Sex, Girlfriends and Shit VII: "Power Moves For High Quality Women" - General

If she's swollen she's probably swollen mate. No one wants sex when shit's irritable and weeping. Perhaps try to focus on doing stuff with her that isn't sexual.

[QUOTE=UzumakaiPatch;52459904]If she's swollen she's probably swollen mate. No one wants sex when shit's irritable and weeping. Perhaps try to focus on doing stuff with her that isn't sexual.[/QUOTE] I do focus on other things. We enjoy cooking together and going outdoors etc. Sex is the last thing on the list. Its the fact I feel she has cheated/cheating because she was swollen from the concert the night before (which I found out she did a bunch of molly, acid and possibly coke) and ever since then, she has been distant and not wanting to really even hang out and has been extremely absorbed in her phone and very secretive. Again. I respect the friends and alone time and if she is hurting or something, I give her the attention she wants/asks for. I dont really overstep my boundaries, but since that concert, she has been completely different and it worries me.

That was fun Somehow I managed to make my gf orgasm twice in about 90 seconds She was baffled and said that's never happened before

I'm thinking of cutting off my girlfriend. :frown: But I don't know if I can manage going through life left handed.

I got invited by my friends to follow them to their summer cabin and i said yes but it turned out one of the girls told my friend to ask me if i wanted to come along so basically they invited me on her behalf. Anyway i knew this girl liked me from before and i liked her back so while at the cabin we ended up sleeping together and everything was fine and we had fun together. So now for the past couple of days i felt like she was trying to avoid me but i was not sure so i asked her best friend who also came along to the cabin and she told me that her ex contacted her at the same time we were driving back home and she thinks she wants to get back with him. Note that she told me this because my friend told her to talk to me personally and if she did not and i came asking she would tell me how things is. I hate when this kind of stuff happens, i mean. She wanted me to come along so she can get to know me and everything went perfect but in the end she threw everything away.

Yesterday at the disco I accidentally hit some chick's drink out of her hand :v: After I bought her another drink she kissed me on the neck And then her bf told me she was off limits so I stopped giving her attention :v:

Few days ago a girl asked me to take her home while other people of our group were getting hamburgers, I took this as a pretty big hint HOWEVER, I'll never find out because my friend decided to come along and cockblock me

There should be a requirement for full body pictures from within a year to be on dating sites. Jesus

Anyone on here stayed with a cheater? It was a one time thing. Everyone I know says that if I respect myself I won't go back. I don't think that advice is right for me. Any new ways to think about this would be appreciated. Just curious who's been there

[QUOTE=so;52480770]Anyone on here stayed with a cheater? It was a one time thing. Everyone I know says that if I respect myself I won't go back. I don't think that advice is right for me. Any new ways to think about this would be appreciated. Just curious who's been there[/QUOTE] Leave her. It's not about whether it's right for you or not to stay. Once someone has cheated on you, there's nothing stopping them from doing it again.

[QUOTE=Spetsnaz95;52480795]Leave her. It's not about whether it's right for you or not to stay. Once someone has cheated on you, there's nothing stepping them from doing it again.[/QUOTE] There's nothing stopping someone from cheating the first time though.

[QUOTE=UzumakaiPatch;52481317]There's nothing stopping someone from cheating the first time though.[/QUOTE] There's the difference wherein if you let it slide the first time your average shitty person will assume they can get away with it in future

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[QUOTE=so;52480770]Anyone on here stayed with a cheater? It was a one time thing. Everyone I know says that if I respect myself I won't go back. I don't think that advice is right for me. Any new ways to think about this would be appreciated. Just curious who's been there[/QUOTE] Not really many ways to look at this - at least in my opinion. The way I see it, if things are otherwise good and there is clearly remorse/regret and desire to improve (and it really is the first time), then go for it provided: - You are [I]actually able to move past[/I] what happened (these things can easily build negative feelings over time) - You are [I]actually able to stand up for yourself[/I] if the issue comes up in the future (whether that means being able to discuss being uncomfortable with flirty behavior, or cutting things off completely if something happens again) In my experience, I've only met one couple that ultimately survived despite a cheating issue. It wasn't easy, but they've since become a really loving family. In many cases though, it's waaayyy more heartache than it/the person are worth. Go with your gut but take care of yourself.

[QUOTE=E = MC Hammer;52467116]That was fun Somehow I managed to make my gf orgasm twice in about 90 seconds She was baffled and said that's never happened before[/QUOTE] so you just gonna make the rest of us feel bad huh

sorry that was a typo, i meant she's never had an orgasm or known the touch of another person

[QUOTE=E = MC Hammer;52482118]sorry that was a typo, i meant she's never had an orgasm or known the touch of another person[/QUOTE] So she's a facepuncher?

[QUOTE=Yuskolov123;52482153]So she's a facepuncher?[/QUOTE] the first was an orgasm, the second was her changing her gasmask's filter

she's an incel and im a chad

[QUOTE=so;52480770]Anyone on here stayed with a cheater? It was a one time thing. Everyone I know says that if I respect myself I won't go back. I don't think that advice is right for me. Any new ways to think about this would be appreciated. Just curious who's been there[/QUOTE] Are you fucking kidding me? Drop that bitch.

[QUOTE=so;52480770]Anyone on here stayed with a cheater? It was a one time thing. Everyone I know says that if I respect myself I won't go back. I don't think that advice is right for me. Any new ways to think about this would be appreciated. Just curious who's been there[/QUOTE] Think about it like this, him/her cheating wasn't a mistake. They made the choice to talk to that other person, made the choice to meet up with them, possibly have drinks with them, go home with them/take them home, take off their clothes, and have sex with them. All while knowing that they are in a relationship with you. I've been there, and for me it was the biggest breach of trust I've felt

[QUOTE=Kirbyfactor;52484745]Think about it like this, him/her cheating wasn't a mistake. They made the choice to talk to that other person, made the choice to meet up with them, possibly have drinks with them, go home with them/take them home, take off their clothes, and have sex with them. All while knowing that they are in a relationship with you. I've been there, and for me it was the biggest breach of trust I've felt[/QUOTE] A lapse in judgement is a mistake. In regards to So did you find out yourself or were you told by them? That could be a pretty big indicator of how trusting you can be.

[QUOTE=UzumakaiPatch;52484784]A lapse in judgement is a mistake. In regards to So did you find out yourself or were you told by them? That could be a pretty big indicator of how trusting you can be.[/QUOTE] it takes two people to cheat doesn't matter how hot the other person is, if there's not a pre-existing relationship boundary that allows for it, you make the decision to go behind your significant other's back

Weird problem, but I lost my v to a girl last night, but I'm really fucking worried since I couldn't feel a thing when fucking her. She was licking my dick, fucking me and all that and honestly I could barely feel anything she was doing. It wasn't as if she was bad at it, she seemed to know what she was doing and everything she did seemed like the kind of stuff that should feel great, but I honestly just couldn't feel much at all from it. I'm actually like kind of freaking out that it might be nerve damage or something. Anyone else ever had this problem?

[QUOTE=carcarcargo;52488434]Weird problem, but I lost my v to a girl last night, but I'm really fucking worried since I couldn't feel a thing when fucking her. She was licking my dick, fucking me and all that and honestly I could barely feel anything she was doing. It wasn't as if she was bad at it, she seemed to know what she was doing and everything she did seemed like the kind of stuff that should feel great, but I honestly just couldn't feel much at all from it. I'm actually like kind of freaking out that it might be nerve damage or something. Anyone else ever had this problem?[/QUOTE] basically stop masturbating as much

that's a combo of death grip and probably nervousness, the fact that you got it up at all is fairly impressive, all things considered

[QUOTE=E = MC Hammer;52489306]that's a combo of death grip and probably nervousness, the fact that you got it up at all is fairly impressive, all things considered[/QUOTE] Well it was difficult to get it up, but then I sort of expected that. I was more worried about the lack of sensation really.

jerk off less and don't grip so hard [editline]20th July 2017[/editline] also i hope you were using a condom in which case that's also generally a decrease in sensitivity, but you get used to it not feeling as much is kinda good actually, you can last longer

A sensitive penis is the worst.

[QUOTE=UzumakaiPatch;52491776]A sensitive penis is the worst.[/QUOTE] I think that I have a really sensitive one, I mean just being barely touch is like OMGFHEJEVROQJRIBFBE basically. Does anyone has an idea of how to get rid of the 'problem' ? Of course I expect first answers to be "jerk off less often" ? I don't know if it really change something actually (not a lot of experience though)