Sex, Girlfriends and Shit VII: "Power Moves For High Quality Women" - General

I think the other huge problem besides being out of school for a few weeks is that I've been in a different province and don't have access to any of my distractions I'm on the train and fuck it's a long ride and this thread has been quite the read I want to go home and play vidya Is that new mad max game any good I've been wanting a cool post apocalyptic game and I don't love fallout 4

my girlfriend likes lanky, pale, pasty, slightly hairy nerd artist boiz that explAINS EVERYTHING

[QUOTE=Dick Slamfist;49442378]I don't know what to add beyond admitting my mistakes and apologizing for all of it and trying to move on I've been out of school, a majority of my friends are all gone for winter break I haven't been occupied so I haven't been distracting myself I'm sorry. I don't know what to say to help make this right for you guys other than that I'm completely aware I fucked everything for everyone out of selfishness [editline]2nd January 2016[/editline] I know it's a lot to ask but please, let's move on from this as a whole. I don't think there's anything new that can be said I behaved incredibly inappropriatsly.[/QUOTE] You're not an idiot. You just did what most people out there (and here) do. Not everyone can muster the balls to accept losing someone. Specially when you are emotionally sensitive with all those anxiety and panic problems. And it isn't something you just solve by going on therapy like snapping your fingers. It takes time, years of therapy sometimes to get rid of your own insecurities. Jeez you guys, calm the fuck down. It's easy to point out the flaws when you're not balls deep in all the emotional rollercoaster. That's why people post here. Because they can't handle their shit. Guy already contacted her, and feels terrible. No need to lecture him. [editline]3rd January 2016[/editline] Also if you need the books, try contacting her when you feel better, but JUST MENTION THE BOOKS. And when you go pick up the books, just go in and out. No chatting, no eye contact, no items, fox only, final destination.

[QUOTE=Behemoth_PT;49442840]You're not an idiot. You just did what most people out there (and here) do. Not everyone can muster the balls to accept losing someone. Specially when you are emotionally sensitive with all those anxiety and panic problems. And it isn't something you just solve by going on therapy like snapping your fingers. It takes time, years of therapy sometimes to get rid of your own insecurities. Jeez you guys, calm the fuck down. It's easy to point out the flaws when you're not balls deep in all the emotional rollercoaster. That's why people post here. Because they can't handle their shit. Guy already contacted her, and feels terrible. No need to lecture him. [editline]3rd January 2016[/editline] Also if you need the books, try contacting her when you feel better, but JUST MENTION THE BOOKS. And when you go pick up the books, just go in and out. No chatting, no eye contact, no items, fox only, final destination.[/QUOTE] no thats a terrible idea forget the fuckin books just get someone else to get them if its that desperate

Someone else pls have a dating question

i just farted and my girlfriend is mad because she can't be in the same room for the next 5 minutes what do i do

[QUOTE=killerteacup;49443110]i just farted and my girlfriend is mad because she can't be in the same room for the next 5 minutes what do i do[/QUOTE] Establish the room as a sovereign natjln

What do you guys think about friendships turning into relationships? I haven't had an actual relationship for a few years (just a ton of time fooling around with different girls) but by some miracle chance I went out with a friend I hadn't seen in quite some time, and we ended up in a relationship a few weeks later. I was oblivious as fuck that she had feelings for me. Really makes you think how many times you don't realize.

[QUOTE=i_speel_good;49443149]What do you guys think about friendships turning into relationships? [/QUOTE] I would give it a shot if I had friends I'd consider dating. It's a great foundation for a relationship seeing as you are already familiar with each other and probably have a number of things in common. That being said, I don't know how well you could, if at all, go back to being just friends if things were to go south.

best relationship of my life stemmed from a good long time friendship. havent seen her much since we broke up tho but its always fine when we cross paths

[QUOTE=killerteacup;49443110]i just farted and my girlfriend is mad because she can't be in the same room for the next 5 minutes what do i do[/QUOTE] Shes mad she can't compete. When I burp, my gf gets in my face... and burps back.

[QUOTE=i_speel_good;49443149]What do you guys think about friendships turning into relationships? I haven't had an actual relationship for a few years (just a ton of time fooling around with different girls) but by some miracle chance I went out with a friend I hadn't seen in quite some time, and we ended up in a relationship a few weeks later. I was oblivious as fuck that she had feelings for me. Really makes you think how many times you don't realize.[/QUOTE] I've had a relationship with a friend I grew up with. It ended up pretty short one, but It would be foolish to assume it was due to the fact that we were friends. So I'll just break it up to you about how it is from personal experience. It's good. I mean great. If the friendship was good, then prepare yourself for the ride of your life as a relationship because you'll get to know your "friend" a whole lot better. And that's what really special about it: The fact that you know yourselves so deeply. It will move on faster than normal relationships though, because you guys already know each other, so don't panic if you find yourselves in love pretty quick. [editline]3rd January 2016[/editline] [QUOTE=killerteacup;49443110]i just farted and my girlfriend is mad because she can't be in the same room for the next 5 minutes what do i do[/QUOTE] When you're sleeping with her, ask her to put her head under the blankets. Then fart under the blankets and wave them a little bit so the gas will rise. She will probably leave you if you do this. But it's hilarious. So save it for a special moment.

I can vouch for a good friend becoming a romantic partner. It was my first ~real~ relationship and it was great! While it didn't work out for me in the end due to distance reasons, it was still a wonderful relationship and I grew a lot because of it.

I've never made by GF cum because she's on anti-depressants.

In love with one ex and another I should never of got rid of wants me back. :goodjob:

[QUOTE=i_speel_good;49443149]What do you guys think about friendships turning into relationships? I haven't had an actual relationship for a few years (just a ton of time fooling around with different girls) but by some miracle chance I went out with a friend I hadn't seen in quite some time, and we ended up in a relationship a few weeks later. I was oblivious as fuck that she had feelings for me. Really makes you think how many times you don't realize.[/QUOTE] Works great for me, got my ex-best-friend sittin' six foot over, watching the Cleveland Show. ... Is watching The Cleveland Show a good breakup-reason?

[QUOTE=isreal?;49445690]I've never made by GF cum because she's on anti-depressants.[/QUOTE] My girlfriend used to be SSRIs and had this problem. She'd been taking the medication for as lo g as I'd been with her, but then it became a problem. So we'd been having great sex for a while and then she'd be unable to climax. It's tough for both and frustrating. I felt rubbish for not being able to make her orgasm, she felt rubbish about her body and because of how I felt about myself. It's easier once you both know the cause of it. Eventually she came off her medication and we were able to have really good sex again

[QUOTE=RenegadeCop;49446105]I make my girlfriend orgasmall twjce everytime we do sexual relations,does anyone else do the same? I just love making her feel good, the only reason I stop is because she gets sore. And then we cuddle and sleep and that just the best, I sleep the best when she'saw laying on my chest. I want to get a place together but at the same time I don't know if I'm ready, I still feel so immature.[/QUOTE] It's a great feeling being able to give someone that much pleasure. It's what makes sex fun. I always try to go for at least one orgasm before actually putting penis in vagoo. On a different note, I decided that my and my gf were better as friends as I didn't feel anything more than that for her. I felt bad about doing it but it was the right thing to do as it wouldn't be fair to carry on a relationship that's one sided. Then yesterday, I found out that a girl I've been friends with for a few years now left her bf last month for the same reason. I've always thought that she was pretty cool. Thing is, I'm clueless as to wat do, I've been asking a couple of friends for advice. I'm planning to just try and talk more and then maybe invite her to do something (with the limited choice we have here, movie, dinner or go to pubs and the last is difficult as a taxi home can cost £50+). There's a charity gig on in march that a few friends have organised and I'm going away to Glasgow in April. So there are things I can invite her to but I just need to get courage. [editline]3rd January 2016[/editline] [QUOTE=Riller;49446664]Is watching The Cleveland Show a good breakup-reason?[/QUOTE] yes that show is awful

[QUOTE=RenegadeCop;49446105]I make my girlfriend orgasmall twjce everytime we do sexual relations,does anyone else do the same? I just love making her feel good, the only reason I stop is because she gets sore. And then we cuddle and sleep and that just the best, I sleep the best when she'saw laying on my chest. I want to get a place together but at the same time I don't know if I'm ready, I still feel so immature.[/QUOTE] Yea man. That's one of the best parts of being in a relationship like that. You get to know eachother physically and you both just get better and better at pleasuring eachother. Plus the cuddles after sex are fucking awesome. It's complete peace. Also, my girl at the moment is the first squirter I've ever been serious with. Like, this chick will fucking squirt multiple times in a row... She much prefers g-spot stimulation to clitoral stimulation. It's pretty messy, but god is it fucking hot being able to create that much pleasure in someone you care about. [editline]3rd January 2016[/editline] [QUOTE=dcalde78;49447300] On a different note, I decided that my and my gf were better as friends as I didn't feel anything more than that for her. I felt bad about doing it but it was the right thing to do as it wouldn't be fair to carry on a relationship that's one sided. Then yesterday, I found out that a girl I've been friends with for a few years now left her bf last month for the same reason. I've always thought that she was pretty cool. Thing is, I'm clueless as to wat do, I've been asking a couple of friends for advice. I'm planning to just try and talk more and then maybe invite her to do something (with the limited choice we have here, movie, dinner or go to pubs and the last is difficult as a taxi home can cost £50+). There's a charity gig on in march that a few friends have organised and I'm going away to Glasgow in April. So there are things I can invite her to but I just need to get courage. [/QUOTE] There has to be more to do in your area. What about action dates like hiking, bowling or some shit like that? Idk where you live but there should be other options, you just need to get creative. How about group gatherings to start out with? I'm just throwing some ideas out there. How did you initially get with your Ex? I imagine you can learn from that and apply some of those lessons to this chick.

title could've been 'here lies socrates. he never scored'

[QUOTE=Darknife;49447361] There has to be more to do in your area. What about action dates like hiking, bowling or some shit like that? Idk where you live but there should be other options, you just need to get creative. How about group gatherings to start out with? I'm just throwing some ideas out there. How did you initially get with your Ex? I imagine you can learn from that and apply some of those lessons to this chick.[/QUOTE] I met both of my exes working at Tesco (supermarket). To be honest with my first gf I don't remember how things escalated but with my recent ex we just started chatting and then it just got slowly more intimate. Honestly, there's nothing here. There are occasional gigs, a cinema and that's really it. There are a lot of places to go walking and do nature shit as that's what this island is about for the most part. There's no bowling alley though which is disappointing, I love me some bowling. It's always stemmed from just conversation really so I am planning to talk to her more, slowly anyway. I don't want to just start bombarding her with messages all the time. I have complimented her a few times before as well. She said she was jealous of my hair length (it's about 2 inches below shoulder length :v:), I said she suits her hair long or short (it used to be stomach length and now it's shoulder length, she had it cut and donated). General compliment stuff.

I wish I could go bowling more often, but the boyf hates it because he's bad at it lmao. I am too though so it all works out. I've also wanted to go hiking but I'm not physically fit enough for something like that. Think I'd only make it an hour or so before getting too tired.

My most recent ex always said I had game when it comes to ladies but I always insisted I don't. I have no idea what I'm doing :v: [editline]3rd January 2016[/editline] [QUOTE=Pascall;49447441]I wish I could go bowling more often, but the boyf hates it because he's bad at it lmao.[/QUOTE] he won't get better if he doesn't go. besides, bowling is fun even if you're shit. when I went to Glasgow in November, I went bowling with my 2 mates, one was average, as am I, and the other guy was crap. he lost the first frame, and came second in the next 2. and besides, it's who you do stuff with, not whether or not you're shit at it. go bowling, if he's shit and loses, give him a bj as a consolation prize or something

[QUOTE=dcalde78;49447438]I met both of my exes working at Tesco (supermarket). To be honest with my first gf I don't remember how things escalated but with my recent ex we just started chatting and then it just got slowly more intimate. Honestly, there's nothing here. There are occasional gigs, a cinema and that's really it. There are a lot of places to go walking and do nature shit as that's what this island is about for the most part. There's no bowling alley though which is disappointing, I love me some bowling. It's always stemmed from just conversation really so I am planning to talk to her more, slowly anyway. I don't want to just start bombarding her with messages all the time. I have complimented her a few times before as well. She said she was jealous of my hair length (it's about 2 inches below shoulder length :v:), I said she suits her hair long or short (it used to be stomach length and now it's shoulder length, she had it cut and donated). General compliment stuff.[/QUOTE] There you go. (Assuming you can actually hike, idk about your health) just say yo, I'm going on a hike on Xday, you should come along. There's a (great view|awesome tree) that I wanna see. Something like that. It seems like you get girls with your words and hiking is a perfect place to have really good conversations. And yea, it can be like walking blind if you don't know what good game is. Even if you got it. You have to know what good game is before you can recognize it. But once you do realize it, it's like seeing the matrix since you can "read between the lines" of social interactions.

[QUOTE=Pascall;49447441] I've also wanted to go hiking but I'm not physically fit enough for something like that. Think I'd only make it an hour or so before getting too tired.[/QUOTE] You don't need to be fit to hike. Also hiking makes you fit. I aint fit. Been eating junk food in huge quantities for the last two years and smoking like a coal factory and I'm still up for it when friends gather. Just go at your own pace. It's not a race. You're supposed to enjoy the view, take pictures, all that. Also you get to know some really amazing spots and invite a special someone to enjoy a nice view like this: [IMG]http://i.imgur.com/WOyG8Km.png[/IMG] This was in September, we went all the way down to that beach over there. Had to swim back because the tide started to rise.

[QUOTE=Pascall;49447441]I wish I could go bowling more often, but the boyf hates it because he's bad at it lmao. I am too though so it all works out. I've also wanted to go hiking but I'm not physically fit enough for something like that. Think I'd only make it an hour or so before getting too tired.[/QUOTE] Then go hiking for 20-30 minutes every week or so. No need to over-exert yourself. Just get out, see the sights, get some fresh air, stretch those legs and also get more fit. And for bowling how about this... Since you are both bad at it, make it a competition between you two. Maybe 1 game, or best out of 3 etc. The winner wins something: If you guys live together, winner doesn't have to wash the dishes one night/loser makes dinner one night. If you don't live together, loser pays for dinner or a movie. That's one way to make it more fun for the both of you.

[QUOTE=dcalde78;49447447] he won't get better if he doesn't go. besides, bowling is fun even if you're shit. when I went to Glasgow in November, I went bowling with my 2 mates, one was average, as am I, and the other guy was crap. he lost the first frame, and came second in the next 2. and besides, it's who you do stuff with, not whether or not you're shit at it. go bowling, if he's shit and loses, give him a bj as a consolation prize or something[/QUOTE] I doubt he would seriously not go if I really wanted to. It's just a common gripe that he has every now and again that I think is pretty funny. I feel like we don't see each other often enough to run out of ideas for things to do. Even when I stayed with him for a week, we did quite a bit, including a day where we didn't do anything at all. Finding things to do in an LDR when you're NOT around each other though is probably a whole different demon... Games and Netflix is about the extent of it. [editline]3rd January 2016[/editline] [QUOTE=Darknife;49447539]Then go hiking for 20-30 minutes every week or so. No need to over-exert yourself. Just get out, see the sights, get some fresh air, stretch those legs and also get more fit. [/QUOTE] I wish I could, but I lack the health, location, and motivation. :v: Maybe once it starts getting warmer. There's no place to hike nearby, but I can go for walks or something. Winter months tends to make me sick if I'm outdoors too much.

[QUOTE=RenegadeCop;49446105]I make my girlfriend orgasmall twjce everytime we do sexual relations,does anyone else do the same? I just love making her feel good, the only reason I stop is because she gets sore. And then we cuddle and sleep and that just the best, I sleep the best when she'saw laying on my chest. I want to get a place together but at the same time I don't know if I'm ready, I still feel so immature.[/QUOTE] I haven't had a lot of sex but I've set a precedent for multiple orgasms every time so far. My last time with this one girl, it was really just me giving her oral after we made out for a while. We were both drunk, and she told me before I got started that she was in no condition to return the favor that night, then afterwards she was so surprised that I went through with it. Maybe even suspicious. We were about to go to bed and she goes "Why did you do that for me, when you knew I wouldn't return the favor?" and I was just like "I wanted to." That was all I could really think to say. I just did. It's fun.

[QUOTE=Darknife;49447515]There you go. (Assuming you can actually hike, idk about your health) just say yo, I'm going on a hike on Xday, you should come along. There's a (great view|awesome tree) that I wanna see. Something like that. It seems like you get girls with your words and hiking is a perfect place to have really good conversations. And yea, it can be like walking blind if you don't know what good game is. Even if you got it. You have to know what good game is before you can recognize it. But once you do realize it, it's like seeing the matrix since you can "read between the lines" of social interactions.[/QUOTE] There is a hill here that's about 800m tall I think and I wouldn't mind going up that some time. There are also a lot of long beaches here as well. The biggest problem is the weather here, usually it's completely bollocks. For example right now it's windy as dicks and it has been for a couple of weeks. Flights and ferries have been cancelled a lot and no one really wants to go out and do shit in weather like this :v: [editline]3rd January 2016[/editline] [QUOTE=Loofiloo;49447581]I haven't had a lot of sex but I've set a precedent for multiple orgasms every time so far. My last time with this one girl, it was really just me giving her oral after we made out for a while. We were both drunk, and she told me before I got started that she was in no condition to return the favor that night, then afterwards she was so surprised that I went through with it. Maybe even suspicious. We were about to go to bed and she goes "Why did you do that for me, when you knew I wouldn't return the favor?" and I was just like "I wanted to." That was all I could really think to say. I just did. It's fun.[/QUOTE] Some girls don't seem to get that some guys just like giving oral. I do as well, it's great.

[QUOTE=dcalde78;49447658]Some girls don't seem to get that some guys just like giving oral. I do as well, it's great.[/QUOTE] I'm still trying to discover the most effective position. Laying on the bed always cranks my neck too much. I guess her on the bed, me squatting on the floor is most effective... Actually, now that I think of it I much prefer 69 position. What do you do?