[QUOTE=Jo The Shmo;29561566]But he said he's never been in a relationship at all.[/QUOTE]
yeah, neither have i really
You just said you had recently got out of a relationship.
[editline]2nd May 2011[/editline]
Oh you mean you had given up in trying to get in a relationship, I see.
Well if you had never been in one, how do you know it's not worth it?
soooo much effort for something most likely futile.
^--tha's the mood of quitters... like me :D
That's only because you're doing it wrong.
It should never take more effort than simply walking up and asking "Want to go out to X on Y?"
Leave him be, it's his own damn fault he's all mr. I'm depressed kill me because he focused all on one girl.
The trick is to set for multiple girls, and it all works out, it's a win-win-win everything situation, you focus less on every girl so if it doesn't work you don't feel any pressure, if it does you can now focus without getting hurt ( at least for now ) not to mention you brush up on your chick picking up skills and if you end up with more then one girl it isn't bad to go on a few dates with more then one girl at once and then pick the better one.
[QUOTE=Jo The Shmo;29563806]That's only because you're doing it wrong.
It should never take more effort than simply walking up and asking "Want to go out to X on Y?"[/QUOTE]
never said im giving up. just giving up with this girl. I mean honestly, i tried for a year with her. and shes about to go into a new relationship. theres no one really desirable at my school, so im chill with being patient till i run into a crowd of cooler people.
[editline]2nd May 2011[/editline]
[QUOTE=Mr.Dounut;29563808]Leave him be, it's his own damn fault he's all mr. I'm depressed kill me because he focused all on one girl.
The trick is to set for multiple girls, and it all works out, it's a win-win-win everything situation, you focus less on every girl so if it doesn't work you don't feel any pressure, if it does you can now focus without getting hurt ( at least for now ) not to mention you brush up on your chick picking up skills and if you end up with more then one girl it isn't bad to go on a few dates with more then one girl at once and then pick the better one.[/QUOTE]
im not set out on being a man whore. doing that around my school is a quick way to earn that label.
Who gives a flying fuck about labels in god damn high school. Most of those people you will never see again for the rest of your life. Stop giving a shit what they think.
[QUOTE=MaverickIB;29564824]Who gives a flying fuck about labels in god damn high school. Most of those people you will never see again for the rest of your life. Stop giving a shit what they think.[/QUOTE]
not really more that i don't want the label. but i don't want to go chase multiple girls at once. rather just go one at a time
Whenever I piss, urine always shoots up into my hair, sometimes it gets everywhere. Now I always have to sit down in order to pee.
Will girls think this is weird?
Make sure to open all conversations with the opposite sex by sharing that fact.
[QUOTE=MaverickIB;29564824]Who gives a flying fuck about labels in god damn high school. Most of those people you will never see again for the rest of your life. Stop giving a shit what they think.[/QUOTE]
It's usually harder for people who live in places like farm towns where you may be there with people in high school for a very long time
Just sayin'
[QUOTE=ScoutKing;29564883]not really more that i don't want the label. but i don't want to go chase multiple girls at once. rather just go one at a time[/QUOTE]
You'd be more likely to be labeled a player than a man-whore.
To those saying dating isn't worth it, any relationship will either end in a break up or death, so you're just lying to yourself if you think it'll ever be different.
[QUOTE=B-hazard;29567296]You'd be more likely to be labeled a player than a man-whore.[/QUOTE]
It's funny, "player" is used as an insult by a lot of people at my school.
Problem with going out with multiple people at once is I don't really meet that many people.
[QUOTE=Occlusion;29567674]To those saying dating isn't worth it, any relationship will either end in a break up or death, so you're just lying to yourself if you think it'll ever be different.[/QUOTE]
No, people were either saying that relationships aren't worth it in terms of money, or they're not worth putting in the effort to try and attract a girl when it most likely won't work.
[editline]2nd May 2011[/editline]
Not that I agree, just summarising.
[QUOTE=MaverickIB;29564824]Who gives a flying fuck about labels in god damn high school. Most of those people you will never see again for the rest of your life. Stop giving a shit what they think.[/QUOTE]
I do, I have $100 riding on losing my virginity by the end of high school and I want to win it.
That's hardly a label.
[QUOTE=Jo The Shmo;29568402]I do, I have $100 riding on losing my virginity by the end of high school and I want to win it.[/QUOTE]
you're a jackass
[QUOTE=Jo The Shmo;29568402]I do, I have $100 riding on losing my virginity by the end of high school and I want to win it.[/QUOTE]
Offer to split it with a girl.
I was friends with a girl for a little while and I asked her out. We dated for about 4 months before we decided we were both better off as friends and had a mutual separation sometime in January. We have remained friends. Anyway, along comes Friday and I stayed over at her house with a friend of mine for no reason in particular. Due to lack of space in her room, my friend slept on the floor and I hopped in the bed with her because we were used to being close together. However we were getting a little closer then I had anticipated, and eventually we were 'making out' (I hate that term, along with 'snogging', but anyway...). We fell asleep soon after and I woke up early in the morning as I always do (around 6AM) to her with her arms wrapped around me like a blanket.
So my friend goes out to get another friend who got lost somewhere, that's not really important, however it ended up as me and her in her house alone and we 'made out' for a fair amount of time. We went to a barbecue and it was just a normal day after that. After the barbecue I was walking her back to her house and I asked her out again. She got really shy which was unusual for her and said something along the lines of "I'll think about it". She texted me afterwards saying that she'll tell me her answer to my face on tomorrow, in school.
I honestly really like this girl, in every way she is perfect for me and I don't want to let her slip away from me. If she says no I don't know how I'll take it, should I pursue even if I get a no? I know that would be the worst thing to do, but I doubt I'll ever meet a girl as great as her.
Apologies for a copious amount of text, I haven't told anyone about this yet and it has all just flowed out.
[QUOTE=BISCUIT_TINS;29574147]I was friends with a girl for a little while and I asked her out. We dated for about 4 months before we decided we were both better off as friends and had a mutual separation sometime in January. We have remained friends. Anyway, along comes Friday and I stayed over at her house with a friend of mine for no reason in particular. Due to lack of space in her room, my friend slept on the floor and I hopped in the bed with her because we were used to being close together. However we were getting a little closer then I had anticipated, and eventually we were 'making out' (I hate that term, along with 'snogging', but anyway...). We fell asleep soon after and I woke up early in the morning as I always do (around 6AM) to her with her arms wrapped around me like a blanket.
So my friend goes out to get another friend who got lost somewhere, that's not really important, however it ended up as me and her in her house alone and we 'made out' for a fair amount of time. We went to a barbecue and it was just a normal day after that. After the barbecue I was walking her back to her house and I asked her out again. She got really shy which was unusual for her and said something along the lines of "I'll think about it". She texted me afterwards saying that she'll tell me her answer to my face on tomorrow, in school.
I honestly really like this girl, in every way she is perfect for me and I don't want to let her slip away from me. If she says no I don't know how I'll take it, should I pursue even if I get a no? I know that would be the worst thing to do, but I doubt I'll ever meet a girl as great as her.
Apologies for a copious amount of text, I haven't told anyone about this yet and it has all just flowed out.[/QUOTE]
If she says no just continue along with the way things are. Don't let it affect the way you act with her, and if you continue being physical, why not? Be careful though, there is a line between her messing with your emotions and friends with benefits.
[QUOTE=Jo The Shmo;29568402]I do, I have $100 riding on losing my virginity by the end of high school and I want to win it.[/QUOTE]
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It started out as a joke in freshman year but now it's a little more serious.
And if neither of us get laid we don't pay, same with if both of us do.
It's only if one of us does and not the other.
[QUOTE=Jo The Shmo;29561052]'
Besides the fact that you're dumb for thinking about relationships this way, I don't get why you are still single.
Just ask someone out.
Ask many people out.
Unless you are REALLY disgusting (I doubt you are), at least someone is going to say yes.[/QUOTE]
I honestly don't have that much interest in getting a relationship anymore. It just doesn't seem worth it in high school and every girl I've seen in my school just doesn't seem like my type. Plus I don't really want to run the risk that I'll end up with one of those girls that takes advantage of me having a steady source of income that I plan to blow on airsoft shit in the near future. Although like you said, I'm sure I shouldn't have a huge problem if I actually found a girl I like. One of my friends is a huge asshole and a fucked up kid who thinks he's satanic yet he still managed to get a girlfriend.
If a girl manages to cause you that much money trouble in [i]high school[/i] that's definitely just your fault for being bad at accounting.
In high school it's really not even that big of a commitment, because both of you know it's not going to be a serious relationship.
But fine do what you want.
[QUOTE=Taepodong-2;29578205]I honestly don't have that much interest in getting a relationship anymore. It just doesn't seem worth it in high school and every girl I've seen in my school just doesn't seem like my type. Plus I don't really want to run the risk that I'll end up with one of those girls that takes advantage of me having a steady source of income that I plan to blow on airsoft shit in the near future. Although like you said, I'm sure I shouldn't have a huge problem if I actually found a girl I like. One of my friends is a huge asshole and a fucked up kid who thinks he's satanic yet he still managed to get a girlfriend.[/QUOTE]
lolwut
you don't have to spend money on girls, i've been going out with the same girl for about 9 months now and i've only spent ~200$ and that's mostly just dates, not gifts
[QUOTE=Jo The Shmo;29578494]
In high school it's really not even that big of a commitment, because both of you know it's not going to be a serious relationship.
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Which is another major reason why I don't really care about having a relationship right now.
[QUOTE=Taepodong-2;29578766]Which is another major reason why I don't really care about having a relationship right now.[/QUOTE]
So you [i]want[/i] a big commitment?
From what it looks like you don't want to spend much time with a potential girlfriend, you are afraid of spending money with/on her, and you don't really feel connected to anyone.
And yet you are telling me you also want to have a big commitment in a relationship?
[QUOTE=Jo The Shmo;29563806]That's only because you're doing it wrong.
It should never take more effort than simply walking up and asking "Want to go out to X on Y?"[/QUOTE]
Mhm. Totally.
I used the wrong approach with Lynnea, but becoming her friend opened up an entire selection to look at.
I would have ignored all these people should I have ignored her.
[QUOTE=Jo The Shmo;29578827]So you [i]want[/i] a big commitment?
From what it looks like you don't want to spend much time with a potential girlfriend, you are afraid of spending money with/on her, and you don't really feel connected to anyone.
And yet you are telling me you also want to have a big commitment in a relationship?[/QUOTE]
If it wasn't a high school relationship that would only last a couple months I wouldn't mind doing the stuff I said I don't want to do. I have no interest in the short high school relationships because they are generally short and fairly pointless.
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