Sex, Girlfriends and Shit VII: "Power Moves For High Quality Women" - General

yeah I sometimes get an intense urge to have a girl lick nutella off of my nipples whilst giving me a handie as I watch the late night shopping channel to try and grab a great deal on a blender so I totally know how you feel man

nasty

but tasty

[QUOTE=_Axel;49529136]Well she already told me she loved a lot of the things I did to her so far, for example that one time I lifted her up against the wall while making out (that seemed like a pretty good idea at the time, is that something stupidly dangerous I should avoid doing?) which make me pretty confident. I'm still a bit nervous about fucking up or something, though she will be understanding if that happens I guess, she's pretty nice.[/QUOTE] Sooo.... It was pretty good, we spent a lot of time making out, teasing each other, undressing (and yeah lifting her against the wall among other stuff). After a while I started fingering her and eventually went down on her (she really loved cunnilingus, asked for more). However, after I put the condom on she started panicking, pretending to be tired, and eventually asked me "Do we have to do it now?", told me she didn't know why she didn't want to do it. If there's one thing I (think I) learned from girls it's that more often than not, when they say they don't know it means they do know but don't want to say it. Should I be worried about this? Or is it a normal phase of nervousness on her part which will eventually disappear? It didn't affect the rest of the night, we resumed cuddling (and a bit of cuni and fingering too) and went to sleep after a while. I think she really loves me and it's probably reciprocal, it's probably not a big deal that she didn't want to do it tonight. [editline]15th January 2016[/editline] She just texted me, she wants to know if she disappointed me... She didn't, if she didn't feel like doing it it probably wouldn't have been enjoyable anyway.

Looks pretty normal, yes. Just don't pressure her, but your situation seems to be alright.

Props for being so understanding, it's good to know you didn't pressure her or try and make her change her mind.

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Help, my girlfriend keeps doing facebook quizzes and sharing clickbait. What do i do.

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[QUOTE=_Axel;49535699]Sooo.... It was pretty good, we spent a lot of time making out, teasing each other, undressing (and yeah lifting her against the wall among other stuff). After a while I started fingering her and eventually went down on her (she really loved cunnilingus, asked for more). However, after I put the condom on she started panicking, pretending to be tired, and eventually asked me "Do we have to do it now?", told me she didn't know why she didn't want to do it. If there's one thing I (think I) learned from girls it's that more often than not, when they say they don't know it means they do know but don't want to say it. Should I be worried about this? Or is it a normal phase of nervousness on her part which will eventually disappear? It didn't affect the rest of the night, we resumed cuddling (and a bit of cuni and fingering too) and went to sleep after a while. I think she really loves me and it's probably reciprocal, it's probably not a big deal that she didn't want to do it tonight. [editline]15th January 2016[/editline] She just texted me, she wants to know if she disappointed me... She didn't, if she didn't feel like doing it it probably wouldn't have been enjoyable anyway.[/QUOTE] As it's the first time for both of you, she is likely to be nervous. Wait for the right time for both of you

If you people remember my story a couple of months ago. I found out that my ex actually cheated on me...possibly twice with 2 different guys. But hey i was right afterall. Now i know for sure that she was a huge mistake and i should have ended it as soon as i was suspicious when she got the text from that asshole but i was blind and kind to see what was really going on. Atleast i'm Loyal. Now i'm 100% certain she is "that" kind of a girl, she can't stick with a single dude. No wonder none of her relations lasted more than 4 months. I'm not even sad or angry or anything like that so thats good i guess.

There's nothing worse than being emotionally attached to two people at once and having to commit to one. But I'm forcing myself to choose one so this doesn't end up bad and god damn if it isn't fucking hard.

[QUOTE=NixNax123;49547295]There's nothing worse than being emotionally attached to two people at once and having to commit to one. But I'm forcing myself to choose one so this doesn't end up bad and god damn if it isn't fucking hard.[/QUOTE] It'll end up bad if you choose one. Wait until you're not interested in the other person. edit: I mean choosing one while having feelings for both. You can't just choose not to feel anything for the 2nd person.

[QUOTE=Disseminate;49547857]It'll end up bad if you choose one. Wait until you're not interested in the other person.[/QUOTE] Oh I know. I really had to think about my situation and decided on the most realistic, mature, and most promising direction. I'm not splitting my interest up, its only on one girl now.

So i have a dilemma going on inside of me emotionally. I met a girl recently and she told me from the beginning that she was a leech to happiness and had serious trust problems due to her past (abuse). One part of me deeply wanted to "save her" and be her knight in shining armor, but the rational part of me told me to just book it as quickly as possible. So I booked it and she got extremely angry that I didn't want to be friends. She made it fairly clear that for the time being i'm in the friendzone indefinitely unless she changes her mind. To me attraction isn't much of a choice, it just happens. She wanted to be friends with me but I began to see that she really was leeching off my happiness and she just explodes because I decided to get out of it? I'm not a personal savior and sometimes I want to be, but she's emotionally unstable. I feel bad for not wanting to be her friend and probably even a bit guilty as she called me out as "one of those guys who only wants a relationship". It's very true, I have a very hard time being just friends with a girl once i'm romantically interested in them. Women coworkers who are super beautiful and sweet to me get friendzoned by me, and its great for both of us, but anyone outside of my current circle and work circle are pretty much destined to be rejected at the opportunity of being just friends with me, there are some exceptions, and I have a few friends who are women outside of work, and i hang out with them and just have fun, but we all made it clear from the beginning that it was just for the sake of friends. What i'm venting and getting at here, is do you guys think its selfish to decline being friends with someone who is emotional leech? And simpler yet, do you think its selfish to decline being friends with someone who you are romantically interested in but they don't feel the same, or tell you they may feel different in the future, but you decline anyway?

Neither are selfish. If you don't trust yourself to not make romantic advances against a friend, then tbh it's better that you don't get involved, even in a platonic relationship. That being said though, you should work on getting better at not finding romantic attachment in nearly every woman you know. That's very likely to cause you problems a you get older and find that your social circles become more open and diverse.

Got it, thanks! I do need to work on myself a little more, and i'm at a point where i'm completely happy alone, but I just want someone to spend my time with and cuddle up with. But sometimes I think it festers in me a little too deeply, and thats what I need to work on now.

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So tomorrow is my GF's birthday, I was thinking of getting a little something for her. I'm planning on giving her a fluffy marmot, since that's what I nicknamed her given how much she loves sleeping late. Sounds good?

[QUOTE=_Axel;49556714]So tomorrow is my GF's birthday, I was thinking of getting a little something for her. I'm planning on giving her a fluffy marmot, since that's what I nicknamed her given how much she loves sleeping late. Sounds good?[/QUOTE] Well i don't know her, so i don't know. If you think she'll like it then she probably will.

Hung out with my girlfriend properly yesterday, it was nice. It came to my attention she has quite a few older scars. It doesn't other me though, I talked to a few close friends about them, not in a bad way, but I just wanted opinions. It was just new to me, girlfriend-wise. You feel? Either way it was an awesome day.

[QUOTE=RenegadeCop;49555594]I don't think there is a right or wrong in your situation, but I would recommend breaking it off because: It is inevitable from the sounds of it and will happen anyway The wounds can begin to heal now rather than later You will be happier. No person should be subject to [I]the cling[/I].[/QUOTE] as someone who used to be 'the clinger' in a relationship (long ass time ago) I agree whole-heartedly, it's easier for everyone involved to move on with their lives the sooner it happens [editline]18th January 2016[/editline] [QUOTE=_Axel;49556714]So tomorrow is my GF's birthday, I was thinking of getting a little something for her. I'm planning on giving her a fluffy marmot, since that's what I nicknamed her given how much she loves sleeping late. Sounds good?[/QUOTE] if you're certain that she likes the nickname then that's probably alright, otherwise, with any uncertainty towards that, try and think of something she personally would genuinely like don't get me wrong, nicknames are cute and all, but when it comes to gifts you should always go for that aspect of acknowledgement of their personal experience, catering to their individual personality as a human being, not so much that what you said is a bad idea at all, just that if she doesn't really like the nickname, you're probably better off going for something you know she would really like at the end of the day it's the thought that counts, whatever you get her, i'm sure she'll love the fact that you got her something as opposed to nothing. The fact that you're looking to give something that makes you think of her is a good thing in and of it self, so it's definitely not 'bad' so long as she doesn't /hate/ the nickname

[QUOTE=elasticity;49557356]if you're certain that she likes the nickname then that's probably alright, otherwise, with any uncertainty towards that, try and think of something she personally would genuinely like don't get me wrong, nicknames are cute and all, but when it comes to gifts you should always go for that aspect of acknowledgement of their personal experience, catering to their individual personality as a human being, not so much that what you said is a bad idea at all, just that if she doesn't really like the nickname, you're probably better off going for something you know she would really like at the end of the day it's the thought that counts, whatever you get her, i'm sure she'll love the fact that you got her something as opposed to nothing. The fact that you're looking to give something that makes you think of her is a good thing in and of it self, so it's definitely not 'bad' so long as she doesn't /hate/ the nickname[/QUOTE] She loves the nickname, I also know she's into gunning but it's a bit tough to find stuff that relates to firearms in France... It doesn't matter anyway, I completely forgot that shops are closed today. I'll have to give her gift later... I'll do the breakfast in bed + rose schtick tomorrow though.

I have 0 issues hooking up with chicks but I've had 0 luck when it comes to actual dating. Anyone else experience this?

Ok, i know my Girlfriend used to live in a village and whatnot, but her sheer lack of knowledge of pop culture is astonishing. Things she had never heard of until the past couple of months: David Bowie, Michael Jackson (She knew Man in the Mirror), The guns and Roses, The Rolling Stones, Friends (TV), The Simpsons, Home Alone, Arnold Schwarzenegger or any of his movies, Sylvester Stallone or any of his movies, slight knowledge of star wars and slight knowledge of the Beatles (none of their music) to name a few. I mean she means a lot to me but its baffling how one goes through 20 years without knowledge of this. Its not a problem, but still felt like sharing.

[QUOTE=jackattack;49559606]Ok, i know my Girlfriend used to live in a village and whatnot, but her sheer lack of knowledge of pop culture is astonishing. Things she had never heard of until the past couple of months: David Bowie, Michael Jackson (She knew Man in the Mirror), The guns and Roses, The Rolling Stones, Friends (TV), The Simpsons, Home Alone, Arnold Schwarzenegger or any of his movies, Sylvester Stallone or any of his movies, slight knowledge of star wars and slight knowledge of the Beatles (none of their music) to name a few. I mean she means a lot to me but its baffling how one goes through 20 years without knowledge of this. Its not a problem, but still felt like sharing.[/QUOTE] My boyfriend hasn't seen a ton of well-known movies so I've been rewatching some of my favorite films with him. It's actually kind of nice getting to rewatch them with someone who has never seen them before. But he's still mad that I made him watch all of The Room with me because he didn't understand why I was saying "you are tearing me apart, Lisa!" every time I found out about another movie he hadn't seen yet.

[QUOTE=Guy Mannly;49560586]My boyfriend hasn't seen a ton of well-known movies so I've been rewatching some of my favorite films with him. It's actually kind of nice getting to rewatch them with someone who has never seen them before. But he's still mad that I made him watch all of The Room with me because he didn't understand why I was saying "you are tearing me apart, Lisa!" every time I found out about another movie he hadn't seen yet.[/QUOTE] We watched star wars together and she enjoyed it. She already knew the i am your father line but nothing else. But we have watched a fuckload of movies because of what you said, mainly because i keep quoting things. Most recently The Princess Bride, when she gets back from Christmas break its Die Hard.

mints during a blowjob is probably the best advice i've ever taken from this thread. gave a pair to my GF and it was a whole new experience.

[QUOTE=Guy Mannly;49560586]My boyfriend hasn't seen a ton of well-known movies so I've been rewatching some of my favorite films with him. It's actually kind of nice getting to rewatch them with someone who has never seen them before. But he's still mad that I made him watch all of The Room with me because he didn't understand why I was saying "you are tearing me apart, Lisa!" every time I found out about another movie he hadn't seen yet.[/QUOTE] my ex made me watch the room wih her the first time I went to her house and it was the best worst thing I've ever watched. we then watched miami connection, a lost 80's fucking z movie (even B movies have something good about them, miami connection is terrible but also incredible) and she enjoyed that. then I slayed that vag