Sex, Girlfriends and Shit VII: "Power Moves For High Quality Women" - General

[QUOTE=Riller;49755572]Don't you worry, you're not nearly that bad. Rejoice in that fact.[/QUOTE] Oh I am. It gives me a small sliver of hope for the future. I know I didn't completely slaughter this anyways, chances are (if she's still interested) we'll forget about this in a week or two.

[QUOTE=Riller;49755550]Well, if you're lucky, you can get to spend over $8.000 for her skanky best friend to pretend to be in a relationship with you? :v:[/QUOTE] wait what link

[QUOTE=NixNax123;49755253]To be patient and wait until she gets back. If weeks pass and nothing happens, then I'll give up hope. But I don't think I completely blew it yet.[/QUOTE] Go ahead and just give up hope now, that way if she messages you at some point itll surprise you and you wont be disappointed down the line. I use that outlook for everything and my life is great.

[QUOTE=Cyke Lon bee;49756591]Go ahead and just give up hope now, that way if she messages you at some point itll surprise you and you wont be disappointed down the line. I use that outlook for everything and my life is great.[/QUOTE] it's not really giving up hope per se, it's just living in the moment and going with the flow i had a big talk with myself a few minutes ago and i just told myself to chill because this really doesn't matter in the end whatsoever

[QUOTE=SebiWarrior;49755768]wait what link[/QUOTE] [URL="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Gw-ID3eMcEw"]If you got like, four hours.[/URL]

oh god this is so much worse as a video

[QUOTE=Cyke Lon bee;49756591]Go ahead and just give up hope now, that way if she messages you at some point itll surprise you and you wont be disappointed down the line. I use that outlook for everything and my life is great.[/QUOTE] idk if this is the best solution to life's problems

[QUOTE=killerteacup;49758620]idk if this is the best solution to life's problems[/QUOTE] lowering your standards for life works pretty well actually

so after literally a year of procrastination, ive booked an appointment in with a doctor going to get my ed and other shit sorted and also get a blood test for STI's and just general shit

[QUOTE=Riller;49758243][URL="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Gw-ID3eMcEw"]If you got like, four hours.[/URL][/QUOTE] [url=http://vgperson.tumblr.com/post/21674384403/help-im-not-sure-who-i-like-anymore-%CF%89]The saga of Denko ends on a fucking cliff hanger?[/url] Is this for real? [sp]A-ko: "If you say you want to date, then sure, we can date! ♥" Allegedly A-ko also sold her virginity to the OP for 350,000 yen with unprotected sex.[/sp] If this is real then holy fuck, I did not see this coming at all.

That's not the end of it, she got pregnant and he's the father.

[QUOTE=E = MC Hammer;49761024]That's not the end of it, she got pregnant and he's the father.[/QUOTE] Source? If that's true, holy shit poor kid

whoa where's that been hiding.

[QUOTE=killerteacup;49758620]idk if this is the best solution to life's problems[/QUOTE] Would you deny that you wouldn't be happier this way?

[QUOTE=Pat.Lithium;49739115][T]http://i.imgur.com/jdR3C5K.jpg[/t][/QUOTE] just an update on this, got my first match finally. shes 27 but shes banging hot

[QUOTE=Cyke Lon bee;49762050]Would you deny that you wouldn't be happier this way?[/QUOTE] Well I used to live that way a couple of years ago. The problem with expecting the worst outcome to every life situation in order to pleasantly surprise yourself is you end up blinding yourself to a lot of opportunities along the way that actually require a bit of effort to notice/achieve [editline]18th February 2016[/editline] And sure, maybe i was happier but the happiness i got was achieved by cutting my feelings away and tryin not to let myself get emotionally affected by stuff I cared about because that way i could avoid all the heartache and frustration

[QUOTE=NixNax123;49754438]Alright guys heres the breakdown of what went wrong: I had an entire week (last sunday through yesterday) where I had crippling anxiety that led me to make mistakes, including smothering her and not respecting her as an independent person. I realize I made these mistakes, and they are borne from my inexperience with mature relationships. I know I've learned from these mistakes and still want to pursue a relationship with her. I'll try to tell her this next time she gets back to me (no exceptions, I won't send ANYTHING, no snaps, calls, or texts), and see what happens. What do you guys think?[/QUOTE] [video=youtube;xP3N2NU8Lb0]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xP3N2NU8Lb0[/video] no really. let her go. move on. life follows.

I just spent two hours at work listening to the Denko thing and holy shit. Its like a slomo trainwreck. On loop.

Had a very [I]real[/I] experience yesterday. I was hanging out with my girlfriend at her house, her mom wasn't home and wouldn't be back around until four thirty. We were watching movies and we hear the garage door open at three o'clock. My girlfriend basically shoved me outside and told me to hide around the side of her house until we had to go to a band practice. I sat there for about an hour, one part stunned and one part bemused by the whole thing.

My girlfriend wants too go clubbing with another guy. She said he's an old friend but I'm not comfortable with it. What should I do? Is it reasonable that I'm uncomfortable?

[QUOTE=bs8814;49763639]My girlfriend wants too go clubbing with another guy. She said he's an old friend but I'm not comfortable with it. What should I do? Is it reasonable that I'm uncomfortable?[/QUOTE] Have faith and trust in her until you have a reason not to. And show her that! [editline]17th February 2016[/editline] [QUOTE=Metaru;49762598][video=youtube;xP3N2NU8Lb0]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xP3N2NU8Lb0[/video] no really. let her go. move on. life follows.[/QUOTE] yeah. you're right. sure, we had good times together, but what the fuck does that matter if she's gonna just blow me off like that? there are other people, other women, who i can connect with as well if not better than her, and i deserve someone better. plus i want to find someone that i don't have to drive 3 hours every other weekend to see. [editline]17th February 2016[/editline] like, i know this isn't over (because i assume she's not going to completely just pretend i don't exist, also hoodie), but i've moved on, and if she calls, cool. if she doesn't, fine.

[QUOTE=bs8814;49763639]My girlfriend wants too go clubbing with another guy. She said he's an old friend but I'm not comfortable with it. What should I do? Is it reasonable that I'm uncomfortable?[/QUOTE] Seems pretty reasonable if you've never met the dude. It's probably nothing but it's pretty normal to be concerned.

[QUOTE=bs8814;49763639]My girlfriend wants too go clubbing with another guy. She said he's an old friend but I'm not comfortable with it. What should I do? Is it reasonable that I'm uncomfortable?[/QUOTE] Man up and just tell her you're not comfortable with it. Ask her if you can tag along.

[QUOTE=bs8814;49763639]My girlfriend wants too go clubbing with another guy. She said he's an old friend but I'm not comfortable with it. What should I do? Is it reasonable that I'm uncomfortable?[/QUOTE] I have an old friend (well, old and old, 25) who visits me randomly from time to time by herself. Usually she just texts me something like "Are you home? I'M COMING IN!!!!" and *ring* goes the doorbell. She's like a super-model or something but she has a boyfriend so I don't even think about doing anything but the same things I do with my MANLY man-friends. I think that's probably why she likes hanging out with me, I'm not trying to stick my cock into her the second I see her (which is probably the norm to her with guys). Have a little faith, trust her. Being uncomfortable / jealous just means you care about her.

[QUOTE=bs8814;49763639]My girlfriend wants too go clubbing with another guy. She said he's an old friend but I'm not comfortable with it. What should I do? Is it reasonable that I'm uncomfortable?[/QUOTE] First, you don't do anything. I'm not sure why this is a question. Are you expecting us to say you should stop your girlfriend from seeing someone she's known longer than you because it makes you "uncomfortable"? You called him "another guy" in your first sentence and didn't even specify he was a friend until afterward... It really makes it seem like you view what sex he is as being more important than the fact that they're old friends. If the idea of your girlfriend spending time with male friends makes you uncomfortable, you need to recognize this is not her problem, it's a you-problem. Your girlfriend is an adult. She's spent most of her life without you mediating her social interactions. She has known this guy longer than she has known you. Also, she was forthcoming with you about wanting to go clubbing with her friend - I highly doubt she would have been as forward about it if she thought you had reason to be suspicious. It's okay to be jealous, it's a normal feeling. However, your feelings do not need to control your actions. You can feel jealous of your girlfriend's friend and not try to infringe on your girlfriend's freedom because of it.

[QUOTE=bs8814;49763639]My girlfriend wants too go clubbing with another guy. She said he's an old friend but I'm not comfortable with it. What should I do? Is it reasonable that I'm uncomfortable?[/QUOTE] Sarah, an old friend from high school who you had in your class contacts you and you have a good time talking. She says you should meet up and that there's a club that just opened up that she's been meaning to check out. You casually mention it to your girlfriend only to hear "It makes me really uncomfortable that you're going out with another girl". Is she being unreasonable in this scenario?

[QUOTE=bs8814;49763639]My girlfriend wants too go clubbing with another guy. She said he's an old friend but I'm not comfortable with it. What should I do? Is it reasonable that I'm uncomfortable?[/QUOTE] If you are uncomfortable then try to convince your girlfriend that you're not looking to send her away to meet with her old friend.

[QUOTE=Guy Mannly;49767269]It's okay to be jealous, it's a normal feeling. However, your feelings do not need to control your actions. You can feel jealous of your girlfriend's friend and not try to infringe on your girlfriend's freedom because of it.[/QUOTE] This should be on the OP

wow i'm getting tinder matches round the clock now. i don't know how to juggle this many conversations with girls i want to sleep with so i'm just letting them sit there for now.

She uh... blocked me on social media (except Snapchat and Tumblr) between the span of last night and this morning, apparently. Guess I was just too stuck in her mind :v: Do note I haven't even faxed her between the time I talked to you guys and today. I wonder why she did that just now if I didn't show any signs of pushing it.