• Maverick's Love/Relationship/Social Advice Megathread
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[QUOTE=Psychopath12;29769555]What?[/QUOTE] I'm fine without them, but occasionally (which is too often) don't stay very hard with them. It's just an annoying occurrence and I'd rather not be concerned with it. This is pretty weird to post on a forum, I realise. But it'd be far weirder to ask people I know.
[QUOTE=Psychopath12;29769555]What?[/QUOTE] Obviously they sap his sex powers from his penis. Obviously.
Have you considered trying out different brands of condoms? Kinda like shoes, the different manufacturer makes for a different fit. It might not be significant of a difference, but you can never be too sure.
[QUOTE=Psychopath12;29769818]Have you considered trying out different brands of condoms? Kinda like shoes, the different manufacturer makes for a different fit. It might not be significant of a difference, but you can never be too sure.[/QUOTE] That's a good point. Maybe I'll go to a chemist and ask for a wide range for experimental purposes.
I find it humorous how I'm giving advice about stuff that I've seriously got no real experience with. I kinda sound like I know what I'm talking about because I'm using my head and sometimes doing a little research before posting, but, for the most part, I'm just going [img]http://rsshunt.com/storage/65/63/038a3ac8459927b87390fffaac6d6956.jpg[/img] :v:
I would say you just bring it up... I don't know the girl you are talking about, so if she overreacts to things like that, then... Don't I guess. But.. just say something like "Hey, you know how I always get limp dick when I wear a condom? We should try the pill." :v:
[QUOTE=Octyl;29770025]I would say you just bring it up... I don't know the girl you are talking about, so if she overreacts to things like that, then... Don't I guess. But.. just say something like "Hey, you know how I always get limp dick when I wear a condom? We should try the pill." :v:[/QUOTE] Nah she'll be reasonable about it, I just haven't had any experience with girls and the pill before so I don't know if it's like a big thing to ask.
I'd say she'd be reasonable... Hell, it'll feel better for her skin on skin too. Just ask.
If you want her to go on the pill, it probably means you're getting relatively serious, or are at least comfortable enough to talk about things with her. Really just tell her what's wrong, and what you want to try, but be nice about it.
If you're having sex, you should be at a level where you can talk about sex without getting uncomfortable. If you can't talk straight up with your partner about sex, then you shouldn't be having sex.
Most girls in my school are told to "not get fucking knocked up or ill fucking kill you" by there parents. usually works better than the pill. [editline]11th May 2011[/editline] usually..
Ah, the old, "cease ovulation out of fear". Works like a charm. Went out with this 14 year old girl recently (I'm 15) and I was really unsure about physical contact. I think I've got it in my head somewhere that's she's all innocent and would freak out from more than a hug (she's kinda reserved/nerdy, but I know it still sounds pretty retarded. Tips for testing the waters or is it better to just go about it naturally and back off I get a negative response?
[QUOTE=Faren;29772522]Tips for testing the waters or is it better to just go about it naturally and back off I get a negative response?[/QUOTE] Those are pretty much the same thing. You test the waters by escalating naturally and gradually, and if you get a negative response you back off and wait for a better time to push further. Start with high fives, or even silly games involving hands, just so she gets used to being touched, and gets more comfortable with touching. Then lead to light pats during conversation, or if you're walking together through a crowd, rest your hand gently on her lower back as you pass crowds, or if you're crossing a street, hold her arm/hand, etc. Girls love hugs too, and so do you, so hug her often, gradually increasing in intimacy as you both get more comfortable with each other. But fuck, 14 years old, I'd be surprised if she was comfortable with getting much more physical than that. I don't know if it's just me, but I can't imagine a 14 year old wanting to get sexual or anything. I personally lost my virginity at 15, and prior to that I don't think I even imagined myself having sex. Hell I was surprised enough that I had sex when I actually did, to the point that I couldn't even stay hard because I was just too wtf at it all.
[QUOTE=MaverickIB;29771030]If you're having sex, you should be at a level where you can talk about sex without getting uncomfortable. If you can't talk straight up with your partner about sex, then you shouldn't be having sex.[/QUOTE] It's not that I'd be uncomfortable talking about sex obviously, it's that I didn't know whether it's a big thing for girls to go on the pill. None of my friends are, so I didn't know whether there was a certain cautiousness I needed to approach the situation with.
[QUOTE=Dark_Light;29773100]Those are pretty much the same thing. You test the waters by escalating naturally and gradually, and if you get a negative response you back off and wait for a better time to push further. Start with high fives, or even silly games involving hands, just so she gets used to being touched, and gets more comfortable with touching. Then lead to light pats during conversation, or if you're walking together through a crowd, rest your hand gently on her lower back as you pass crowds, or if you're crossing a street, hold her arm/hand, etc. Girls love hugs too, and so do you, so hug her often, gradually increasing in intimacy as you both get more comfortable with each other. But fuck, 14 years old, I'd be surprised if she was comfortable with getting much more physical than that. I don't know if it's just me, but I can't imagine a 14 year old wanting to get sexual or anything. I personally lost my virginity at 15, and prior to that I don't think I even imagined myself having sex. Hell I was surprised enough that I had sex when I actually did, to the point that I couldn't even stay hard because I was just too wtf at it all.[/QUOTE] I talk about my ex too much... But, she was 14. And quite physical.... Very physical. So just test the waters.
Ok, tomorrow. Tomorrow I'll talk to her.
[QUOTE=Fhux;29776760]Ok, tomorrow. Tomorrow I'll talk to her.[/QUOTE] Yes, you will.
[QUOTE=Dark_Light;29776811]Yes, you will.[/QUOTE] I'll try to congratulate her, tomorrow is her name's day.
[QUOTE=Faren;29772522]Ah, the old, "cease ovulation out of fear". Works like a charm. Went out with this 14 year old girl recently (I'm 15) and I was really unsure about physical contact. I think I've got it in my head somewhere that's she's all innocent and would freak out from more than a hug (she's kinda reserved/nerdy, but I know it still sounds pretty retarded. Tips for testing the waters or is it better to just go about it naturally and back off I get a negative response?[/QUOTE] You joined as a 9yrold?
[QUOTE=Fhux;29776878]I'll try to congratulate her, tomorrow is her name's day.[/QUOTE] Her name's day? [editline]13th May 2011[/editline] [QUOTE=kaskade700;29777171]You joined as a 9yrold?[/QUOTE] I did the same thing when he said he was 15, had to work out how old he was when he joined. :P
[QUOTE=Dark_Light;29777950]Her name's day?[/QUOTE] A name day is a tradition in many countries in Europe and Latin America that consists of celebrating the day of the year associated with one's given name. Why was that funny?!
Any suggestions for unrequited lovers? I can talk to women, but I can never be flirtatious or show affection. I can't really describe it, it's just very frustrating.
[QUOTE=Klammyxxl;29780615]Any suggestions for unrequited lovers? I can talk to women, but I can never be flirtatious or show affection. I can't really describe it, it's just very frustrating.[/QUOTE] Just always be smiling and laughing, and poke fun at her but really lightly. And make physical contact in some sort of way.
Being cocky is pretty good for flirting. (Unless you are too cocky, then you'll look like an asshole.)
[QUOTE=kaskade700;29777171]You joined as a 9yrold?[/QUOTE] Just before my 10th birthday, yes.
[QUOTE=kaskade700;29777171]You joined as a 9yrold?[/QUOTE] I joined when I was 9 too. No, I'm not 10. I joined in '05. This is merely an alt of many. :v:
I joined as a nine year old as well
Then why are you in this thread? You're supposed to play Pokemon and not give a fuck about women.
[QUOTE=kaskade700;29784259]Then why are you in this thread? You're supposed to play Pokemon and not give a fuck about women.[/QUOTE] to be young again [editline]12th May 2011[/editline] actually i do still play pokemon...
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