Sex, Girlfriends and Shit VII: "Power Moves For High Quality Women" - General

[QUOTE=TrannyAlert;51761083]Sounds a bit dodgy in my opinion. She should be speaking to you about what's up with her, rather than supposedly bottling it up and then just suddenly saying you should have a break. If she wasn't doing well, you should be working together as a couple to sort it out and if anything she should be wanting you to comfort her and help her through this hard time.[/QUOTE] That's what I told her as well, but she told me that she's been felt like that for so long that it doesn't matter anymore. I really tried, but she just refuses.

If she's refusing then call it quits man. She obviously doesn't want to work together as a couple through whatever she is going through. She'll end up using you and just properly dumping you off one day at a sudden whim. Personally, I would say to her, we might aswell just leave it as it is then. See what her reaction is, if it's "ok" then she's obviously wanting to leave anyway and if she reacts like "omg what!" then say, well we either finish or we sort out your problems together.

[QUOTE=Mr. Sarcastic;51758457]I've been struggling to stay optimistic about finding a girlfriend since I realized I had a crush on a friend I've gotten to know better who already has a boyfriend. They're both friends of mine, so for the sake of her happiness, I'm trying to give them their space. Essentially, I'm trying to avoid being around them since I feel miserable inside because she'll never know what I'm going through. Because I tend to be a more open-book-type with people I trust, this has made me more sarcastic and even more cynical than usual as I tend to be a pessimist. I've tried listening to anti-love songs and distracting myself by watching funny movies, but nothing seems to be working. I've fallen for this girl more than any crush I've had before and I worry that I'll never find someone. So I guess what I'm asking is how do you guys forget about your ex/crush?[/QUOTE] I'm in a somewhat similar situation. The first day I got to where I live now I slept with my neighbor, as in her door is two meters across from mine. We became friends and as weeks went by I started crushing on her hard. About 5 months ago I told her that I liked her to which she just responded "don't". That's when she started neglecting me and it even went on to the point of being downright disrespectful. A few weeks ago she started to be herself towards me again, albeit a bit more careful. My feelings for her hasn't gone away but I don't wanna make the same mistake twice. What has helped me a lot is just getting tinder and starting to meet new women. It still hurts when she hooks up with some guy but it's not something that weighs me down anymore and I have broken out of the thought spiral I had about her being "the one".

[QUOTE=RenegadeCop;51760628]My girlfriend makes spaghetti without meat. Does anyone here do that?[/QUOTE] I wouldnt dream of it, but my sister is the resident picky spaghetti eater and only eats it without meat so I have to suffer.

[QUOTE=Mr. Zombie;51761412]I wouldnt dream of it, but my sister is the resident picky spaghetti eater and only eats it without meat so I have to suffer.[/QUOTE] It's just pasta. I do not understand your issue.

[QUOTE=UzumakaiPatch;51761608]It's just pasta. I do not understand your issue.[/QUOTE] I don't wanna continue cause off-topic but everyone in the house likes it with meat but her.

[QUOTE=Kirbyfactor;51761056]So my girlfriend out of the blue told me she wants to take a break, she didn't even want to talk to me in person. Eventually she agreed to talk to me, she told me she isn't doing wel personally and wants some time for herself, and that she isn't leaving me. And I eventually agreed to give her the time she needs. To be honest I'm really confused and sad this has happened, I'm not sure what to think[/QUOTE] Geuss we're done. What a fucking punch

[QUOTE=Kirbyfactor;51766811]Geuss we're done. What a fucking punch[/QUOTE] Sorry to hear this bus also glad at the same time, she's not the right girl for you man. You could have missed the woman of your life waiting for her to 'have some time to herself'. What actually happened anyhow.

[QUOTE=TrannyAlert;51770175]Sorry to hear this bus also glad at the same time, she's not the right girl for you man. You could have missed the woman of your life waiting for her to 'have some time to herself'. What actually happened anyhow.[/QUOTE] Long story short she doesn't want to talk to me at all it seems, so there's not really much room for another option. Maybe someday

What is the maybe someday for? Maybe someday she will talk or You'll meet that woman

[QUOTE=TrannyAlert;51770979]What is the maybe someday for? Maybe someday she will talk or You'll meet that woman[/QUOTE] Maybe someday I'll get the full story on what's happening, instead of being left in the dark like this

Maybe you will but you're best off just moving on with your life. No point even giving her the time of day. Shit happens sometimes man so I'm sorry but best thing to do is just steamroll on ahead

I didn't get the full story when my first gf left me, so I was left to speculate about what happened. I have an idea, but without her telling me, I don't know the truth. But there's no point in me dwelling on it. My thoughts sometimes wander back to her, but I try not to think about her too much because it doesn't benefit me to do so. That's something time will help with, and you'll come to realise the same about your situation. You might get to find out, but at the same time, you might not. Try not to dwell on it and just get on with things day to day, as that's the best you can do for the moment. Worked for me anyway. Dived headfirst into my work and my music. Having something to focus on will help.

[QUOTE=RenegadeCop;51774095]To those that are married or engaged, how did you propose? I may have asked this before. I currently have the ring, have the "blessing" from the father, have a huge hole in my wallet, but I still need to make the proposal memorable.[/QUOTE] I haven't, but a couple of friends have, one well and one not so well. There isn't a right or wrong answer though because it depends on the pair of you. The one that went well, my friend took his lass to the lake district and they went on a walk to their favourite tarn which is quiet and in the middle of nowhere and proposed over lunch with his gopro recording from a distance. Lake District is special to them both, the views are nice and they aren't the public kind with their personal lives so it was perfect. Illustrates you don't need to go ott to get a good result though.

[QUOTE=RenegadeCop;51774095]To those that are married or engaged, how did you propose? I may have asked this before. I currently have the ring, have the "blessing" from the father, have a huge hole in my wallet, but I still need to make the proposal memorable.[/QUOTE] My lady friend and I were on a week long camping trip in the black hills in my truck camper, and the second day I drove the truck up a trail and we hiked up castle peak. we had made some sandwiched to eat at the top, and I had sneaked a bottle of champagne and some tin cups into my backpack. While we were up top, I pretended to point out some points of interest to her, then said "you see that peak over there? Thats irrelevant, I want you to marry me." while I was behind her, and smoothly whipped out the ring from my pocket, tossing the box aside in one smooth motion. She turned around and it was the happiest Ive ever seen her. Then we drank champagne, ate a little bit of sandwich, and on the way back, I missed a turn and just about got the truck stuck on a tiny atv trail. took a 7 point turn to get it turned around, and the offroading made a mess of the inside of the camper.

[QUOTE=TrannyAlert;51761083]Sounds a bit dodgy in my opinion. She should be speaking to you about what's up with her, rather than supposedly bottling it up and then just suddenly saying you should have a break. If she wasn't doing well, you should be working together as a couple to sort it out and if anything she should be wanting you to comfort her and help her through this hard time.[/QUOTE] Some people really just need time alone and if you just start pushing harder that's only going to make it worse.

i've had 0 problems with durex ever and it's all i use

Sometimes i wonder how the fuck my brain works. A girl i know asked if i wanted to come over, i told her sure why not but i got a bit late so she sends a message telling me her room mate will be home soon and i asked about what she mean by that and she responds with, just telling you. Anyway when i got there we began watching TV and just chilling, then she began getting closer and closer to me until we were laying together on the couch, she put my hands on her boobs and here is what i don't like about my self. I knew she wanted sex from the moment she told me to come over and so did i but for some reason i was just going casual and not do anything at all in response. Then her friend came home and no sexy time happend, when i was about to leave i could see her disapointment in her face, i've never seen a person this disapointed in my life. Sometimes i can just totally ignore the obvious.

[QUOTE=Bucketboy;51777153]Sometimes i wonder how the fuck my brain works. A girl i know asked if i wanted to come over, i told her sure why not but i got a bit late so she sends a message telling me her room mate will be home soon and i asked about what she mean by that and she responds with, just telling you. Anyway when i got there we began watching TV and just chilling, then she began getting closer and closer to me until we were laying together on the couch, she put my hands on her boobs and here is what i don't like about my self. I knew she wanted sex from the moment she told me to come over and so did i but for some reason i was just going casual and not do anything at all in response. Then her friend came home and no sexy time happend, when i was about to leave i could see her disapointment in her face, i've never seen a person this disapointed in my life. Sometimes i can just totally ignore the obvious.[/QUOTE] Maybe you just weren't ready for it at the time.

i'm trying to imagine how someone puts your hands on their boobs and you don't understand what they're going for

Girlfriend put "my new man" hugging some guy on Snapchat story while we're in like a rough patch I guess. I asked her about it and she's like "oh calm down hes gay!!" lol making someone jealous for attention is the most fucked shit you can do, no one should go thru that.

[QUOTE=Kabstrac;51778365]Breast cancer exam[/QUOTE] Well, you'd still know what they're going for in that case.

i think the first time my girlfriend grabbed my hands and put them on her boobs i almost passed out from how quickly the blood drained from my head

[QUOTE=E = MC Hammer;51778656]i think the first time my girlfriend grabbed my hands and put them on her boobs i almost passed out from how quickly the blood drained from my head[/QUOTE] When my GF did that I just held onto one of them with a blank face wondering what to do after that.

First time my ex put her hand on my dick out of her own volition I was too surprised for words [editline]5th February 2017[/editline] like legit scared

[QUOTE=E = MC Hammer;51778119]i'm trying to imagine how someone puts your hands on their boobs and you don't understand what they're going for[/QUOTE] It's not that i did not understand but i just ignored it for some reason. I guess knowing her friend can be coming home at any moment made me do that. A girl-friend told me she probably wanted to be seen getting fucked so she can make her room mate jealous or something lol

[QUOTE=SebiWarrior;51779319]First time my ex put her hand on my dick out of her own volition I was too surprised for words [editline]5th February 2017[/editline] like legit scared[/QUOTE] we've been dating for a year and some change and the other day we were talking and just hanging out and she just like reached down and grabbed it and i just froze and i was like "what"

Has anyone here used/had a partner who used an IUD? Heard things about both parties feeling the steel cord during intercourse or being painful for the woman, how true is that?

[QUOTE=_Axel;51781605]Has anyone here used/had a partner who used an IUD? Heard things about both parties feeling the steel cord during intercourse or being painful for the woman, how true is that?[/QUOTE] I've had an IUD for about two years. None of my sexual partners have ever noticed the cord from it. It softens over time and becomes less noticeable.

[QUOTE=Guy Mannly;51781723]I've had an IUD for about two years. None of my sexual partners have ever noticed the cord from it. It softens over time and becomes less noticeable.[/QUOTE] Thanks! My GF is also worried about the pose, she says it can be super painful. Also risks of infection, and having to wait 3 months before removing it. Is that accurate?