Short? Yes. Pointless? No.
They give you experience. Experience you use to eventually develop a long term relationship. You aren't going to have a successful long term relationship unless you learn some lessons with short ones.
That's like skipping precalculus because it's pointless comparing to just learning calculus.
You need to start somewhere.
manwhore label hahahahaha
oh my god, you guys have the most ridiculous excuses when it comes down to trying to talk to women
[QUOTE=MaverickIB;29579235]Short? Yes. Pointless? No.
They give you experience. Experience you use to eventually develop a long term relationship. You aren't going to have a successful long term relationship unless you learn some lessons with short ones.[/QUOTE]
Doesn't change the fact that there are no girls around here that I want even a short term relationship with. I'm probably just going to put off dating altogether until college
[QUOTE=Taepodong-2;29579490]Doesn't change the fact that there are no girls around here that I want even a short term relationship with. I'm probably just going to put off dating altogether until college[/QUOTE]
Totally different argument?
You're like those people who say "I'm going to stop coding lua and leave facepunch because I'm getting bored!"
If you meet someone, go for it, if you don't oh well.
There's absolutely no use making a vow to not even try for a relationship.
Also I'm sure there are plenty of girls around, you're just looking for an excuse not to try.
I tell myself that the girl who will not get off my dick is unattractive.
Unfortunately the expression "get off my dick" is a metaphor.
But she truly will not leave me alone. Frikkin stalking my Facebook, man.
[QUOTE=Mr.Dounut;29579317]manwhore label hahahahaha
oh my god, you guys have the most ridiculous excuses when it comes down to trying to talk to women[/QUOTE]
god damn you're an ass. No you completely missed the idea. I don't feel like chasing multiple girls at once.
[editline]2nd May 2011[/editline]
[QUOTE=Phsykotik;29579668]I tell myself that the girl who will not get off my dick is unattractive.
Unfortunately the expression "get off my dick" is a metaphor.
But she truly will not leave me alone. Frikkin stalking my Facebook, man.[/QUOTE]
block feature?
[QUOTE=Jo The Shmo;29579542]You're like those people who say "I'm going to stop coding lua and leave facepunch because I'm getting bored!"
If you meet someone, go for it, if you don't oh well.
There's absolutely no use making a vow to not even try for a relationship.
Also I'm sure there are plenty of girls around, you're just looking for an excuse not to try.[/QUOTE]
No I seriously have not seen one girl around here that really looks like someone I'd be interested in. Plenty of girls I would fuck, but none that I would actually consider getting into any form of relationship with. I'm not into preppy girls, which is all I've ever seen around here.
[QUOTE=Taepodong-2;29579795]No I seriously have not seen one girl around here that really looks like someone I'd be interested in. Plenty of girls I would fuck, but none that I would actually consider getting into any form of relationship with. I'm not into preppy girls, which is all I've ever seen around here.[/QUOTE]
them honor students bro.
[QUOTE=ScoutKing;29579863]them honor students bro.[/QUOTE]
No, seriously, literally every girl I've seen in my school is a prep. Even the honor students.
[QUOTE=Taepodong-2;29579910]No, seriously, literally every girl I've seen in my school is a prep. Even the honor students.[/QUOTE]
get out more?
I live in the middle of nowhere so i don't got much of a choice by mainly hang out with the kids at my high school. but for you?
Stop making up excuses, seriously.
It's sad.
Yeah, I seriously fucking doubt you know every girl in your school.
Don't judge them based off of observations from far away. Would you like it if they thought "man that kid is a fucking nerd don't talk to him" without ever saying a word to you and finding out who you really are?
It's amazing how so many kids are like that, yes it's supposedly the jocks and whoever that are the assholes. No, you're the asshole. Judging all of those girls without knowing a single thing about them. Are you fucking kidding me.
[QUOTE=MaverickIB;29580088]
Don't judge them based off of observations from far away. Would you like it if they thought "man that kid is a fucking nerd don't talk to him" without ever saying a word to you and finding out who you really are?[/QUOTE]
I have a feeling that already happens. None of them make the effort to have any interaction with me at all. Probably because I don't bother. Also you get a pretty good idea of what these people are like from shit they post on Facebook. It's all Jersey Shore, tanning and going to parties.
[QUOTE=MaverickIB;29580088]Don't judge them based off of observations from far away. Would you like it if they thought "man that kid is a fucking nerd don't talk to him" without ever saying a word to you and finding out who you really are?[/QUOTE]
Yes it cuts out them meeting me and finding out I'm a fucking nerd
[QUOTE=MaverickIB;29580088]Yeah, I seriously fucking doubt you know every girl in your school.
Don't judge them based off of observations from far away. Would you like it if they thought "man that kid is a fucking nerd don't talk to him" without ever saying a word to you and finding out who you really are?
It's amazing how so many kids are like that, yes it's supposedly the jocks and whoever that are the assholes. No, you're the asshole. Judging all of those girls without knowing a single thing about them. Are you fucking kidding me.[/QUOTE]
who are you directing this post at?
[QUOTE=ScoutKing;29580624]who are you directing this post at?[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Taepodong-2;29579910]No, seriously, literally every girl I've seen in my school is a prep. Even the honor students.[/QUOTE]
It's at taepodong
ninja johnnymo.
And johnny I thought you'd say something about the skipping precalc analogy that I made saying that you did skip it or something :v:
[QUOTE=Taepodong-2;29580202]I have a feeling that already happens. None of them make the effort to have any interaction with me at all. Probably because I don't bother. Also you get a pretty good idea of what these people are like from shit they post on Facebook. It's all Jersey Shore, tanning and going to parties.[/QUOTE]
That's one of the most ignorant posts I've ever seen.
First, people don't act on facebook like they do in real life. Second, I seriously doubt that's actually what's going on in their conversations. Third, how would you like to be judged like "Man all that nurd talks about is math and world of warcraft what a geek lol!", it's the [i]exact[/i] same thing.
You're incredibly uptight, but the thing is I think it just stems from the fact that you can't get a date as a defense. It's like saying "It's not my fault I can't get a date, it's just that everyone else sucks but me!"
[QUOTE=Jo The Shmo;29580699]It's at taepodong
ninja johnnymo.
And johnny I thought you'd say something about the skipping precalc analogy that I made saying that you did skip it or something :v:
That's one of the most ignorant posts I've ever seen.
First, people don't act on facebook like they do in real life. Second, I seriously doubt that's actually what's going on in their conversations. Third, how would you like to be judged like "Man all that nurd talks about is math and world of warcraft what a geek lol!", it's the [i]exact[/i] same thing.
You're incredibly uptight, but the thing is I think it just stems from the fact that you can't get a date as a defense. It's like saying "It's not my fault I can't get a date, it's just that everyone else sucks but me!"[/QUOTE]
I don't care if people call me a nerd because I know that's what I am. I don't take it as an insult, I take it as factually describing me. Now if I were to be called a satanist for listening to death metal (which people do quite regularly) then I take offense. I don't want to take the chance of getting to know the preppy girls because more than likely I won't get along with them that good anyway. The one preppy girl I ever did consider to be somewhat of a friend I didn't get along with that great, we were just too different.
[QUOTE=Taepodong-2;29581059]I don't care if people call me a nerd because I know that's what I am. I don't take it as an insult, I take it as factually describing me. Now if I were to be called a satanist for listening to death metal (which people do quite regularly) then I take offense. I don't want to take the chance of getting to know the preppy girls because more than likely I won't get along with them that good anyway. The one preppy girl I ever did consider to be somewhat of a friend I didn't get along with that great, we were just too different.[/QUOTE]
One failed attempt does not justify generalizing the entire group. Not everyone who appears to be in the same sort of status as them acts the same way. If you don't [i]try[/i] to socialize, you aren't going to socialize.
Alright at this point you're just being stubborn, I'm really not taking you seriously anymore.
[QUOTE=Psychopath12;29581174]One failed attempt does not justify generalizing the entire group. Not everyone who appears to be in the same sort of status as them acts the same way. If you don't [i]try[/i] to socialize, you aren't going to socialize.[/QUOTE]
I really can't imagine the rest of them being all that different really. That girl I was friends with was a nice person, I'll give her that much.
[QUOTE=Taepodong-2;29581269]I really can't imagine the rest of them being all that different really. That girl I was friends with was a nice person, I'll give her that much.[/QUOTE]
Every person is a completely different human being with a different personality, different fears, different likes and dislikes, different [i]everything[/i].
Are you seriously judging every girl in your school based on the way a stereotypical teenage girl acts?
being a nerd shouldn't cripple you at all in relationships IMO.
At my school, a lot of nerds get a lot of tail.
just chase after other nerds if your that big of a nerd.
if not, then stop that shit.
I'm a nerd i guess, i program, everyone knows i program, i just focus on the parts where i get payed a few thousand dollars for a game and not on how i used the fourier transform to get the information from an .mp3.
ITT : Have some balls and be confident.
[QUOTE=Taepodong-2;29581269]I really can't imagine the rest of them being all that different really. That girl I was friends with was a nice person, I'll give her that much.[/QUOTE]
Preppy is pretty much just a way of dressing and acting in front of others of the same unit. I'm certain that if you invested any time in not being an antisocial nerd who sits there judging all the uninteresting girls who you have no interest in (which is why you're judging them, right?), you could actually get to know some really nice and genuinely interesting people.
If I ignored everyone because I wasn't fascinated in their style of dress and music then I'd be stuck with the same group of 10 friends I've hung out with for the last two years. I have friends who love music I abhor, but it just leads to much more interesting discussions and causes me to question my own tastes. I'm sure if I was only friends who listened to whatever indie shit I do then I'd be a pretty boring one-track personality.
[editline]3rd May 2011[/editline]
[QUOTE=ScoutKing;29581452]being a nerd shouldn't cripple you at all in relationships IMO.
At my school, a lot of nerds get a lot of tail.
just chase after other nerds if your that big of a nerd.
if not, then stop that shit.[/QUOTE]
Problem is, nerd tail tends to actually be nerds wearing furry tails.
[QUOTE=Jo The Shmo;29581303]Every person is a completely different human being with a different personality, different fears, different likes and dislikes, different [i]everything[/i].
Are you seriously judging every girl in your school based on the way a stereotypical teenage girl acts?[/QUOTE]
I'm judging them based on an average teenage girl, not necessarily a stereotype.
[editline]2nd May 2011[/editline]
[QUOTE=Mlisen14;29581626]Preppy is pretty much just a way of dressing and acting in front of others of the same unit. I'm certain that if you invested any time in not being an antisocial nerd who sits there judging all the uninteresting girls who you have no interest in (which is why you're judging them, right?), you could actually get to know some really nice and genuinely interesting people.
If I ignored everyone because I wasn't fascinated in their style of dress and music then I'd be stuck with the same group of 10 friends I've hung out with for the last two years. I have friends who love music I abhor, but it just leads to much more interesting discussions and causes me to question my own tastes. I'm sure if I was only friends who listened to whatever indie shit I do then I'd be a pretty boring one-track personality.
[/QUOTE]
Unfortunately this happens:
HURR THAT KID LISTENS TO DEATH METAL HES GOING TO RAPE ME :downs:
[QUOTE=Mlisen14;29581626]
Problem is, nerd tail tends to actually be nerds wearing furry tails.[/QUOTE]
okay. you really got me there.
[QUOTE=Taepodong-2;29581819]I'm judging them based on an average teenage girl, not necessarily a stereotype.[/QUOTE]
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