Sex, Girlfriends and Shit VII: "Power Moves For High Quality Women" - General

[QUOTE=Zukriuchen;49658387]i find that sucker punching random passerbys gives me the same effect[/QUOTE] [IMG]https://facepunch.com/image.php?u=241731&dateline=1446879566[/IMG] That's like your face after breaking some teeth.

[QUOTE=S31-Syntax;49658705]Vday on the 14th, GF's bday on the 18th, then my bday march 24th, then best friend's bday 28th. Good thing I get paid weekly. I'm getting her a Mosin Nagant. She's already a super history buff with an interest in firearms, and she got a serious boner for the nugget playing sniper elite. Then I told her they were reasonably cheap. The look on her face was was a combination of "gotta be responsible" and "I WANT NOW" Friends are chipping in a good amount though so its cool. Picking it up tonight.[/QUOTE] I wish my girlfriend liked my nugget. I made her shoot it once and she could barely hold it shouldered, barely pull the trigger, and her shoulder was sore for 4 days.

Thought I had moved on but saw her in a pic with some other guy and now I'm fucked up again I just don't get why she would start a relationship when her reason for giving up on ours was because we're leaving for different colleges soon. I suppose that was bull... I don't even know why I care, I know the relationship wasn't nearly as good as I pretend it was. I'm not gonna lie, after sparse conversations and even visiting her on new year's when she made an effort, I got my hopes up that something might change between us. I know, I broke like every break-up rule ever, I deserve this. In other news, I've had my eye on this girl in a couple of my classes who gives off a flirty vibe toward me and is pretty cute. I just can't really tell if she's interested because when I shoot her an occasional text she doesn't typically reply. idk I really need to be studying right now but I had to put this somewhere.

Send her a dick pic. Bitches love dick pics, especially unsolicited ones.

[QUOTE=Birdman101;49657863]I've never noticed being emotionally unstable one week of each month.[/QUOTE] Yep, that's my point... It's about the same for women. Also, like someone else said, the cycles for men are 90 minutes as well as annually. Nothing conclusive for monthly cycles in men.

Man I don't know, my emotions kinda handle like a freight-train. If it's going one way or the other, it takes an absolute shitton of positive or negative input to make a dent in the other direction. I'm basically stuck on the same emotion for a full day or two before any noticeable change happens. Certainly not what I'd call 'swingy'.

[QUOTE=Birdman101;49659710]I wish my girlfriend liked my nugget. I made her shoot it once and she could barely hold it shouldered, barely pull the trigger, and her shoulder was sore for 4 days.[/QUOTE] You're an asshole if you let someone fire a mosin if they can barely shoulder it. [QUOTE=dnqboy;49659820]Thought I had moved on but saw her in a pic with some other guy and now I'm fucked up again I just don't get why she would start a relationship when her reason for giving up on ours was because we're leaving for different colleges soon. I suppose that was bull... I don't even know why I care, I know the relationship wasn't nearly as good as I pretend it was. I'm not gonna lie, after sparse conversations and even visiting her on new year's when she made an effort, I got my hopes up that something might change between us. I know, I broke like every break-up rule ever, I deserve this. In other news, I've had my eye on this girl in a couple of my classes who gives off a flirty vibe toward me and is pretty cute. I just can't really tell if she's interested because when I shoot her an occasional text she doesn't typically reply. idk I really need to be studying right now but I had to put this somewhere.[/QUOTE] Whyd you look at a picture of her? Take her off your facebook and block her profile. Thats like the first thing you should do after a breakup.

[QUOTE=Guy Mannly;49660367]Yep, that's my point... It's about the same for women. Also, like someone else said, the cycles for men are 90 minutes as well as annually. Nothing conclusive for monthly cycles in men.[/QUOTE] There is also one related to abstinence I'm pretty sure. If you can hold off for one week you get a testosterone spike on the 7th day. [img]http://www.actaps.com.cn/paper/200206/article/2002-6-15/image003.jpg[/img] [url]http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/11760788?dopt=Abstract[/url]

My girlfriend makes me want to jump off of a fucking bridge

[QUOTE=Cyke Lon bee;49661032]You're an asshole if you let someone fire a mosin if they can barely shoulder it. [/QUOTE] Weeelllllll, it was more tha barely. She could shoulder it but she was taking her time aiming and her arm got tired pretty quick.

[QUOTE=RenegadeCop;49660500]Can confirm manly emotional unstableness. Sometimes I cry because I'm happy [I]for no reason[/I]. Only in private of course, since I'm not allowed to show emotion in public.[/QUOTE] I have cried of happiness several times in the past few months and it always scares the hell out of my boyfriend. I usually just tell him that [url=http://imgur.com/gallery/NuhsgPV]I just remembered swans can be gay.[/url]

[QUOTE=RenegadeCop;49660500]Can confirm manly emotional unstableness. Sometimes I cry because I'm happy [I]for no reason[/I]. Only in private of course, since I'm not allowed to show emotion in public.[/QUOTE] Wow. Same here. Sometimes l even cry to cheesy romance scenes. :cry:

i cried during batman

[QUOTE=Zukriuchen;49664519]i cried during batman[/QUOTE] I've cried at least once in every pokemon movie. There's like.. fifteen of them? [editline]3rd February 2016[/editline] [QUOTE=loopoo;49655257] yeah this is the same girl who told you she wouldn't sleep with you the next time you visited unless you brought 5000 euro along. oh maaaaaaan it makes me hurt to realise you're still in that relationship[/QUOTE] Jesus christ. You might as well spend your money on a luxury prostitute at that point. Or try to date someone who isn't trying to become an "import bride", and take them out on [I]fifty [/I]really good dates.

Well, it's been four months since my big break-up and yet I still keep thinking about my ex and making myself feel shitty despite having plenty of hobbies occupying my free-time. Back in December I felt like I had finally moved on, but it doesn't feel like that now.

[QUOTE=psychojake;49666201]Well, it's been four months since my big break-up and yet I still keep thinking about my ex and making myself feel shitty despite having plenty of hobbies occupying my free-time. Back in December I felt like I had finally moved on, but it doesn't feel like that now.[/QUOTE] Just gotta allow yourself to be a bit sad about it from time to time man. Nothing wrong with that. Give it more time.

[QUOTE=killerteacup;49666220]Just gotta allow yourself to be a bit sad about it from time to time man. Nothing wrong with that. Give it more time.[/QUOTE] Thanks, that's the plan. The little relationship(it was a rebound in hindsight) I had for the first few weeks of January I think helped me realize that a lot of feelings are still hanging around.

[QUOTE=killerteacup;49666220]Just gotta allow yourself to be a bit sad about it from time to time man. Nothing wrong with that. Give it more time.[/QUOTE] This is honestly great advice for this sorta situation. Went through a breakup with a girlfriend of almost 4 years in January, come August I was still seeing red (long story, but strong emotions still apply). Then, given a few more months, it faded suddenly. Just takes time, people leave lasting impressions and breakups are rarely easy.

[QUOTE=killerteacup;49666220]Just gotta allow yourself to be a bit sad about it from time to time man. Nothing wrong with that. Give it more time.[/QUOTE] Many counseling students at my university are focusing on the practice of mindfulness, which is essentially what you are describing. Its focus is on living in the moment and being fully aware of your self as well as your surroundings. It involves allowing yourself to fully acknowledge and feel your emotions, no matter how irrational they may seem, and recognizing that you can feel those emotions without them controlling your actions.

I got it from seeing a psychologist actually after a breakup - the girl who broke up with me did it really nicely and fairly and I found it incredibly hard to emotionally process because I didn't feel like I was justified in feeling sad or angry. The psychologist basically just told me that it was okay to be sad and angry, that you don't need to justify to anyone or even yourself whether or not you 'should' be over it or not. Since then every time I've felt sad over a break up I've just let myself feel whatever I feel. If I'm sad then okay, I'm sad. There's no point splitting hairs over it - I'm perfectly allowed to be sad. I think sometimes society and definitely people you meet put pressure on you to be constantly happy to the point where you feel like being sad, or angry, isn't allowed or is wrong in some way. So whenever I see someone say "man, It's been six months and I'm over her, but I still can't stand seeing her with someone and its tearing me apart" or "its been six months and I'm still not over it is something wrong with me? is she the one? did I screw up?" I just think man, you're allowed to be sad about this for a little while longer dude, don't rush your emotions. Just let it come naturally

So, one of the most fucked up things involving a woman happened to me the other day. My girlfriend and I, practically lived together. Loved being together, everything was great, completely an awesome relationship and I've never had anything like it. Seemed like the right person. Going to work one day, I work 24's, so I'm not around when I'm working obviously. Before I head to work, she comes and sees me, we hangout, no big deal. She tells me she loves me and leaves. 30 minutes later I get a snapchat from her and it's her getting fucked by her ex-boyfriend. I can't get that image out of my head and it's been like a week now. Obviously I halted all communication and ended it right there, but man it's fucking rough. I haven't had it this bad in my life. Sorry to mope on you guys, I just needed to vent that shit out, that's fucking rough on me. 30 minute difference between I love you and a kiss, and fucking your ex. Crazy man. Not sure what I did wrong. Honestly couldn't see myself dating for a very long time. And what's even more fucked up, I wasn't a dick or anything. I gave her everything. Random presents, bought her dinner at least 3 times a week, bought her anything she could've ever needed, took her wherever she wanted, helped her with anything..it's just a shame. And her ex abused the shit out of her. What's the point? It's just a shame man. I care about her. I don't want to see her get hurt by him physically or emotionally again. But..I can't get the images out of my head. It constantly gets me. Just that heart drop feeling, every time I think about her. It's fucked up, man. Fucked up.

What the fuck?

[QUOTE=Starce;49670538]So, one of the most fucked up things involving a woman happened to me the other day. My girlfriend and I, practically lived together. Loved being together, everything was great, completely an awesome relationship and I've never had anything like it. Seemed like the right person. Going to work one day, I work 24's, so I'm not around when I'm working obviously. Before I head to work, she comes and sees me, we hangout, no big deal. She tells me she loves me and leaves. 30 minutes later I get a snapchat from her and it's her getting fucked by her ex-boyfriend. I can't get that image out of my head and it's been like a week now. Obviously I halted all communication and ended it right there, but man it's fucking rough. I haven't had it this bad in my life. Sorry to mope on you guys, I just needed to vent that shit out, that's fucking rough on me. 30 minute difference between I love you and a kiss, and fucking your ex. Crazy man. Not sure what I did wrong. Honestly couldn't see myself dating for a very long time. And what's even more fucked up, I wasn't a dick or anything. I gave her everything. Random presents, bought her dinner at least 3 times a week, bought her anything she could've ever needed, took her wherever she wanted, helped her with anything..it's just a shame. And her ex abused the shit out of her. What's the point? It's just a shame man. I care about her. I don't want to see her get hurt by him physically or emotionally again. But..I can't get the images out of my head. It constantly gets me. Just that heart drop feeling, every time I think about her. It's fucked up, man. Fucked up.[/QUOTE] Thats just downright fuckin sadistic, man

Dude are you sure that she wasn't rapes or something? That sounds like an extremly twisted thing to do just because.

[QUOTE=Rainboo;49649295]got a horror story to share with you guys valentines is on the fourteenth, gf's bday is on april, and our anniversary is on the month after rest in peace wallet you've been good to me[/QUOTE] Girlfriend's Bday is 25th of December, our anniversary is 9th and then there's Valentine's Day... I know the feels.

This a bit of an off post from the usual but here goes: I've been seeing a girl for about a week, but we've connected DEEPLY in this short time. Yesterday on my way home from work i just had a really really really bad feeling come over me, as if something was wrong. Turns out no more than a few minutes later she texts me saying she just got in a car wreck. Any one else ever have this type of feeling and then it proved to be real with someone you really like/love and have connected with on a deep level?

[QUOTE=Starce;49670538]So, one of the most fucked up things involving a woman happened to me the other day. My girlfriend and I, practically lived together. Loved being together, everything was great, completely an awesome relationship and I've never had anything like it. Seemed like the right person. Going to work one day, I work 24's, so I'm not around when I'm working obviously. Before I head to work, she comes and sees me, we hangout, no big deal. She tells me she loves me and leaves. 30 minutes later I get a snapchat from her and it's her getting fucked by her ex-boyfriend. I can't get that image out of my head and it's been like a week now. Obviously I halted all communication and ended it right there, but man it's fucking rough. I haven't had it this bad in my life. Sorry to mope on you guys, I just needed to vent that shit out, that's fucking rough on me. 30 minute difference between I love you and a kiss, and fucking your ex. Crazy man. Not sure what I did wrong. Honestly couldn't see myself dating for a very long time. And what's even more fucked up, I wasn't a dick or anything. I gave her everything. Random presents, bought her dinner at least 3 times a week, bought her anything she could've ever needed, took her wherever she wanted, helped her with anything..it's just a shame. And her ex abused the shit out of her. What's the point? It's just a shame man. I care about her. I don't want to see her get hurt by him physically or emotionally again. But..I can't get the images out of my head. It constantly gets me. Just that heart drop feeling, every time I think about her. It's fucked up, man. Fucked up.[/QUOTE] Holy shit, and you think you've seen everything... Don't even know what to say. If that ever happened to me I don't know how I'd react. How long have you been together, and how long was it between her ex and you, if I may ask?

[QUOTE=Behemoth_PT;49672000]Holy shit, and you think you've seen everything... Don't even know what to say. If that ever happened to me I don't know how I'd react. How long have you been together, and how long was it between her ex and you, if I may ask?[/QUOTE] If that happened to me, I'd be devastated and probably get lifelong trust issues. I'm super grateful my first real relationship where I actually fell deeply in love was with a really sympathetic, caring and nurturing person who always tried her hardest to help me grow as a person and bring the best out in myself. Reading what that guy wrote tore at my heartstrings, I can't imagine how awful it must have felt, especially coming out of the blue like that. You think she was secretly feeling unwanted cause you were working 24 hour shifts? Damn...

[QUOTE=loopoo;49672309]You think she was secretly feeling unwanted cause you were working 24 hour shifts? Damn...[/QUOTE] Some people are just shitty. And it happened to be this guy's girlfriend. I wouldn't bother trying to rationalize the behavior of someone who would literally cuck their significant other. [editline]4th February 2016[/editline] The best option for the dude in this scenario is to channel the pain into self-improvement, in my opinion.

[QUOTE=loopoo;49672309]If that happened to me, I'd be devastated and probably get lifelong trust issues. I'm super grateful my first real relationship where I actually fell deeply in love was with a really sympathetic, caring and nurturing person who always tried her hardest to help me grow as a person and bring the best out in myself. Reading what that guy wrote tore at my heartstrings, I can't imagine how awful it must have felt, especially coming out of the blue like that. You think she was secretly feeling unwanted cause you were working 24 hour shifts? Damn...[/QUOTE] When my ex cheated on me, I was pretty much devastated, and the fact that she felt that it was justified by my behavior as some kind of punishment, enraged me even further. She told it to me via text message, which is basically her way of hurting other people's feelings without having to face them. Point is, when we got back together after that, it was a non issue, it stayed there in the back of my mind and I would feel very uncomfortable just to have it pop into my mind. I'm also super grateful about my first girlfriend. The first girl who I ever had something meaningful with, she had a lot of family problems and personal depression related issues that I couldn't handle back then. (But she always managed to save some time to make something special for me whenever she could. I'm still a big friend of hers, and I still like and respect her a lot today and want only the best for her. But now that I'm getting back out there, going out and stuff, I'm noticing a lot of trusting issues that I didn't have with people I meet. I've always been very slow at making friends. I'm a pretty talkative guy to the people who I'm really close with but I'm the complete opposite about people I don't know. I'm nice and all that, but I never open myself too much. It's like I'm probing weather I can trust this new person or not. And it's been way worse since I broke up with my ex. I think I might have inherited some trauma from it or something. However I usually think about it and been struggling to be more trusting towards people. So, maybe tomorrow I'll ask this girl I met on Tinder out.