Sex, Girlfriends and Shit VII: "Power Moves For High Quality Women"

[jammy job]

crosspost cuz I really don't know where I should post this

Right I've been feeling shit about this for ages now, idk what to do but I just need some advice, will keep this as short as possible.

Few months back I meet a girl at a party, we speak, I message her for some time after, and eventually we meet up. Had a great time, and we met up a good few times after that. Week or so before valentines day, we both agree to do a thing for that, it all goes well and we have a good time. After that, I started to get infrequent messages, and this has culminated in it being over a month since she's ever said anything. I've not sent anything in this time period since the last message I sent about a month ago never got read. I'm fine with the fact she doesn't want to see me or whatever, I just want to know why, but I just can't bring myself to message her, I just get the distinct impression she doesn't want to hear from me at all, I've just no idea what to do but I just want to know why all this happened.
It just happened so fast, literally at one point I was speaking to her friends and they were all telling me she really liked me, then I see her one time after that and suddenly she just stops speaking to me. The last message she sent me actually had her saying she'd be free in the evening for a drink if I had time while I was in the same city she was, annoyingly I couldn't, and since then I've just heard nothing. I messaged her that same day asking her if she wanted to meet up some other weekend, nothing, then a few days later I just asked how uni was going and to this day, it hasn't been read.

this is probs all jumbled but I just need to know what I should do. I really want to know why this all happened. As I said, after being basically ignored for this long, I'm not even sure I'd want to see her again after all this, but I just can't put this behind me unless I know why, but I just cant bring myself to message her, for some reason I feel like I'd just be some cunt who can't take a hint.

[Patrick]

dw everyone has been in that situation. you best learn quick to just move on or you'll be hung up on it for a long time and that does you no good.

[editline]10th April 2017[/editline]

the best thing you can do is find someone new, you'll forget all about them when you're infatuated with someone else

[E = MC Hammer]

[QUOTE=Ardosos;52079220]I'm in the mood to feel self conscious tonight, what's the actual average length of a boning session? I know what hollywood says and what pornos say, but what's like, what's a realistic length of time?[/QUOTE]

Like with foreplay or like actual time spent inside someone

Probably 30 with, 15-20 without

[waylander]

this is kind of a hardcore question but this is a sex thread so.... whats the best hiv test i can have at ~25 days? i know pcr is offered as a 10 day test, what about duo at that time frame iirc thats what the nhs offer so i wouldnt have to pay

personally im not that worried because i only gave unprotected anal and the risk is pretty [url=http://www.poz.com/pdfs/P04-14p53.risk_transmission.pdf]low[/url] but a women i was rawdogging as well is worried

[editline]9th April 2017[/editline]

dont bother with lectures i know it was stupid

[wasteyboi]

[QUOTE=E = MC Hammer;52079135]someone's been deathgripping[/QUOTE]

I've just urban dictionary'd that and I think you're right, I've got a classic case of the grips
going stop wanking so much, thanks gang

bonus bit of trivia, I just started listening to Death Grips, isn't it funny how the universe tells you these things

[waylander]

i think ill get a duo on friday, that makes it 28 days and from what i read with a negative duo at 28 days you dont need retesting at 3 months by the CDC guidelines

[wasteyboi]

snip merge

[E = MC Hammer]

[QUOTE=IAreLegend;52081673]I've just urban dictionary'd that and I think you're right, I've got a classic case of the grips
going stop wanking so much, thanks gang

bonus bit of trivia, I just started listening to Death Grips, isn't it funny how the universe tells you these things[/QUOTE]

you have a couple options, you can either jerk off less (if you don't jerk off for like 4-5 days before you bone down you're gonna erupt in like two minutes), you can change the way you jerk off so you're not death gripping as much (looser grip, slightly slower), or you can just find a girl who likes it REAL hard and fast and then pray you ahve the stamina to keep it up

[Seibitsu]

What you guys consider a "good gift" for a year anniversary? I mean, the thing is that the gift has some feeling to it and that but otherwise It can't be a shitty one to live up to expectations.

[Kirbyfactor]

[QUOTE=Seibitsu;52084805]What you guys consider a "good gift" for a year anniversary? I mean, the thing is that the gift has some feeling to it and that but otherwise It can't be a shitty one to live up to expectations.[/QUOTE]

Me and my girlfriend are gonna go to Antwerpen, which is supposed to be a beautiful city. Then we're gonna have dinner and spend the night in a hotel.

[Pickwickian]

[QUOTE=Seibitsu;52084805]What you guys consider a "good gift" for a year anniversary? I mean, the thing is that the gift has some feeling to it and that but otherwise It can't be a shitty one to live up to expectations.[/QUOTE]

I always value experiences over anything material.

[E = MC Hammer]

my anniversary gift to my girlfriend was that i'd take her to whatever store she wanted (without complaining at all) and get her whatever (within reason)

which she took as an opportunity to drag me through every perfumey pink store she could find, it was miserable

[dcalde78]

you madman

[E = MC Hammer]

i took her out to a nice breakfast and then we went straight to the mall, got hamburgers at the mall at lunch, and at like 6 she was like "alright let's go to the place that has what i want" which wasn't even CLOSE to the mall, it was like 30 minutes away, she knew exactly what she wanted and we were in and out in five minutes and then we got ramen and went home and watched a movie

she just took me to the mall to torment me and drag me through places, it was devious and i was so proud

[vlad]

I don't know where to ask this but this feels more appropriate. Any clue about when you can have sex after having had a endoscopic urethrotomy? I had one yesterday and the doctor I got didn't say anything about it.

[Monkey Pie]

[QUOTE=PredGD;52088836]I don't know where to ask this but this feels more appropriate. Any clue about when you can have sex after having had a endoscopic urethrotomy? I had one yesterday and the doctor I got didn't say anything about it.[/QUOTE]
A week, maybe two

[Crooky01]

[QUOTE=PredGD;52088836]endoscopic urethrotomy[/QUOTE]
I'm guessing I dont want to search that on google

[E = MC Hammer]

i dont know medical jargon very well but that sounds like they put a camera in your dickhole

[vlad]

Well, putting a camera in your dickhole is called a colonoscopy but yes they have to do that before performing the endoscopic urethrotomy anyway. It's pretty much entering the dick and using lasers / cutting tools to remove scarred tissue that blocks flow

[E = MC Hammer]

p sure thats putting it in your colon

[vlad]

[QUOTE=E = MC Hammer;52090418]p sure thats putting it in your colon[/QUOTE]

Oops, yes, meant cystoscopy :glare:

[XUZUL]

[QUOTE=RenegadeCop;52111205]I have just had one of the most eventful weeks of my life.

Last Saturday, my parents bought me a new car for graduation. Lincoln MKZ hybrid.

Tuesday, I go for my first real job interview, for the Tennessee State Audit Division Financial and Compliance Audit Team.

Thursday, I got a phone call officially receiving an employment offer. I'm going to accept and move to Nashville. From a town population of 300 to 600,000

Tonight, I got engaged.[/QUOTE]

alright stop bragging about your perfect life

[sp]congrats man, wish you the best[/sp]

[Kindlinho]

Meanwhile, I have no idea what I want or what I'm doing with my life...

[Bobie]

[QUOTE=RenegadeCop;52111205]I have just had one of the most eventful weeks of my life.

Last Saturday, my parents bought me a new car for graduation. Lincoln MKZ hybrid.

Tuesday, I go for my first real job interview, for the Tennessee State Audit Division Financial and Compliance Audit Team.

Thursday, I got a phone call officially receiving an employment offer. I'm going to accept and move to Nashville. From a town population of 300 to 600,000

Tonight, I got engaged.[/QUOTE]

fucking sweet dude

[J Paul]

I'm wondering how many potential relationships have passed me by because even though the girl found me interesting or attractive or mentally engaging, they've all also been able to instantly detect my complete lack of desire, motivation, goals, ambition, dreams, etc. I'm just existing and working because money is required and I don't necessarily want to kill myself. I just don't really want to do anything.

So how do I go about fixing me? I only ask here because I guess the eventual goal is attracting someone else, but I also know that the problem is me, not them.

I realized this recently from having broken up with my girlfriend with whom I was unhappy, but when confronted with "well what would you rather be doing instead?" And having absolutely no answer is frightening.

[J Paul]

Right, that's why I'm asking, what do I do with myself?

[Ruski]

[QUOTE=J Paul;52112355]Right, that's why I'm asking, what do I do with myself?[/QUOTE]

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But in all seriousness you should probably figure out the first babystep for you- as my mum says (and she's right) 'The less you do, the less you want to do'.

Kick off with a 20 min jog a day and soon enough you'll find yourself learning Russian because your company is deploying you there (actually happened to a friend of mine who didn't care, was beautiful to see).

[J Paul]

[QUOTE=Ruski v2.0;52112406][media]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=X7HmltUWXgs[/media]
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But in all seriousness you should probably figure out the first babystep for you- as my mum says (and she's right) 'The less you do, the less you want to do'.

Kick off with a 20 min jog a day and soon enough you'll find yourself learning Russian because your company is deploying you there (actually happened to a friend of mine who didn't care, was beautiful to see).[/QUOTE]

Thanks man. Maybe after I'm not depressed anymore, one of those paths will sound appealing. Your mom's bit is the best. The picture I'm kinda whatever on because my lack of desire and motivation already puts me in the Monastic or Zen Buddhism category but I remain entirely unfulfilled. So yeah your mom's strategy is better.

[tinhead50]

[QUOTE=Ruski v2.0;52112406]

But in all seriousness you should probably figure out the first babystep for you- as my mum says (and she's right) 'The less you do, the less you want to do'.

Kick off with a 20 min jog a day and soon enough you'll find yourself learning Russian because your company is deploying you there (actually happened to a friend of mine who didn't care, was beautiful to see).[/QUOTE]

This helped me out too! Thanks.

[E = MC Hammer]

[QUOTE=RenegadeCop;52111205]I have just had one of the most eventful weeks of my life.

Last Saturday, my parents bought me a new car for graduation. Lincoln MKZ hybrid.

Tuesday, I go for my first real job interview, for the Tennessee State Audit Division Financial and Compliance Audit Team.

Thursday, I got a phone call officially receiving an employment offer. I'm going to accept and move to Nashville. From a town population of 300 to 600,000

Tonight, I got engaged.[/QUOTE]

yesterday i made pasta and only burned a little of it