[QUOTE=B-hazard;28275209]Second date tomorrow, wondering where I should take her. I was thinking of getting coffee then chilling at the park.[/QUOTE]
find a place to shag
[QUOTE=thisispain;28275307]find a place to shag[/QUOTE]
then get disturbed by chavs
I was WONDERING where LA went.
Well, glad to see you here, Mav. Hey, now you're getting more hits than you were in LA. If only sprocket were still here, he'd be having a field day.
i shall replace sprocket
"oh look you suck so hard i am far more superior than any single one of you, your problems come from being ugly, suck on my 154 inch cock"
true
except he actually had good advice, he just gave it in a dickish way
i could give good advice as well i reckon
it's just maverick pretty much has the basses covered so i have to mock people in order to enjoy myself
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The whole "what's the worst that can happen" attitude in this thread is a great start to the day.
Good way to look at the day before you get started.
[QUOTE=MindMuncher;28276671]The whole "what's the worst that can happen" attitude in this thread is a great start to the day.
Good way to look at the day before you get started.[/QUOTE]
Sounds like you're fishing for sympathy.
[QUOTE=Faren;28272806]How is texting someone to ask them out vs. calling? I ask because I almost never call people (I only really call people when I need to ask/say something quickly).
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I don't like talking to people either on the phone (I've tried explaining this to my mother with no avail), but if you are asking someone out, don't do it over text/MSN. My ex did this and I thought it was lame as hell (should have been a warning sign that he was too "meh" about relationships to be a good BF, which he was). My current BF did it over MSN but I said he'd have to ask me in person if he wanted to know the answer.
Which he did, and it was obviously a bit more pressure on him than doing it through MSN or something. But hey, I like that I know he has the balls to put his money where his mouth is and prove to me that he's the kind of guy who can ask in person, even if he feels awkward about it ;) Besides if any girl is worth her salt then she'll think you are cute for being nervous asking out in person, like I did with my BF. If any chick seriously gives you shit about asking her out in person or thinks you are weird because of it, then they are definatly NOT worth your time anyways. It's a great way to filter through the ones who are "worth it" for dating and the ones you shouldn't bother with.
Okay I need help. My girlfriend loves giving me blow jobs, but I love her and I think it degrades her. Also call me old-fashioned, but I don't like to kiss a girl that constantly swallows my cum.
I keep on telling her that I am not suggesting that she stops or suggesting that she keeps doing them, and if she doesn't feel like giving them to me, then I would rather that she didn't. What should I do?
What advice can you give to a person with Social Anxiety and has put up a great amount of weight in a short period of time?
[QUOTE=collegegrad;28278240]Okay I need help. My girlfriend loves giving me blow jobs
What should I do?[/QUOTE]
Quit complaining.
[QUOTE=Chekko;28279232]What advice can you give to a person with Social Anxiety and has put up a great amount of weight in a short period of time?[/QUOTE]
Lets become gym buddies.
Im guessing your not built to fuck like Arnie
I think I may have fucked up.
So there's a girl I work with who I like (I've posted about her before) and I spent some time observing her and trying to figure out if she might like me. Then, last week, after a training session we both got the bus to town together - I was going home and she was going to the library to do work related stuff. We had been getting on pretty well up to this point and when we reached the bus station, after a brief chat, she said I could go with her to the library with her if I wanted. At this point my brain suffered a malfunction or something because I said that I should go home, and that was the end of that.
So I saw her again today for some work related stuff and I had planned to ask her out on a date. My plan was to ask her at the end, so I can avoid awkwardness if she said no. Once again we both got the bus together and once again we ended up at the bus station. But this time, she didn't talk to me on the bus and when we got to the bus station she just got off and walked away. Not even a friendly goodbye. What.
So that fucked up my plans to ask her out, and leaves me wondering what the fuck she is thinking.
God I hate girls.
[QUOTE=KorJax;28272605]What do you guys usually talk about? I'm just wondering if it's small talk because she's a nice girl and doesn't have the heart to blow you off, if she's just literally not one for lengthy conversation, if what you guys talk about doesn't interest her or if she's got a short attention span[/QUOTE]
Well you pretty much answered my question already.
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@David29: she was waiting for YOU to talk to HER.
[QUOTE=GoldenGnome;28280044]@David29: she was waiting for YOU to talk to HER.[/QUOTE]
Given the circumstances, it really wasn't that fucking simple.
I got on the bus. She followed. She didn't sit next to me - she sat on the other side. She ended up with an old person sat next to her. How am I meant to talk to her with an old person sat next to her?
Great thread Maverick.
Here's the thing, you're probably not the first thing on her mind.
So when she went to get on the bus, she wasn't thinking "omg I gotta sit next to that dude again cause I like him," she was just thinking that she needs to find somewhere to sit down. She talked to you on the bus and whatnot the previous time because she ended up next to you and thought you seemed like a nice person.
Once again, stop trying to figure out if a girl likes you based off of stupid ass "clues" and just ask her out. Hell, even if she was sitting by an old person, you could have done my famous slip of paper trick (a scrap of paper with your name/number on it) and gave it to her as she was fixing to get off.
Like I said before, opportunities rarely just land in your lap. You have to make them.
Should have punched the granny in the face to show your innate masculinity.
[QUOTE=MaverickIB;28280223]Here's the thing, you're probably not the first thing on her mind.
So when she went to get on the bus, she wasn't thinking "omg I gotta sit next to that dude again cause I like him," she was just thinking that she needs to find somewhere to sit down. She talked to you on the bus and whatnot the previous time because she ended up next to you and thought you seemed like a nice person.[/QUOTE]
I am aware of this. That said, the last time we were on the bus together, she did actually bother to talk to me.
[QUOTE=MaverickIB;28280223]Once again, stop trying to figure out if a girl likes you based off of stupid ass "clues" and just ask her out. Hell, even if she was sitting by an old person, you could have done my famous slip of paper trick (a scrap of paper with your name/number on it) and gave it to her as she was fixing to get off.
Like I said before, opportunities rarely just land in your lap. You have to make them.[/QUOTE]
I'm not - well, not extensively. As I said, my intention was to ask her out today. Unfortunately, she fucked that opportunity up for me. It's worth noting that we have worked together for a good three months and are decent friends - it's not like we barely know each other. The fact that she just buggered off without saying goodbye or even looking at me is cold even for a colleague.
And I don't think there is anything wrong with doing a bit of 'recon' prior to asking a girl out (i.e. seeing how she responds to you).
[QUOTE=GoldenGnome;28280333]Should have punched the granny in the face to show your innate masculinity.[/QUOTE]
Probably.
I dont want to date this girl any more. What do I do?
[QUOTE=Asm;28280416]I dont want to date this girl any more. What do I do?[/QUOTE]
Don't ask her for dates anymore.
Bonus: ask another girl
[QUOTE=B-hazard;28275209]Second date tomorrow, wondering where I should take her. I was thinking of getting coffee then chilling at the park.[/QUOTE]
Sounds good, do that.
My girl has the same attention seeking problem as was stated before about her body and whatnot, however, I like to give her compliments and make her smile, should I wait until her compliment addiction is passed before I start admireing her again? I just like to see her smile and let her know how much I appreciate her, but I don't want her to keep that bad habit.
Yep. Just slow down with the compliments.
There is more ways to make a girl smile that don't involve complimenting them.
[QUOTE=MaverickIB;28280920]Yep. Just slow down with the compliments.
There is more ways to make a girl smile that don't involve complimenting them.[/QUOTE]
Well I like to buy her gifts and stuff occaisonally that match her interests in video games etc.
Any tips on ways to make her smile without complimenting her/buying her things? In conversation I mean.
Tell jokes.
Is a coffee after school a good starting point with a girl I barely know?
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