• Maverick's Love/Relationship/Social Advice Megathread
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[QUOTE=MaverickIB;28326932]Fuck it. The whole administration system here has fallen apart. We lose intelligent mods like Hezzy and TH89 and Garry decides to fuck things up through ordering his obedient new mods like Starpluck to do stupid shit. I was just wrong about things I guess. I was under the impression that some people (mostly the vets from LA) actually cared about giving people advice and whatnot, and would be upset about their ability to do so being removed. But apparently, I was the only one. The second I raise my hand up to object, even old members like Sawah turn and pull the "hurr cry some more" card. I mean, I'm an asshole, but like I've said before, I learned a lot during my childhood from people just like me. People on forums that dedicated their time to giving me advice. I can't help but think that every time the whole concept of Love Advice gets shit on, whether it's closing the subforum or moving my thread to what is essentially a land for dying communities, there's more and more kids just like I was that I won't be able to help. But apparently, I'm the only one that cares, so fuck it.[/QUOTE] I'll take that as a banme?????
Well actually she likes me, but she's into fat manly man while am into crossdressing and all. If I suddenly become fat and look like rambo, would she accept an offer? :/
[QUOTE=I Broke The Sun!;28327403]I have normally only lurked LA but I need to post to say this. Mr apple, stop being such a hypocrite over this and mature up and go back to AUATF.[/QUOTE] I don't see how I'm being a hypocrite at all over this thread, I'm not single
[QUOTE=Pascall;28327389]If you guys seriously want to complain about it, feel free, but nothing's going to change. I'm sorry you lost your "post count" or you're offended because it's been placed into a different section, but that's how it goes. This thread wasn't the only one moved and you guys aren't being silenced. If you have any complaints, I'd be happy to hear them if you contact me via Steam or something, but I'm not guaranteeing that anything will be done.[/QUOTE] If this had happened with sufficient warning and communication, maybe we'd be more accepting off it. I just feel that garry has overlooked us, all it needed was a few days notice and not with the bad timing of changing things just as hezzy got demoded. If you do huge changes just when we lose someone valuable to the community, then we're going to get negative vibes about it.
[QUOTE=kayOkay;28327447]Well actually she likes me, but she's into fat manly man while am into crossdressing and all. If I suddenly become fat and look like rambo, would she accept an offer? :/[/QUOTE] If she's offering to have sex with you now, she's physically attracted to you already. If changing your appearance to something you are not makes her want to pursue a relationship with you, that seems like a shallow way of thinking.
[QUOTE=mr apple;28327463]I don't see how I'm being a hypocrite at all over this thread, I'm not single[/QUOTE] You were saying Maverick was being a whiny child over his thread being moved, but you're just acting like a child by coming in here to complain about it in the thread itself.
[QUOTE=Psychopath12;28327518]If she's offering to have sex with you now, she's physically attracted to you already. If changing your appearance to something you are not makes her want to pursue a relationship with you, that seems like a shallow way of thinking.[/QUOTE] You know how complicated love is, sometimes. Oh well, thanks for the input.
[QUOTE=Kingy_who;28327506]If this had happened with sufficient warning and communication, maybe we'd be more accepting off it. I just feel that garry has overlooked us, all it needed was a few days notice and not with the bad timing of changing things just as hezzy got demoded. If you do huge changes just when we lose someone valuable to the community, then we're going to get negative vibes about it.[/QUOTE] I can see that, and I understand how the sudden changes has affected the community as a whole, as it's affected us as moderators too. Even we weren't prepared for the mass amount of change. But still, what's done is done, really. Like I said, I'm available on Steam if you have any other issues.
[QUOTE=mr apple;28327444]I'll take that as a banme?????[/QUOTE] Someone doesn't understand the difference between a "I quit" fuck it and a "keep on keeping on" fuck it. I just offered someone advice so it's pretty clear I meant the latter. I hope I can be as smart as you someday.
[QUOTE=Pascall;28327575]I can see that, and I understand how the sudden changes has affected the community as a whole, as it's affected us as moderators too. Even we weren't prepared for the mass amount of change. But still, what's done is done, really. Like I said, I'm available on Steam if you have any other issues.[/QUOTE] Steam doesn't work on my computer. :saddowns:
[QUOTE=Kingy_who;28327648]Steam doesn't work on my computer. :saddowns:[/QUOTE] Well I'm also on Skype and MSN or you can just PM me, so take your pick. Doesn't matter to me.
[QUOTE=Pascall;28327680]Well I'm also on Skype and MSN or you can just PM me, so take your pick. Doesn't matter to me.[/QUOTE] Thanks.
Hey guys, I got that girl's number. Success. :dance:
[QUOTE=MaverickIB;28327191]I've had problems with him in the past, but he was a good mod ever since he was given a second chance. Sure, he can be an asshole, but so can I. Doesn't make me a bad poster.[/QUOTE] but you're not in a position of power. if you were a mod, I would probably hate you. no one likes a asshole mod.
[QUOTE=ScoutKing;28328067]but you're not in a position of power. if you were a mod, I would probably hate you. no one likes a asshole mod.[/QUOTE] I'm an asshole mod on other forums but people like me because I do a damn good job. Granted, those are smaller communities, but still, I can be a bit of an ass when irritated :v:
[QUOTE=ScoutKing;28328067]but you're not in a position of power. if you were a mod, I would probably hate you. no one likes a asshole mod.[/QUOTE] No one likes an asshole boxing trainer, but one day you'll love him for how he benefited you in self-defence. Gosh, how can you hate someone through anonymity? Haha.
On the topic of how poorly run this forum is, I have nothing but bad things to say about Garry right now. Obviously I wouldn't want to say them because he'd get butthurt and permaban me. He's just being immature. All over a fucking sub-forum.
Well this whole thread has gone for shit now, it has turned into a chat thread now, because of all the arguing. The whole point of moving the hobbies was so they were more visible, so now the last remnants of LA are in a Chat thread forum? Doesn't make sense. I agree that the mega thread in GD was better than LA, as everything in LA could have fitted into it anyway. I think a Social Life sub-forum also wouldn't be a bad idea.
Yeah we should have a Social sub forum. [editline]27th February 2011[/editline] FP meetups and stuff could also fit under that.
[QUOTE=Mort and Charon;28328212]Well this whole thread has gone for shit now, it has turned into a chat thread now, because of all the arguing. The whole point of moving the hobbies was so they were more visible, so now the last remnants of LA are in a Chat thread forum? Doesn't make sense. I agree that the mega thread in GD was better than LA, as everything in LA could have fitted into it anyway. I think a Social Life sub-forum also wouldn't be a bad idea.[/QUOTE] Then after it's removal, another batch of moderators would be removed and MaverickIB would lose the heat again after his thread is moved to Fast Threads.
Yeah, Love advice is a bit limited, but a general social subforum would be brilliant.
can this thread get back on topic? Anyways... Long distance relationships, how do they work?
[QUOTE=Makol;28328357]can this thread get back on topic? Anyways... Long distance relationships, how do they work?[/QUOTE] They're a pain to manage. You have to make your girl to like you more than anybody.
[QUOTE=Fedly;28328145]No one likes an asshole boxing trainer, but one day you'll love him for how he benefited you in self-defence. Gosh, how can you hate someone through anonymity? Haha.[/QUOTE] hey, sorry i don't suck the cock of a white guy who trys and act like hes black, and bans for stupid ass things (see jessy slaughter/racism threads). I am also sorry I don't suck the kids cock cause he made a rap making fun of a autistic kid. The kids a douchebag, hands down, he was bad at being a mod in my opinion. only positive thing out of the recent events garry brought on this forum.
[QUOTE=Makol;28328357]can this thread get back on topic? Anyways... Long distance relationships, how do they work?[/QUOTE] depends. If you enter one before the person moves away, then it could work. Purely internet relationships are always doomed to fail in my eyes, if the people never meet. Relationships need a physical side, no matter how small.
You confuse me by talking about TH89 while I defended MaverickIB.
[QUOTE=ElectronicG19;28328474]depends. If you enter one before the person moves away, then it could work. Purely internet relationships are always doomed to fail in my eyes, if the people never meet. Relationships need a physical side, no matter how small.[/QUOTE] Makes sense.
[QUOTE=Makol;28328568]Makes sense.[/QUOTE] Don't sweat it though man. If it makes you happy, go for it.
[QUOTE=MaverickIB;28326932]But apparently, I'm the only one that cares, so fuck it.[/QUOTE] I gave up two of my alts as my own personal protest. Then realised that without me to fill the Lua forum with satire, little kids try helping little kids and it all goes down the shitter unless another active coder answers. So I decided to stay.
[QUOTE=Makol;28328357]can this thread get back on topic? Anyways... Long distance relationships, how do they work?[/QUOTE] Meet each other on a regular (as regular as it can get) basis, trust each other, and set up a time frame for how long it'll have to be long distance. It can't be long distance forever.
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