Sex, Girlfriends and Shit VII: "Power Moves For High Quality Women" - General

Man why is everyone a whore I'm not even kidding when I say 90% of the girls in my city only care about sucking dick and smoking cigs with their dicksucking smoker friends. But what about the 10%, right? Nice caring girls, hello there my name i- oh you have a boyfriend, well how about y- ok you too. Guess I'll just go bend my dick backwards and shove it up my bum then. Haha whoops had my hopes up there for a second, 1 hour "relationship" where we break up for some bullshit reason she made up. Seemed genuinely nice though. 1 week later, whoops my mistake you're a lying dicksucking smoker and the fact that she still doesn't know I know she lied after she's been exposed multiple times, well... Fuck this whole ordeal, what a waste of my time. Probably shouldn't have fucked up that LDR with the really cute but depressed girl from the neighbouring city. :frown: But LG, life's good otherwise, I guess.

[QUOTE=ManFlakes;52319946]Man why is everyone a whore I'm not even kidding when I say 90% of the girls in my city only care about sucking dick and smoking cigs with their dicksucking smoker friends. But what about the 10%, right? Nice caring girls, hello there my name i- oh you have a boyfriend, well how about y- ok you too. Guess I'll just go bend my dick backwards and shove it up my bum then. Haha whoops had my hopes up there for a second, 1 hour "relationship" where we break up for some bullshit reason she made up. Seemed genuinely nice though. 1 week later, whoops my mistake you're a lying dicksucking smoker and the fact that she still doesn't know I know she lied after she's been exposed multiple times, well... Fuck this whole ordeal, what a waste of my time. Probably shouldn't have fucked up that LDR with the really cute but depressed girl from the neighbouring city. :frown: But LG, life's good otherwise, I guess.[/QUOTE] Going purely off of this post maybe they don't want to be with you because you're a dick?

[QUOTE=UzumakaiPatch;52320025]Going purely off of this post maybe they don't want to be with you because you're a dick?[/QUOTE] Maybe he is in a bad mood after a series of bad experiences and is venting here? One post =/= day to day behavior

[QUOTE=Zombinie;52320038]Maybe he is in a bad mood after a series of bad experiences and is venting here? One post =/= day to day behavior[/QUOTE] Forgive me for not giving everyone who opens up with 'Why is everyone a whore' the benefit of the doubt.

[QUOTE=Zombinie;52320038]Maybe he is in a bad mood after a series of bad experiences and is venting here? One post =/= day to day behavior[/QUOTE] Yeah that may be the case, but he seems to hold a lot of resentment and is generalizing an entire city based off of his experiences. The city is a big place, you're not mixing with the right people. He's sounding like he's 15 and angry at the world because girls won't instantly fuck his brains out despite the fact he's a ~nice guy~ [B]Guess I'll just go bend my dick backwards and shove it up my bum then [/B]<-- if this isn't textbook entitlement issues, I dunno what is. She doesn't wanna fuck you so you'll just have to fuck yourself?

[QUOTE=The Dovahneer;52319578]im 15 going on 16 next month and (almost) a complete virgin+never actually had a gf and i feel like im missing out is this normal[/QUOTE]Yep, don't worry about it until you approach wizard territory like me :v

[QUOTE=The Dovahneer;52319699]its not that i feel bad i just feel the need to go out and either find a gf or get laid[/QUOTE] dude don't sweat it. It'll happen when it happens. And when it does you're gunna bust within 10 seconds feeling awkward while the girl lays there like :disgust: gl hf

[QUOTE=mollow;52320296]dude don't sweat it. It'll happen when it happens. And when it does you're gunna bust within 10 seconds feeling awkward while the girl lays there like :disgust: gl hf[/QUOTE] Sad but true. Or a great memory if she don't care 'cause it's your first time and laugh with you about it. Anyway, maybe it's just me but I tend to think being a little older will increase both partners' self-confidence, and being in a long term relationship may, as well, provide a deeper experience (not playing on words) for both of you.

[QUOTE=ManFlakes;52319946]Man why is everyone a whore I'm not even kidding when I say 90% of the girls in my city only care about sucking dick and smoking cigs with their dicksucking smoker friends. But what about the 10%, right? Nice caring girls, hello there my name i- oh you have a boyfriend, well how about y- ok you too. Guess I'll just go bend my dick backwards and shove it up my bum then. Haha whoops had my hopes up there for a second, 1 hour "relationship" where we break up for some bullshit reason she made up. Seemed genuinely nice though. 1 week later, whoops my mistake you're a lying dicksucking smoker and the fact that she still doesn't know I know she lied after she's been exposed multiple times, well... Fuck this whole ordeal, what a waste of my time. Probably shouldn't have fucked up that LDR with the really cute but depressed girl from the neighbouring city. :frown: But LG, life's good otherwise, I guess.[/QUOTE] i've read your comment history just now and you don't seem like a particularly happy or pleasant person i'm going to say this as nicely as possible but honestly it seems feasible is it possible that you're gay? i know you're from bulgaria (i assume, based on your flag) and i know bulgaria isn't real big on gays and ive seen that your mom is clearly not fans of them but i'm picking up signs that you might be

[QUOTE=E = MC Hammer;52320623]i'm picking up signs that you might be[/QUOTE] in order to avoid this sounding like a flame, you might want to cite some examples

[QUOTE=Zombinie;52320038]Maybe he is in a bad mood after a series of bad experiences and is venting here? One post =/= day to day behavior[/QUOTE] That does not make a post like that acceptable, manflakes post was just rude about people

Yeah it was a dumb post. Gotta grow up before trying to get into a relationship if you're gonna see everyone as "whores" after a handful of rejections.

Personally i'm looking to up my whore-game but that's just me

[QUOTE=Pascall;52321304]Yeah it was a dumb post. Gotta grow up before trying to get into a relationship if you're gonna see everyone as "whores" after a handful of rejections.[/QUOTE] Not just whores, they're the dicksucking, smoking variety of whore. He seemed very keen on hammering that point home. An evolved lifeform of whore that is stronger and more resilient to male advances than a typical run-of-the-mill whore.

One of those things isn't all that bad now is it? I don't like smokers either, but I could get over it if they are otherwise a great person.

It's a post on an Internet forum, not his life story Give him the benefit of the doubt till he posts more of the same, then start worrying

It's still a bad post. A mature person can express general frustration but calling people "dick sucking whores" is a large red flag for someone who isn't fantastic at channeling that frustration into self reflection. There might be a reason he's being rejected. But if he's content with seeing the problem with everyone else instead of himself, he ain't gonna get anywhere.

You're getting philosophical on a single stupid internet post Sure, what he said it's stupid. But It's better to let it out in a safe space rather than trying to bottle it up because it will later explode and he might just start actually believing in that

It's not philosophical, it's common sense. If I get rejected by someone, I'm gonna be upset, but calling someone a whore isn't gonna even cross my mind because I'm not a 15 year old high schooler. Which, maybe he is! In which case, he just needs to grow up a little bit. Either way, there's constructive venting and there's being silly. His was the latter. I'm not saying he's a horrible person, I'm just saying the post was dumb.

no he's totally well adjusted [QUOTE=ManFlakes;49759133]Broke up with my GF last week because she's a 24/7 depressed bitch and doesn't appreciate my compliments at all. "No, I'm not pretty! You just say that to cheer me up." "You wouldn't care if I died today." etc etc Like seriously fuck off, if I didn't mean these things, I wouldn't have been saying them. If my next GF is like this I may as well become gay. Now I'm just sitting here feeling empty. :suicide:[/QUOTE] (not kinkshaming but he did post it) [QUOTE=ManFlakes;50495889]I have a rape fetish, but I would never ever rape someone irl. TBH, even the thought of doing it disgusts me.[/QUOTE] [QUOTE=ManFlakes;51558335]Found out a girl in my class likes me, I make up a plan to surprise her and kiss her and stuff. Everything went great, just top notch stuff I was really fucking happy. Go home because it was late and cold outside. 1 minute later "Sorry *my name*, but we can't be together my parents are threatening me and if they found out about this they would literally kill me, I'm sorry, I still like you though we can still be friends right?" "Haha sure no problem it's fine " Naturally I ask my best friend who knows more about her than me what the fuck is going on. "oh well ya see she apparently did some stupid shit with some fag last summer and she's apparently still in some kind of contact with him and she might not be a virgin and that guy is threatening her or whatever ya just leave her" im so sick off all these fucking dramas i keep being pulled into i was extremely fucking happy about this since she was my first not long-distance relationship gf, but like every other time i get happy my luck just decides to shit all over everything. :suicide:[/QUOTE] honestly he just sounds like he's had a slew of bad luck but taking it out that way isn't healthy

I understand defending him because it's somewhat a one-off post and from a place of anger- But I think all these people who post '90% of girls near me are dicksucking whores' and similar things on giving up on women because they're all crazy/slutty/cheaters/taken (which I know the majority of this forum doesn't believe but it DOES get said a lot) - I think they forget that there are women on the forum reading their god damn posts and rightly being a bit miffed. It's like, ooh, what am I going to be today? And then the women on this thread go ahead and give stellar advice anyway. I just wonder if you'd see it differently if people regularly came on to vent by saying ALL MEN are lying shitbags, or whatever.

I will say, I used to and still often do speak in a way that is very exaggerated. I try not to not do it so much now, but it's just a bad habit. I don't think any of us thought he was 100% serious, he's just in a bad spot.

Had a nightmare last night about my time back in school. It's not like that's something I can't cope with but after I went back to sleep again I had a dream of my ex lying next to me in my bed and then I wake up, of course, alone, feeling not only lonely as fuck but I also notice a few seconds later that I'm going to be two hours late for work and honestly what the fuck is this shit.

I apologize for my previous post, I just had to vent somewhere. This happens every time I post, I do it and then after re-reading it about 10 times I regret everything I said. It's just that all of my experiences have been shit and they've made me form this shitty opinion. The part about everyone being whores is wrong, my best friend is a wonderful person and I wish I had someone like her. And I've talked with some really nice girls from around here before. Couple all bad experiences with my family arguing all the time around me and I just have to let all my emotions out. I'm sorry.

[QUOTE=SebiWarrior;52319461]I don't see another way honestly Whenever we were together I would eventually feel upset that the great moments we had, the nice dynamic between us couldn't become romantic I wasn't shy about it, we even talked about it and luckily she was straight up with me about how she didn't feel that for me I don't see how being her friend could work, I know it wouldn't. It's a very hard decision to make fortunately school ends in two days and then I can never ever see her again. guess its for the best[/QUOTE] after talking some more she told me that she thinks the way I acted was parasitic now that made the decision fucking easy to make :v:

[QUOTE=SebiWarrior;52322832]after talking some more she told me that she thinks the way I acted was parasitic now that made the decision fucking easy to make :v:[/QUOTE] Well your choice between never talking to her again or just keeping some distance. I would choose the second option but your heart, your choice

[QUOTE=Eirheinger;52322865]Well your choice between never talking to her again or just keeping some distance. I would choose the second option but your heart, your choice[/QUOTE] I'm not going to fucking be your friend when you believe I am being a parasite it means you've never ever fucking cared if that's what you believe and I deserve better than to be treated like this and to make matters worse, I can't tell my mother anything: I told her that I had this falling out and she said that I couldn't afford this distraction, I couldn't afford to calm down and relax after this because I have to take my maturity exam in two weeks I think she forgets I'm only 19 and not a fucking soldier

[QUOTE=SebiWarrior;52322902]I'm not going to fucking be your friend when you believe I am being a parasite it means you've never ever fucking cared if that's what you believe and I deserve better than to be treated like this and to make matters worse, I can't tell my mother anything: I told her that I had this falling out and she said that I couldn't afford this distraction, I couldn't afford to calm down and relax after this because I have to take my maturity exam in two weeks I think she forgets I'm only 19 and not a fucking soldier[/QUOTE] 1. What's a maturity exam ? 2. Well maybe you were a parasite (and I'm not saying that you definitly were), in which case she didn't need to tell you with such rudeness. In both cases, I think the best thing to do is forget about her and move on man

[QUOTE=Eirheinger;52322925]1. What's a maturity exam ? [/QUOTE] high school diploma i'm pretty sure. [QUOTE=SebiWarrior;52322902] I think she forgets I'm only 19 and not a fucking soldier[/QUOTE] No offence but if you're going to pull this card you might want to not act like a screaming baby when a girl isn't interested in you romantically. This shit happens all the time to people and you've gotta move the hell on fast. Enough with that "deserve to be treated better" crap.

[QUOTE=Eirheinger;52322925]1. What's a maturity exam ? 2. Well maybe you were a parasite (and I'm not saying that you definitly were), in which case she didn't need to tell you with such rudeness. In both cases, I think the best thing to do is forget about her and move on man[/QUOTE] [URL="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Matura#Maturit.C3.A0_in_Italy"]The final secondary school exam you take in Italy[/URL] [editline]7th June 2017[/editline] [QUOTE=mollow;52323027]high school diploma i'm pretty sure. No offence but if you're going to pull this card you might want to not act like a screaming baby when a girl isn't interested in you romantically. This shit happens all the time to people and you've gotta move the hell on fast. Enough with that "deserve to be treated better" crap.[/QUOTE] I get it, but I don't think having a mother that isn't interested in your life other than your grades is something nice