[QUOTE=CorporalRoss;28576132]to be honest either A) report to Child Protection Service or B) let them figure it out.
Also all the more reasons to not have a daughter so i don't fuck her up.[/QUOTE]
I'm going with option B. She's going on vacation at the end of next week so hopefully shit will mellow out between them. There are definitely trust issues, among other things. It just sucks not being able to be with her.
[QUOTE=Dark_Light;28576320]Not even 6 months has passed and you're already noticing things which bother you. Perhaps she needs more time to get used to it and will eventually open herself up to you, but by the sounds of it she is just happy that she has a boyfriend. It's unlikely she is going to suddenly change and start becoming more like what you want, you're always going to be expecting more from her, and going to separate colleges is only going to increase the distance between you two, both physically and emotionally.
It is her first relationship, it is expected for her to want to stay with you 'forever' and all of that. You're what, 16-17, and have been together for not even half a year, and she's talking of marriage? This sounds pretty typical to me.
Besides, everything else aside, do you think you're going to be with her forever, like really? If not, then breaking up with her earlier than later is only going to make it hurt less, for both of you.[/QUOTE]
No, she has not talked of marriage, only of being together for a long time. And to be completely honest I do sort of like the idea, maybe only because it pushes away some of the uncertainty of my life after high school. Both 17.
You do have a really good point though, when would be a good time to do it?
[QUOTE=seano12;28576385]No, she has not talked of marriage, only of being together for a long time. And to be completely honest I do sort of like the idea, maybe only because it pushes away some of the uncertainty of my life after high school. Both 17.
You do have a really good point though, when would be a good time to do it?[/QUOTE]
I do it when your going separate in physical terms. the world is filled with women, taste it and move on.
Don't waste your time (as hard as it may be) trying to keep up a distant relationship like that. Both of you will be in college, you shouldn't let something like that get in the way of the fun you should be having. Odds are, something is going to happen and you'll end up breaking up anyway. If you still have feelings for each other afterwards, go ahead and get back together. Sorry to be so blunt about it, but it's the truth and you can't let stuff get in the way of the best four years of your life.
Waiting until marriage to have sex is retarded.
Not only is sex not that big of a deal, but you can't really say you know someone if you've never been physically intimate with them. You can learn a lot about someone just by having sex with them.
That, and what if you wait, get married, and then the girl sucks total balls at sex? Or turns out to have some kind of condition (whether it's physical or mental) that prevents you two from having enjoyable sex?
Stupid, stupid mindset.
[QUOTE=seano12;28576187]There's no sex (We both believe in marriage then sex ). [/QUOTE]
prudishness comes from fear
[QUOTE=thisispain;28577129]prudishness comes from fear[/QUOTE]
Explain.
why are you afraid of sex
Hell if I know.
Don't be. Celibacy is a stupid idea.
[QUOTE=MaverickIB;28566967]I seriously doubt you know everyone.
I'm willing to bet that you're judging a lot of people before giving them a chance.
Regardless, either branch out to neighboring towns via social networking or go for girls that are taken. Just because there's a goalie doesn't mean you can't score.[/QUOTE]
Oh. Okay.
I'm emotionally stunted and find it impossible to have actual emotional connections with other people.
Yet somehow, I have a girlfriend. Right now, I'm just faking the emotional connection, to make her happy but it feels weird and I'm not even getting laid or anyhting, so should I even be in this relationship at all or just break up with her or what?
[QUOTE=MaverickIB;28564152]Bad idea, ahoy.
People that are just dating don't meet each other's family.[/QUOTE]
I've just realised I wrote "him family" - this is the only thread I ever make horrifying grammatical errors in.
All it is, is I'm going round his for a bit and he told his mum (out of respect) that I was gonna be there...apparently his sister wants to challenge me at mario kart.
Plus we're kinda more than dating at the moment, but we're not a couple - it's that strange inbetween bit, I like it. :)
We're going for a walk tonight - supposed to be a clear night which means stars :D (we both have a strange love for clear nights)
I think I reall like him :)
[QUOTE=seano12;28576235]What makes you say this?[/QUOTE]
You see problems in the relationship and are trying to work on them. She doesn't see any problems at all. Basically, you care about her more than she cares about you. Keep in mind that doesn't necessarily mean you're a bad guy, but it does mean she's an immature high school chick who doesn't know what she wants from life, and sadly, she is just not on your level yet. Sorry buddy.
[QUOTE=Dark_Light;28575021]Go ahead, everyone throw your best "I told you so" at me.[/QUOTE]
Nah, no "told you so" from me. You know what you did wrong. I will say though that when I told you to find another girl, I was doing so from experience. I was with a girl for a year and a half and when we broke up, we kept hanging out and having sex. The day I started thinking "hey things are getting better, she's not a total clusterfuck now, maybe we can work this out" she told me she wanted to stop so she could date someone else.
If I weren't for this random girl I met at my french classes who helped me get through it all, I have no idea how I would have stayed sane the whole time. If I had just broken up with her and walked away, it would have been so much easier, but noooo, always gotta do things the hard way... For future reference to all the people here, don't hang out or have sex with your ex. You will need time apart before you can be friends again.
I met my boyfriend's family after our second date. Was a bit awkward, but he lived at home and I would've bumped into them sooner or later since I was visiting him several times during the time where we weren't really a couple but just hanging out as more than friends. It wasn't really awkward 'til his mother invited some one over for dinner and presented me as my boyfriend's "girlfriend" - we only really made official a week or so later, so yea. But other than that, no problem.
[QUOTE=Foghorn;28580944]I've just realised I wrote "him family" - this is the only thread I ever make horrifying grammatical errors in.
All it is, is I'm going round his for a bit and he told his mum (out of respect) that I was gonna be there...apparently his sister wants to challenge me at mario kart.
Plus we're kinda more than dating at the moment, but we're not a couple - it's that strange inbetween bit, I like it. :)
We're going for a walk tonight - supposed to be a clear night which means stars :D (we both have a strange love for clear nights)
I think I reall like him :)[/QUOTE]
He told me that you smell, true story.
But yeah sounds like it's going well, congrats.
My GF just dumped me over the internet. Wow, just wow
[QUOTE=Foghorn;28580944]I've just realised I wrote "him family" - this is the only thread I ever make horrifying grammatical errors in.
All it is, is I'm going round his for a bit and he told his mum (out of respect) that I was gonna be there...apparently his sister wants to challenge me at mario kart.
Plus we're kinda more than dating at the moment, but we're not a couple - it's that strange inbetween bit, I like it. :)
We're going for a walk tonight - supposed to be a clear night which means stars :D (we both have a strange love for clear nights)
I think I reall like him :)[/QUOTE]
More than dating already?
So much for taking it easy. It disappoints me that you suckered in to your infatuation so quickly. You have to realize that the dude probably isn't anything special, you're just infatuated so it appears that he's better than everyone else.
I mean, it's your life, you can do whatever you want with it. However, you're heading down the same road you've headed down in the past. That is what happens when you dive into things without giving them any thought. You need to slow down and be logical about things.
[QUOTE=Cortana;28583396]My GF just dumped me over the internet. Wow, just wow[/QUOTE]
man I got dumped on facebook, it's a coward's way out and if they do it that way, they ain't worth your time anyway
[editline]13th March 2011[/editline]
[QUOTE=MaverickIB;28584104]More than dating already?
So much for taking it easy. It disappoints me that you suckered in to your infatuation so quickly. You have to realize that the dude probably isn't anything special, you're just infatuated so it appears that he's better than everyone else.
I mean, it's your life, you can do whatever you want with it. However, you're heading down the same road you've headed down in the past. That is what happens when you dive into things without giving them any thought. You need to slow down and be logical about things.[/QUOTE]
I'm going way slower than I have done in the past, thing is with me I've not done relationships the normal way before! They've all been either long distance or I've slept with someone and then we've thought "ah we may as well just be together" so this is pretty new for me - but at the same time, I know how I feel, I like the pace it's going at, and I'm not infatuated! I know he's "nothing special" but I'm not looking for some special fantasy guy, I'm looking for a guy I can have fun with, who's my intellectual equal, and who's not afraid to speak his mind and BAM I've got one [I]and[/I] he's a great kisser ;)
It feels right - as soon as it starts to get too fast or whatever, you pull in the reins a bit - simple. I'm still holding back - I've not slept with him yet which is a DEFINITE step in the right direction for me haha! I haven't opened up all the way and left myself open and vulnerable to him. I'm just going with the flow and it's really lovely.
[QUOTE=Foghorn;28584131]man I got dumped on facebook, it's a coward's way out and if they do it that way, they ain't worth your time anyway[/QUOTE]
My ex dumped me in the same way, except it was indirectly. I found out through noticing that she was in a relationship with someone else through facebook. She didn't even tell me about it until I confronted her to tell her off.
dude, ouch
[editline]13th March 2011[/editline]
mine was just a long-ass message, I never read the whole thing - I just skimmed it cos I knew what it was gonna say from the first line
[QUOTE=Foghorn;28584448]I knew what it was gonna say from the first line[/QUOTE]
Damn right you are. She even said she didn't want to hurt me, so she chose that way
[QUOTE=Cortana;28585448]Damn right you are. She even said she didn't want to hurt me, so she chose that way[/QUOTE]
Ha... it's not that she doesn't want to hurt you, it's that she doesn't want to hurt herself. If she broke up with you in person she'd have to deal with questions and guilt. What a puss. Move on friend, the girl isn't worth your time.
Thanks you for listening to me, LA
punch her in the vagina.
seems to be a lot less "just ask her out" answers recently, maybe your magic is working maverick
[QUOTE=Occlusion;28586426]punch her in the vagina.
seems to be a lot less "just ask her out" answers recently, maybe your magic is working maverick[/QUOTE]
I get kids asking me stupid shit over Steam nowadays.
One kid was whining about how his life sucks because he's not social. I told him to take baby steps, starting at chit-chatting at school. He said he doesn't go to school. I asked why and he responds with "It's a waste of time and because I'm fat." I say he can't bitch about not being social if he's not in school (keep in mind that this is a 14-15 year old kid) and he could be using the fuckton of free time he has to stop being fat. He says he can't go jogging because he doesn't want to ask his mom if he can go jogging.
This continues for 15 or so minutes before I just say "You know what, fuck it. I can't help you."
Christ, he was literally asking me for a magic solution to his life that would involve no effort on his behalf, then got all pissy when I gave up, saying he thought I would help him and blah blah blah.
Fucking A.
I hate fat people.
I hate people
[editline]14th March 2011[/editline]
:v:
[QUOTE=zzzZZZZ;28587677]I hate fat people.[/QUOTE]
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*hiss*
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