Sex, Girlfriends and Shit VII: "Power Moves For High Quality Women" - General

do you know her outside of the restaurant? if not, don't ask her out. spoilers: people in customer facing positions are paid to be friendly

[QUOTE=LordCrypto;51888810]do you know her outside of the restaurant? if not, don't ask her out. spoilers: people in customer facing positions are paid to be friendly[/QUOTE] We have talked outside of her work yeah. I thought this too. Another reason I have been super hesitant.

[QUOTE=Renderman;51889133]We have talked outside of her work yeah. I thought this too. Another reason I have been super hesitant.[/QUOTE] how long? also don't ask someone out at their place of work

[QUOTE=LordCrypto;51889137]how long? also don't ask someone out at their place of work[/QUOTE] Its been a few months. Ive seen her quite a bit at the store or gas station. I wouldnt dare ask her out at her work, kinda makes things awkward.

I'm going to have a good day tomorrow. Going to see her after my program then spend some time with her.

My girlfriend just accidentally tore my frenulum, dear god why. I'd need less wipes to clean up a murder scene :downs:

[QUOTE=Kierany9;51894661]My girlfriend just accidentally tore my frenulum, dear god why. I'd need less wipes to clean up a murder scene :downs:[/QUOTE] Please god tell me under your tongue.. FOR THE LOVE OF GOD TELL ME UNDER YOUR TONGUE

I dread to think how much blood came out, I managed to cut myself shaving around there last week and there was so much blood from basically what amounted to a light scratch. one thing is for sure, I'd prefer not to do it again

[QUOTE=Renderman;51894686]Please god tell me under your tongue.. FOR THE LOVE OF GOD TELL ME UNDER YOUR TONGUE[/QUOTE] I am sorry [editline]1st March 2017[/editline] For the record, it didn't hurt that much, it was just terrifying to see once the lights were on and a pain to clean up.

[QUOTE=Renderman;51887739]Been having some serious issues asking a girl out. She works down at a local restaurant, so she is usually busy when I go down there. We have only spoke a handful of times, just "Hey, how are you?" etc.. But it seems everytime I've gone to talk to her, she is either really busy, or I just choke. I went through a nasty split up about a year ago, had a child with said ex. I only get to see my kid every other weekend. Things have been kinda rough. I'm just starting to think the reason I'm choking is a fear of being hurt again, or that she may not accept the fact I'm a dad? I just can't figure this out. Any advice? Especially in terms of approaching her. Myself and my friends notice she shows interest in me, just don't know how to go about asking her out. Anxiety is a bitch.[/QUOTE] If you like her get to know her now before it is too late. Get her number, start it out slow with her, then invite her to watch a movie or something. You will need to be truthful with her tho or it'll bite you in the ass. Should probably tell her you got a kid etc. If they find out it later it could turn out worse.

If she has a problem that you have a kid, then it's not worth being with her anyway. You've got a kid, you and that kid come before others imo and there's nothing wrong with that. Basically just straight forward ask her if she'd be interested in a date sometime. Tbh it's not a big deal to most normal people if they don't want a date, it's a simple "no thanks" and they'll either completely forget later or it'll stop being important so long as you're not major awkward about it. The fear of rejection is worse than actual rejection really. I avoided months of maybe having an awkward friendship with my flatmate because we had a one night and in the morning we talked about it because I actually liked her a fair bit and while we were good friends, she was just horny and wasn't super interested in being romantically involved at the time because she still had some feelings from a past relationship to work through. We agree'd that with that in mind and the fact we were flatmates it probably wouldn't be wise to date and we remained just friends. Wasn't actually awkward for maybe more than a week max really. Then things went back to basically normal. Plus its not like you got any other way to ask her out or anything. Not like you're in class together or met at a bar. Her place of work is just as alright a place to discover a new relationship as any other really. the whole anti-workplace relationship thing is only really an issue if you work in the same place and it ends poorly. So long as you're both capable, mature adults about it there's no problem really.

[QUOTE=F.X Clampazzo;51895369]If she has a problem that you have a kid, then it's not worth being with her anyway. You've got a kid, you and that kid come before others imo and there's nothing wrong with that. Basically just straight forward ask her if she'd be interested in a date sometime. Tbh it's not a big deal to most normal people if they don't want a date, it's a simple "no thanks" and they'll either completely forget later or it'll stop being important so long as you're not major awkward about it. The fear of rejection is worse than actual rejection really. I avoided months of maybe having an awkward friendship with my flatmate because we had a one night and in the morning we talked about it because I actually liked her a fair bit and while we were good friends, she was just horny and wasn't super interested in being romantically involved at the time because she still had some feelings from a past relationship to work through. We agree'd that with that in mind and the fact we were flatmates it probably wouldn't be wise to date and we remained just friends. Wasn't actually awkward for maybe more than a week max really. Then things went back to basically normal. Plus its not like you got any other way to ask her out or anything. Not like you're in class together or met at a bar. Her place of work is just as alright a place to discover a new relationship as any other really. the whole anti-workplace relationship thing is only really an issue if you work in the same place and it ends poorly. So long as you're both capable, mature adults about it there's no problem really.[/QUOTE] Agreed.

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[QUOTE=Kierany9;51894661]My girlfriend just accidentally tore my frenulum, dear god why. I'd need less wipes to clean up a murder scene :downs:[/QUOTE] Ha! I was way smarter and tore mine off while masturbating while still living at my parents! Luckily I was in the shower, so I just kind of bled it out while panicking slightly. :v:

Could one of you tell me what that thing is so I don't have to google image it

[QUOTE=Loofiloo;51898021]Could one of you tell me what that thing is so I don't have to google image it[/QUOTE] The thin skin that connects the glans to the foreskin of your johnny Another one connects the tongue to your mouth but we ain't talking about that

[QUOTE=RenegadeCop;51899914]How does that happen?[/QUOTE] I have, uh, HAD a tight frenulum and at the climax my muscles tensed and I pulled back with the force of a thousand suns. ... YOU [I]WANTED[/I] TO KNOW!

[QUOTE=SgtTupelo;51901531]I have, uh, HAD a tight frenulum and at the climax my muscles tensed and I pulled back with the force of a thousand suns. ... YOU [I]WANTED[/I] TO KNOW![/QUOTE] what is it like now? is masturbation painful? is it looser that it was? is it scarred?

guys shut up my penis is retracting

[QUOTE=dcalde78;51902278]guys shut up my penis is retracting[/QUOTE] I have a void where mine used to be.

[QUOTE=Renderman;51902852]I have a void where mine used to be.[/QUOTE] Married eh?

[QUOTE=Zombinie;51902159]what is it like now? is masturbation painful? is it looser that it was? is it scarred?[/QUOTE] The ripped part looks a bit mutilated. Masturbation doesn't hurt. Back when it happened I didn't dare to touch my peepee for a few days, but it was all fine when I finally did. It was around 15 years ago, when I was 14-15. :v:

Have you ever, as a couple, seen another couple and thought you'd like to have sex with them? How does one go about doing such a thing? I'm guessing for various reasons to let the women talk to eachother?

[QUOTE=The Jack;51906032]Have you ever, as a couple, seen another couple and thought you'd like to have sex with them? How does one go about doing such a thing? I'm guessing for various reasons to let the women talk to eachother?[/QUOTE] Traditionally yes, the women decide because they are the sexual gatekeepers. What you are discussing is called [URL="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Swinging_(sexual_practice)"]Swinging[/URL] and there are communities dedicated to that sort of thing. It generally goes both ways however, so don't bother if you aren't comfortable having another man fuck your wife. [sp]you cuck[/sp]

[QUOTE=insane taco;51902898]Married eh?[/QUOTE] Used to be.

[QUOTE=The Jack;51906032]Have you ever, as a couple, seen another couple and thought you'd like to have sex with them? How does one go about doing such a thing? I'm guessing for various reasons to let the women talk to eachother?[/QUOTE] Apparently there's a couple at my college who will always ask the last person to leave their parties to join in on a threesome. So I guess you gotta find people like that.

[QUOTE=OvB;51907269]Apparently there's a couple at my college who will always ask the last person to leave their parties to join in on a threesome. So I guess you gotta find people like that.[/QUOTE] I imagine that those parties last forever since many people want to be the last one

[QUOTE=OvB;51907269]Apparently there's a couple at my college who will always ask the last person to leave their parties to join in on a threesome. So I guess you gotta find people like that.[/QUOTE] Why does this shit only happen in America the land of God? You degenerates!!! /s

Sounds hot. But then again, I've been offered to partake in a threesome on four different occasions, so I guess I'm a bit biased. :v: Reminds me that a friend's GF offered to invite home another girl for a threesome, and he turned it down.

i know myself and my girlfriend well enough to know there's no way in hell either of us would want/be okay with a threesome