• Maverick's Love/Relationship/Social Advice Megathread
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[QUOTE=MaverickIB;29654506]If she said she doesn't want a relationship then she wasn't really leading you on. When a girl says that, it translates directly into "I'm not interested in you." Which is why she went for someone else, you weren't even an option for her. You probably didn't do much wrong, she just isn't attracted to you, it's that simple. Yeah, she could care about you, but I care about my dogs, doesn't mean I want to date them.[/QUOTE] Even if she said she did like me at a time? Her friend even said to me after I And she's not dating anyone else right now, she just is interested in someone else, sorry should have made that clear. No point in me continually going on about it tbh, she's moved on and we're just friends.
I am so fucking self concious about my smile holy shit. I'm not about anything else, i just think i look fucking weird.
[QUOTE=Astronaut491;29655289]Even if she said she did like me at a time? Her friend even said to me after I And she's not dating anyone else right now, she just is interested in someone else, sorry should have made that clear. No point in me continually going on about it tbh, she's moved on and we're just friends.[/QUOTE] She could have just told you she liked you to make you feel good. Girls don't like being upfront about stuff like that, especially when it's negative. That's why they rarely say no outright when you ask them out and whatnot. Talk is cheap, if she says she likes you but doesn't want to do anything romantic with you, then she doesn't like you. Actions hold more weight than words.
I just had a pretty boring date with that girl who I was talking about earlier. I ended up telling her I had to go.
[QUOTE=Jo The Shmo;29657202]I just had a pretty boring date with that girl who I was talking about earlier. I ended up telling her I had to go.[/QUOTE] I hate boring people. I may be an weird looking guy but i'll go out of my way to make people laugh and make things interesting and that's seemed to of made me pretty popular. Also [quote]I ended up breaking up with the dude cause he told me he loved me after 3 days of going out and I was creeped out by that. ANYWAYS. [/quote] From a blog i read, thought it'd be relevant to this thread.
How do I stop being a dick to people? Sometimes people say things that for some reason annoy the shit out of me and I yell at them or something ridiculous. This occurs mostly in my house and not when I'm out. So it'll be yelling at my sister, mom or dad primarily.
[QUOTE=Protocol7;29658364]How do I stop being a dick to people? Sometimes people say things that for some reason annoy the shit out of me and I yell at them or something ridiculous. This occurs mostly in my house and not when I'm out. So it'll be yelling at my sister, mom or dad primarily.[/QUOTE] stop being a dick to people
[QUOTE=Occlusion;29656985]I am so fucking self concious about my smile holy shit. I'm not about anything else, i just think i look fucking weird.[/QUOTE] As long as you're smiling it doesn't matter how it looks. Just don't have a laugh like a seagull or snort like a pig along with that smile. [editline]6th May 2011[/editline] [QUOTE=Protocol7;29658364]How do I stop being a dick to people? Sometimes people say things that for some reason annoy the shit out of me and I yell at them or something ridiculous. This occurs mostly in my house and not when I'm out. So it'll be yelling at my sister, mom or dad primarily.[/QUOTE] If you're 13-19, then I'd say it's just a phase you should try to prevent. Any older then you should stop being a dick to people.
[QUOTE=Protocol7;29658364]How do I stop being a dick to people? Sometimes people say things that for some reason annoy the shit out of me and I yell at them or something ridiculous. This occurs mostly in my house and not when I'm out. So it'll be yelling at my sister, mom or dad primarily.[/QUOTE] Who the fuck yells anymore. You don't need to stop being a dick, you need to chill the fuck out. I'm a dick to people but at least I don't yell at them, that shit is for little girls.
What Maverick is saying is you can be a dick but be a dick with a modicum of class. See avatar for more info on class. [editline]6th May 2011[/editline] I dunno why I've appointed myself your official unnecessary translator but I have.
[QUOTE=Astronaut491;29651376]Feel like shit, was led on, then dropped for someone else, just like that even after 3 months of constant texting etc. :([/QUOTE] I know this feeling. going through it right now.
[QUOTE=MaverickIB;29659928]Who the fuck yells anymore. You don't need to stop being a dick, you need to chill the fuck out. I'm a dick to people but at least I don't yell at them, that shit is for little girls.[/QUOTE] Well things escalate. When they're yelling at you it's hard not to yell back, and vice versa.
I read that as closet instead of closest, my bad
Last time I yelled was when I was about 9 years old and my dad grounded me from playing Paper Mario. So yeah, only yelled when I was a kid... it's quite silly to yell at people.
I haven't yelled at someone in an angry context since I was a little kid. People that yell over trivial shit need to take some anger management classes.
[QUOTE=Occlusion;29656985]I am so fucking self concious about my smile holy shit. I'm not about anything else, i just think i look fucking weird.[/QUOTE] Smiling is great; it hides the fact that my mouth is about the same size as my cat's. [editline]7th May 2011[/editline] Also I don't remember the last time I yelled at someone in anger. When I get angry I still act pretty calm about it nowadays.
I didn't mean traditional yelling in the sense that I'm screaming at people, just moreover irritated and making it clear that I'm irritated. I'll really only "yell" when serious shit is going down (e.g. someone's getting violent, shit like that) Sorry if that was unclear which it seems it is. I've just been feeling irritable lately. Probably because of IB tests.
It's not really that hard to be nice to people actually, you should just try it man.
[img]http://img571.imageshack.us/img571/8696/confirmedkill.png[/img] I'm just glad I know she's coming back to me sometime soon.
[QUOTE=Cl0cK;29663124]It's not really that hard to be nice to people actually, you should just try it man.[/QUOTE] I'm normally nice, I've just been snapping at people recently.
ITT: Superior race of non humans who never get angry.
Because we don't yell, it means we're not angry? When I'm angry I don't end up yelling man.
[QUOTE=Sublata;29663138][img_thumb]http://img571.imageshack.us/img571/8696/confirmedkill.png[/img_thumb] I'm just glad I know she's coming back to me sometime soon.[/QUOTE] Why would you want that lagoon creature to come back to you.
I find myself yelling when angry, but it's usually because the only time people entice me to blind fury is when they yell, so I have to yell to be heard over the sound of them yelling. [editline]6th May 2011[/editline] Sure I get angry with people when they don't yell, like everyone else, but not angry enough to yell. I yell at Call of Duty a lot, but that doesn't count.
[QUOTE=Sublata;29663138][img_thumb]http://img571.imageshack.us/img571/8696/confirmedkill.png[/img_thumb] I'm just glad I know she's coming back to me sometime soon.[/QUOTE] You're better off without that shit, don't wait on her to come back. She 'just wants to have fun, ya know?' i.e. forget about this bitch and find someone more worth your time.
So I just broke up with my long distance girlfriend of 8 months (first serious relationship, too) on monday. In all honesty... I'm completely fine. I regret doing a long distance thing for that long... I totaled it up, and it turns out I've spent almost $1000 on travelling to see her. Ouch. Now I'm just talking to a few girls I'm interested in, and am planning on asking one out soon. I haven't talked a lot with the one I'm most interested in, a british girl in my english class. Would you say I should just say screw it and ask her out now, or talk a little more so it's not just a semi-stranger asking her out? On another note... Has anyone else ever noticed sort of.. break-ups rippling throughout groups of friends? My friend broke up with his girlfriend... next day mine broke up with me, etc, etc.. It's affected nearly 10 couples now.
The break up ripple thing usually happens in like a domino affect, you broke up with your girlfriend your friend/other people see this and they realize that they have other choices and it kind of just falls into place there.
[QUOTE=Faren;29662450]Smiling is great; it hides the fact that my mouth is about the same size as my cat's.[/QUOTE] Yeah but i don't even open my mouth when i smile, it annoys the crap out of me. Not like i have terrible teeth or anything so i'm not doing it conciously. Went to a party thursday and some twat decided to post the most retarded picture of me on facebook, i shall hunt them down and murder them. And yeah i don't yell at people, if you can't make an rational argument don't make one at all.
so my friend is gonna be dating this girl soon, and they've been on the "were gonna go out in a few days" for two months. If its been 2 months of them pussy footing it around of "lets make it official tomorrow", then someones getting cold feet or they're both a pair of pusses. I almost want to tell my friend to quit puss-ing about. Does this make me a bad person?
[QUOTE=ScoutKing;29673697]so my friend is gonna be dating this girl soon, and they've been on the "were gonna go out in a few days" for two months. If its been 2 months of them pussy footing it around of "lets make it official tomorrow", then someones getting cold feet or they're both a pair of pusses. I almost want to tell my friend to quit puss-ing about. Does this make me a bad person?[/QUOTE] Hell no, if anything your making a retarded situation less retarded, props to you for that
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