aka standards not realistic.
congrats point proven bye.
Never get a chance? Why is she deaf? She speaks a different language?
If both answers are NO then proceed to talk to her.
[QUOTE=D3vils Buddy;34705018]Never get a chance? Why is she deaf? She speaks a different language?
If both answers are NO then proceed to talk to her.[/QUOTE]
Because the only times I see her she's walking in the opposite direction of me in the hallway. And I'm sure she gets enough dorky metalheads like me hitting on her.
so? just try talking to her, smile at her and say hi when she walks passed.
we've gone over this before, it isn't that tough
[QUOTE=TehG3A3;34705103]we've gone over this before, it isn't that tough[/QUOTE]
Yet everyone seems to think its harder to talk to girls than climbing Mount Everest
And there's no point anyway because the relationship will last a maximum of 6 and a half months at which point I leave to go to university and she stays here because she's younger than me.
Well shit, i'm feeling pretty good about everything today. Got a valentine, ran a 7 minute mile, did 25 push-ups(read: no upper body strength), did 60 sit-ups(in a minute), actually reached past my toes for once, aced a big test in Biology today, and i just generally feel great. Someone slipped me happy pills or something i swear.
ITT: I use logic and get rated dumb
did you blow up the cafeteria with a deafening sound of a compressed air cannon?
[editline]14th February 2012[/editline]
[QUOTE=Taepodong-2;34705151]ITT: I use logic and get rated dumb[/QUOTE]
not really............................
It's funny because relationships don't have to last long.
[QUOTE=Taepodong-2;34705151]ITT: I use logic and get rated dumb[/QUOTE]
No, your logic is fucking stupid. Get over the fact that you've only got 6 months left and have a blast.
[editline]15th February 2012[/editline]
[QUOTE=Back_Slash;34705183]It's funny because relationships don't have to last long.[/QUOTE]
Exactly, it seems that most people here also want to go straight into a serious life lasting relationship when most of you are 13-17.
[QUOTE=D3vils Buddy;34705185]
Exactly, it seems that most people here also want to go straight into a serious life lasting relationship when most of you are 13-17.[/QUOTE]
I never said I wanted a lifelong relationship. I was more implying I want something at least somewhat serious and somewhat long lasting. Six months isn't a very long time.
6 months is long enough for a semi-serious relationship. So what if you have to break it off due to Uni (you CAN try long distance relationship but they tend rarely to work out).
[QUOTE=D3vils Buddy;34705247]6 months is long enough for a semi-serious relationship. So what if you have to break it off due to Uni (you CAN try long distance relationship but they tend rarely to work out).[/QUOTE]
At most I'd only be a three hour drive away anyway so theoretically a long distance relationship could work.
[QUOTE=Taepodong-2;34705226]I never said I wanted a lifelong relationship. I was more implying I want something at least somewhat serious and somewhat long lasting. Six months isn't a very long time.[/QUOTE]
Gamer girls have their flaws too, hell the girl I'm trying to get with has really no clue about what to do, and apparently doesn't like hugs and doesn't know how to flirt.
Time to teach.
Every time we bring up logical solutions to your issues you don't act on them anyways.
I'm not gonna help because you don't seem to want it enough to try.
[QUOTE=notrabies;34705300]Every time we bring up logical solutions to your issues you don't act on them anyways.
I'm not gonna help because you don't seem to want it enough to try.[/QUOTE]
My only conclusion is that I'm scared of women. I shouldn't be, but the thought of talking to one scares me because and I only think of all the millions of ways it can go wrong.
my bitch gimme tha airsoft SHit
i giveer her hUGS n KISSEs
n THA grOVEStRt LOev
[QUOTE=Taepodong-2;34705319]My only conclusion is that I'm scared of women. I shouldn't be, but the thought of talking to one scares me because and I only think of all the millions of ways it can go wrong.[/QUOTE]
That's why you use these 6 months left at the school as trial and error.
Also backwards inferior American culture where the guy has to make all the moves.
caligynephobia
[QUOTE=Taepodong-2;34705332]Also backwards inferior American culture where the guy has to make all the moves.[/QUOTE]
nah, its the entire world. The guy should always make the move, girl will rarely do it.
So I had a fucking great valentines day with my girl.
But my awesome cat isn't going to live much longer :'C
Plus I'm British (Australian)
[QUOTE=D3vils Buddy;34705353]nah, its the entire world. The guy should always make the move, girl will rarely do it.[/QUOTE]
It's unfair as fuck though. Women wanted equal rights for centuries and now that they have them there's shit that's unfair to men now. It's fucking bullshit and everyone knows it that the guy has to make the move and the girl is pretty much not allowed to by society's standards.
[QUOTE=Taepodong-2;34705332]Also backwards inferior American culture where the guy has to make all the moves.[/QUOTE]
I laugh in your face. Just because something seems that way doesn't mean it is. If you make an effort to get to know a lady, you aren't required to make all the moves, they can do things too you know. I know from personal experience that girls can ask you out/make moves on you, but you still have to be in a situation where you talk to them at least a little.
Now being afraid to talk to girls is another thing, but you really have to learn to stop putting them up on a pedestal. They have hobbies and dislikes and similar things just like you and I, and everyone has flaws.
Actually chatting with someone is completely different than how it works in your head, conversations are nonlinear.
All you have to do is start saying hello in the hallways. If that's too much, no one can help you at all.
Ever.
I want to use the "My brain is full of fuck" macro, but I'll get banned.
[QUOTE=notrabies;34705397]I laugh in your face. Just because something seems that way doesn't mean it is. If you make an effort to get to know a lady, you aren't required to make all the moves, they can do things too you know. I know from personal experience that girls can ask you out/make moves on you, but you still have to be in a situation where you talk to them at least a little.
Now being afraid to talk to girls is another thing, but you really have to learn to stop putting them up on a pedestal. They have hobbies and dislikes and similar things just like you and I, and everyone has flaws.
Actually chatting with someone is completely different than how it works in your head, conversations are nonlinear.
All you have to do is start saying hello in the hallways. If that's too much, no one can help you at all.
Ever.[/QUOTE]
There are still way too many ways it can go wrong. Knowing me I'll just turn into a blubbering idiot or start ranting about AKs and Gorkas or something.
For the record, I've been asked out by 4 girls, and accepted twice. They've been shitty horrible relationships, but the point is that it happens. Also, girls that I haven't dated have asked to hang out as well.
The big issue is that to get the special ladies, you actually have to make an effort, because lots of guys are already making the effort on them.
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