• Maverick's Love/Relationship/Social Advice Megathread
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[QUOTE=thisispain;28271534]take it up to zzzZZZ[/QUOTE] I'm not quite sure what this means.
[QUOTE=DELL;28271523]I have a problem and the advice in this thread is helpful. Right now that I have praised the thread on with my problem. Forenote so I don't confuse anyone I only ask out a girl in person. There is this girl I want to ask out however the only way I have to contact her is through facebook however she is never online in the chat. I don't want to send a message mainly because I find that odd however I thought the best course of action is to ask here. I do know people who know her however the only one I know is too busy dating my friend to help me it seems.[/QUOTE] There's no problem with talking to her via messaging, just don't ask her out through that medium. Find a way to get her number and then ask her out that way.
[QUOTE=Big Ben;28271545]I'm not quite sure what this means.[/QUOTE] guy who got banned for calling all black girls dinosaurs
[QUOTE=thisispain;28271555]guy who got banned for calling all black girls dinosaurs[/QUOTE] He has like 10 posts now doesn't he :v:
[QUOTE=WastedJamacan;28271359]I respectfully disagree, no two girls are the same. For most, smiling doesn't mean anything. However, a very introverted girl (like my ex) might smile at you to say "hey, I think you're cute, I want you to talk to me sometime."[/QUOTE] and how the hell is talking a big deal it might lead to a big deal but smiling is just a friendly gesture not "oh my god i want ur dick in my pussy ask me out"
[QUOTE=Mr.Dounut;28271628]and how the hell is talking a big deal it might lead to a big deal but smiling is just a friendly gesture not "oh my god i want ur dick in my pussy ask me out"[/QUOTE] I think you misunderstood my post, and I didn't really explain enough. She's the kind of girl that smiles only around her friends. That's it. So the fact that she smiled at me [I]when we never even talked before[/I] was a pretty big deal, it meant something. Talking about it later, it meant exactly what I thought it meant. She was into me, but she wanted me to talk to her so I would maybe ask her out. Sometimes a smile is more than just a smile.
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[QUOTE=Xolo;28271838]how 2 get womans[/QUOTE] Step 1: Find a suitable club.
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I talk to this girl almost every day on Facebook and in real life but I can't seem to keep her interested. Our conversations usually only last for a few minutes and then just end. What do?
What's the best place to ask a girl out to if I have no money?
[QUOTE=WastedJamacan;28271842]Step 1: Find a suitable club.[/QUOTE] [img]http://www.costumediscounters.com/csc_inc/images/items/250x349/7323.jpg[/img]
[QUOTE=mookman22;28272023]What's the best place to ask a girl out to if I have no money?[/QUOTE]The park, beach, etc.
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[QUOTE=Taepodong-2;28271890]I talk to this girl almost every day on Facebook and in real life but I can't seem to keep her interested. Our conversations usually only last for a few minutes and then just end. What do?[/QUOTE] Ask her out.
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[QUOTE=Glitch360;28272055]The park, beach, etc.[/QUOTE] Cliche and hokey Best thing to do if you have no money is to invite her to some kind of party or activity you think she might enjoy and you know you enjoy. Videogames don't count, and neither does watching a movie at home (movies are pretty bad first dates anyways). Took my current BF to some big card/boardgame night that one club I was loosly associated with was having at college. We didn't go on the pretense of a date, but it was obvious we were interested in each other. We both had a blast. Followed up with the group to get eat at a steak & shake, which is dirt cheap. Your mileage may vary. I'm the kind of person who's not very comfortable trying to force conversation/good time one on one with someone I don't already know very well. So the natural thing for me was to do something that involves a group of people, which turned out to be his comfort zone as well for getting to know someone (side note: good sign if your comfort zone's sync up with each other). Other people however love getting their feet wet on more formal first dates, or something casual but strictly one-on-one. Just do whatever works for you and the person in question. But mostly what works for you, since you'll leave a better impression getting yourself into a situation you feel good about versus one that you don't. [editline]25th February 2011[/editline] [QUOTE=Taepodong-2;28271890]I talk to this girl almost every day on Facebook and in real life but I can't seem to keep her interested. Our conversations usually only last for a few minutes and then just end. What do?[/QUOTE] Not interested, and/or her personality type is the kind of person who just doesn't give a shit about holding conversation. Or the conversation you have with her is boring (ties in with the first part).
I went to a play for a first date with the current girl.
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[QUOTE=KorJax;28272443] Not interested, and/or her personality type is the kind of person who just doesn't give a shit about holding conversation. Or the conversation you have with her is boring (ties in with the first part).[/QUOTE] So what do I have to do to make her more interested? She's usually the one starting the conversation if that makes a difference.
[QUOTE=Jonii;28266773]When you guys learn to stop thinking and just ask as I figured out myself and as Maverick has always said anyway, and you just take dates as casual days to get to know someone better, it can actually eliminate your awkwardness and anxiety over dating before long like it did mine. Now I take a date as a nothing-guarenteed fun thing. If we have fun and it works well, we go on a second date, and if she doesn't want one, she doesn't want one.[/QUOTE] This is so true. Part of the reason why my first two realtionships failed so hardcore was because I got too invested in the idea of dating, instead of actually getting to know and understand the other person (and seeing if that works out with me). My first few dates were always extremely awkward and uncomfortable because both me and the other guy went into it with a "I'm going on a date! It's offical now!" attitude with plenty of shyness. My current BF on the other hand, I just didn't give a fuck if I was leaving a good impression or a bad one. I was just being me, and the first few times we went out I thoguht of the occasion as getting to know a good friend, rather than trying to force a "date" situation. Turned out great, wasn't awkward at all and we went in dating each other knowing who we really were to each other instead of trying to fluff it up with bullshit
[QUOTE=JohnnyMo1;28272509]What play[/QUOTE] It was called "A Servant of Two Masters" or something like that. She's into artsy stuff like that, my college was putting it on the first day back from spring break, so we went to go see it. Was actually pretty funny/good. The next time I saw her, it was in her room and we watched the movie Cars. Well, most of it, since we started making out about 3/4ths of the way into it, haha.
[QUOTE=Taepodong-2;28272542]So what do I have to do to make her more interested? She's usually the one starting the conversation if that makes a difference.[/QUOTE] What do you guys usually talk about? I'm just wondering if it's small talk because she's a nice girl and doesn't have the heart to blow you off, if she's just literally not one for lengthy conversation, if what you guys talk about doesn't interest her or if she's got a short attention span
Kind of an odd situation.. So this girl in my class is (I think) flirting with me, basically doing stuff like pestering me with minor stuff (throwing wrappers and stuff and being giggly while doing it and other odd stuff) and I've kind of given a not cold but pseudo confused response. What should my next move be? [editline]25th February 2011[/editline] Not to mention, I don't really know her that well (we're in the same class and that's it)
[QUOTE=MaverickIB;28271547]There's no problem with talking to her via messaging, just don't ask her out through that medium. Find a way to get her number and then ask her out that way.[/QUOTE] How is texting someone to ask them out vs. calling? I ask because I almost never call people (I only really call people when I need to ask/say something quickly). [editline]25th February 2011[/editline] [QUOTE=Dr. Fishtastic;28272756]Kind of an odd situation.. So this girl in my class is (I think) flirting with me, basically doing stuff like pestering me with minor stuff (throwing wrappers and stuff and being giggly while doing it and other odd stuff) and I've kind of given a not cold but pseudo confused response. What should my next move be? [editline]25th February 2011[/editline] Not to mention, I don't really know her that well (we're in the same class and that's it)[/QUOTE] Ugh, reminds me of a friend of mine that has really started pissing me off. She's constantly hugging me and trying to link arms or hold my hand and when I first met her I thought she was flirting or something (was a little over a year ago) but I think she's just a little bit obsessed with me for no particular reason (she's all innocent and shit; she's 16) because although she is very "affectionate" with other people, it seems to be magnified tenfold.
I hate talking on the phone, so I normally text. Doesn't seem that bad, I've been successful with it.
i have 35,182 posts why would i use a phone when i'm so experienced in text
I use both text and phone and it really depends. I prefer talking in text when we're both in bad moods because there's less reason to get shitty. Anyway, my birthday is coming up and I'm gearing for a really fantastic present and I hope she's good at giving gifts. Her Christmas one was decent. Also pls give advice on dealing with shit stepdads
Elaborate on the shit stepdads. Also to anyone else who's too nervous or unsure to ask a girl you didn't talk much to etc out, think of it this way. What's the worst that can happen? A cold or rude no. You can survive it, so why not go for it? If that was the answer, big deal, you weren't talking to her much before you asked her, and you won't talk much after asking her, so nothing actually changed much if you think about it. You didn't lose anything. So now, think about what's the best thing that could happen! You could actually get what you ask for, possibly even more. Think what she could say. She could say yes. So go ask her out. [editline]25th February 2011[/editline] I could make that longer if you want.
Second date tomorrow, wondering where I should take her. I was thinking of getting coffee then chilling at the park.
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