It's not weird or sad to not date someone or have a serious relationship till college or late high school ( if even that, depends on the people at your school ).
It is however sad if you haven't gotten your first kiss by the time you're fifteen - sixteen.
[QUOTE=Haxxer;28289405]I'm soon 18 and I haven't had a girlfriend, but it's not like I'm actively looking for one anyway.
[editline]26th February 2011[/editline]
Life is meant to live the way you want to, and mine is to live for the day, not to find a girlfriend, k[/QUOTE]
thanks for the update, i'm going to go have a great time with a girl and you can just continue making excuses
[QUOTE=Meatpuppet;28289390]I would ask this girl I like out but there's nowhere to go out to. D:[/QUOTE]
Go for a walk. Go to a little diner or something.
Be creative. Unless you live in the Sahara, there can't be [i]nothing[/i] to do.
R.I.P. Love Advice
[QUOTE=Mr.Dounut;28289464]thanks for the update, i'm going to go have a great time with a girl and you can just continue making excuses[/QUOTE]
excuses for what
I sure as hell don't want a girlfriend.
I love dating, but I don't want a committed relationship for a loooong time.
[QUOTE=MaverickIB;28289533]I sure as hell don't want a girlfriend.
I love dating, but I don't want a committed relationship for a loooong time.[/QUOTE]
Date one girl, then move onto the next.
Spoken like a true player :c00l:
Well. Okay. There's a girl. A pretty cool girl. Luckily, I share every class this year with her. Already in second semester. :toot: Anyway, as you could've presumed, I've got a bit of a fondness for her. Everything about her. A nice personality, attitude, and just a nice person to be around.
Anyway, my problem is I don't well, feel like I'm what you'd describe as a "cool" guy or anything... Geeky...you know, vidya games, zombie movies, and the wonderful environment that is the internet... And hell, I'm not the smartest kid, and she's like A+ 99% percent kinda student.
Anyway now I'm rambling and stammering I'm just worried I might not be the right type of guy for her or anything. Frankly I don't even know her type. I've known her a while, but this is the first year I've had classes with her, and if I recall I don't think she's been in a relation ship either
advice I'm now confused
[QUOTE=MaverickIB;28289472]Go for a walk. Go to a little diner or something.
Be creative. Unless you live in the Sahara, there can't be [i]nothing[/i] to do.[/QUOTE]
in south alabama, there is nothing to do
[QUOTE=Meatpuppet;28289607]in south alabama, there is nothing to do[/QUOTE]
in central new york, there is nothing to do
[QUOTE=DANKA;28289602]Well. Okay. There's a girl. A pretty cool girl. Luckily, I share every class this year with her. Already in second semester. :toot: Anyway, as you could've presumed, I've got a bit of a fondness for her. Everything about her. A nice personality, attitude, and just a nice person to be around.
Anyway, my problem is I don't well, feel like I'm what you'd describe as a "cool" guy or anything... Geeky...you know, vidya games, zombie movies, and the wonderful environment that is the internet... And hell, I'm not the smartest kid, and she's like A+ 99% percent kinda student.
Anyway now I'm rambling and stammering I'm just worried I might not be the right type of guy for her or anything. Frankly I don't even know her type. I've known her a while, but this is the first year I've had classes with her, and if I recall I don't think she's been in a relation ship either
advice I'm now confused[/QUOTE]
Who gives a shit? Seriously?
Ask her out. If she says yes, good for you. If she says no, then you move on. You should never not ask a girl out or give it a shot because you think you're not good enough for her or something retarded like that.
Also, girls can sense when a guy isn't confident. If you think you're not good enough for a girl, she's going to sense that the second you start talking to her. There's no such thing as "leagues" or whatever. I'm not a good looking guy and I can still pull girls that the average person would believe to be way out of my "league."
You can pull any girl you want with a mix of skill and luck. Never doubt yourself, because if you think you're going to fail, you will fail.
[QUOTE=Meatpuppet;28289607]in south alabama, there is nothing to do[/QUOTE]
Smoke a bowl or two or ten
[QUOTE=MaverickIB;28289658]Who gives a shit? Seriously?
Ask her out. If she says yes, good for you. If she says no, then you move on. You should never not ask a girl out or give it a shot because you think you're not good enough for her or something retarded like that.
Also, girls can sense when a guy isn't confident. If you think you're not good enough for a girl, she's going to sense that the second you start talking to her. There's no such thing as "leagues" or whatever. I'm not a good looking guy and I can still pull girls that the average person would believe to be way out of my "league."
You can pull any girl you want with a mix of skill and luck. Never doubt yourself, because if you think you're going to fail, you will fail.[/QUOTE]
That was actually pretty motivational I have to say.
You're good at this.
[QUOTE=MaverickIB;28289658]Who gives a shit? Seriously?
Ask her out. If she says yes, good for you. If she says no, then you move on. You should never not ask a girl out or give it a shot because you think you're not good enough for her or something retarded like that.
Also, girls can sense when a guy isn't confident. If you think you're not good enough for a girl, she's going to sense that the second you start talking to her. There's no such thing as "leagues" or whatever. I'm not a good looking guy and I can still pull girls that the average person would believe to be way out of my "league."
You can pull any girl you want with a mix of skill and luck. Never doubt yourself, because if you think you're going to fail, you will fail.[/QUOTE]
More confidence ahoy.
I know no one in this city (living alone woo), I go to a college where 1 out of 30 guys is a girl (those 5 are all very bitchy or already taken) and all my close friends live in another city. I'm not 18 so I can't go clubbing. What can I do besides finish college and meet people in uni?
Go after one of the ones that is taken.
Just because there's a goalie doesn't mean you can't score.
[QUOTE=MaverickIB;28289781]Just because there's a goalie doesn't mean you can't score.[/QUOTE]
That was beautiful.
Yeah, I know, as you've said for like 30+ pages now. Neither are very appealing to me though. We'll see what happens I guess.
I spent like 4 months trying to get with this really nice goody goody girl.
Didn't work, so i took her best friend out on a date and fucked her.
:smug:
I spent like 4 months trying to get with this really nice goody goody girl.
Didn't work, so i took her best friend out on a date and fucked her.
:smug:
I think Maverick is actually Han Solo.
There's a girl I'm planning to ask to prom. It's in May, but I won't see her too much during school after the middle of March. I've been planning on asking to just get it over with, but I'm worried that it may be too soon to ask. Any advice?
I guess it wouldn't hurt, but I'd still wait. Seems a tad too early.
[QUOTE=Novangel;28288996]You're being defensive.[/QUOTE]
What are your parameters?
[QUOTE=MaverickIB;28289533]I sure as hell don't want a girlfriend.
I love dating, but I don't want a committed relationship for a loooong time.[/QUOTE]
Funny, I've always been kinda afraid of dating because I always felt it would end too soon and not have any meaning. If you end up forgetting the person and don't really care about them anymore, then what's the point? Eh, I don't know, I guess I just don't have much experience in the dating world.
I don't date girls and then just forget about them.
Like I've mentioned before, I've been dating the same girl for almost a year now. She's practically a girlfriend, just without all of the things that make girlfriends a terrible idea.
Well, I guess its just the impression I get from a lot of the people I know who have a new date every week.
I have a problem.
my girl has never seen starwars.
or the green mile.
and has never even heard of star trek.
Was expecting another shitty advice thread, but this is actually really good.
Winner star of approval.
[QUOTE=nemmises5;28291129]I have a problem.
my girl has never seen starwars.
or the green mile.
and has never even heard of star trek.[/QUOTE]
So show her them.
[QUOTE=nemmises5;28291129]I have a problem.
my girl has never seen starwars.
or the green mile.
and has never even heard of star trek.[/QUOTE]
and
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