[QUOTE=MaverickIB;29857532]That's bullshit. Should have defended yourself.[/QUOTE]
I'm pretty sure that blocking punches constitutes as defending one's self. To be honest, I didn't actually see him as much of a threat after that first cheapshot. He's a scrawny little guy and the way he was behaving was like that of a child throwing a temper tantrum (at least in my eyes) so I did what I would do if I was dealing with a child with a temper: restrain them until they calm down. Last time I actually retaliated in self-defense, I broke the guy's jaw. I've got some personal reasons for not retaliating if possible. It happened like 9 years ago, but I still don't like the idea of deliberately hurting someone if it can be avoided. I'd rather not go into any further detail as to what happened almost a decade ago, bad memories.
[QUOTE=MindMuncher;29856844]Just getting this out of the way right here: I'm not all "Oh god a girl likes me" when I say what I say next. I'm just providing content for the thread.
Some random girl I've never met sent me a message on FaceBook saying [I]"So I keep hearing really good things about you, and I've been attempting to meet you for a while now. Mind if I just send a facebook request first and meet you in real life later?"[/I] I just replied with [I]"Sounds dandy to me"[/I]. I don't actually think much of this. I was more interested in who was telling this random lady "really good things" about me. Wonder what they said. Recently most people just tell me to keep my opinions to myself, so positive comments are always nice.[/QUOTE]
Notice how much that sounds like Maverick's opener for when you just don't know what to say? The girl is being honest. Nothing weird about it. Just don't take it to mean she loves you or anything... she sounds curious and a little interested, which is perfect. Of course she could totally be a stalker but it's really not that likely.
[QUOTE=Psychopath12;29858015]I'm pretty sure that blocking punches constitutes as defending one's self. To be honest, I didn't actually see him as much of a threat after that first cheapshot. He's a scrawny little guy and the way he was behaving was like that of a child throwing a temper tantrum (at least in my eyes) so I did what I would do if I was dealing with a child with a temper: restrain them until they calm down. Last time I actually retaliated in self-defense, I broke the guy's jaw. I've got some personal reasons for not retaliating if possible. It happened like 9 years ago, but I still don't like the idea of deliberately hurting someone if it can be avoided. I'd rather not go into any further detail as to what happened almost a decade ago, bad memories.[/QUOTE]
An angry man can catch you by surprise. Best not to underestimate anyone.
Unless you pretty much come right out and have the girl tell everyone that you didn't drug/rape her, people will have that doubt in their minds now. I suggest you organize people somewhere and ask her to do that for you.
[QUOTE=FlakAttack;29858154]An angry man can catch you by surprise. Best not to underestimate anyone.
Unless you pretty much come right out and have the girl tell everyone that you didn't drug/rape her, people will have that doubt in their minds now. I suggest you organize people somewhere and ask her to do that for you.[/QUOTE]
She's the one who told me about the rumor in the first place. She and I spent a good chunk of time contacting the people who started the rumor so they could correct what went wrong. Pretty much she called the guy who hosted the party and then asked for contact info for everyone he invited, was a hassle but we got it to work. It just didn't reach her boyfriend before he took action against me.
That boyfriend sounds like a complete ass, you did well mang.
That's so ridiculous, as if rumours even spread like that. Hope you feel better dude, I'm sure the guy will get shit for it for ages from the girl. Even so, I'd wait for him to make peace.
[QUOTE=Psychopath12;29858015]I'm pretty sure that blocking punches constitutes as defending one's self. To be honest, I didn't actually see him as much of a threat after that first cheapshot. He's a scrawny little guy and the way he was behaving was like that of a child throwing a temper tantrum (at least in my eyes) so I did what I would do if I was dealing with a child with a temper: restrain them until they calm down. Last time I actually retaliated in self-defense, I broke the guy's jaw. I've got some personal reasons for not retaliating if possible. It happened like 9 years ago, but I still don't like the idea of deliberately hurting someone if it can be avoided. I'd rather not go into any further detail as to what happened almost a decade ago, bad memories.[/QUOTE]
You're being pretty cocky about this
Just because you assume you can easily take them on doesn't mean you shouldn't try to end the fight.
I mean I feel bad for you that you got into this situation but the way you're talking about the boyfriend makes you sound like a jerk.
[QUOTE=Jo The Shmo;29861574]You're being pretty cocky about this
Just because you assume you can easily take them on doesn't mean you shouldn't try to end the fight.
I mean I feel bad for you that you got into this situation but the way you're talking about the boyfriend makes you sound like a jerk.[/QUOTE]
What? Have you fucking read anything. The boyfriend hit him because he heard a rumour before even listening to her or anyone else, he's a massive cunt and should be treated like one.
I just think it's stupid how he's all "hurr I coulda kicked his ass he couldn't hurt me" yet he passed out and ended up with a smashed face. Be a man and defend yourself, it's not like you are only allowed to defend yourself if you're actually guilty as charged.
[QUOTE=Occlusion;29863534]What? Have you fucking read anything. The boyfriend hit him because he heard a rumour before even listening to her or anyone else, he's a massive cunt and should be treated like one.[/QUOTE]
Did you read my post?
I never said the boyfriend didn't deserve it.
I was talking about the way he was like "I wasn't even trying because the boyfriend was so weak it was silly"
If the boyfriend is seriously pissed you should take the situation seriously.
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I mean he ended up getting his ass kicked because he treated it as a joke, which I think was a rather dumb move, and pretty cocky.
I won't deny that I can be arrogant and was cocky when handling that situation. I've gotten myself into a little trouble in the past because of that arrogance. Now I have an injury to show for that dumb decision. There's no real going back to change that, though.
If someone hits you in the face out of nowhere, warranted or not you have every right and should in my opinion break his face unless it would land you in a hospital.
Turns out this girl was grounded after her mom read her journal of her trip to france... From what she said, it sounds like she tried some weed over there. And coming from a town where most girls are uptight about that, it is a plus in my books that she's open. I'm just gonna say fuck it and ask her out tomorrow or the day after rather than wait to talk to her some more.
Alright so a few weeks ago my friend got rejected for a third time by this chick he'd been crushing over big time. It's quite awhile on now and people are still saying not to talk about her or go after her or anything. He's a really good friend of mine, but it's not like he was in a relationship with her and got dumped. Is it being a dick to move in?
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