I've never cried over a girl, but I didn't cry when my best friend (knew him since before elementary school) died. I don't know why. Lots of other people cried that didn't know him that well, I knew him the best out of anyone. I get alot of worried looks from my parents and stuff, but I feel fine.
I think my main problem may be that I don't really have anything to be confident about. Outside of a couple classes in school I'm not really good at anything. So since girls like confidence I'm pretty much fucked.
Also don't suggest I help girls who are struggling in the classes I'm good in I can't fucking stand people who don't understand simple concepts like what nationalism is when that's what our entire fucking social studies curriculum is based on this year.
[QUOTE=Taepodong-2;26377096]At least you're not me and girls don't give you a chance just for listening to music that's different to say the least.[/QUOTE]
You don't give people a chance if they listen to other music either though. I do sympathize for you though because all through elementary and half of middle school I was odd one out, the only real friend I had was the one I mentioned above.
Do some extracurricular stuff like volunteering for the school or someshit.
I making a list for who needs hugs.
Right here :smith:
[QUOTE=Stupideye;26377288]Do some extracurricular stuff like volunteering for the school or someshit.[/QUOTE]
The only extracurricular shit my school has is sports and since it's a Catholic school probably some religious bullshit. I'm not big on playing sports and I'm an atheist so you can count me out of that stuff.
Hardest time of my life would've had to been when my girlfriend broke up with me for being depressed.
About two months earlier, three of my family members died in three weeks. One from heart disease, one from Alzheimer's, and another while in surgery.
Did I cry? Yup. It's hard to handle that much. Everyone has a time where you just "let go". This perpetual moment where you break down, because you can't handle the volume of the emotion you're feeling.
A lot of you guys just need to figure out a path for the problems you do have.
Dark, you've gotta let go. Give it time, and chances are there's better match for you, rather than the person you were with.
Taep- You just gotta get your confidence going.
And Code, people can't get to know you if you're a loner. Do something to be noticed for. Write, draw, or even crack a few jokes in the middle of class. It worked for me, even though the teacher was a little irked.
I really don't know how to make myself confident. Like I said, other than two classes in school I'm not good at anything. Also I have muscular dystrophy which everyone seems to keep forgetting. That's fucking horrible for my confidence even though it is mild because either way I'm still not totally normal for it.
what does your case of muscular dystrophy do to you?
[QUOTE=Taepodong-2;26377407]I really don't know how to make myself confident. Like I said, other than two classes in school I'm not good at anything. Also I have muscular dystrophy which everyone seems to keep forgetting. That's fucking horrible for my confidence even though it is mild because either way I'm still not totally normal for it.[/QUOTE]
Dude, I have a hole above my ass the bleeds frequently. You think that's not confidence hindering? Of course it is. People don't forget, it's just that don't know how to address it. And no one is normal! Everyone has a different trait to them. No one is "normal".
You're still a person. You still have confidence. How you work on that is up to you. The point is, it's achievable.
[QUOTE=Stupideye;26377435]what does your case of muscular dystrophy do to you?[/QUOTE]
Too much physical activity and my legs start to hurt to the point where I can barely move them anymore. It used to be a lot worse when I was younger but as I got older I guess I could deal with the pain more. But according to the doctors it's very mild.
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[QUOTE=Identity;26377467]Dude, I have a hole above my ass the bleeds frequently. You think that's not confidence hindering? Of course it is. People don't forget, it's just that don't know how to address it. And no one is normal! Everyone has a different trait to them. No one is "normal".
You're still a person. You still have confidence. How you work on that is up to you. The point is, it's achievable.[/QUOTE]
You try being confident when even your parents don't encourage you to reach your goals and/or are disappointed in you. My mom is trying to discourage me from being a teacher for some stupid reason, my step dad is disappointed that I'm not playing football and fucking a different girl every weekend and bot of them discourage me from taking up good, productive hobbies like learning to play guitar. Also my mom has extremely unrealistic expectations for me, she thinks I should have a 90% average or higher in all my classes.
christmas avatar yo
[QUOTE=Stupideye;26374680]it has never been proven that lives have been at risk from leaks, typical fox news and the american government spewing shit[/QUOTE]
Bullshit. They released the names of informants that were helping coalition forces. If that's not putting peoples lives at risk, what is?
[QUOTE=Taepodong-2;26377494]Too much physical activity and my legs start to hurt to the point where I can barely move them anymore. It used to be a lot worse when I was younger but as I got older I guess I could deal with the pain more. But according to the doctors it's very mild.
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You try being confident when even your parents don't encourage you to reach your goals and/or are disappointed in you. My mom is trying to discourage me from being a teacher for some stupid reason, my step dad is disappointed that I'm not playing football and fucking a different girl every weekend and bot of them discourage me from taking up good, productive hobbies like learning to play guitar. Also my mom has extremely unrealistic expectations for me, she thinks I should have a 90% average or higher in all my classes.[/QUOTE]
And you're letting them hold you back?
Turn into a furry. Apparently those people fuck like wild rabbits, sometimes even dressed as rabbits.
[QUOTE=Taepodong-2;26377022]Also what kind of gay guy listens to metal anyway?[/QUOTE]
[IMG]http://img826.imageshack.us/img826/3532/judaspriestattctfri.gif[/IMG]????
[QUOTE=The Slick;26384194]Bullshit. They released the names of informants that were helping coalition forces. If that's not putting peoples lives at risk, what is?[/QUOTE]
I'd think them living in a warzone would be a bigger risk than papers releasing the names. We give out protection. It's not like we don't help the people that help us.
I never realized America is so illiterate. I'm reading "The Prince) by Machiavelli and a biography of Castro and a lot of my friends can't wrap their heads around it.
Gibson SG represent.
[QUOTE=Identity;26377372]Dark, you've gotta let go. Give it time, and chances are there's better match for you, rather than the person you were with.[/QUOTE]
It's so hard to let go, I may sound naive for saying this but I was in love with the girl and she returned it, the only who ever has. She made me happy and helped me through a hard time in my life. I spent 10 months with that girl in my heart, and no-one else, but now I've lost her, and we're both still upset about the break-up.
I've never been this depressed in my life. I really haven't, I've been disappointing my parents with my falling grades because I don't feel motivated anymore. I'm being truthful when I say I have no plans past high school. She gave me a reason to move forward.
And now for something completely different.
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It's a little dirty :/
[QUOTE=Dark Descent;26388507]It's so hard to let go, I may sound naive for saying this but I was in love with the girl and she returned it, the only who ever has. She made me happy and helped me through a hard time in my life. I spent 10 months with that girl in my heart, and no-one else, but now I've lost her, and we're both still upset about the break-up.
I've never been this depressed in my life. I really haven't, I've been disappointing my parents with my falling grades because I don't feel motivated anymore. I'm being truthful when I say I have no plans past high school. She gave me a reason to move forward.[/QUOTE]
It was like that for me too, but only for a couple months or so. After a bit, you'll start to notice other girls and generally become interested in them.
Chances are, if this gets more personal I'll text you.
Okay.
You can thank Facebook.
Thank you tyler
I thank whatever deity exists every day for the fact that I don't have to fight to survive, and that I have a permanent supply of necessary nutrients.
Not only this, but I was born into a lifestyle that allows for luxuries such as my computer and Airsoft.
Not having enough money, or not going out every day with my friends are [u]nothing[/u] to complain about to me.
Thank you, Universe.
[QUOTE=The Slick;26384194]Bullshit. They released the names of informants that were helping coalition forces. If that's not putting peoples lives at risk, what is?[/QUOTE]
Assange has repeatedly asked the American government to prove that people are at risk and they have never replied with valid proof.
I have a question for you guys: What came first? 2001: A Space Odyssey novel or movie? I have heard that the novel came first, but I have also heard that they were worked on at the same time.
[QUOTE=Stupideye;26389449]Assange has repeatedly asked the American government to prove that people are at risk and they have never replied with valid proof.[/QUOTE]
The US government isn't talking to Assange, because that's not how it works. Let's say this was 250,000 facebook profiles set to private that he decided to dump. Is the burden on those people whose information he leaked to prove they had the right to keep it private, or is it on him to prove he had the right to release it.
[QUOTE=The Slick;26390199]The US government isn't talking to Assange, because that's not how it works. Let's say this was 250,000 facebook profiles set to private that he decided to dump. Is the burden on those people whose information he leaked to prove they had the right to keep it private, or is it on him to prove he had the right to release it.[/QUOTE]
This is different then a simple Facebook privacy infringement. This has to do with the lack of transparency in the American government. If Assange thought lives were at risk, he would censor names, which he has done before.
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