Sex, Girlfriends and Shit VII: "Power Moves For High Quality Women" - General

I spoke to this girl for three months without meeting her once due to the fact we met on Tinder and there was various things she had to do like go off to LA for a month and shit. She continued to lead me on and anytime I asked to hang out with her something came up that stopped it from happening. I knew all along that she was leaving for new york on the 21st and that she was going off to college. She waited until the last week to tell me that she would be leaving, and that we would never meet. Over the course of the time I talked to this girl, who by the way was seriously just absolutely gorgeous... like a genuine 11/10. She just told me so much stuff that you don't tell any other person. She told me she wanted to date. She told me we could get this long distance relationship stuff to work with her going off to college in NY and all that. Turns out it must have all just been a lie. She's gone, and now I think about her all the time. I'm so heartbroken. I dedicated three of my months to a person I never even met and all the while this person was someone who made me feel ways I never felt from another human. I can't even type this post without wanting to break down and cry. She got me hip to so much new music and now anytime I listen to a song she's sent me I just want to shut it off. It hurts so much. Why must humans be so hurtful to those they said they cared about.

[QUOTE=SuperDuprKyle;52602273]I spoke to this girl for three months without meeting her once due to the fact we met on Tinder and there was various things she had to do like go off to LA for a month and shit. She continued to lead me on and anytime I asked to hang out with her something came up that stopped it from happening. I knew all along that she was leaving for new york on the 21st and that she was going off to college. She waited until the last week to tell me that she would be leaving, and that we would never meet. Over the course of the time I talked to this girl, who by the way was seriously just absolutely gorgeous... like a genuine 11/10. She just told me so much stuff that you don't tell any other person. She told me she wanted to date. She told me we could get this long distance relationship stuff to work with her going off to college in NY and all that. Turns out it must have all just been a lie. She's gone, and now I think about her all the time. I'm so heartbroken. I dedicated three of my months to a person I never even met and all the while this person was someone who made me feel ways I never felt from another human. I can't even type this post without wanting to break down and cry. She got me hip to so much new music and now anytime I listen to a song she's sent me I just want to shut it off. It hurts so much. Why must humans be so hurtful to those they said they cared about.[/QUOTE] It was a dude anyways, you're good

[QUOTE=PollytheParrot;52602336]It was a dude anyways, you're good[/QUOTE] it wasn't that's why it hurts so much (we facetimed, and she sent me numerous nudes)

i'm definitely not telling you to share them but if she was 11/10 like you say...

[QUOTE=E = MC Hammer;52602485]i'm definitely not telling you to share them but if she was 11/10 like you say...[/QUOTE] let your mind run free -snip ill just message you-

oh shit that worked? [editline]22nd August 2017[/editline] LOL

hey where are the nudes i know you saved them

[QUOTE=E = MC Hammer;52602571]oh shit that worked? [editline]22nd August 2017[/editline] LOL[/QUOTE] well i didn't post her nudes lol. i never will, sorry. i just posted a pic of her

damn

she is beautiful though.. huh. :c gonna go slam my head into a wall eight thousand times now

i wanted to slam my dick eight thousand times and now i can't [editline]22nd August 2017[/editline] I mean i can but it's not the same also im sorry for your loss

Yo how 'bout ya'll don't go sharing people's pics of them without permission thanks. Like wtf.

I've experienced mini versions of that several times, as in feeling fragments of a connection being left behind. From both girls I met in person, and girls that it took an online connection before meeting, or in some cases never meeting. Most of the time I would just get slightly frustrated, scratching my head wondering why a seemingly solid connection didn't progress more. But at the same time I could take it as "short term dating", as I would often still get something from it. A couple good band/artist recommendations, a new park or restaurant to visit, or maybe an interesting personal story. Sucks to hear that it's making you sad, but maybe you should just take it as an opportunity to grow. You can find another 11/10 girl that is actually available and not 500-3,000 miles away. Take all the good all the good memories from those three month and store them. Think simply about what made this girl your type and use those notes to tweak your personal filters more so that you can find more and better matches.

[QUOTE=Rhenae;52602798]Yo how 'bout ya'll don't go sharing people's pics of them without permission thanks. Like wtf.[/QUOTE] A single picture of someone who will never know because I didn't even put it out to the public, I simply pm'd it to a single person on a forum on the internet. But even then I do agree with you, I shouldn't have. And thank you NO ONE. I can take a lot of things from it. And I did get a lot of new music from it. Sucks that music seems to be such a strong indicator of time and history though. Ugh I am gonna stop talking about it now. Thx bros.

So far the fallout to my breakup could have been worse, I do still think about it sometimes, and my self-esteem has been going up and down like a yoyo, but I feel I'm slowly moving on. The worst thing is I dream about her almost every night, I really could do without feeling like shit every time I wake up. I hope I won't relapse when I go take my stuff at her place.