• Loneliness
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Some times I feel the same way, a bit. I talk to people and all that and I have a social life, but I just don't have any real friends, every "friend" of mine I still feel a bit awkward around. There's no one I always want to hang out with. No true friends. I need a girlfriend. Don't mind me I'm just depressed at the moment due to it being the end of year 11 and everyone I know is going to different sixth forms/ colleges and everyone will be split up.
[QUOTE=lettuce_head;18167593]Some times I feel the same way, a bit. I talk to people and all that and I have a social life, but I just don't have any real friends, every "friend" of mine I still feel a bit awkward around. There's no one I always want to hang out with. No true friends. I need a girlfriend. Don't mind me I'm just depressed at the moment due to it being the end of year 11 and everyone I know is going to different sixth forms/ colleges and everyone will be split up.[/QUOTE] i swear year 11 has only just started? Year 12 (UK) for me has only just started
[QUOTE=lettuce_head;18167593]Some times I feel the same way, a bit. I talk to people and all that and I have a social life, but I just don't have any real friends, every "friend" of mine I still feel a bit awkward around. There's no one I always want to hang out with. No true friends. I need a girlfriend. Don't mind me I'm just depressed at the moment due to it being the end of year 11 and everyone I know is going to different sixth forms/ colleges and everyone will be split up.[/QUOTE] Pretty much the same here, I do hang around with 3 other friends a lot, and I am a decent friend with most guys in my class (being around 9). However, I do not really enjoy being with my "friends". I mean yeah, they do make me laugh sometimes et cetera but that is not enough, The problem is that they are not interested in the opposite gender [b]at all[/b], all they do is playing PC games and talking about nerdy stuff in school like Call of Duty 4 and stuff like that, they also talk about tanks and stuff like that which I find embarrassing. I should leave them, but I fear I will be rejected by everyone else as they see me as a nerd, since this is the last year before college to me, I will try to do better when I get there.
I'm depressed now. Fuck you, OP. But nah, I have pretty good friends. I only have about three at the moment who I really like, who I actually bond with sort of thing, but there are others, some of whom are probably more bonded with me or just naturally caring than they seem. I broke my arm about 4 weeks ago, and it really surprised me that the people who asked if I was all right and stuff weren't the ones that I would have thought liked me most. I don't know what my point is here, but yeah. [editline]05:44PM[/editline] [QUOTE=Kentz;18167805]Pretty much the same here, I do hang around with 3 other friends a lot, and I am a decent friend with most guys in my class (being around 9). However, I do not really enjoy being with my "friends". I mean yeah, they do make me laugh sometimes et cetera but that is not enough, The problem is that they are not interested in the opposite gender [b]at all[/b], all they do is playing PC games and talking about nerdy stuff in school like Call of Duty 4 and stuff like that, they also talk about tanks and stuff like that which I find embarrassing. I should leave them, but I fear I will be rejected by everyone else as they see me as a nerd, since this is the last year before college to me, I will try to do better when I get there.[/QUOTE] But nerdy stuff is fun to talk about. Also why are you complaining about them not being womanisers? I find it irritating when you try and talk to someone and they break off halfway through going "OMG GURL MUZT FLURT."
Just came back with some friends chilling at the mall. Checked out some Xbox games, got a chicken bucket from KFC. Yeah, life is good. It's the little things that matter. Fuck all that being famous shit, my friends are the shizzle. But warning, I have lots of black friends. Just remember to keep your KFC bucket closed. Yeah, no bullshit. I'm serious.
Eh me and my buddies do nothing but pissing off teachers all day at school then we go home, do our homework, eat, play some xbox then when its like sunset we go out and have some mouth watering Shawarma. [img]http://www.southbound.ph/blog/wp-content/photos/ssc/ssc-shawarma-2.jpg[/img] fuck. yeah.
[QUOTE=The Epidemic;18168023]Eh me and my buddies do nothing but pissing off teachers all day at school then we go home, do our homework, eat, play some xbox then when its like sunset we go out and have some mouth watering Shawarma. [/QUOTE] You are lucky, people seem to take life for granted this day and age. Thinking that if they ain't the "popular" guy they will never get chicks and become big in life. I find it so pathetic. ..Anyways, sorry for that random comment ^ ...Thats awesome though, you remind me alot like myself. Similar lifestyles but I prefer some awesome chicken lol.
[QUOTE=Megan Fox;18167951]Just came back with some friends chilling at the mall. Checked out some Xbox games, got a chicken bucket from KFC. Yeah, life is good. It's the little things that matter. Fuck all that being famous shit, my friends are the shizzle. But warning, I have lots of black friends. Just remember to keep your KFC bucket closed. Yeah, no bullshit. I'm serious.[/QUOTE] Black friends of mine seem to know that panera's is to white people as KFC is to black people
[QUOTE=Megan Fox;18168079]You are lucky, people seem to take life for granted this day and age. Thinking that if they ain't the "popular" guy they will never get chicks and become big in life. I find it so pathetic. ..Anyways, sorry for that random comment ^ ...Thats awesome though, you remind me alot like myself. Similar lifestyles but I prefer some awesome chicken lol.[/QUOTE] No my life is waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay too different from yours. Unless you haven't seen a girl's face in r/l for atleast a month. That's right, boy. I live in the land of the terrorists. [img]http://wwp.greenwichmeantime.com/time-zone/asia/saudi-arabia/images/saudi-arabia-flag.jpg[/img] [I]I fucking hate this country.[/I]
[QUOTE=Kai-ryuu;18168107]Black friends of mine seem to know that panera's is to white people as KFC is to black people[/QUOTE] Not sure if the founder agrees; [img]http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/en/8/84/Harland_Sanders.jpg[/img]
[QUOTE=Negrul1;18167917]I'm depressed now. Fuck you, OP. But nah, I have pretty good friends. I only have about three at the moment who I really like, who I actually bond with sort of thing, but there are others, some of whom are probably more bonded with me or just naturally caring than they seem. I broke my arm about 4 weeks ago, and it really surprised me that the people who asked if I was all right and stuff weren't the ones that I would have thought liked me most. I don't know what my point is here, but yeah. [editline]05:44PM[/editline] But nerdy stuff is fun to talk about. Also why are you complaining about them not being womanisers? I find it irritating when you try and talk to someone and they break off halfway through going "OMG GURL MUZT FLURT."[/QUOTE] I'd rather have someone say that than talking about which tank is better, tiger or abraham-something.
[QUOTE=bobste;18162845]smoke a blunt or shoot some heroin and have some imaginary friends[/QUOTE] Those drugs aren't hallucinogens, genius.
[QUOTE=Kentz;18167805]Pretty much the same here, I do hang around with 3 other friends a lot, and I am a decent friend with most guys in my class (being around 9). However, I do not really enjoy being with my "friends". I mean yeah, they do make me laugh sometimes et cetera but that is not enough, The problem is that they are not interested in the opposite gender [b]at all[/b], all they do is playing PC games and talking about nerdy stuff in school like Call of Duty 4 and stuff like that, they also talk about tanks and stuff like that which I find embarrassing. I should leave them, but I fear I will be rejected by everyone else as they see me as a nerd, since this is the last year before college to me, I will try to do better when I get there.[/QUOTE] Yeah like the friends I hang out the most with only talk about games and it's fucking boring, and the one who doesn't talk about games is in the air cadets and he talks about the RAF all the time and how he went on parade with the cadets and had the smartest uniform, he talks about it as if it's cool, but it's really not and he has become considerately less popular since joining the cadets. All the people who I actually enjoy spending time with I never really see outside of school.
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[QUOTE=The_Lizard_Xing;18170762]-snip-[/QUOTE] were is this from?
[QUOTE=The Epidemic;18168023]Eh me and my buddies do nothing but pissing off teachers all day at school then we go home, do our homework, eat, play some xbox then when its like sunset we go out and have some mouth watering Shawarma. [img]http://www.southbound.ph/blog/wp-content/photos/ssc/ssc-shawarma-2.jpg[/img] fuck. yeah.[/QUOTE] why is there semen in it?
[QUOTE=AtomiCol;18170820]why is there semen in it?[/QUOTE] He likes them like that.
Wives kill husbands also. It's not just the other way around... ...sexist
Sounds Like me
I happen to think kinda the same thing. But mostly in the view of a relationship. What happens when a couple, who have been together for 50+ years die? Kinda like the couple in Up. What would you do? You'd be lonely. You're best friend died and now you're all alone with nobody to go through life with you. I happen to find it kind of sad thinking about it.
Interesting read. Not sure If I feel the same way or not. On one hand, I had 3 very good friends, people I could totatly let my guard down around, knew one of them since I moved into my house, 10+ years, she moved a year ago or so and we have since lost contact as she's very busy with college. My other two friends (they are brothers) I met about 5 maybe 6 years ago, which was pretty funny since they lived about 400 feet away and I never knew they existed. Went through the first month trial period and it took off from there. Then they about moved a year ago and we too have fallen out of touch (they are often kept very busy by their dad, works them too much imo, so the little time we do talk is brief). I've had other friends in-between and before, none of them like the other 3, all have moved at some point. Now, the only friend I still have (though I never lost the others, falling out of touch can negate the point of a friend if they basically don't exist in your life) aside from my cousin (who was basically none existent in my life till I turned 11 or so and got a computer, just as he got his and was getting into runescape and invited me one day when I called him (for no reason now that I think of it, maybe it was fate lol), we've been making up for the wasted years now after we found out we have so much in-common, in-fact I'm older than him by 3 days, we were supposed to be born the same day, ha) is someone I've never even met, an online friend to be exact. Known him for about 6 years, talking to him every day, and for pretty much all day (vent), he's possibly the 4th on my list of very good friends, which says alot considering I've never met him, though he lives a few hours away and we plan on meeting at some point soon, shit he's told me he's known me longer than any friend he's ever had in real life. But I'm to the point that I really don't want any more friends in the real world (aside from the one above), I can't replace (nor would I want to) the 3 I had because I spent most of my childhood with them, basically the best years of my life was with them (I'm 18 now). While I won't say it's all downhill from here (meaning from this age onward), it certainly won't be the same as when I was growing up. As the focus shifts away from what we used to do and more towards our future and where we stand in it. I suppose that's part of growing up, still sucks shit. Only wish I could back to being 10-11. To say I'm un-happy would be wrong, but then, so would it if I said I [b]was[/b] happy.
[QUOTE=Caps lock;18163024]Your life sounds fine, stop QQing. Compare it to mine, hardly any of my friends give two shits about me. I never get invited anywhere, nobody ever accepts my offers to hang out, nobody seems interested in being my friend at all..[/QUOTE] Awww. You only got one rating too. =( I feel bad. As for me, I just gained an old friend back, he's rich and pretty cocky and what not, but I was being a total jackass and am always a dick, so I apologized and we're gonna hang out soon. I feel your pain, you can definitely feel lonely if you don't connect to people, it seems you are just talking to the people, not actually getting anything out of it. =(
I use to be that way. It's really just a phase, you eventually get caught up in something that will distract you from it.
like posting on facepunch.
[QUOTE=Caps lock;18163024]Your life sounds fine, stop QQing. Compare it to mine, hardly any of my friends give two shits about me. I never get invited anywhere, nobody ever accepts my offers to hang out, nobody seems interested in being my friend at all..[/QUOTE] Your life sounds fine, stop QQing. Compare it to mine, hardly any of my friends give two shits about me. I never get invited anywhere, nobody ever accepts my offers to hang out, nobody seems interested in being my friend at all, I mourn over my dog's grave everyday, I'm extremely poor (on the verge of being homeless now), my mom's a fucking idiot, she does not know how to be a parent. I don't even consider her as a mother, she's just there, a person who lives in the same house as me. My father is nearing death, I help so many people yet they don't return shit, and food is usually scarce in my house.
[QUOTE=PoorFellow;18173107]Your life sounds fine, stop QQing. Compare it to mine, hardly any of my friends give two shits about me. I never get invited anywhere, nobody ever accepts my offers to hang out, nobody seems interested in being my friend at all, I mourn over my dog's grave everyday, I'm extremely poor (on the verge of being homeless now), my mom's a fucking idiot, she does not know how to be a parent. I don't even consider her as a mother, she's just there, a person who lives in the same house as me. My father is nearing death, I help so many people yet they don't return shit, and food is usually scarce in my house.[/QUOTE] Wow thats deep brother. I suggest crack cocaine.
[QUOTE=Megan Fox;18173129]Wow thats deep brother. I suggest crack cocaine.[/QUOTE] Thanks for the sarcastic remark.
He was serious, I was thinking the same thing.
[QUOTE=PoorFellow;18173148]Thanks for the sarcastic remark.[/QUOTE] As for education/school? How come your not working?
[QUOTE=Megan Fox;18173208]As for education/school? How come your not working?[/QUOTE] I asked if I could get a job at Dunkin Donuts. They said they don't hire white people. I don't know where else I should work. My age kind of limits my choices.
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