Sex, Girlfriends and Shit VII: "Power Moves For High Quality Women" - General

[QUOTE=Pascall;50396874]I have to shave my legs everyday because if it's not absolutely smooth, it irritates the shit out of me. I've never paid too much attention to blade quality though. I buy the same set of 3 Venus razors every time I need new ones. But I have to shave with body wash or else my skin hates me. Water isn't nice enough.[/QUOTE] Dollar shave club has razors that you can use for that sort of stuff that are $6 a month for 4 blades. Look into it.

I just use a little electric trimmer for my pubes, then shave my balls once a month or so. Electric trimmer is too risky on balls.

I'm an overall hairy fucker, so I just sorta do a 7mm trim all over my junk to make it match what the hair around it is in length. Tried shaving it all down, and that just looked dumb as fuck between my hairy abs and thighs.

[QUOTE=Birdman101;50397926]I just use a little electric trimmer for my pubes, then shave my balls once a month or so. Electric trimmer is too risky on balls.[/QUOTE] I use the electric trimmer on my balls too Sometimes it hurts a bit, but eh, nothing ventured, nothing gained.

I'm more for the regular razors actually, those gillete types. Recently I noticed that - [I]it might sound weird, but bear with me[/I] - it's easier to shave pubes/balls while your erect 'cause, y'know, it stretches your skin so the blade has a cleaner cut. [editline]27th May 2016[/editline] [t]https://cdn-webimages.wimages.net/05188e565d1d1891880851db02ba9ba239034b-wm.jpg[/t]

What do you guys think of sexting?

[QUOTE=Behemoth_PT;50401907]What do you guys think of sexting?[/QUOTE] Make sure you put a rubber on your phone and use lots of lube

[QUOTE=Cyke Lon bee;50396968]Dollar shave club has razors that you can use for that sort of stuff that are $6 a month for 4 blades. Look into it.[/QUOTE] They are pretty great, yeah. My girlfriend uses them exclusively for her leg and nether shaving needs, and says they are very comfortable to use, to mention nothing of the convenience of having them delivered to our doorstep each month. You can seven adjust the delivery speed if that's too much or not enough. [editline]27th May 2016[/editline] Wish we could afford laser hair removal, though. Nothing beats that.

[QUOTE=Chippy1339;50400369]I'm more for the regular razors actually, those gillete types. Recently I noticed that - [I]it might sound weird, but bear with me[/I] - it's easier to shave pubes/balls while your erect 'cause, y'know, it stretches your skin so the blade has a cleaner cut. [editline]27th May 2016[/editline] [t]https://cdn-webimages.wimages.net/05188e565d1d1891880851db02ba9ba239034b-wm.jpg[/t][/QUOTE] Completely agree. Also, before shaving my balls, i pour cold water on them so they shrink up and stop being to loose and floppy.

[QUOTE=Birdman101;50403052]Completely agree. Also, before shaving my balls, i pour cold water on them so they shrink up and stop being to loose and floppy.[/QUOTE] Bidet owner represent it's so handy for this

The girl which I recently talked about asked me if I would like to go to the cinema with her. didn't see it coming at all. I already gave up because I thought I scared her away by making a move when saying goodbye last time. she clearly knows what my intentions are and she still asked me out. You know what guys, if she still doesnt give me a single hint this time I'm gonna take your advice and ask her if she likes me. Jesus christ I haven't been this exited for such a long time. I'll tell you how it went next week.

Hey..... so I'm kind of stuck in a rut. I am in college. There are two girls that have given me some pretty obvious signs that they're into me. I find both of them pretty cute, but I'm not [i]super[/i] into them. Don't know if I should proceed or not. One of them I met through a mutual friend at a party. She made some comment about how she kept staring at me while I was in the gym and mentioned how she "probably looked like a creeper", amongst other body language signs. I definitely find her attractive physically, but she doesn't seem to be entirely my type. I would be down for some sort of NSA sex arrangement but based on what I know about her (not a lot), I don't think she'd be up for it. The only avenue I could see it working is by asking her out on a date or something, but I really don't see it working out long term; I don't want to lead her on. The second is in my art class. The situation for her is kind of reversed. She seems to be more my type, but I'm not sure if I find her entirely attractive.... there are some days I think she's cute, but other days where I'm like "meh". Sorry if this is kind of graphic, but to test the waters I masturbated while thinking about them a few times, and for both... I had a somewhat sour taste in my mouth afterwards. There was even a few instances when my fantasy switched to this brunette girl I sometimes see at the gym, but have never talked to. The main issue is that I've had a dry streak for like a year and I'm getting kind of desperate and thinking about lowering my standards. But I think that's a bad idea for the long term. Any ideas?

Propose a FWB setup with the one you think might go for it but if the answer is no then... Idk. Neither prospect looks good for you. Leading them on just because you want to break your no-sex streak generally doesn't work out very well. And I'm sure the girls do not need your pity sex, either. Be up front about it to them and see what happens. If neither are interested, then neither are interested. Don't fabricate your motivations according to what you think might get them in bed with you.

[QUOTE=Birdman101;50403052]Completely agree. Also, before shaving my balls, i pour cold water on them so they shrink up and stop being to loose and floppy.[/QUOTE] oh my this is crafty

[QUOTE=cheesylard;50403890]Hey..... so I'm kind of stuck in a rut. I am in college. There are two girls that have given me some pretty obvious signs that they're into me. I find both of them pretty cute, but I'm not [i]super[/i] into them. Don't know if I should proceed or not. One of them I met through a mutual friend at a party. She made some comment about how she kept staring at me while I was in the gym and mentioned how she "probably looked like a creeper", amongst other body language signs. I definitely find her attractive physically, but she doesn't seem to be entirely my type. I would be down for some sort of NSA sex arrangement but based on what I know about her (not a lot), I don't think she'd be up for it. The only avenue I could see it working is by asking her out on a date or something, but I really don't see it working out long term; I don't want to lead her on. The second is in my art class. The situation for her is kind of reversed. She seems to be more my type, but I'm not sure if I find her entirely attractive.... there are some days I think she's cute, but other days where I'm like "meh". Sorry if this is kind of graphic, but to test the waters I masturbated while thinking about them a few times, and for both... I had a somewhat sour taste in my mouth afterwards. There was even a few instances when my fantasy switched to this brunette girl I sometimes see at the gym, but have never talked to. The main issue is that I've had a dry streak for like a year and I'm getting kind of desperate and thinking about lowering my standards. But I think that's a bad idea for the long term. Any ideas?[/QUOTE] you sound like a keeper

[QUOTE=E = MC Hammer;50404399]you sound like a keeper[/QUOTE] eh, ill admit im a terrible partner. but that comes from lack of experience, hopefully with enough ill get better. problem is i cant find where i can get that experience [editline]27th May 2016[/editline] [QUOTE=Pascall;50403963]Propose a FWB setup[/QUOTE] Hm..... I don't think I will, now that I've gotten some feedback. In order to even get to that stage I'd have to lead into it, which means a date, which I'd be leading her on and essentially "lying" to her. I'm not really down for that. I guess I'll just wait until I find someone who truly catches my eye that isn't a random at the gym or on campus

So I've come to the conclusion that I should probably break up with my gf but I have no idea when or how to do it. What I felt for her initially just... isn't there anymore. However, there's a problem. We were essentially living together in college, and now that the semester is over, she's at my place for a week before going back. She's very attached to me, and I've significantly improved the quality of her life emotionally. Because of this, I want to try and swing still being friends, even if only for her sake.... I do care about her, and I want her to be happy. I just have no idea how to do it or [I]when[/I] to do it. If I do it now, we'll have several days of likely horrible awkwardness. If I do it right when she leaves, I'll be an asshole. If I do it when she's back over skype, I'll be an even bigger asshole. To top all of this off, she just discovered that her mother might have cancer and her quality of life in general is declining because of shit at home the fuck do I do [editline]s[/editline] The reason I want to break up with her makes me seem like a cunt, too: She's just extremely... insecure. It seeps into literally every aspect about her. She holds herself in an unattractive way, she's incredibly shy and unwilling to try new things not because she doesn't want to do them, but because she's scared of failure. She doesn't want to do anything out of her comfort zone because she's afraid of messing it up and that fear is literally what's endangering the relationship. I've told her this, too. She got better for a short bit, then shortly after I talked with her about how awesome that she was becoming more confident, she went right back. Overall I can tell that she's happier, but her crippling self-detestment is just... It's annoying, as fucking horrible as that sounds. I've been working with it for months, but I'm just done. Again, as horrible as this sounds, I've been essentially *perfect* to her (through great effort of my own and through her own admission) and she just hasn't reciprocated. I just don't want to have to be constantly worried about the person that I'm dating's emotional state 24/7, constantly watching what I say so that she doesn't read into it the wrong way and end up hating herself more. I sound like an asshole, but that's how I feel, and I've told her, and it hasn't gotten better and I just don't know what to do.

[QUOTE=cheesylard;50405541]eh, ill admit im a terrible partner. but that comes from lack of experience, hopefully with enough ill get better. problem is i cant find where i can get that experience [editline]27th May 2016[/editline] Hm..... I don't think I will, now that I've gotten some feedback. In order to even get to that stage I'd have to lead into it, which means a date, which I'd be leading her on and essentially "lying" to her. I'm not really down for that. I guess I'll just wait until I find someone who truly catches my eye that isn't a random at the gym or on campus[/QUOTE] have you considered just asking these girls on dates and learning to know them as people instead of treating them as meat puppets for your jerk fantasies [editline]28th May 2016[/editline] i get that you think you'd b e leading her on but maybe you end up actually liking her and can look past whatever initial hang ups you had

[QUOTE=E = MC Hammer;50406689]have you considered just asking these girls on dates and learning to know them as people instead of treating them as meat puppets for your jerk fantasies[/QUOTE] to be honest, I thought something along those lines when I read about your post-spanking melancholy - be a human being and talk to them, man at best you get a partner, at medium you'll get a friend and at worst, well, it won't be much different than now.

[quote=gf] Honestly, you're the best thing to happen to me in years, I'm so glad that you're in my life, without you I'd just be even more lonely and depressed[/quote] where is the ctrl z irl

[QUOTE=phygon;50407185]where is the ctrl z irl[/QUOTE] Shouldn't you be happy you made someone's life better? Why would you want to undo that?

[QUOTE=cheesylard;50409532]Shouldn't you be happy you made someone's life better? Why would you want to undo that?[/QUOTE] responsibilities, man

But still, even if he broke up with her, he would have still been a positive influence in her life. [QUOTE=E = MC Hammer;50406689]have you considered just asking these girls on dates and learning to know them as people instead of treating them as meat puppets for your jerk fantasies [editline]28th May 2016[/editline] i get that you think you'd b e leading her on but maybe you end up actually liking her and can look past whatever initial hang ups you had[/QUOTE] Yeah, good point. I need the practice anyway.

It's one thing if you've made somebody's life better, like some concrete change. But it's another if she's become dependent on constant support. It's a lot like any other kind of dependency, it'll be really hard on the person when they have that dependency broken (like going cold turkey) but one way or another they need to learn self-reliance. And there's really nobody who can make that change in her except herself

Just had sex with a best friend of a best friend of mine after like 2 months of tension. Now I think we are seeing eachother kinda but I'm not sure what's going on but I'm ok with it.

[QUOTE=cheesylard;50409532]Shouldn't you be happy you made someone's life better? Why would you want to undo that?[/QUOTE] [quote]without you I'd just be even more lonely and depressed[/quote] I'm about to break up with her in like 5 days

[QUOTE=phygon;50411945]I'm about to break up with her in like 5 days[/QUOTE] I'm of the camp that believes "it's better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all". Based on what you wrote, she's probably going to hate life immediately after the breakup. But she'll look back on the relationship fondly in a few years. I think that's what you should focus on.

[QUOTE=phygon;50411945]I'm about to break up with her in like 5 days[/QUOTE] I've been in the same boat before, just remember that your mental health is your number one priority.

[QUOTE=psychojake;50412403]I've been in the same boat before, just remember that your mental health is your number one priority.[/QUOTE] I know it's just so hard to accept. She's *almost* perfect for me but she's just.... not right for me. I ended up spilling the beans and she's in a really bad state, she wants to give it another week with knowing my grievances to see if anything can change. I agreed because I want her to be able to at least be sort of happy during the rest of her visit. I feel like such a cunt even though I couldn't have predicted this.

I'm in love