Sex, Girlfriends and Shit VII: "Power Moves For High Quality Women" - General

[QUOTE=dcalde78;49501317]whelp, girl I like said she's been looking at flats with guy she's seeing. time to suck it up and keep looking I guess v:v:v[/QUOTE] Dood if shes looking at flats with this guy, shes either completely nuts, or has been in a relationship with him for a while. [editline]11th January 2016[/editline] [QUOTE=Birdman101;49501695]I had a dream that I proposed to my girlfriend of 2.7 years, it was wonderful. I think Im just about ready to pop the question IRL.[/QUOTE] I dont think I could know for a fact with absolute certainty that I would want to spend the rest of my life with a person who Ive only been dating for less than 3 years. I dont mean to be an ass, but youre pretty much betting your future on someone who could still change into a completely different person. Not only that, but you could also change. Peoples minds dont fully mature until theyre about 26 years old.

How do I respond if a girl is putting her entire tongue into my mouth all the time Like EVERY SINGLE KISS she does involves her entire tongue. Do I respond with more tongue? Do I just let her do it while awkwardly flopping my lips about? I mean I'm not complaining, and she doesn't stop so I assume I'm playing along fine, but it's just a bit of a change from every other girl I've kissed :v:

[QUOTE=NixNax123;49503158]How do I respond if a girl is putting her entire tongue into my mouth all the time Like EVERY SINGLE KISS she does involves her entire tongue. Do I respond with more tongue? Do I just let her do it while awkwardly flopping my lips about? I mean I'm not complaining, and she doesn't stop so I assume I'm playing along fine, but it's just a bit of a change from every other girl I've kissed :v:[/QUOTE] I personally hate it (makes me feel like I'm choking on tongue-dick). If you're chill with it, just go with the flow. As for what to do when you're being tongue-fucked, there's not really much you can do other than just accept your fate. It locks my mouth open and makes it hard to do anything back. Awkwardly flopping your lips back is all that you can do in that situation Soft kisses best kisses.

I lost my virginity, couldn't orgasm. Discovered I get no pleasure from sex.

[QUOTE=nox;49504432]I lost my virginity, couldn't orgasm. Discovered I get no pleasure from sex.[/QUOTE] melodrama

[QUOTE=nox;49504432]I lost my virginity, couldn't orgasm. Discovered I get no pleasure from sex.[/QUOTE] dont give up on it, itll be worth it when you do get off

[QUOTE=nox;49504432]I lost my virginity, couldn't orgasm. Discovered I get no pleasure from sex.[/QUOTE] first few times aren't always the best, if you're both virgins you're not really sure what to do. it's even worse if both of you are self-conscious. once you gain a little confidence in your body / what you're doing, sex tends to be much better you'll change your mind when you find a person who is confident in their sexuality and not afraid to take control of things

Experiment with masturbation too. Figure out what can really get you off and try and offer tips to your partner or future partner or whatever. Exploring yourself is generally the best way to figure out what you like and what it takes to get you to orgasm.

[QUOTE=nox;49504432]I lost my virginity, couldn't orgasm. Discovered I get no pleasure from sex.[/QUOTE] Like others said, it gets A LOT better with time and practice. Also, talk to your partner. Open communication about sex can be awkward with your partner but once you guys get comfortable with it your sex will improve tenfold.

[QUOTE=Pascall;49504657]Experiment with masturbation too. Figure out what can really get you off and try and offer tips to your partner or future partner or whatever. Exploring yourself is generally the best way to figure out what you like and what it takes to get you to orgasm.[/QUOTE] We did communicate about it, I think the problem is I masturbated with a grip for too many years so I think I dulled my nerve endings to everything but a very particular sensation. People tell me it's normal for the first time to be not that great but I almost didn't feel any sensation so it kinda worries me.

Maybe ease up on that for a little while and see if that changes? [editline]10th January 2016[/editline] Alternatively, take a visit to a doctor and see if there's anything going on in that area.

[QUOTE=Cyke Lon bee;49503134]Dood if shes looking at flats with this guy, shes either completely nuts, or has been in a relationship with him for a while.[/QUOTE] she said to me just after new years she'd broken up with her last bf last month, and she was looking for flats with the new guy "because of the circumstances". what they are I don't know, I didn't ask. but she's a very sensible person so she'll know what she's doing

Lost my v card yesterday, came pretty quick which was disappointing. But my girlfriend said we'd just keep trying until I get better so I guess that's cool?

I buzzed my head because my hair is/was thinning. My motivation for doing so was when I went to see Star Wars with my best friend and his 7 year old neighbor who's parents consistently dump her on him because they're either getting hot and heavy with each other or getting heavy with future alimony. "Sam, why do you hang with X? He's 20 and you're 40." Fun fact, I am 21, he's 23. Cool thing about kids, they're brutally honest. However, who am I to be taking advice from someone who can't even tie their shoes. But after trying for a long time I decided it was time my hair and I parted ways. So I went to the local barbershop and buzzed it. I was hesitant at first, because babes were (not at) all about the thinning hair I had, but now... damn. Where genetics has failed me in the hair department, it also makes up for it with a bad ass beard. I bought myself a trimmer and I'm a more sexy version of Stanley Tucci. I feel like iTunes hottest single. I've been getting all sorts of positive comments from friends and family. Huge confidence booster. [sp]Why did I do this in Ohio during January. This was a mistake holy shit I have frost bite on my head.[/sp]

I'd love to see a photo cause you seem like a great person, plus your bestfriend sounds like a really chill guy for taking the 7 year old along with you two to see Star Wars. That post brightened up my day.

I want to have sex again. This frustration sucks.

[QUOTE=blacksam;49507391]I buzzed my head because my hair is/was thinning. My motivation for doing so was when I went to see Star Wars with my best friend and his 7 year old neighbor who's parents consistently dump her on him because they're either getting hot and heavy with each other or getting heavy with future alimony. "Sam, why do you hang with X? He's 20 and you're 40." Fun fact, I am 21, he's 23. Cool thing about kids, they're brutally honest. However, who am I to be taking advice from someone who can't even tie their shoes. But after trying for a long time I decided it was time my hair and I parted ways. So I went to the local barbershop and buzzed it. I was hesitant at first, because babes were (not at) all about the thinning hair I had, but now... damn. Where genetics has failed me in the hair department, it also makes up for it with a bad ass beard. I bought myself a trimmer and I'm a more sexy version of Stanley Tucci. I feel like iTunes hottest single. I've been getting all sorts of positive comments from friends and family. Huge confidence booster. [sp]Why did I do this in Ohio during January. This was a mistake holy shit I have frost bite on my head.[/sp][/QUOTE] Beards are absolute pussy magnets, i agree.

Mine for the longest time was the only way not to look 12 when I'm actually in my 20s. I might be at the point where my face has finally matured enough where I don't [I]need[/I] a beard, but I like it too much and so does my GF.

[QUOTE=S31-Syntax;49508231]Mine for the longest time was the only way not to look 12 when I'm actually in my 20s. I might be at the point where my face has finally matured enough where I don't [I]need[/I] a beard, but I like it too much and so does my GF.[/QUOTE] I've noticed that whenever I buy alcohol, if I haven't shaved in a few days I don't get IDed, whereas if I'm clean shaven, it happens every time. Beards definitely do make you look older by a decade. [editline]11th January 2016[/editline] [QUOTE=Kirbyfactor;49506915]Lost my v card yesterday, came pretty quick which was disappointing. But my girlfriend said we'd just keep trying until I get better so I guess that's cool?[/QUOTE] It's not the worst thing in the world. If you finish slowly, it means she may think you don't find her attractive (even though that's not the case). I used to finish really slowly with my SO, just because of nervousness (which led to some short-lived emotional problems between us) but I think I became more comfortable with her over time and now I have to hold back from orgasm pretty much every time we bang. By finishing quickly, she knows you find her attractive (or at least, she knows she's pleasing you). My advice is just to masturbate more. Try doing so the morning before you're going to have sex to numb yourself.

[QUOTE=Disseminate;49508858]I've noticed that whenever I buy alcohol, if I haven't shaved in a few days I don't get IDed, whereas if I'm clean shaven, it happens every time. Beards definitely do make you look older by a decade.[/QUOTE] Tangential, but I've gotten IDed maybe 10% of the time while buying alcohol and about 90% of the time while buying hookah or R rated movie tickets. And I have a visible tattoo, which you can't get if you're under 18...

[QUOTE=nox;49504432]I lost my virginity, couldn't orgasm. Discovered I get no pleasure from sex.[/QUOTE] You may not actually be attracted to your partner or you may just be masturbating too much. Try not whackin it for a week and try again. I had this issue at first when I lost my virginity, but I found out that I couldn't force myself to be attracted to a fat chick no matter how hard I tried. [editline]11th January 2016[/editline] [QUOTE=Enola;49507715]I want to have sex again. This frustration sucks.[/QUOTE] Get on tinder and be an over-confident asshole. You'll be surprised. Starting off with "There she is!" And then following up with "You have no idea how many times I had to swipe left to find you!" works hilariously well. [editline]11th January 2016[/editline] [QUOTE=Disseminate;49508858]I've noticed that whenever I buy alcohol, if I haven't shaved in a few days I don't get IDed, whereas if I'm clean shaven, it happens every time. Beards definitely do make you look older by a decade.[/quote] I have that same issue, even though my face is heavily scarred and looks like Paschendale in 1917. I have to stay cleanly shaven or I might get killed when I'm working.

i really got bored of tinder. not only because iwas actively looking for people who were remotely interesting or something(thus finding very few matches) but when i isad "fuck it" and tried to match everything and everyone i was reminded how absurdly boring people can be. If i ever see another "i'm a happy [I]b[/I]egan person looking for friends" profile i swear

Yeah I've decided to try to keep Tinder on the back burner. I don't want to be so dependent on it, and instead try to go out and meet people the ol' fashioned way.

So this girl and I met throgh a mutual friend 4 days ago. My friend invited me to play pool at this pool place. I went there and two of her friends were there. One friend I'm not attracted to and has a boyfriend, but the other one is insanely cute and her personality was just great. A sarcastic asshole just like me. I couldn't tell straight away, but we definitely had chemistry. I learned to be myself around her within hours. Which never happens with me. It usually takes me months, weeks at best, before I can start saying stupid shit and knowing people won't think I'm a weird douchebag. Anyways, things escalate very quickly. We went to her house that night, and we talked about music and people for a few hours together, with her other friend just asleep on her bed. The next night her friend left before I did, so it was just us, and we were in bed together cuddling the fuck out of each other. It quickly turned in to a hardcore make out / foreplay session, but we both agreed we should stop before things get worse. We both told each other that this isn't who we are, we aren't this easy, etc. And I realized it wasn't even lust that led me to that moment. And not even just because she was cuddling with me. It was because I realized she is who I want to be with, and I don't need to pretend to be someone else, or have a toned down personality to please her. Put more simply, I learned to be happy on my own since my last breakup (which was terrible if you guys know me). I gained a sense of individuality, and self-completeness. And this girl actually likes me as the individual I learned to be. This might be hard to understand so sorry if I'm being dense. Anyways, I watched a movie last night with her and she loved it and I could tell how awesome she was just because she was shittalking people in the movie the whole time like I do. So she's pretty cool. Like I said, it's only been 4 days, and we're still just in that 'talking' phase, but I know she's a good one. Here's the part that sucks: I met her on my holiday break, so I left for uni today. Granted, I'm only 2 hours and 30 minutes away and come back every few weeks for 4 days (friday through monday), but it's still tough and I'm still a little unsure exactly how this is going to pan out. Let's hope for the best!

My current girlfriend queefs a lot after sex, how to fix? It puts my wet farts to shame [QUOTE=Kirbyfactor;49506915]Lost my v card yesterday, came pretty quick which was disappointing. But my girlfriend said we'd just keep trying until I get better so I guess that's cool?[/QUOTE] Not a big deal mate. Just finish her off. I completely lost my erection the first time I had sex, nerves happen and it affects everyone differently

[QUOTE=NixNax123;49511945]post[/QUOTE] This actually gives me hope that there is someone out there which I could have real chemistry with. It was a good thing that you guys agreed to stop, You'll have something to look really forward to. Wish you the best! [QUOTE=Lemmingston;49512831]I completely lost my erection the first time I had sex, nerves happen and it affects everyone differently[/QUOTE] Oh god when i think about it, it took me an hour before I could get hard the first time.

[QUOTE=Kirbyfactor;49506915]Lost my v card yesterday, came pretty quick which was disappointing. But my girlfriend said we'd just keep trying until I get better so I guess that's cool?[/QUOTE] We had sex again today and it was ten times better. Although I still didn't make her cum

[QUOTE=Kirbyfactor;49515699]We had sex again today and it was ten times better. [B]Although I still didn't make her cum[/B][/QUOTE] Get used to basic missionary not cutting it. For guys its simply, penis + [I]anything that causes a stroking sensation[/I] = happy ending For girls, often times its so much more. Gotta take that into account.

[QUOTE=S31-Syntax;49515724]Get used to basic missionary not cutting it. For guys its simply, penis + [I]anything that causes a stroking sensation[/I] = happy ending For girls, often times its so much more. Gotta take that into account.[/QUOTE] I think it's hard for her to cum at all, because I both ate her ate her out and used my hands, then she used her own hands and after twenty minutes she still didn't cum. Only more reasons to get better I geuss

dunno what everyone elses' M.O. is but usually if I haven't made a girl cum during sex, I'll take the time afterwards to go down on her. I'm not the best at giving head, but I'll help her out until she's finished and then we can both shake hands and pat each other on the back for a job well done.