Sex, Girlfriends and Shit VII: "Power Moves For High Quality Women" - General

[QUOTE=OvB;51227500]Same problem except in 5' 4". I figure it may not go along with social norms but fuck it. Who cares if you date a taller chick. It's not like it was our choice being manlets.[/QUOTE] [sp]no excuse to be under 6' go hit the gym fatass loljk[/sp] I'm the same height as my GF, and she's tall enough that she refuses to wear high heels for that very reason.

I'm 6'1" and my GF is like...5'8"? Probably, something around there. She's JUUUUST a little too tall so I can't comfortably rest my chin on her head, I have to tilt my head up a bit

I'm still trying to figure out why we're resting chins on our gf's dickheads at all right now tbh [editline]19th October 2016[/editline] and what being taller has to do with that.

First timer here, hoping to get some advice, I have been dating my girlfriend for two years now, we started our senior year of high school and now we are both sophomores in college. It's been going really well, but she is under the assumption that I want to stay with her once I graduate and go on to grad school because, well I pretty much led her on to believe that. But I definitely know I need to break things off. I realized that I don't really want to be in [I]any[/I] relationship right now, and I do not want to get married until I graduate grad school which will be probably 5-7 years from now. She has expressed lots of interest in getting married within 2-3 years which I just cannot do. This, however, I have been absolutely explicit about. Also, I definitely do not think even after grad school that she would be the woman I would even want to marry. My issue is, how exactly would I go about even breaking up with her? I have been acting as if our relationship been going splendidly the past month and she has essentially no idea that this would be coming (I know, it's shitty). Should I just talk to her and let it rip off like a band aid even though she has no idea it is coming? Or should I wait a week and let her know I don't want to talk to her or something? I have no idea what to do in this situation.

[QUOTE=shadowdude14;51227863]First timer here, hoping to get some advice, I have been dating my girlfriend for two years now, we started our senior year of high school and now we are both sophomores in college. It's been going really well, but she is under the assumption that I want to stay with her once I graduate and go on to grad school because, well I pretty much led her on to believe that. But I definitely know I need to break things off. I realized that I don't really want to be in [I]any[/I] relationship right now, and I do not want to get married until I graduate grad school which will be probably 5-7 years from now. She has expressed lots of interest in getting married within 2-3 years which I just cannot do. This, however, I have been absolutely explicit about. Also, I definitely do not think even after grad school that she would be the woman I would even want to marry. My issue is, how exactly would I go about even breaking up with her? I have been acting as if our relationship been going splendidly the past month and she has essentially no idea that this would be coming (I know, it's shitty). Should I just talk to her and let it rip off like a band aid even though she has no idea it is coming? Or should I wait a week and let her know I don't want to talk to her or something? I have no idea what to do in this situation.[/QUOTE] Step one: Talk to her. Step two: while talking to her, tell her how you feel. Step three: be honest with her. Communication is paramount. She needs to know your position on things. If you just disappear or suddenly start treating her like shit you are going to burn bridges faster than denatured alcohol and an oxyfuel torch

[QUOTE=shadowdude14;51227863]First timer here, hoping to get some advice, I have been dating my girlfriend for two years now, we started our senior year of high school and now we are both sophomores in college. It's been going really well, but she is under the assumption that I want to stay with her once I graduate and go on to grad school because, well I pretty much led her on to believe that. But I definitely know I need to break things off. I realized that I don't really want to be in [I]any[/I] relationship right now, and I do not want to get married until I graduate grad school which will be probably 5-7 years from now. She has expressed lots of interest in getting married within 2-3 years which I just cannot do. This, however, I have been absolutely explicit about. Also, I definitely do not think even after grad school that she would be the woman I would even want to marry. My issue is, how exactly would I go about even breaking up with her? I have been acting as if our relationship been going splendidly the past month and she has essentially no idea that this would be coming (I know, it's shitty). Should I just talk to her and let it rip off like a band aid even though she has no idea it is coming? Or should I wait a week and let her know I don't want to talk to her or something? I have no idea what to do in this situation.[/QUOTE] from my experience sitting down and communicating is best, shes going to be sad either way, but maybe you guys can come to understanding. Worst thing you can do is continue leading her on then fuck off. [editline]19th October 2016[/editline] ninja'd

I'm always of a mind that the sooner you get it over with, the better. And honesty is usually the best policy. If you want to split up to focus on grad school, let her know that. Grad school is a huge commitment and it would likely be fairly understandable to anyone looking in from the outside that you would need to focus on yourself for that. Don't beat around the bush with it. Might be even worse that way. Just make sure you treat her with respect throughout.

"Sorry lady but grad school's what's really got my heart" is probably the best way to handle this.

[QUOTE=OvB;51227500]Same problem except in 5' 4". I figure it may not go along with social norms but fuck it. Who cares if you date a taller chick. It's not like it was our choice being manlets.[/QUOTE] My ex was the same height as me but loved to dress up and wear heels, so whenever we went out for a nice dinner I'd bend my knees and shuffle around like I was 3 feet tall. Even if she was mortified, the other people eating in the restaurant usually appreciated my antics lol

My GF is 5' 1'', best height for bed cuddling.

she keeps threatening to get heels that put us at eye level but she's going to kill herself if she wears like 8" heels

[QUOTE=E = MC Hammer;51228898]she keeps threatening to get heels that put us at eye level but she's going to kill herself if she wears like 8" heels[/QUOTE] Mate, I wish my ex threatened to get and wear heels. Then again, I'm into legs.

I was going to buy some jewellery for my girlfriend for our one year anniversary. She wears like, cute plastic earrings, like, a black/green heart and a little monster. She has two piercings on one ear. I think it's more that she just doesn't want to buy anything expensive for herself, I can't afford anything expensive, not would I want to spend that much, I was thinking of buying something for maybe a hundred, a necklace or a bracelet, maybe earrings. I want something understated, but I really have no idea, I'm at a complete loss. Help.

[QUOTE=reevezy67;51232165]I was going to buy some jewellery for my girlfriend for our one year anniversary. She wears like, cute plastic earrings, like, a black/green heart and a little monster. She has two piercings on one ear. I think it's more that she just doesn't want to buy anything expensive for herself, I can't afford anything expensive, not would I want to spend that much, I was thinking of buying something for maybe a hundred, a necklace or a bracelet, maybe earrings. I want something understated, but I really have no idea, I'm at a complete loss. Help.[/QUOTE] What kind of interests does she have? Is she religious? What kind of earrings? Studs or hoops?

[QUOTE=reevezy67;51232165]I was going to buy some jewellery for my girlfriend for our one year anniversary. She wears like, cute plastic earrings, like, a black/green heart and a little monster. She has two piercings on one ear. I think it's more that she just doesn't want to buy anything expensive for herself, I can't afford anything expensive, not would I want to spend that much, I was thinking of buying something for maybe a hundred, a necklace or a bracelet, maybe earrings. I want something understated, but I really have no idea, I'm at a complete loss. Help.[/QUOTE] Bedazzled butt plug?

[QUOTE=reevezy67;51232165]I was going to buy some jewellery for my girlfriend for our one year anniversary. She wears like, cute plastic earrings, like, a black/green heart and a little monster. She has two piercings on one ear. I think it's more that she just doesn't want to buy anything expensive for herself, I can't afford anything expensive, not would I want to spend that much, I was thinking of buying something for maybe a hundred, a necklace or a bracelet, maybe earrings. I want something understated, but I really have no idea, I'm at a complete loss. Help.[/QUOTE] Don't spend that much on jewelry, especially if you have no idea what she likes. Chances are she will hate it and only wear it out of guilt.

A dude bought a friend of mine in our study group a charm bracelet watch for her birthday which is still like two weeks away. She was shocked about it. Think he also asked her out to coffee after giving it to her but only once. He used to be kinda flirty with her but so far after that it seems like he backed off entirely. Seems super weird to be buying jewelry for people you're not in a relationship with, ey? Felt to me like he was buying a date. The whole thing seems super awkward from my position but I honestly don't know shit about being social so. But yeah mate I wouldn't spend a ton of money unless you knew there was something she wanted.

There are cheap ish jewelry options, which is why I asked the questions I did. Especially if they're a year in and going well, then unless she's vain af (which I doubt based on his description of her) then something small, of decent quality, and [I]thoughtful[/I] is the best way to go. On that note, Engagement ring shopping is interesting. And I'm hoping at the end of the line she appreciates that I didn't get one under $1000. I want it to be special, but I can't do that if she doesn't want me spending more than $1000. I'll stop at like, $2000. Tops. Probably aiming for $1500. I already know what style I'm going for, I just need a good rock.

I prefer like... five dollar necklaces from Forever 21 or H&M to anything crazy expensive. I always feel awful when people buy me jewelry because I only wear necklaces and even then it's only ever cheap shit because I know I'm probably gonna lose it. Also if you're buying an engagement ring, I'd definitely find something other than diamond. They're so overpriced and you can get something MUCH cheaper that looks almost identical. I mean if you're deadset on a diamond, go for it, but man I can't imagine ever spending that much, personally.

On the subject of jewelry talk though, how worth it would it be to spend 2-300 on a university ring? I'll be graduating next year and I've been wearing my high school ring for ages. Would it be worth it to "upgrade"? The rings are pretty nice. [editline]20th October 2016[/editline] [QUOTE=RenegadeCop;51234894]My GF's getting whatever 300 dollars can get me at Walmart Someone at my college did a presentation about weddings, and stated they took out a fucking loan to pay for it. Most irresponsible financial decision I can think of, tbh. Weddings are scams.[/QUOTE] Weddings are nicer when they're smaller imo. You can do a lot of really cool stuff DIY. Pinterest has a ton of fun ideas for that sort of thing. [editline]20th October 2016[/editline] Now if I had the MONEY for a large wedding... Then that'd be different lol.

[QUOTE=Pascall;51234897]On the subject of jewelry talk though, how worth it would it be to spend 2-300 on a university ring? I'll be graduating next year and I've been wearing my high school ring for ages. Would it be worth it to "upgrade"? [/QUOTE] I go to A&M and the Aggie Ring is a pretty big deal. Our rings range from $1,062 - $1,442.

[QUOTE=OvB;51234927]I go to A&M and the Aggie Ring is a pretty big deal. Our rings range from $1,062 - $1,442.[/QUOTE] That makes sense. I'm at UTSA so it's not as big as if I were at UT Austin I'd imagine lol.

[QUOTE=Pascall;51234897]On the subject of jewelry talk though, how worth it would it be to spend 2-300 on a university ring? I'll be graduating next year and I've been wearing my high school ring for ages. Would it be worth it to "upgrade"? The rings are pretty nice. [editline]20th October 2016[/editline] Weddings are nicer when they're smaller imo. You can do a lot of really cool stuff DIY. Pinterest has a ton of fun ideas for that sort of thing. [editline]20th October 2016[/editline] Now if I had the MONEY for a large wedding... Then that'd be different lol.[/QUOTE] For an ignorant brit what is a high school ring and what is a un ring? If its worth as much as a wedding ring it must be some special shit. We just have like £30 hoodies in this country lol

[QUOTE=metallics;51234952]For an ignorant brit what is a high school ring and what is a un ring? If its worth as much as a wedding ring it must be some special shit. We just have like £30 hoodies in this country lol[/QUOTE] Might be an American/North American thing but our high schools and universities/colleges often sell us class rings. Not sure how the tradition started, and it's probably just another way to milk some money out of you, but some colleges take it seriously. Like I said previously, at Texas A&M the "Aggie Ring" as it's called is basically a rite of passage. I've heard stories from alumni about how the ring got them a job because the person interviewing also had one, etc, etc. [url]http://www.aggienetwork.com/ring/history.aspx[/url] A&M finds a way to make everything a big deal.

[QUOTE=S31-Syntax;51234865]There are cheap ish jewelry options, which is why I asked the questions I did. Especially if they're a year in and going well, then unless she's vain af (which I doubt based on his description of her) then something small, of decent quality, and [I]thoughtful[/I] is the best way to go. On that note, Engagement ring shopping is interesting. And I'm hoping at the end of the line she appreciates that I didn't get one under $1000. I want it to be special, but I can't do that if she doesn't want me spending more than $1000. I'll stop at like, $2000. Tops. Probably aiming for $1500. I already know what style I'm going for, I just need a good rock.[/QUOTE] I never got the engagement ring thing, especially the whole "good rock" stuff. Here people only buy rings when they marry, and even then more often than not it's the simple basic ring without any overpriced diamond on it, which has the added benefit of not making males who wear it look like Colombian drug lords. [QUOTE=OvB;51234970]Might be an American/North American thing but our high schools and universities/colleges often sell us class rings. Not sure how the tradition started, and it's probably just another way to milk some money out of you, but some colleges take it seriously. Like I said previously, at Texas A&M the "Aggie Ring" as it's called is basically a rite of passage. I've heard stories from alumni about how the ring got them a job because the person interviewing also had one, etc, etc. [url]http://www.aggienetwork.com/ring/history.aspx[/url] A&M finds a way to make everything a big deal.[/QUOTE] [I]What.[/I] The jewelry industry must have been lobbying your government something fierce.

Me and my girl fucked for the first time for both of us yesterday and today again. Neither time was protected, but I pulled out before anything came out and gave myself a little help to cum outside of it. Is this okay? will she get pregger?

We're not doctors, nor were we present when you had sex to ensure that not one drop of semen got inside of her. Use protection next time, or get her on birth control. Otherwise, go grab Plan B.

But it's probably okay just those two times right? I'm just really worried I've fucked up, is it likely that I did?

You're probably fine? [editline]20th October 2016[/editline] Like I said, if it was yesterday and today and you're LEGITIMATELY worried, go get Plan B. She can take it up to 5 days after you guys had sex but it's more effective the earlier you take it. It's not CHEAP but there it is. But like I said you're probably fine, dude. Just be careful next time if you're that worried.

Better use protection my dude, it's there for a reason. Though I imagine the risk of STDs is minimal if it legit was the first time for the both of you but better safe than sorry, y'know what I'm saying? It can also help alleviate any possible "accidents". Using condoms is gonna suck after having a go raw but add a few drops of lube in the rubber cocksock and it shouldn't be so bad.