Sex, Girlfriends and Shit VII: "Power Moves For High Quality Women" - General

[QUOTE=Cyberuben;50462049] Anyone here who could help me figure out why I can't do it?[/QUOTE] Because you are probably scared of rejection/failure. Nothing wrong with that because everyone has it to some degree, but for some it might be easier deal with it than others. Especially introverted people have this problem (since they feel a bigger social 'barrier'). It's kinda funny to read that I'm not the only one who has the problem, luckily I found out that it's possible to get it over it. I would advice you to take little steps in tackling the problem, instead of trying to force yourself to take a big one to overcome it. Start with something small like winking at a girl in the train or something similar. It's easy since it doesn't matter if you fuck up by quickly looking away or turning red. If you can do it with a big smile on your face, you can try to do something more challenging like having a chat with a cute random cute girl, and continue to the point that you feel comfortable with social interactions in general. Remember, small steps are the key to overcome a big one. Hope it'll help ya buddy.

[QUOTE=Mr. N;50461166]Turns out the girl I'm sorta seeing/post sex hanging out with is really fickle as fuck, and may have a boyfriend who she cheated on with me. i want off mr bones wild ride[/QUOTE] Almost confirmed I'm right. Don't even know what to do anymore lol. I don't know if I feel gross, played, or if I genuinely don't even care. Why are all the girls I know fucking awful.

you should tell her boyfriend imo

Yea find a way to tell her boyfriend, best not in person though.

Just make sure to tell her you're worried, ask her if she wants to see how you see it, and then get her side of the story. Can't force it if she says no as only the individual can remove the illusions of they are there. If it does turn out that you're right and she doesn't want to hear it, all you can do is support her. Which she will come to see that too if it's the case just a matter of when. Massive infatuation happens at the start of new relationships and with friends. Which will blind you to the truth if you don't stop to look.

[QUOTE=E = MC Hammer;50486792]you should tell her boyfriend imo[/QUOTE] Going to confront her first, but that's probably going to happen. She may have an idea I know (she put a bunch of couple shit on insta and snapchat). So if she tries to ignore it I'll probably just send him a message straight up. Still though, hard mentally prepare yourself to actually tell a guy you don't know that you're fucking his girlfriend. Especially since I know he is a classic flowers and dates romantic who confessed his love for her. I feel like sludge right now. [editline]10th June 2016[/editline] Hopefully he knows that she's like this or someshit, but he doesn't sound numb enough of a dude to be ok with that type of thing.

message him first before you confront her [editline]10th June 2016[/editline] because if you're right and she's cheating on him with you and he has no idea, if she has time to go home and talk to him she'll have time to weave a story but if you message him beforehand with all the evidence and shit she'll dig herself into a deeper hole

[QUOTE=thermobaric;50484135]Because you are probably scared of rejection/failure. Nothing wrong with that because everyone has it to some degree, but for some it might be easier deal with it than others. Especially introverted people have this problem (since they feel a bigger social 'barrier'). It's kinda funny to read that I'm not the only one who has the problem, luckily I found out that it's possible to get it over it. I would advice you to take little steps in tackling the problem, instead of trying to force yourself to take a big one to overcome it. Start with something small like winking at a girl in the train or something similar. It's easy since it doesn't matter if you fuck up by quickly looking away or turning red. If you can do it with a big smile on your face, you can try to do something more challenging like having a chat with a cute random cute girl, and continue to the point that you feel comfortable with social interactions in general. Remember, small steps are the key to overcome a big one. Hope it'll help ya buddy.[/QUOTE] Seems like good advice, thanks man.

My dick feels numb during sex. Like it's covered in a numbing agent, it still feels good but say not as good as when I'm alone, masturbating. Any ideas how to combat this? Is it just nerves?

either my dick grew or durex changed something either way I just had to give up on the old dance because the condoms were too small i'm buying these for... years now

[QUOTE=Enola;50492338]My dick feels numb during sex. Like it's covered in a numbing agent, it still feels good but say not as good as when I'm alone, masturbating. Any ideas how to combat this? Is it just nerves?[/QUOTE] My nigga. I usually can't feel shit during sex with a condom. I have had to stop jerking off entirely to make sure I don't go soft form the lack of sensation. Doesn't help when the girl is tight as a vice either lol.

[QUOTE=Mr. N;50492801]My nigga. I usually can't feel shit during sex with a condom. I have had to stop jerking off entirely to make sure I don't go soft form the lack of sensation. Doesn't help when the girl is tight as a vice either lol.[/QUOTE] No no I don't mean about condoms. I mean like once my dick is covered in pre-cum I can barely feel a thing. Either I have anaesthetic discharge or something is playing my mind. I really need help on this issue, I've had sex 4 times my whole life and today was the only time I ejaculated (with a fucking aggressive blowjob and then a self finish (on her so it was still rad)). But I'd like to be you know, fully into it. I only seem to get a throbbing rager when its in my pants or if im alone.

[QUOTE=Enola;50492831]No no I don't mean about condoms. I mean like once my dick is covered in pre-cum I can barely feel a thing. Either I have anaesthetic discharge or something is playing my mind. I really need help on this issue, I've had sex 4 times my whole life and today was the only time I ejaculated (with a fucking aggressive blowjob and then a self finish (on her so it was still rad)). But I'd like to be you know, fully into it. I only seem to get a throbbing rager when its in my pants or if im alone.[/QUOTE] I'm talking in general too, but with condoms especially. Sometimes the lubrication eliminates friction needed. Is it just precum or does it extend to saliva as well?

[QUOTE=Mr. N;50492883]I'm talking in general too, but with condoms especially. Sometimes the lubrication eliminates friction needed. Is it just precum or does it extend to saliva as well?[/QUOTE] My cum, the other party's cum. Saliva and precum kinda feels the same to me on my penis so I'm still not any clue closer to what my issue is

You're probably just nervous and psyching yourself out. Just keep at it.

[QUOTE=Enola;50493327]My cum, the other party's cum. Saliva and precum kinda feels the same to me on my penis so I'm still not any clue closer to what my issue is[/QUOTE] Probably a mix of nerves and lack of friction. Do it more and it'll sort itself out.

Thanks for the advice fellas. Appreciated

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[QUOTE=ecapsbuS;50499257]Guys I fucking ran out of clean underwear and can't really launder any atm. There is this chick I met in university and she wants me to tie her hands and fuck her very soon. I never had sex with this chick before and she is not all that experienced. I want to ask what are chances that some 20 year old girl is going to get grossed out by the fact that I went commando?[/QUOTE] Son, if she want to screw you badly enough, I think she wouldn't give two S***s about you going commando. Also, HI, I'm new here.

[QUOTE=Treznor;50469470]Turns out she probably lied/changed her mind. It's been about two days and she hasn't answered me on FB, even though she is online all the time and posting shit on instagram/snapchat. I'll give it some more time, but looks dark so far. Fml this is the last thing I needed atm.[/QUOTE] Well that's just rude [editline]12th June 2016[/editline] [QUOTE=Mr. N;50492801]My nigga. I usually can't feel shit during sex with a condom. I have had to stop jerking off entirely to make sure I don't go soft form the lack of sensation. Doesn't help when the girl is tight as a vice either lol.[/QUOTE] Hey, sometimes being tight is a subconscious vaginal clenching. Go easy on the poor ladies in your life [editline]12th June 2016[/editline] [QUOTE=ecapsbuS;50499257]Guys I fucking ran out of clean underwear and can't really launder any atm. There is this chick I met in university and she wants me to tie her hands and fuck her very soon. I never had sex with this chick before and she is not all that experienced. I want to ask what are chances that some 20 year old girl is going to get grossed out by the fact that I went commando?[/QUOTE] I'm a female in my twenties. It's not gross. Either explain to her why or let her believe you did it to be sexy

[QUOTE=ecapsbuS;50499257]Guys I fucking ran out of clean underwear and can't really launder any atm. There is this chick I met in university and she wants me to tie her hands and fuck her very soon. I never had sex with this chick before and she is not all that experienced. I want to ask what are chances that some 20 year old girl is going to get grossed out by the fact that I went commando?[/QUOTE] BDSM play is one thing, but going commando is irredeemable. I hope she sees you for the monster you are.

[I]jeans zippers[/I]

go to walmart and buy undewear it's like $5

This commando thingie sounds interesting...

What is it with girls at parties flirting like heck, smiling at you across the whole room, "accidentaly" brushing you and all of that shit and 2 hours later "oh yeah btw this guy here is my bf"

[QUOTE=Killuah;50501306]What is it with girls at parties flirting like heck, smiling at you across the whole room, "accidentaly" brushing you and all of that shit and 2 hours later "oh yeah btw this guy here is my bf"[/QUOTE] It's called a girl at a party having fun with her friends and being a bit flirty with everyone because its fun and relatively harmless It is in no way wrong of her to do it and she's not responsible for lonely people getting all weird about her being happy around them

[QUOTE=killerteacup;50501342]It's called a girl at a party having fun with her friends and being a bit flirty with everyone because its fun and relatively harmless It is in no way wrong of her to do it and she's not responsible for lonely people getting all weird about her being happy around them[/QUOTE] tbh the only odd thing is why would she be flirty with others with her bf around

It was not just smiling guys I think I can make out the difference between havin fun at a party and constantly touching, joking and all around being flirty

[QUOTE=PelPix123;50501513]My general experience with men has been *Smile at guy* Him: You're flirting with me! You want my dick! *Tell boyfriend* Boyfriend: You're flirting with him! You want his dick! Isn't there some studying proving that men think all women want their dick and want everyone around them's dick when we're smiling? I just have to pretend to be really bitchy around men I don't want to date. I used to pretend I was sad, but then they wanted to fuck me happy instead. [editline]12th June 2016[/editline] [media]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-xPjsTyS4lY[/media][/QUOTE] At least around here, friendly women are somewhat common, so i feel like that mistake isnt made as much. Woo, rural.

I'm tired of making plans and then nothing coming of it. All I want to do is just hang out with people and be social but every time, something happens and they need to prioritise that. Don't get me wrong, I know people have their own lives and that's cool. I was suppose to go out for a walk with a friend yesterday evening and something came up so we were supposed to go today, I asked what time and she never replied. I seem to be that non-important friend.