• What's with Abusive Boyfriends?
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[QUOTE=Lankist;20508412]yes because women are basically animals and they run entirely on instinct.[/QUOTE] Technically speaking yes, as are you, all you are as a person is a set of sinewy nerves that run all throughout your head, these are all pre-coded by genetic proteins, and naturally you will follow and obey them without realizing you are in fact doing so. Of course the human brain has the capacity to learn which is why we deviate from instinct, however the original mindset and instincts play a large role in mating. This is why from simple body language and nothing more you (if knowledgeable in this area) can tell if someone is physically attracted to you without speaking a single word, they cannot stop themselves unless they learn to deviate from the original instinct.
[QUOTE=Commsky;20508502]Technically speaking yes, as are you, all you are as a person is a set of sinewy nerves that run all throughout your head, these are all pre-coded by genetic proteins, and naturally you will follow and obey them without realizing you are in fact doing so. Of course the human brain has the capacity to learn which is why we deviate from instinct, however the original mindset and instincts play a large role in mating. This is why from simple body language and nothing more you (if knowledgeable in this area) can tell if someone is physically attracted to you without speaking a single word, they cannot stop themselves unless they learn to deviate from the original instinct.[/QUOTE] thanks mr psychologist so I suppose you've never heard of fucking metacognition. [editline]12:48AM[/editline] I don't think you realize how sexist you are being. Simply by saying "WELL MEN ARE ANIMALS TOO" doesn't excuse saying women are sex-driven animals that throw themselves into abusive relationships.
[QUOTE=Commsky;20508502]Technically speaking yes, as are you, all you are as a person is a set of sinewy nerves that run all throughout your head, these are all pre-coded by genetic proteins, and naturally you will follow and obey them without realizing you are in fact doing so. Of course the human brain has the capacity to learn which is why we deviate from instinct, however the original mindset and instincts play a large role in mating. This is why from simple body language and nothing more you (if knowledgeable in this area) can tell if someone is physically attracted to you without speaking a single word, they cannot stop themselves unless they learn to deviate from the original instinct.[/QUOTE] hey guys I know big words women are dumb rate me informative
[QUOTE=Commsky;20508502]Technically speaking yes, as are you, all you are as a person is a set of sinewy nerves that run all throughout your head, these are all pre-coded by genetic proteins, and naturally you will follow and obey them without realizing you are in fact doing so. Of course the human brain has the capacity to learn which is why we deviate from instinct, however the original mindset and instincts play a large role in mating. This is why from simple body language and nothing more you (if knowledgeable in this area) can tell if someone is physically attracted to you without speaking a single word, they cannot stop themselves unless they learn to deviate from the original instinct.[/QUOTE] tl;dr version: women are dumb, we are all animals, we wanna fuck everything that looks hot to us.
[QUOTE=w 1 z;20508559]tl;dr version: women are dumb, we are all animals, we wanna fuck everything that looks hot to us.[/QUOTE] :ninja: All this being dumb and animalistic is making me tired. Good night guys
[QUOTE=FlakAttack;20508440]I didn't generalize, it was one chick. All I said is that women are also [I]capable[/I] of great abuse, but it's much more subtle when they do it. HURR I'M A GUY, SURELY I MUST WANT TO FUCK EVERYTHING THAT MOVES. Fucking retard here. Getting sex is easy. Getting on a snow-mobile or in a canoe and taking that shit through rapids, now that's exciting. Yes, I basically just said sex is not very exciting. But you wouldn't know that, you're some retarded virgin who rubs off 6 times a day.[/QUOTE] How about having sex while riding a canoe through rapids? :smugdog:
You guys really are ignorant fucks aren't you? Learn to read children, instinct starts as a base, as it does with any animal, and you can learn your way out of it or "train" yourself out of it, I used metacognition I just didn't say the word. [B]Edit [/B]The biggest word I used in there is "knowledgeable", what in the world is wrong with you people? That's just how I configure my sentences and some people configure them like "hurr durr your a fag for usin big words lolololol i'm such a smartass!"
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[QUOTE=Triumph Forks;20507800]That girl, I have to say, is fucking gorgeous.[/QUOTE] Meh, 7/10. [editline]06:07AM[/editline] [QUOTE=kellybear;20508565]:ninja: All this being dumb and animalistic is making me tired. Good night guys[/QUOTE] good night, guy.
[QUOTE=Wayword;20507592]Women like tough guys. It's a genetic thing. Back in the day, tough males could defend her and the children better than weaker ones, so over generations women who were attracted to stronger males and had more children. It's natural selection. I suppose what you like is somewhat genetic, so the mothers passed it on to their daughters. Or maybe it's the Oedipus complex at work? By beating them it shows they're tough? Who knows.[/QUOTE] I'm a loud mouth pussy made with about 0% muscle or fat mass how do I then have a massive history of girlfriends? simple, I can make them laugh women (scratch that, people) like people they enjoy being around with
Men abuse women, usually physically (but not always). Women abuse men, but it's much more subtle. Of course, abused women are victims, and abused men are pussies. Ah, the double standards of society. For the record, she only ever hit me once. I told her if she ever hit me again, I'd punch her right in the fucking eye. I never had to honor that threat, thankfully. Trust me, I left a lot out of that story. The last few months consisted of her trying to harass me, and I just turned my phone off and went back to doing whatever it was I was doing. I find it ironic that the strength she initially admired, she tried to crush. Quite a few women work that way though, sadly... they need to control men, to break them. Thankfully, not all women are like this. My current relationship is great. It was just that one chick. [QUOTE=Mingebox;20508592]How about having sex while riding a canoe through rapids? :smugdog:[/QUOTE] lol... yeah, definitely onto something here. Can't say I've done that yet, but I should have. Might get the chance yet, current gf loves the outdoors :smug: [QUOTE=thisispain;20508744]I'm a loud mouth pussy made with about 0% muscle or fat mass how do I then have a massive history of girlfriends? simple, I can make them laugh women (scratch that, people) like people they enjoy being around with[/QUOTE] Pretty much this. You can get past almost any barrier by being just a generally pleasant person, while still retaining a show of confidence. It really doesn't take much. I'm no loud mouth and not a fan of crowds, but I'll pull a girl aside and say the shit no one else will to her. Gets a lot more attention than sitting in the corner like a mopey faggot or wearing your cap sideways with your pants at your knees pretending to be a tough guy.
In OP's picture, what the fucking Christ are they eating? It looks like an animal shat out it's bloody entrails onto her plate.
[QUOTE=FlakAttack;20508745] For the record, she only ever hit me once. I told her if she ever hit me again, I'd punch her right in the fucking eye. I never had to honor that threat, thankfully.[/QUOTE] the hell is wrong with you
Ladies, you should never stay in an abusive relationship. It's just not worth it... Unless it's this guy: [img]http://img148.imageshack.us/img148/5673/woobeef.jpg[/img]
[QUOTE=thisispain;20508744]I'm a loud mouth pussy made with about 0% muscle or fat mass how do I then have a massive history of girlfriends? simple, I can make them laugh women (scratch that, people) like people they enjoy being around with[/QUOTE] That is fair to say, yes, but some women do seem to thrive on negative reinforcement from relationships. I suppose those select few just stand out more than normal women because you have to wonder what the hell their problem is.
[QUOTE=hypno-toad;20508787]That is fair to say, yes, but some women do seem to thrive on negative reinforcement from relationships. I suppose those select few just stand out more than normal women because you have to wonder what the hell their problem is.[/QUOTE] it's that society, before you grow up, gives you certain pretensions and thoughts then when you grow up, you fit your experiences to suit your pretensions and thoughts and ignore what doesn't match up
[QUOTE=thisispain;20508750]the hell is wrong with you[/QUOTE] It's wrong to expect someone not to hit you back when you hit them. That's just plain unfair. I wanted to make sure we were on the same level: physical abuse doesn't happen, period. She knew what she was doing to me was unfair, and I basically told her that escalating things to the next level (physical abuse) was going to put things on a level neither of us wanted to go.
[QUOTE=FlakAttack;20508440]I didn't generalize, it was one chick. All I said is that women are also [I]capable[/I] of great abuse, but it's much more subtle when they do it. HURR I'M A GUY, SURELY I MUST WANT TO FUCK EVERYTHING THAT MOVES. Fucking retard here. Getting sex is easy. Getting on a snow-mobile or in a canoe and taking that shit through rapids, now that's exciting. Yes, I basically just said sex is not very exciting. But you wouldn't know that, you're some retarded virgin who rubs off 6 times a day.[/QUOTE] If your sex isn't very exciting you're probably just not very good at it.
[QUOTE=SolidusBlack;20507286]It's not the abusive boyfriends that are the problem, it's the dumb bitches that don't do [B]anything[/B] about it.[/QUOTE] I know what it is like and basically it's the fear of what they might do to you when you try and leave them. Generally they threaten to kill you or kill themself if you leave them and that is why it's hard or the complete control and manipulation they have over you is also a part in why as you say we girls put up with it or don't do shit about it. Also if you haven't been in an abusive relationship then shut the fuck and keep your opinion to yourself becuase you don't know what you're talking about.
[QUOTE=keatinator;20510444]I know what it is like and basically it's the fear of what they might do to you when you try and leave them. Generally they threaten to kill you or kill themself if you leave them and that is why it's hard or the complete control and manipulation they have over you is also a part in why as you say we girls put up with it or don't do shit about it. Also if you haven't been in an abusive relationship then shut the fuck and keep your opinion to yourself becuase you don't know what you're talking about.[/QUOTE] "Once Were Warriors" NZ's greatest romantic comedy
[QUOTE=Hamushka11;20510459]"Once Were Warriors" NZ's greatest romantic comedy[/QUOTE] I know, I use to have it on vhs lol and I'm sure I saw Rena Owen in the town I use to live in oneday but I'm not sure. Also Rena Owen is Beth and there is one scene I always have to skip in that movie. I don't think it was suppose to be a comedy more like a drama and how New Zealand Maori people are/were.
And I quote: Punch [her|him|it] in the face to establish dominance.
yeah id have to say he looks god enough to be with you. :P he;s a nice guy right? lol
Gotta keep your pimp hand strong
[QUOTE=Bledrix;20507522]I work with a couple and they fucking go at it everyday at work. Always fighting, the guy snorts cocaine and spends all his money on drugs and the bitch still loves him and won't leave him.[/QUOTE] Cocaine is not a drug for those with shallow pockets. v:v:v
[QUOTE=Anesthesia;20508775]Ladies, you should never stay in an abusive relationship. It's just not worth it... Unless it's this guy: [img]http://img148.imageshack.us/img148/5673/woobeef.jpg[/img][/QUOTE] Totally not a 'shop right there.
[QUOTE=Lankist;20508452]uhh im 27 married and have a kid.[/QUOTE] i feel sorry for your kid... you're basically talking 90% shit in here. posing every second post with some manly retar- imean remark. stop being shit company, start participating in the discussion instead of just trolling it. [sp][U][I][B]bitch[/B][/I][/U][/sp]
She's hot. How could you hit her?
Most women who are beat are scared and that's why they don't leave, they want to but they're afraid of getting hurt. Most women also want to help their boyfriend, they love the person they knew and they try to bring it out. When you fall in love with someone who has issues, you try to bring the person you love out of that shell; a lot of women are either too afraid of getting hurt to leave or try pitifully to help their boyfriend's become a better person. But no one can help a man realize and overcome, only his self. You realize in life when someone you love has issues, you want to help them, even if they abuse you.
[QUOTE=Commsky;20508624]You guys really are ignorant fucks aren't you? Learn to read children, instinct starts as a base, as it does with any animal, and you can learn your way out of it or "train" yourself out of it, I used metacognition I just didn't say the word. [B]Edit [/B]The biggest word I used in there is "knowledgeable", what in the world is wrong with you people? That's just how I configure my sentences and some people configure them like "hurr durr your a fag for usin big words lolololol i'm such a smartass!"[/QUOTE] Do you even know what metacognition is? because it completely defies the bullshit you b. spewin. [editline]08:33AM[/editline] [QUOTE=Bomimo;20511082]i feel sorry for your kid... you're basically talking 90% shit in here. posing every second post with some manly retar- imean remark. stop being shit company, start participating in the discussion instead of just trolling it. [sp][U][I][B]bitch[/B][/I][/U][/sp][/QUOTE] Serious discussion guys this is a no joking zone if you joke in this zone i swear to GOD guys
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