" synonyms: romanticize, romance, be unrealistic about, look at something through rose-tinted/rose-coloured spectacles, paint a rosy picture of, glamorize; More [/quote] that gave me a chuckle

[QUOTE=Flicky;51476517]I matched with 4 girls on Tinder who are all really cute and all share interests with me, and they're all trying to set up dates. Should I go with all four and narrow down from there? EDIT: Two of them are too far away and we've agreed to go on a coffee run if they're ever "around." I've got a date set up with one of them, and the other one I'm still talking to. Makes the situation a little more manageable.[/QUOTE] You kinda answered your own question, but go for it. Dates aren't an exclusive/binding commitment, just eventually you'll have to pick and choose if you make it past the first few dates with several people.

[QUOTE=RenegadeCop;51480251][t]http://i.imgur.com/PWc9RiF.png[/t] This was on my feed. It is just so wrong I felt like I had to share.[/QUOTE] that's what hell is like

I went on a tinder date and it was like every deal breaker; smokes, weird teeth, overly political, and doesn't drink. It was my only match I've had. Haha

[QUOTE=Demolitions2;51480259]My girlfriend figured out how to make herself burp like I do. She said she then spent an hour doing it. I'm so proud[/QUOTE] just wait until the farting starts you know it's love when she doesn't hesitate to rip ass right next to you

[QUOTE=dcalde78;51481500]just wait until the farting starts you know it's love when she doesn't hesitate to rip ass right next to you[/QUOTE] Next to me? She's already farted on me. The first time she did it, I didnt even hear it, and just felt my leg rumbling under her butt in bed. She then proceeded to die laughing for an hour.

You all are silly. Girls don't fart, it's a myth.