Sex, Girlfriends and Shit VII: "Power Moves For High Quality Women" - General

She's being avoidant to the questions it seems, it's possible the questions have overwhelmed her so I'd recommend to give her some time and come back to it when you meet in real life, if she's still avoidant then don't pressure her to answer questions and try again later, this is especially important if she suffers from something like anxiety because it can make her feel like she's trapped in a situation she doesn't want to be in. If you are feeling hopeless, then you know what to do, end it before you get even more hurt.

[QUOTE=Reyjr43;51136031]She's being avoidant to the questions it seems, it's possible the questions have overwhelmed her so I'd recommend to give her some time and come back to it when you meet in real life, if she's still avoidant then don't pressure her to answer questions and try again later, this is especially important if she suffers from something like anxiety because it can make her feel like she's trapped in a situation she doesn't want to be in. If you are feeling hopeless, then you know what to do, end it before you get even more hurt.[/QUOTE] -snip- Im going to talk to her soon - Ill post back updates. Thanks for the help.

So basically "how you doing" is going to guarantee to get no reply after " hey " ( online )

[QUOTE=Reyjr43;51136031]-snip-[/QUOTE] Hahah... Well that didn't really go as expected. Not much talking happened. Still together though. Im a moron. But hey im still alive!

[QUOTE=Vi_;51137939]Hahah... Well that didn't really go as expected. Not much talking happened. Still together though. Im a moron. But hey im still alive![/QUOTE] If she decided to sleep with you instead of addressing your concerns, thats not good. I dont know you or her but it sounds to me like shes avoiding the topic any way she can now.

-nvm-

My roommate just broke up with his gf - for the second time - earlier today, so my sunday plans are basically buying beers and sharing weed for people who are bound to watch netflix the next 3 days straight. Tough times all around.

[QUOTE=Chippy1339;51141828]My roommate just broke up with his gf - for the second time - earlier today, so my sunday plans are basically buying beers and sharing weed for people who are bound to watch netflix the next 3 days straight. Tough times all around.[/QUOTE] Reframe it as an opportunity to do his own thing, see new people and spend time doing what he wants to do. A breakup is what you make it of good or bad

So my gf had her chest grow noticeably after she started taking the pill, is that a health concern? (Also does that revert if one switches contraception?)

[QUOTE=_Axel;51144900]So my gf had her chest grow noticeably after she started taking the pill, is that a health concern? (Also does that revert if one switches contraception?)[/QUOTE] [url]http://goaskalice.columbia.edu/answered-questions/does-taking-pill-increase-size-your-breasts[/url] Facepunch is not your local healthcare professional, and it's not a good idea to solicit advice from it as though it is one.

[QUOTE=JohnnyMo1;51145186][url]http://goaskalice.columbia.edu/answered-questions/does-taking-pill-increase-size-your-breasts[/url] Facepunch is not your local healthcare professional, and it's not a good idea to solicit advice from it as though it is one.[/QUOTE] Where else can you turn though, it's not like everyone can just drop hundreds of dollars for a single doctor visit to ask a specific question.

[QUOTE=Ardosos;51145201]Where else can you turn though, it's not like everyone can just drop hundreds of dollars for a single doctor visit to ask a specific question.[/QUOTE] Actual, trustworthy medical websites/gov websites for your country are a good choice over Facepunch.

[QUOTE=Ardosos;51145201]Where else can you turn though, it's not like everyone can just drop hundreds of dollars for a single doctor visit to ask a specific question.[/QUOTE] American problems

[QUOTE=JohnnyMo1;51145186][url]http://goaskalice.columbia.edu/answered-questions/does-taking-pill-increase-size-your-breasts[/url] Facepunch is not your local healthcare professional, and it's not a good idea to solicit advice from it as though it is one.[/QUOTE] Well she's seeing her gynecologist regularly so I'm not actually concerned about grave stuff happening, I guess I was phrasing that wrong. I just recall people talking about that here a few months ago so I was wondering if people had experience minor issues with that.

The facepunch medical stuff thread was nice while it existed.

[QUOTE=Ardosos;51145201]Where else can you turn though, it's not like everyone can just drop hundreds of dollars for a single doctor visit to ask a specific question.[/QUOTE] Google? Where I found that link to an question and answer page from a university a top medical program with a few seconds of work?

[QUOTE=_Axel;51144900]So my gf had her chest grow noticeably after she started taking the pill, is that a health concern? (Also does that revert if one switches contraception?)[/QUOTE] Up her dose! [I]Up her dose!![/I] Don't let this opportunity to live every 12-year-old boy's dream slip away, bro!

Weight gain while taking hormonal birth control is common.

[QUOTE=RenegadeCop;51153852]Are women actually attracted to guys with nicer cars? Because I seem to attract more old car guys in their 40s than I do young women in their 20s. Sounds like something people like to [I]think[/I] is true, but actually isn't.[/QUOTE] Define "nicer car"? In general, stability, money, career are very rarely bad things and a decent car can often be an indicator of that.

Ugh, I [I]gooooootta[/I] get the cost of my wedding down. This shit is adding up to be waaaaayyyyy too fuckin expencive.

[QUOTE=RenegadeCop;51153852]Are women actually attracted to guys with nicer cars? Because I seem to attract more old car guys in their 40s than I do young women in their 20s. Sounds like something people like to [I]think[/I] is true, but actually isn't.[/QUOTE] [video=youtube;UcvHSmF28qc]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UcvHSmF28qc[/video]

[QUOTE=RenegadeCop;51153963]The other love of my life [t]http://i.imgur.com/Z5GISOs.jpg[/t][/QUOTE] i mean it's a nice car definitely but it's not exactly the type that screams "financial stability and huge amounts of disposable income" like a porsche or ferrari would. the stereotype of girls liking guys with nice cars has more to do with money than it does how many vrooms your cars engine can make

My girlfriend got a baby brother 12 days ago. And he's completely flipped everyone in the house around. Her mother, who never liked me, all of the sudden is alright with me being there and is even fine with me watching the baby. My girlfriend, who told me the very first time I met her and many times after that that she never wants a baby or wants to get married, wants a baby now. Really strange how one baby did that.

[QUOTE=Kirbyfactor;51155130]...[/QUOTE] What can you say, babies are majestic little fucks after all, then they become toddlers or young children and everybody loses it.

all babies are terrible

I never cared for the idea of having kids until I started getting a lot of professors who are dads and always share photos or videos of their kids in class (as it relates to psychology). I've given some thought to adopting once I'm in a situation where I could support a kid. At the same time, I'm disinterested in marriage/long term romantic relationships, so chances are I'll end up with a less than traditional family.

[QUOTE=_Axel;51144900]So my gf had her chest grow noticeably after she started taking the pill, is that a health concern? (Also does that revert if one switches contraception?)[/QUOTE] IIRC it's normal, it is probably just the weight gain from it though. I'm on the nexplanon arm implant thing and oh god I've gotten fat. I eat healthy and walk a lot but I've gained like 15 pounds. But I'm actually filling out my bra cups so whatever. As long as your gf's breast exams are normal I wouldn't worry. And yes, babies are infectious diseases. My bf's niece is almost 2 now and I swear I turn into a broody little shit every time I see her. Good thing I've got that arm thing. :v: [QUOTE=Birdman101;51154071]Ugh, I [I]gooooootta[/I] get the cost of my wedding down. This shit is adding up to be waaaaayyyyy too fuckin expencive.[/QUOTE] See if you can cut some of the costs by making your own DIY decorations and shit like that. Also, maybe get a used wedding dress/suit whatever. Maybe have a family member who's a good baker make the cake too instead of paying out the ass for a professional one. There's a ton of websites for that type of stuff. Once me and the bf get hitched that's what I'm doing. We both agreed we don't want to spend more than like a few grand since we need money for a house instead. We do have a huge family though to help.

Do you guys feel that dating while both parties still living with their parents is doable? I'm 21, she's 21, but like sometimes it feels like I should hold off on relationship stuff because of this one problem. Anyone else feel similar?

[QUOTE=Altec100;51165443]Do you guys feel that dating while both parties still living with their parents is doable? I'm 21, she's 21, but like sometimes it feels like I should hold off on relationship stuff because of this one problem. Anyone else feel similar?[/QUOTE] My ex and I broke up entirely because of my parents, they refused to let us meet IRL because they were too paranoid about him "burning the house down" (I'm not even kidding about this.) so now with my current relationship, I just told them to never get their hopes up about the possibility of meeting. Relationships while living with your parents can be done, all depends on how your parents and their parents act though.

[QUOTE=Reyjr43;51165702]My ex and I broke up entirely because of my parents, they refused to let us meet IRL because they were too paranoid about him "burning the house down" (I'm not even kidding about this.) so now with my current relationship, I just told them to never get their hopes up about the possibility of meeting. Relationships while living with your parents can be done, all depends on how your parents and their parents act though.[/QUOTE] I've always had really supportive parents. They'd tell me if they didn't like something, but were very clear that it was my life and my descision if I wanted to stay with someone despite all that. My dad even went as far as seeing my ex as his (sort of) daughter