Sex, Girlfriends and Shit VII: "Power Moves For High Quality Women" - General

[QUOTE=Ringo_Satu;50920795]She's not judging me, I believe, but I am not sure she'll go out again. Nerves are getting on me and I am afraid if the next time happens, I'll be even more nervous bc of this accident. Fucking hell.[/QUOTE] It's no biggie dude. In a day or two, just ask her if she wants to hang out at your place and watch a movie or something over the weekend.

[QUOTE=phygon;50920811]It's no biggie dude. In a day or two, just ask her if she wants to hang out at your place and watch a movie or something over the weekend.[/QUOTE] I'll try. Sure hope it's not over, ffs, I'm really into her.

[QUOTE=Ringo_Satu;50920826]I'll try. Sure hope it's not over, ffs, I'm really into her.[/QUOTE] Honestly, if a girl was going to stop seeing you because of your inability to get it up one time, you dodged a bullet. Just stay cool and try again. (there's also the possibility that she just wanted to hook up once, in which case she might not want to see you again, so keep that in mind) good luck

[QUOTE=phygon;50920842]Honestly, if a girl was going to stop seeing you because of your inability to get it up one time, you dodged a bullet. Just stay cool and try again. (there's also the possibility that she just wanted to hook up once, in which case she might not want to see you again, so keep that in mind) good luck[/QUOTE] Fair point. She's probably not the hook-up once girl, I don't go for that. It was a slow progress towards the failure of today. Thank you for advice though, honestly UPDATE Just talked to her, she said it's okay, found the whole situation funny. She still likes me, wants to hang out again. I guess everything's ok then, still feel a bit ashames but it'll go away soon I hope.

I had a party in July and my casual fuckbuddy was hanging off me like we were some sort of thing in front of people, some I was actually interested in. Don't know if that'll turn some of them away.

[QUOTE=Ringo_Satu;50920857]Fair point. She's probably not the hook-up once girl, I don't go for that. It was a slow progress towards the failure of today. Thank you for advice though, honestly UPDATE Just talked to her, she said it's okay, found the whole situation funny. She still likes me, wants to hang out again. I guess everything's ok then, still feel a bit ashames but it'll go away soon I hope.[/QUOTE] dude it happens to everyone, don't worry about it. stress, anxiety, performance anxiety...pretty much anything makes that happen. as long as she knows it's not because you find her hideous or something, which any reasonable girl (that knows how boners work) wouldn't assume, you should be fine oh also has this happened before and/or are you on any antidepressants because those also do that

Sounds like he's just hurt and trying to rationalize his situation to himself. "You can't fire me, I quit" kinda deal. I feel bad for kids who are growing up in the age of social media and are having their childhood mistakes immortalized on the internet.

[QUOTE=Guy Mannly;50922671]Sounds like he's just hurt and trying to rationalize his situation to himself. "You can't fire me, I quit" kinda deal. I feel bad for kids who are growing up in the age of social media and are having their childhood mistakes immortalized on the internet.[/QUOTE] i feel like there might be some value to having these mistakes pointed out though

[QUOTE=Guy Mannly;50922671]Sounds like he's just hurt and trying to rationalize his situation to himself. "You can't fire me, I quit" kinda deal. I feel bad for kids who are growing up in the age of social media and are having their childhood mistakes immortalized on the internet.[/QUOTE] He'd have some idea of a point if he stopped at "expect us not to get mad about it" but then he drops this Elliot Rodgers stuff on us [editline]21st August 2016[/editline] [QUOTE=Mr. N;50921810]I had a party in July and my casual fuckbuddy was hanging off me like we were some sort of thing in front of people, some I was actually interested in. Don't know if that'll turn some of them away.[/QUOTE] Maybe, I personally avoid going after people I think are in a relationship, if I pursue them to the point they betray their partner to go with me it's sort of evidence that they're capable of doing that to myself.

dude at 16 i'd totally date a girl that only wanted dick and starbucks

[QUOTE=Zukriuchen;50922716]i feel like there might be some value to having these mistakes pointed out though[/QUOTE] Since when has a teen ever listened to advice given to them by an adult? Besides, kids do not perceive long term consequences in the same way that adults do. The fact that these posts are immortalized online probably won't bother them until they're already old enough to know better.

[QUOTE=E = MC Hammer;50921864]dude it happens to everyone, don't worry about it. stress, anxiety, performance anxiety...pretty much anything makes that happen. as long as she knows it's not because you find her hideous or something, which any reasonable girl (that knows how boners work) wouldn't assume, you should be fine oh also has this happened before and/or are you on any antidepressants because those also do that[/QUOTE] It happened once on my first time, but I somehow managed to pull through. Not on antidepressants. I managed to pinpoint what happened, she is a virgin, so I think I was a bit afraid as I look at her like something really fragile, that made me nervous and I fucked it up. Next time it's gonna work, I believe in myself.

[QUOTE=Kirbyfactor;50918437]GF is mad at me, but when I ask her why she's mad she said 'Nothing's wrong ugh' Thing is I literally can't think of anything I did wrong, I only asked her to hang out at the park with me and a mutual friend[/QUOTE] Found out what's wrong, she dumped me as well

[QUOTE=Kirbyfactor;50923413]Found out what's wrong, she dumped me as well[/QUOTE] That sucks man. What was wrong if you don't mind me asking

[QUOTE=RenegadeCop;50922352]I saw this on my Facebook, and it made me laugh so I thought I'd share. [t]http://i.imgur.com/FeGR68F.png[/t] Should make you guys feel good that you aren't this person[/QUOTE] Are we sure this isn't the person that was a listener on BlahTherapy that told me "women like being treated like shit"????

[QUOTE=Guy Mannly;50923113]Since when has a teen ever listened to advice given to them by an adult? Besides, kids do not perceive long term consequences in the same way that adults do. The fact that these posts are immortalized online probably won't bother them until they're already old enough to know better.[/QUOTE] i meant it as a possible bright side to a bad thing, not that we should be actively shitting on kids for being kids. but you're right, i've always imagined that if i was to go back in time and tell the old me what i was doing wrong, i wouldn't actually be able to convince myself

[QUOTE=Kirbyfactor;50923413]Found out what's wrong, she dumped me as well[/QUOTE] that's a shitter. I hope things get better for you bro

Bored and lonely, I put up a craigslist ad in Casual Encounters. I'm 21 and a virgin. I put that in the description. Lots of spam bots and finally a woman responds, she is not a spambot, she is a 32 year old BBW and she wants to have sex with me. Help FP. What do.

Are you into that? Probably not a good idea [editline]22nd August 2016[/editline] Did she give any proof or pictures

[QUOTE=VenomousBeetle;50928060]Are you into that? Probably not a good idea [editline]22nd August 2016[/editline] Did she give any proof or pictures[/QUOTE] Several pics. Plus I put in the post "Reply First if you are not a spambot" or something like that. and she was the only woman to reply "First". So I'm pretty sure she's real.

Are you attracted? My only concerns would be stds or mental issues. If she has neither you should be good

[QUOTE=VenomousBeetle;50928104]Are you attracted? My only concerns would be stds or mental issues. If she has neither you should be good[/QUOTE] I don't know if I'm attracted yet. I haven't talked to her much other than she said I was super handsome, cute and she would be honored to be my first time. I don't think she has mental issues but I'm not sure I have anyway of knowing if she has STD's which scares the fuck outta me.

Don't know but overal i think it is not the best idea to just go into it when someone straight up asks for sex over the internet. I mean you put it in casual encounter so i assume you first just wanted to chit chat with someone before going up the ladder.

[QUOTE=darth-veger;50928146]Don't know but overal i think it is not the best idea to just go into it when someone straight up asks for sex over the internet. I mean you put it in casual encounter so i assume you first just wanted to chit chat with someone before going up the ladder.[/QUOTE] Well, the whole idea was to find someone to lose my virginity too. Now that I'm this close I'm just....I dunno. I don't know what to do.

It's casual encounters so it makes sense that they'd "straight up ask for sex over the internet"

Wear a dinger and chances are you're pretty safe. Practice putting one on your fingers beforehand or something.

why are you so eager to lose the virginity on meaningless random sex anyway?

First time was nothing special imo. Sure it was my first time and her first time, that made it somewhat special but it was mostly odd. It only started to be fun when we both know what we liked. I would save your first time with some one you'll like, so you get to practice some more and figure out what both of you like.

[QUOTE=VenomousBeetle;50928181]why are you so eager to lose the virginity on meaningless random sex anyway?[/QUOTE] "Meaningful" first times are overrated and mostly awkward

Just 'cause something is awkward doesn't mean it can't be meaningful to someone.