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I need to break my cycle. I get more fatter, and as i get more fatter i get more and more unsocial. I think everyone judges me because of my weight and stutter. I have not left my house for a week. I don't want to spend every minute of my life inside my own house.
[QUOTE=Chekko;29747028]I need to break my cycle. I get more fatter, and as i get more fatter i get more and more unsocial. I think everyone judges me because of my weight and stutter. I have not left my house for a week. I don't want to spend every minute of my life inside my own house.[/QUOTE] Exercise. Cut down the amount of time you sit at your pc and use the extra time to exercise and just get out of the house more. Even if it's just a quick trip into Jamba Juice, every little bit helps.
I'm a depression master. I hate people, I find stupid or funny behaviours hateful, get frustrated and aggressive towards any small comment directed towards me, I spend most of my time out of school on my PC and my days are dark and annoying. It's fun though.
[quote]Q: Would anybody care if I died right now? A: I would.[/quote] As soon as I read this, I started crying tears of joy. Something as simple as this actually made me feel better about myself.
[QUOTE=Evilan;29747435]Exercise. Cut down the amount of time you sit at your pc and use the extra time to exercise and just get out of the house more. Even if it's just a quick trip into Jamba Juice, every little bit helps.[/QUOTE] Agreed. The rush of endorphins won't hurt, either.
Reading through this opened my eyes, everyone is actually a lot more sadder than I am. I don't know, I always feel sad, not necessarily depressed, about people in my life. I know I'm not in some type of big depression, but feeling sad still hurts. Sometimes, I wish I could just have no feelings, and just be emotionally dead. Rather than sad. Edit: I'm 15, I've always thought of taking up smoking to relieve stress, would anyone say it works? I know no one would recommend it, but if it relieves it, I guess I kinda wanna try. People don't help me through things, I usually can't find happiness out of anything.
[QUOTE=Jaastin;29751474]Reading through this opened my eyes, everyone is actually a lot more sadder than I am. I don't know, I always feel sad, not necessarily depressed, about people in my life. I know I'm not in some type of big depression, but feeling sad still hurts. Sometimes, I wish I could just have no feelings, and just be emotionally dead. Rather than sad. Edit: I'm 15, I've always thought of taking up smoking to relieve stress, would anyone say it works? I know no one would recommend it, but if it relieves it, I guess I kinda wanna try. People don't help me through things, I usually can't find happiness out of anything.[/QUOTE] In all honesty, smoking marijuana/tobacco does relieve stress temporarily, but not all the side effects of marijuana are known. If you do actually start smoking, then you're trading 1 problem for another one with it's own risks. Depression is a part of life. You'll get past it if you can pull yourself out of the rut you're in and motivate yourself to get better. Once you come out on top, you'll be glad you didn't need any substances to help you and life will feel a whole lot better. Therapy is honestly the best tool to get yourself motivated. because a therapist will never talk about your problems with anyone. but you and they will accept your problem's with unconditional support.
Im 17, and i have in the past 2 and a half year attempted suicide 5 times. Every time i was either caught or fuck'd up somehow. I still have suicidal thoughts daily, and i has only gotten worse the last year. I have for a little more than 2 years allso been taking Ritalin because of ADD, About 4 months ago I tried Concerta, and thats when i made attempt nr.5. Even though my family and psyciatrist knows about all this. they don't seem to be doing anything about it. Long story about how i've been allmost brainwashed into keeping my problems to myself because my brother is a lot worse.. or so they say, just because he used to be an addict.. I Can't go on for much longer. I tend to be trying to drink it away, The bottle seems like my best friend at the time. and most likely will keep on being so.
[QUOTE=Chekko;29747028]I need to break my cycle. I get more fatter, and as i get more fatter i get more and more unsocial. I think everyone judges me because of my weight and stutter. I have not left my house for a week. I don't want to spend every minute of my life inside my own house.[/QUOTE] Well, the obvious answer is to eat less and exercise more. I personally hate running (and almost all other sports), but I started lifting weights around 8 months ago, and it's great. You can see and feel the progress quite fast, and it should help you lose fat.
I understand that getting over a girl is hard, but I didn't really think it would be this hard. It's been over 2 years since me and my ex-girlfriend broke up(she broke up with me, for a stupid reason) and I still cannot stop thinking about her every second of the day, I always feel lonely and depressed. When we were going out we had a few arguements and broke up but quickly got back together again because she realised she made a mistake. She's had a few serious relationships since we broke up and she's currently in one now, but: The real problem is that throughout those 2 years she has told me multiple times she still likes me and leads me on(even when she's in a relationship). I like it because I'm lonely, but it does not help at all in the long run. I always play along because it feels like I'm wanted, but I think she just goes through phases of missing me. She'll flirt with me, get her fix and then not speak to me again for weeks. I think the real problem lies in me as I'm really anti-social and I never go outside and meet other girls. She was my first and only real relationship I had and I loved being with her, and she loved it too. What should I do? I have a of other problems that make me feel down but I feel this is one of the main causes :smith:
[QUOTE=Sc00by22;29765965]I understand that getting over a girl is hard, but I didn't really think it would be this hard. It's been over 2 years since me and my ex-girlfriend broke up(she broke up with me, for a stupid reason) and I still cannot stop thinking about her every second of the day, I always feel lonely and depressed. When we were going out we had a few arguements and broke up but quickly got back together again because she realised she made a mistake. She's had a few serious relationships since we broke up and she's currently in one now, but: The real problem is that throughout those 2 years she has told me multiple times she still likes me and leads me on(even when she's in a relationship). I like it because I'm lonely, but it does not help at all in the long run. I always play along because it feels like I'm wanted, but I think she just goes through phases of missing me. She'll flirt with me, get her fix and then not speak to me again for weeks. I think the real problem lies in me as I'm really anti-social and I never go outside and meet other girls. She was my first and only real relationship I had and I loved being with her, and she loved it too. What should I do? I have a of other problems that make me feel down but I feel this is one of the main causes :smith:[/QUOTE] Best thing you can do is just avoid her and thinking about her. Don't let her lead you on, give yourself some personal space and if she tries to get somewhat physical with you, tell her to back off. You also have to tell yourself that she's not going to be with you ever again, as cruel as it sounds, she isn't ever going to be part of your life again.
It's disappointing that I hardly ever get a response or advice in this thread. I can't even express how much I miss having someone to talk to every night. My roommate has recently found a great girl, and this has left me feeling even more jealous and lonely. I'm happy for him, but it's hard for me to remember the things I used to have. I consistently feel empty, alone, and meaningless. I have no idea what to do. I just feel lost in life.
[QUOTE=Evilan;29771655]Best thing you can do is just avoid her and thinking about her. Don't let her lead you on, give yourself some personal space and if she tries to get somewhat physical with you, tell her to back off. You also have to tell yourself that she's not going to be with you ever again, as cruel as it sounds, she isn't ever going to be part of your life again.[/QUOTE] Thanks mate, just talking about it makes me feel better, keeping things bottled up really does not help :unsmith:
[QUOTE=Tim Henson;29772568]It's disappointing that I hardly ever get a response or advice in this thread. I can't even express how much I miss having someone to talk to every night. My roommate has recently found a great girl, and this has left me feeling even more jealous and lonely. I'm happy for him, but it's hard for me to remember the things I used to have. I consistently feel empty, alone, and meaningless. I have no idea what to do. I just feel lost in life.[/QUOTE] Word. Everyone around me has someone special, they tell me about all the romantic times they have by the lake, or at the beach, and how much fun it is. Me? I'm a sitting fucking duck, and I can't find anyone. The girl I like is completely un-aware and is STILL getting over someone, and life is just a bummer. :\ , my advice to you is.. to meet new people. There's always a good chance (~10%) that you'll end up with one of the people you just met.
[QUOTE=Jaastin;29778432]Word. Everyone around me has someone special, they tell me about all the romantic times they have by the lake, or at the beach, and how much fun it is. Me? I'm a sitting fucking duck, and I can't find anyone. The girl I like is completely un-aware and is STILL getting over someone, and life is just a bummer. :\ , my advice to you is.. to meet new people. There's always a good chance (~10%) that you'll end up with one of the people you just met.[/QUOTE] This man speaks the truth. I met my second girlfriend over Facebook when I added her to my friend's list by accident. I had her mixed up with a different person who looked somewhat similar and had the same first name. Needless to say, things do happen, but you in some way have to make the first move.
Ugh, I've been trying to smile the past couple days because I saw a video of myself and I realized that I look like death (angry/pissed off/disgruntled/sad) in my "default" expression. It's kind of hard to smile all the time when you have nothing to smile about though :frown:
[QUOTE=Evilan;29783766]This man speaks the truth. I met my second girlfriend over Facebook when I added her to my friend's list by accident. I had her mixed up with a different person who looked somewhat similar and had the same first name. Needless to say, things do happen, but you in some way have to make the first move.[/QUOTE] You sir, are quite lucky. Eh, today I realized, that all the people I wanted to be with, will never happen. And I'm in the process of letting it all go, every single one of them, the people I really miss ): [QUOTE=Octave;29784874]Ugh, I've been trying to smile the past couple days because I saw a video of myself and I realized that I look like death (angry/pissed off/disgruntled/sad) in my "default" expression. It's kind of hard to smile all the time when you have nothing to smile about though :frown:[/QUOTE] It's hard to smile when you get banned :\, but look at the brightside. You got a computer, a family, and friends. You SHOULD be happy, of course, this doesn't mean you are. Like I said in my other post, what you should do is get friends to help you meet new people, and get lots of sunlight, go to the beach! Summertime's coming :D
[QUOTE=Jaastin;29787734]Summertime's coming :D[/QUOTE] Summertime, Child, your living's easy. Fish are, fish are jumping out And the cotton, Lord, Cotton's high, Lord so high.
Summer is fun for 2-3 weeks. Then it becomes extremely depressive. so I always have mixed feelings about summer.
[QUOTE=ScoutKing;29790294]Summer is fun for 2-3 weeks. Then it becomes extremely depressive. so I always have mixed feelings about summer.[/QUOTE] get a hobby
[QUOTE=JDK721;29790479]get a hobby[/QUOTE] had one. [media]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=U5YoNeIcxL4[/media] Got bored/lost motivation with it,
I'm starting to think I may have some other disorder than simple depression. I change mood constantly, I can go from feeling awesome to deeply depressed, and back again over a minute, an hour or a day or a week.
[QUOTE=MrJazzy;29820750]I'm starting to think I may have some other disorder than simple depression. I change mood constantly, I can go from feeling awesome to deeply depressed, and back again over a minute, an hour or a day or a week.[/QUOTE] we all have shit days/weeks. but having a shitty minute/hour.. Go to a therapist/doctor if you're getting depressed in the time span of a minute.
[QUOTE=PrusseluskenV2;29821163]Ugh I'm getting seriously pissed. Social services is a fucking joke. A bad one at that. Filled to the brim with stupid people that delivers fake smiles and pathetic excuses for not visiting your sorry arse when you need it the most. I have absofuckinglutely no-one to talk to. I used to be able to speak with people on FP but I feel like a burden and I don't want them to get tired of me. Which I assume they already are. Gah. It's fucking horrible having to keep everything inside. My "girlfriend" dumped me because she couldn't stand the "drama". Yeah right, talking out about my depression is drama. She then proceeds to tell me she'll always be there for me, but she backs out whenever I wanna talk, and she only comes over for sex. Sex. It's just fucking, I'm no more to her than that. Fuck that shit. Fuck that bitch, I'm tired of her. Gah. I have literally no friends IRL. Either they're soccer guys or they smoke/drink/smoke maryjane, none of which I do, which makes me feel like an excluded, sad fucker. And the community around here? If you're not religious [B]or[/B] the complete opposite, you're a nobody here. A dumb shit-faced faggot. My parents don't give a shit about my depression. Even my doctor is all "lol just relax for a bit ok??:)))" about it. Blablablah sobsobsob I'm fucking tired of this shit.[/QUOTE] At least you're thin, good looking (no homo) and don't stutter. What are you interested in? I suggest you to go to events which interests you, meet people that have the same interests as you have and just start a conversation with them. It might be scary at first, but when you get to know them it becomes more comfortable to talk to them and you might end up being friends with that person and his/her friends. Even if you feel awkward and not safe, go to the next person and so on. Sorry if this seems like your ordinary reply, but i believe you can make it :unsmith:
[QUOTE=PrusseluskenV2;29822537]Your standard nerd-shit. Computers, guns, etc. I just feel uncomfortable around other people and I'm getting sort of nervous when I have to deal with a lot of people/people I don't know. I'm just antisocial.[/QUOTE] go out more. or see a therapist if you really have bad anxiety.
[QUOTE=PrusseluskenV2;29822866]And it's ridiculous how I manage to screw everything up when I meet one, pretty, nice girl. We share interests and musical tastes and stuff but then everything goes to waste because of me. [editline]14th May 2011[/editline] I just can't stand dealing with big crowds and new people. I'm sort of afraid of having everyone disliking me and of such I don't even try sometimes.[/QUOTE] Go see a therapist. Anxiety can be overcome with the help and guidance that a therapist can offer.
Andd the person who has ever shown any interest to get to know me, or show any interest in me at all, who i happen to fancy is now dating another dude officially. The kid seems like a nice dude n' all, and its better then the last dip stick, so atleast theres no sting from that. but shit sucks, and the next few days are going to just be.. FUN FUN FUN. hopefully they don't do the post <3 on each others facebook walls like most people do. That just be salting it.
[QUOTE=ScoutKing;29832307]Andd the person who has ever shown any interest to get to know me, or show any interest in me at all, who i happen to fancy is now dating another dude officially. The kid seems like a nice dude n' all, and its better then the last dip stick, so atleast theres no sting from that. but shit sucks, and the next few days are going to just be.. FUN FUN FUN. hopefully they don't do the post <3 on each others facebook walls like most people do. That just be salting it.[/QUOTE] Just clarify, your friend is a straight woman and not a homosexual male. Correct?
[QUOTE=Evilan;29833579]Just clarify, your friend is a straight woman and not a homosexual male. Correct?[/QUOTE] Not gay bro. of course its a woman. I word things weird sometimes i guess.
[QUOTE=ScoutKing;29820881]we all have shit days/weeks.[B] but having a shitty minute/hour.. [/B] Go to a therapist/doctor if you're getting depressed in the time span of a minute.[/QUOTE] That's not normal? I can easily change moods several times a day/hour.
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