• Maverick's Love/Relationship/Social Advice Megathread
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Be quiet you two!
i'm not being defensive, i'm telling you to knock it off because you went on some hissy fit about th89 we at la already have been really tolerant of you, more than we should have
[QUOTE=ScoutKing;28334233]you're being defensive. stop, its not worth your time to be defensive over a white kid who thinks hes black.[/QUOTE] Stop trying. Seriously. You're not helping yourself. [QUOTE=GoldenGnome;28333605]That may be, but you're still a moron. Question: are friend's sisters completely off limits?[/QUOTE] I think I made a thread about that shortly after coming to Love Advice. I mean, it's all about the maturity between you and your friend. If he's ok with it, then it's ok. If not, it's not. My best friend's sister is quite hot, and has been increasingly more interested in me for the past 6 months...So that's probably gonna happen.
Is it bad if I bang a girl I know is ugly even after I'm wasted? Haven't done it yet but I might this weekend. Of course all of my friends would probably laugh at me.
[QUOTE=RBM11;28334432]Is it bad if I bang a girl I know is ugly even after I'm wasted? Haven't done it yet but I might this weekend. Of course all of my friends would probably laugh at me.[/QUOTE] ...It's your dick dude.
[QUOTE=RBM11;28334432]Is it bad if I bang a girl I know is ugly even after I'm wasted? Haven't done it yet but I might this weekend.[/QUOTE] that's dumb but whatever you wanna do
[QUOTE=RBM11;28334432]Is it bad if I bang a girl I know is ugly even after I'm wasted? Haven't done it yet but I might this weekend. Of course all of my friends would probably laugh at me.[/QUOTE] I've done it before and it totally isn't worth it.
just stay home and jerk off
How do you get a straight answer out of someone who is beating around the bush? I asked a girl to junior prom and she said something to the effect of "I don't know." I'm aware that that translates roughly to "No," but I'd like to be certain only because it's in a month and I want to move on for sure without being a dick. The last thing I'd want is to ask some other girl and then for the first one to play the "but you asked me" card. And again, I know it's just a prom, but it's coming up soon and I'm getting a bit antsy about it. [editline]27th February 2011[/editline] Also, i already took a direct approach and said "Am I taking you or not?"
[QUOTE=thisispain;28334844]just stay home and jerk off[/QUOTE] But I do that Sunday-Thursday
[QUOTE=GoldenGnome;28334859]How do you get a straight answer out of someone who is beating around the bush? I asked a girl to junior prom and she said something to the effect of "I don't know." I'm aware that that translates roughly to "No," but I'd like to be certain only because it's in a month and I want to move on for sure without being a dick. The last thing I'd want is to ask some other girl and then for the first one to play the "but you asked me" card.[/quote] And she responded with "I don't know?" That's a no. If she gets upset after you take another girl, just tell her that she had her chance. That's life.
[QUOTE=MaverickIB;28334738]I've done it before and it totally isn't worth it.[/QUOTE] Yeah you're right.
[QUOTE=MaverickIB;28335003]And she responded with "I don't know?" That's a no. If she gets upset after you take another girl, just tell her that she had her chance. That's life.[/QUOTE] This.
Aren't those [url=http://dl.dropbox.com/u/14407408/idunnowhy.jpg]eyes[/url] just beautiful?
Kinda wish they were on someone else.
Meh, Lynnea is a cool girl, though.
Thanks! [editline]27th February 2011[/editline] [QUOTE=GoldenGnome;28336201]Thanks![/QUOTE] @Mav and z^7
Park a good place for a first date? I'd imagine a coffee shop or cafe would be the best but I have no money.
There's this girl I like, and I'm pretty sure she likes me as well. We don't go to the same school though, and I live over half an hour away by car, so we rarely ever see each other. However, I do want to ask her out. Is it better to communicate by text, phonecall, Facebook, or to attempt to set up some situation where we'd see each other in person, even though her best friend and my best friend would undoubtedly be there?
High-jack the car, drive over and ask. Just do it.
This thread reminds me of Hitch.
Well, me and the ex I was still seeing had an argument and it resulted in him saying he didn't wanna see me anymore. And I literally have barely thought about him...I don't think I care! Sorted. Date tomorrow :)
Hey guys whats up. Is this where LA is presiding now?
[QUOTE=FlakAttack;28312382]There is hope for this man. A few summers ago, I had a bit of a fling with a girl. Died pretty quick but whatever. Coming into the school year, I got into a pretty serious relationship. One day she asked about my previous relationships and whatnot and was genuinely curious. I told her about it all, including the girl I was with just weeks before meeting her. She seemed really uncomfortable about the fact I would do something casual like that, but when I told her I couldn't kiss the other girl (which was true), she calmed down. As I understand it, for women, it has less to do with the physical sex and is more about the emotional relationship that might be developed. When this ex of mine discovered it really was just a physical thing and not emotional, it stopped being an issue. Now, on another topic... I had a pretty bumpy past with girls too. I may tell the story one day, but no one has shown interest in it and it really isn't that great. The important part is, I failed with women at every turn, largely because I was a pussy. That all changed when I discovered a better way to look at women and dating. The problem is, people do not accurately measure the Risk vs. the Reward. Example: You walk into a room and see a cute girl with her friends. You talk to her for a bit and then if you click, you ask her out on date. If you don't get the number... you came in with nothing and you left with nothing. If you do get her number, you potentially have dates in your future. Do you see it now? No risk, but potentially great reward. Doesn't take an investing genius to figure out how to bet on that one.[/QUOTE] I posted that before you geqgjfhrh I will fight you
So there's a girl in one of my classes that I'm interested in. I want to talk to her but she's always with her two friends. How do I approach her? Should I wait until she's alone (lol I sound like a rapist) to talk to her or should I engage both her and her friends? Also does walking up to someone and asking them out really work? It seems like it could end really badly, hence why I think its better to wait for her to not be with her friends.
[QUOTE=markfu;28340214]So there's a girl in one of my classes that I'm interested in. I want to talk to her but she's always with her two friends. How do I approach her? Should I wait until she's alone (lol I sound like a rapist) to talk to her or should I engage both her and her friends? Also does walking up to someone and asking them out really work? It seems like it could end really badly, hence why I think its better to wait for her to not be with her friends.[/QUOTE] Just do it, it's not gonna change the fact you two weren't talking, so what's to lose? Asking her out with her friends in company might actually increase your chances.
Yeah this shit is getting retarded, how could anyone looking for love advice happen to find this thread now that it's hidden somewhere in the Bullshit section, in the Chat sub forum. This made me want to post my own story and personal experience with Love Advice, so if anyone here is interested: [url]http://www.facepunch.com/threads/1064694-Love-Advice-and-Drug-Discussion-Quite-Literally-Changed-My-Life[/url] Probably won't be posting much here anymore.
[QUOTE=markfu;28340214]So there's a girl in one of my classes that I'm interested in. I want to talk to her but she's always with her two friends. How do I approach her? Should I wait until she's alone (lol I sound like a rapist) to talk to her or should I engage both her and her friends? Also does walking up to someone and asking them out really work? It seems like it could end really badly, hence why I think its better to wait for her to not be with her friends.[/QUOTE] Actually it's generally a bad idea to have a girl be completely alone when you start talking to her.
[QUOTE=Dark_Light;28341704]Yeah this shit is getting retarded, how could anyone looking for love advice happen to find this thread now that it's hidden somewhere in the Bullshit section, in the Chat sub forum. This made me want to post my own story and personal experience with Love Advice, so if anyone here is interested: [url]http://www.facepunch.com/threads/1064694-Love-Advice-and-Drug-Discussion-Quite-Literally-Changed-My-Life[/url] Probably won't be posting much here anymore.[/QUOTE] Because LA regulars and people who know about this thread and need advice will use it.
That's very minimal compared to people stumbling across a forum called 'Love Advice' on the front page.
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