[QUOTE=Oicani Gonzales;28281041]David did you ever considered the possibility of her being a bit mad at you?
I mean fuck you had a great chance and fucked up.
Next time instead of waiting for her to sit next to you, say hi on the bus stop, talk to her and oh wow holy shit you'll end up sitting next to her and talking till you get out.
Don't stand still complaining and moaning.[/QUOTE]
Yes. Take note of the first line of my first post: "I think I may have fucked up".
I am fully aware she may be mad. I'm fully aware that I made the error. I'm not moaning at all, just simply discussing what happened. Besides, I know perfectly well know what I must do - I need to ask her out. That's the only way I'm going to resolve this mess.
So, in yous guys opinions, what is too young to start dating? Because I realized that I'm pretty young and maybe I should just give up on the pursuit of a relationship until I'm a bit older.
[editline]25th February 2011[/editline]
That was worded badly, but you get what I'm saying.
[QUOTE=Big Ben;28281307]So, in yous guys opinions, what is too young to start dating? Because I realized that I'm pretty young and maybe I should just give up on the pursuit of a relationship until I'm a bit older.
[editline]25th February 2011[/editline]
That was worded badly, but you get what I'm saying.[/QUOTE]
12 or 13 is too young in my opinion.
[QUOTE=B-hazard;28281367]12 or 13 is too young in my opinion.[/QUOTE]
Well I'm not 12 or 13, I'm 15.
I think it's okay to date when young, but actually entering a relationship is stupid until you're at least 14-15.
But at those ages, you can't expect something serious.
[QUOTE=MaverickIB;28281408]I think it's okay to date when young, but actually entering a relationship is stupid until you're at least 14-15.
But at those ages, you can't expect something serious.[/QUOTE]
I wasn't expecting anything really serious to be honest, I just feel like I need to get out in the world instead of staying home all day and doing nothing, and actually have a relationship (a very minor one, but still) with somebody. I just think it would do me some good.
[QUOTE=MaverickIB;28281408]I think it's okay to date when young, but actually entering a relationship is stupid until you're at least 14-15.
But at those ages, you can't expect something serious.[/QUOTE]
I'm going to add you over Steam for being so awesome and we will play many hit titles together like Magicka and Left 4 Dead 2 because were social and mainstream.
But seriously I'm Cheese Sandwich. We should play sometime.
I don't have Magicka or Left 4 Dead 2.
The only games I really play on Steam nowadays are Red Orchestra and occasionally GMod.
[QUOTE=Taepodong-2;28279959]Well you pretty much answered my question already.
foreveralone.jpg[/QUOTE]
Oh wow, out of all places I find you HERE? How weird...
On topic, how do I get my friend to stop being such a drama queen about relationships? There was this girl he's been friends with, and he's been interested in her for a while now. A couple weeks ago, she admitted liking another friend of mine, and he seemed to be cool with that, until just a few days ago, when she actually started going out with him (the one she likes). Now he's in a constant shitty mood and he blames it on the other guy, but if it's anyone's fault, it's her's. And I'm stuck in the middle of constant awkward conversations.
[QUOTE=MaverickIB;28282185]I don't have Magicka or Left 4 Dead 2.
The only games I really play on Steam nowadays are Red Orchestra and occasionally GMod.[/QUOTE]
I WILL BUY YOU MAGICKA YOU ASS
Add me.
[QUOTE=MotherPuncher;28282221]Oh wow, out of all places I find you HERE? How weird...
On topic, how do I get my friend to stop being such a drama queen about relationships? There was this girl he's been friends with, and he's been interested in her for a while now. A couple weeks ago, she admitted liking another friend of mine, and he seemed to be cool with that, until just a few days ago, when she actually started going out with him (the one she likes). Now he's in a constant shitty mood and he blames it on the other guy, but if it's anyone's fault, it's her's. And I'm stuck in the middle of constant awkward conversations.[/QUOTE]
Just be honest.
[editline]25th February 2011[/editline]
Tell him he needs to suck it up and he should've gone in for the kill a bit earlier, and to let it go.
[editline]25th February 2011[/editline]
[QUOTE=BigOwl;28282966]I WILL BUY YOU MAGICKA YOU ASS
Add me.[/QUOTE]
Magicka doesn't work on laptops fyi.
[QUOTE=Mobon1;28283304]
Magicka doesn't work on laptops fyi.[/QUOTE]
That doesn't make sense
[QUOTE=David29;28281131]Yes. Take note of the first line of my first post: "I think I may have fucked up".
I am fully aware she may be mad. I'm fully aware that I made the error. I'm not moaning at all, just simply discussing what happened. Besides, I know perfectly well know what I must do - I need to ask her out. That's the only way I'm going to resolve this mess.[/QUOTE]
I strongly believe that being honest is the best thing to do, particularly when you had good intentions. If I was you, I would just start a conversation with her, on the bus if possible, and just explain what happened. Tell her you wanted to ask her out but you didn't have the nerve (maybe because she's so pretty - throw in a compliment) and you've regretted it since. Even if she turns you down, she'll respect you for being honest and, if she is mad, forgive you.
If that fails, resort to rape.
[QUOTE=~ZOMG;28283644]I strongly believe that being honest is the best thing to do, particularly when you had good intentions. If I was you, I would just start a conversation with her, on the bus if possible, and just explain what happened. Tell her you wanted to ask her out but you didn't have the nerve (maybe because she's so pretty - throw in a compliment) and you've regretted it since. Even if she turns you down, she'll respect you for being honest and, if she is mad, forgive you.
If that fails, resort to rape.[/QUOTE]
Whoa whoa whoa.
Wait.
Don't do this. Telling her that you pussied out makes you look like just that, a pussy. That's not a good thing. Throwing a compliment at her after telling her that you're a pussy only makes things worse, because it makes it seem like you're desperate to make her give you another shot.
His best bet is to just fucking talk to her next time and ask her out. If she brings up why he didn't talk to her last time, he can say he was zoned out like a motherfucker or something.
Maverick, teach me your ways. I want to be a player.
There's a difference between being honest and being retardedly honest.
For example:
"I couldn't think of a good excuse to talk to you so I decided to just come over here and wing it."
Is good honest.
"I haven't talked to you before because I'm a pussy."
Is retardedly honest.
Never tell her something that degrades you, it's just stupid. Use honesty as a form of humor and nothing else, at least when it comes down to initiating conversations with girls.
Ok, so I managed to say hello to a girl in my class, I don't know if she noticed, but I think she might like me, so now how do I get her to touch my penis?
Walk up to her, ask her out.
Is age difference a big deal in a relationship? I mean, I think this girl is around my age or maybe just a bit older, but I honestly could be completely wrong and she could 18 or 19 years old, but there's really no way to find out her age unless I ask her out or start creeping, and I'd rather not creep.
[QUOTE=~ZOMG;28283644]I strongly believe that being honest is the best thing to do, particularly when you had good intentions. If I was you, I would just start a conversation with her, on the bus if possible, and just explain what happened. Tell her you wanted to ask her out but you didn't have the nerve (maybe because she's so pretty - throw in a compliment) and you've regretted it since. Even if she turns you down, she'll respect you for being honest and, if she is mad, forgive you.
If that fails, resort to rape.[/QUOTE]
awful advice
[QUOTE=Big Ben;28283952]Is age difference a big deal in a relationship? I mean, I think this girl is around my age or maybe just a bit older, but I honestly could be completely wrong and she could 18 or 19 years old, but there's really no way to find out her age unless I ask her out or start creeping, and I'd rather not creep.[/QUOTE]
If your under 25 it does, I would say one or two years should be the max.
[QUOTE=B-hazard;28283977]If your under 25 it does, I would say one or two years should be the max.[/QUOTE]
This. There's a massive maturity difference between the teenage years, someone that is 18 is way more mature than someone that is 16, for example. Once you get older, age ceases to matter, but it's a pretty big deal when you're young.
[QUOTE=MaverickIB;28284053]This. There's a massive maturity difference between the teenage years, someone that is 18 is way more mature than someone that is 16, for example. Once you get older, age ceases to matter, but it's a pretty big deal when you're young.[/QUOTE]
Shit. :frown:
I like to think I'm 'mature' for my age but then I realize that just by thinking that, I'm not. I'm smarter than the average 15 year old, and then that intellect feels wasted because I'm still really immature about stuff and I can't make myself care about academic stuff that would help me later in life.
But I'm getting off topic here. I guess all I can do is wing it. If she's too old, she's too old. It's gonna suck but I'll get over it eventually.
K, imma make this short.
There is this girl that I'm friends with and we used to go out last year, I still like her and she still likes me (we communicate that often) and this happened: SO, she has going out with the guy for five months, and broke up with him for some dickhead (I hated him before all of this) who uses girls for sex, he has tried this on my friends ex-girlfriend and that was bad.
So now, I want to warn her without hurting her, she has been my friend since 6th grade so I don't want her to get mad at me and just bad stuff.
Let her make her mistakes.
:smith:
Can I ask a girl to make me pancakes for a date? I'm serious.
Or anything like that?
[QUOTE=MaverickIB;28280920]Yep. Just slow down with the compliments.
There is more ways to make a girl smile that don't involve complimenting them.[/QUOTE]
This is true.
General Advice to All Guys Who Like Giving Compliments A Lot (Like Moi:)
It actually is possible to come off as "too nice." You can be nice and you can compliment her, and she will appreciate it, but if you're giving her multiple compliments every night or every few nights when she really doesn't need the pick-me-up, it actually becomes unattractive. No need to prove that you think a girl looks nice all the time or that you think she's great, because she'd sort of trust you to think that, generally, since you're with her. So scale it back and focus on real conversation.
Quick question, not really love advice. Am good friends with a girl now, but over the past months shes had problems with another guy who was her friend for ages and then decided to do exactly what you've said not to do and get touchy feely and say how he's always liked her. Anyway she basically hates him now cause of some of the shit he pulled, but i get the feeling she can't trust me cause she thinks the same thing might happen again. So whenever i give her a compliment or put an x after a message i get the bad feeling she's misinterperating it and is gonna think i'm just another douche trying to get into her pants. I genuinley just want to hang out, but it feels like if i say "wanna see a film" she'll see it as coming onto her or something.
/ramble
[QUOTE=Occlusion;28285079]Quick question, not really love advice. Am good friends with a girl now, but over the past months shes had problems with another guy who was her friend for ages and then decided to do exactly what you've said not to do and get touchy feely and say how he's always liked her. Anyway she basically hates him now cause of some of the shit he pulled, but i get the feeling she can't trust me cause she thinks the same thing might happen again. So whenever i give her a compliment or put an x after a message i get the bad feeling she's misinterperating it and is gonna think i'm just another douche trying to get into her pants. I genuinley just want to hang out, but it feels like if i say "wanna see a film" she'll see it as coming onto her or something.
/ramble[/QUOTE]
Surely you want her to know you're coming onto her? Thats the idea of asking a girl out...
[editline]25th February 2011[/editline]
Ooh you just wanna be friends? Then act natural boy, give her space.
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