Sex, Girlfriends and Shit VII: "Power Moves For High Quality Women" - General

[QUOTE=Chippy1339;50378365]Fuck yes you should tell her. Talk with her about this "nude" subject again and ask a couple of questions, like how long since she last sent any to anyone or if something happend to her phone/laptop to help her have a clue about who might have been.[/QUOTE] So how should I tell her, I never see her any more since it was a semi-long distance relationship and I don't really talk to her either

[QUOTE=Timezbrick;50378482]So how should I tell her, I never see her any more since it was a semi-long distance relationship and I don't really talk to her either[/QUOTE] Yea, that's an important detail. From your story I've figured it was a recent/close relationship. People change and a couple of years are enough for it. I'd just send the pics links and a "heads up" kind of warning, in this case.

[QUOTE=Chippy1339;50378528]Yea, that's an important detail. From your story I've figured it was a recent/close relationship. People change and a couple of years are enough for it. I'd just send the pics links and a "heads up" kind of warning, in this case.[/QUOTE] I would totally not bother, this seems like a weird intrusion into someones life who you have nothing to do with anymore. What are you hoping for, her to be like oh wow thank you? What if it isnt her? Just sounds like an all round bad idea to me

[QUOTE=RenegadeCop;50377789]My girlfriend believes in ghosts while I don't, it makes conversations awkward when she swears she saw a ghost when she was a kid or something and I'm just like "suuuurreee"[/QUOTE] My girlfriend was raised to follow rules and instructions blindly, while i pretty much disregard any rule that doesnt make sense to me personally, and im the sort of person to throw away the instructions when i buy something or look at a recipie once before deciding to do it my own way. Those two personality differences cause a little friction, but in 3 years of dating, we havent had any really serious arguments. And she doesnt tell me to stop speeding quite as much anymore. Not that i did anyways.

[QUOTE=metallics;50378896]I would totally not bother, this seems like a weird intrusion into someones life who you have nothing to do with anymore. What are you hoping for, her to be like oh wow thank you? What if it isnt her? Just sounds like an all round bad idea to me[/QUOTE] I get what you're saying but man the internet is a firepit, a casual warning is the least you can do for someone you care/cared about at some point in life

[QUOTE=Kirbyfactor;50377633]Yesterday was pretty chaotic I went over to my girlfriends house, her mother and stepfather were home as well. When I came in her mother was cleaning the house and her dad was using the laptop while sitting shirtless on the couch. I walked in, waved, and said 'Hi, good afternoon!'. I made some very small talk with her mom, because she was busy and I really didn't feel like disturbing her. We then went upstairs and did our thing. A few hours later, my girlfriend goes downstairs to make us dinner, her parents get angry at her because I didn't sit down to have a conversation with them. She asks them if she needs to call me downstairs, and her mother said 'No, I'm already angry at this point I don't want to see him', this made my girlfriend very upset. I comfort her in her room and we agreed that next time I'd sit down with them and talk with them, but to avoid making them angrier, not to that that day. We go downstairs to eat dinner, and I talk a bit with her mom and she doesn't seem so angry anymore. Her stepdad doesn't say a word tho. Shortly after that I leave, and when I got home my girlfriend texted me saying that they were very angry. Her mom told my girlfriend that 'If you really liked him, you would've told him to go talk with us' and this made my girlfriend cry. Next time I'm there I'm definitely going to talk with them, because they keep comparing me to their neighbors kid, who talks with them a lot I guess. Sorry for the long post, but I'd like to know. Is this my fault, or are her mom and stepdad being unreasonable? Or is it both?[/QUOTE] I think it's pretty much a "household culture thing", it probably happened because you had no idea your parents expected that from you, and for her parent's point of view, why you must sit down and talk to them is evident. Basically bad comunication, next time try to ask your gf about her parents and their customs, you could learn a lot.

[QUOTE=Chippy1339;50379192]I get what you're saying but man the internet is a firepit, a casual warning is the least you can do for someone you care/cared about at some point in life[/QUOTE] I don't know what it would possibly help. Like, if she posted nudes online herself, then it'd be "warning" her about something she already knows. If somebody else posted them, there isn't really anything she can do about it. I can only speak for myself but I would absolutely not get involved, especially over a long-distance relationship that is now over. I would mind my own business.

[QUOTE=Loofiloo;50380076]I don't know what it would possibly help. Like, if she posted nudes online herself, then it'd be "warning" her about something she already knows. If somebody else posted them, there isn't really anything she can do about it. I can only speak for myself but I would absolutely not get involved, especially over a long-distance relationship that is now over. I would mind my own business.[/QUOTE] If my nudes were posted online without my consent I'd want to know. It really can't hurt anything to send her a quick message to make sure.

[QUOTE=Kirbyfactor;50377633]Yesterday was pretty chaotic I went over to my girlfriends house, her mother and stepfather were home as well. When I came in her mother was cleaning the house and her dad was using the laptop while sitting shirtless on the couch. I walked in, waved, and said 'Hi, good afternoon!'. I made some very small talk with her mom, because she was busy and I really didn't feel like disturbing her. We then went upstairs and did our thing. A few hours later, my girlfriend goes downstairs to make us dinner, her parents get angry at her because I didn't sit down to have a conversation with them. She asks them if she needs to call me downstairs, and her mother said 'No, I'm already angry at this point I don't want to see him', this made my girlfriend very upset. I comfort her in her room and we agreed that next time I'd sit down with them and talk with them, but to avoid making them angrier, not to that that day. We go downstairs to eat dinner, and I talk a bit with her mom and she doesn't seem so angry anymore. Her stepdad doesn't say a word tho. Shortly after that I leave, and when I got home my girlfriend texted me saying that they were very angry. Her mom told my girlfriend that 'If you really liked him, you would've told him to go talk with us' and this made my girlfriend cry. Next time I'm there I'm definitely going to talk with them, because they keep comparing me to their neighbors kid, who talks with them a lot I guess. Sorry for the long post, but I'd like to know. Is this my fault, or are her mom and stepdad being unreasonable? Or is it both?[/QUOTE] Update on this: Her mother is talking to her like normal again, but my girlfriend is ignoring her. I don't know what's gonna happen but I doubt it'll end good

[QUOTE=Kirbyfactor;50384330]Update on this: Her mother is talking to her like normal again, but my girlfriend is ignoring her. I don't know what's gonna happen but I doubt it'll end good[/QUOTE] Are you guys like 16?

[QUOTE=Kirbyfactor;50377633]Yesterday was pretty chaotic I went over to my girlfriends house, her mother and stepfather were home as well. When I came in her mother was cleaning the house and her dad was using the laptop while sitting shirtless on the couch. I walked in, waved, and said 'Hi, good afternoon!'. I made some very small talk with her mom, because she was busy and I really didn't feel like disturbing her. We then went upstairs and did our thing. A few hours later, my girlfriend goes downstairs to make us dinner, her parents get angry at her because I didn't sit down to have a conversation with them. She asks them if she needs to call me downstairs, and her mother said 'No, I'm already angry at this point I don't want to see him', this made my girlfriend very upset. I comfort her in her room and we agreed that next time I'd sit down with them and talk with them, but to avoid making them angrier, not to that that day. We go downstairs to eat dinner, and I talk a bit with her mom and she doesn't seem so angry anymore. Her stepdad doesn't say a word tho. Shortly after that I leave, and when I got home my girlfriend texted me saying that they were very angry. Her mom told my girlfriend that 'If you really liked him, you would've told him to go talk with us' and this made my girlfriend cry. Next time I'm there I'm definitely going to talk with them, because they keep comparing me to their neighbors kid, who talks with them a lot I guess. Sorry for the long post, but I'd like to know. Is this my fault, or are her mom and stepdad being unreasonable? Or is it both?[/QUOTE] You gf's parents are fucking crazy. My parents stop everything they're doing to greet people and so do my gf's parents. They don't wander around the house half naked saying nothing to guests and then be angry at them for not feeling comfortable disturbing them. Nevertheless I'm in a LDR and I don't visit as often, but still, if they aren't going to greet you and be all like "go help yourself' , it's kinda weird they get mad at you. This is pretty much "greeting guests 101".

[QUOTE=Cyke Lon bee;50385624]Are you guys like 16?[/QUOTE] Hey look man I'm not liking this either but there isn't much I can do to change this and your post isn't helping a lot

Your girlfriend's parents don't make much sense, but honestly, I don't foresee there being much of a solution to this other than your girlfriend standing up to them which obviously doesn't happen very often. There isn't much advice we can give you on this one. Stubborn parents will be stubborn until something convinces them to be otherwise.

My ex's mother ruined the movie "Boyhood" for me because halfway through she threatened to call the police and have me arrested for kidnapping her daughter if we didn't come home immediately :(

[QUOTE=srobins;50390577]My ex's mother ruined the movie "Boyhood" for me because halfway through she threatened to call the police and have me arrested for kidnapping her daughter if we didn't come home immediately :([/QUOTE] Uh I don't think it works that way

[QUOTE=Cyberuben;50390715]Uh I don't think it works that way[/QUOTE] Yeah obviously she wasn't a very stable person, still fucked up my night.

[QUOTE=Kirbyfactor;50389651]Hey look man I'm not liking this either but there isn't much I can do to change this and your post isn't helping a lot[/QUOTE] If you want a serious post; Tell your girlfriend to grow up and act like an adult. Tell her to sit down and have a serious discussion with her parents about her relationship with you and what they expect out of you, because it's obviously an issue. If she won't, then maybe you ought to. Her, still living with her parents, and giving her parents the 14-year-old-who-doesn't-get-their-way silent treatment is immensely immature and is only going to cause more problems if she doesn't stop doing that. Furthermore, if shes doing that to her own mother, then shes going to do that to you someday if you get into an argument. You need to nip that in the bud. [editline]25th May 2016[/editline] [QUOTE=srobins;50390577]My ex's mother ruined the movie "Boyhood" for me because halfway through she threatened to call the police and have me arrested for kidnapping her daughter if we didn't come home immediately :([/QUOTE] She saved you honestly, Boyhood is shite.

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Whats the best way to remove hair from your pubic area?

Waxing is the quickest but not the most painless. Shaving is painless (if you're careful) but you have to keep up with it. Other than that... I dunno. I'd definitely not put any hair removal cream anywhere near your junk though. Shit can burn.

Shaving can itch if you don't properly hydrate the skin afterwards, too.

Yeah use plenty of lotion afterwards.

I get a lot of pimples and skin irritations when I shave, and I also cut a lot, so I just trim and shave superficially where needed. It takes a while and it requires regular maintenance (not that regular in my case) but I like my grass mowed that way. Also I never shave it all. Also I would never use wax. I don't like the feeling of my soul being ripped out of my body through my scrotum.

I started shaving my crotch for totally non-sexual reasons. I was just sitting in my bed one day reading a book and I noticed a long curly hair stuck between the pages and I was just like "ok, that's nasty, I'm getting rid of all that shit." I'm way too skittish to shave my balls FULLY though, so they just get trimmed down to the best of my ability. It sucks that the only options are like... extremely painful wax, extremely painful chemicals, or pretty-dangerous blades. So I go with the blades.

Electric or regular?

Razors aren't that dangerous. The trick to not cut yourself is to make the skin wet with warm water beforehand and not apply too much pressure. Also, always start shaving in the direction the hair grows. The hair will be a little longer, so if you want it as short as possible you can shave it the other direction the second time. What I personally like is to clean the razor with HOT water while you are using it, I don't know if it helps but warm blades feel way better. Another pro tip, make sure that the razor is sharp. If the hair you shaved was long, make sure that there is none between the razors after you put it away because moist will be able to stay between the blades way longer. Always dry the razor after you've used it so it won't get blunt as quick. Haven't cut myself for at least a year, and I shave my beard every other day.

Also make sure that you give yourself a good wash or rinse in WHATEVER area you're shaving afterwards. Sometimes hair can stay down there after you shave it and can irritate your skin. So make sure you get it all off.

This is where bidets are crucial. #proudbidetowner

[QUOTE=RenegadeCop;50396697]My dad never taught me how to actually shave so I have to use electric everything. Like I even straight up asked "hey teach me to shave" and he just handed me an electric razor[/QUOTE] Mine never taught me either so I winged on my own till I got it down pat. Switched to a electric because razer blades are about a $6,000 a year investment if you change them when you're supposed to. Jumped on the dollar shave club bandwagon as soon as it started rolling and haven't looked back since. Shaving with a razer is way better than using an electric.

I have to shave my legs everyday because if it's not absolutely smooth, it irritates the shit out of me. I've never paid too much attention to blade quality though. I buy the same set of 3 Venus razors every time I need new ones. But I have to shave with body wash or else my skin hates me. Water isn't nice enough.