• Maverick's Love/Relationship/Social Advice Megathread
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[QUOTE=Onlyonebowman;28566404]I received a girls number at a restraunt last night, what is the proper procedure for that situation.[/QUOTE] How about you call/text her you dunce How'd it happen anyway?
[QUOTE=thisispain;28596435]i don't know about that, have you ever been around gay dudes? plus my gf is more logical than me, almost to the point of being cold i'll like give food and do tons of shit for my friends because they make me really sad with their problems and i try to help them with it. she'll be like "don't be fucking stupid like that, you barely have money to survive yourself" so again, can't be completely certain but you acknowledge that anyway so no contest i think it's mostly a societal thing, girls are told from a young age to be compassionate and social while boys are told to carry toy guns and shoot bad guys[/QUOTE] Yeah I was thinking about gay dudes as I wrote that post (that sounded exceedingly gay). I wouldn't know obviously, but I would assume in most homosexual relationships, one partner would take on the role of the other sex, as in one would be more feminine in a gay relationship/masculine in a lesbian relationship. Just speculating. And yeah, it's certainly a societal thing, but I would go as far as to say it's just part of our evolutionary biology. I mean, there's nothing alpha about being emotional, and there's nothing emotional about being alpha. The male is the decision maker, the leader, the thinker, the one that gets shit done. It's all logically driven. But yeah of course, your example holds true to what you're saying, so that's fair enough.
According to my friend that's not the case. The relationship role in gay couples I mean
Hey guys. [editline]14th March 2011[/editline] 633 ??? Lolololol omg. 19,000+ down the drain. I wish I cared more.
Fixed. She admitted that she was acting immature and having a bad attitude about the whole thing. We resolved everything and got it worked out, no problem. Thank the lord she's not an idiot, she can just get moody. Not sure if it's because she's in her second month of birth control and it's making her emotional or whats up.
Skype: Ashley-bb Ok bye.
JuiceLayer, your girlfriend sound like such a pain in the ass like, what you wrote in the lady chat and now this
PMSing lately. She's not usually like that. Things are better for now.
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You don't have anything to lose, really. Ana doesn't seem interested at the time and Betty does seem interested. Yeah, it might be a blind date, but otherwise you'd not be going out at all. If you wind up liking her, just proceed as you would normally. If not, then you don't have to take things further since there are no obligations for you at the moment.
Makes sense. Thanks.
Ana sounds like a bit of a bitch.
Asked a girl to the movies on Saturday. She said yes but come Sunday apparently she has no money for public transport to get into the city. No alternative offered. Pretty sure I just got blown off.
How did she break it to you?
Basically went like this: She sends me a text saying, "Hey, won't be able to come to a movie tonight, I've only got $10 in my purse <this could mean she only had a $10 note (which can't be used to buy tickets) if she was actually telling the truth>." I responded, thinking she meant that she didn't have enough money to pay for the movie, "I can pay." Doesn't respond for a few hours so I text saying, "Are we going tonight?" After a little bit it's getting to the point where I'm about to leave my friend's house so I've gotta know if I've gotta catch the train home or to the city so I call her up and ask her what's up and she tells me she hasn't got any money for the train because her brother hasn't paid her (she works for her brother). The end. I waited that long to call because I just don't usually call people. Something about it is off-putting to me.
Yeah, you got pretty fucked. Leave it for now, if you're lucky she'll call again to reschedule ("when she has money") but to be honest, she doesn't really seem that interested at all.
[QUOTE=Teh_Spork;28611832]Makes sense. Thanks.[/QUOTE] I've got the bad feeling she's gonna be a fat bitch. Don't know why.
[QUOTE=JohnnyMo1;28540080]This would be very useful information for me except under any sort of emotional stress in a social situation my face lights up redder than the devil's dick. I'm pretty good at keeping my feelings under control and all but that's one thing I can't get a handle on. "Hey do you want to go out to the movies with me on Saturday?" "Um, no, sorry I have to make up a bullshit excuse that day." "Oh okay, that's totally cool-" "Are you okay you look like you're about to spontaneously combust" "No trust me I'm totally fine" "YOU LOOK LIKE AN EMBARRASSED LOBSTER WHO'S JUST RUN A MARATHON I'M CALLING A DOCTOR"[/QUOTE] ahahahaha i'm pretty much the same. No matter what you do, there's no controlling it.
My parents are the biggest limit on my social life. My current grades are: A+ A A+ C C B+ Andd I'm totally limited from hanging out with people until both of those C's are B's.
Well, I thought that there was something between me and this one girl, but then I find out today how there's this one junior that she wants to be her first real relationship, and she feels that he's her "soulmate". :sigh:
Bummer man. Yeah so anyways there's this girl at school, she's really pretty and we get along pretty well, she talks to me sometimes and i wave hi to her alot. Although I'm pretty sure she's just doing this in a friendish kind of way, kind of like to be nice, and she's pretty popular and has a lot of popular friends so i'm afraid it would really make me look like a dipshit if i asked her out and it turns out she only does it to be nice. inb4 just ask her out.
[QUOTE=zzzZZZZ;28627727]My parents are the biggest limit on my social life. My current grades are: A+ A A+ C C B+ Andd I'm totally limited from hanging out with people until both of those C's are B's.[/QUOTE] holy shit we literally have the same grades Marry me.
I don't know why, but I've taken to killing time on omegle and not facepunch. So far I've encountered 4 people who were just looking for love advice (3 out of 4 were about breakups). I feel like the advice king despite knowing that there are people better suited to giving advice than me. v:v:v
premier advice from me, pass it on: don't look for advice on fucking omegle
[QUOTE=Sergeant STFU;28628674]Bummer man. Yeah so anyways there's this girl at school, she's really pretty and we get along pretty well, she talks to me sometimes and i wave hi to her alot. Although I'm pretty sure she's just doing this in a friendish kind of way, kind of like to be nice, and she's pretty popular and has a lot of popular friends so i'm afraid it would really make me look like a dipshit if i asked her out and it turns out she only does it to be nice. inb4 just ask her out.[/QUOTE] Christ. Not only are you stupid for thinking popularity and bullshit like that matter, but you're stupid for thinking that asking her out would make you look like a dipshit. Loner kids that walk up to a popular girl that doesn't know them and ask her out look stupid. However, you know the girl. You talk to her, you interact with her. Asking her out wouldn't be a big deal at all. If she turns you down, she turns you down, big deal. That's why you simply ask her out instead of confessing your feelings for her, if she declines via excuse, nothing about your friendship changes. If you decide to be retarded and confess your undying love for her, then yeah, you'll look fucking retarded if she was just being nice.
[QUOTE=thisispain;28630205]premier advice from me, pass it on: don't look for advice on fucking omegle[/QUOTE] I could just as easily have trolled them, but if they're desperate enough to look for advice there, that just seems like kicking them when they're down to have trolled them.
Aight thanks man.
[QUOTE=Psychopath12;28630406]I could just as easily have trolled them, but if they're desperate enough to look for advice there, that just seems like kicking them when they're down to have trolled them.[/QUOTE] Sometimes I go on places like that and purposely give people terrible advice. You know, stuff like telling infatuated kids that it's true love, they shouldn't give up, and should write her a note or something. Makes me feel like I'm keeping balance in the world.
Oh my God, I feel so fucking stupid >__>. Okay so, coming off from my most recent decision to discontinue any relationship at all with my ex, I was having a rather low night in the past couple of days. Long story short, it came to me adding a fucking nickname (yeah this is embarrassing) to her MSN name just to serve as a reminder to not go back there, basically. By this point we had already began to grow apart, and were hardly talking at all (part of the reason why it was starting to hurt). I figured it would be best to just let it naturally happen, seeing as it already was, rather than making it explicit how I felt (like [i]last[/i] time). I figured it would just skip over all of the unnecessary drama, and keep us both from getting hurt or whatever. Anyway, so we were chatting today, and she said something, which I fucking absent-mindedly pasted back to her. Fucking Hell gsdkfmdsg. At first she seemed slightly shocked but fine with it, and eventually just went offline (essentially it was saying to not have anything with her). She came back like 10 minutes later and is immediately all like "why should I bother trying to be your friend again if you need to make yourself fucking reminders to not have anything to do with me" etc etc. She was also really hurt by the fact that I hadn't told her that I had decided to stop having sex with her again. By this point I just felt fucking stupid and embarrassed and said I was leaving, and she said that all she wants is to talk to me, and doesn't understand why I can't just be her friend. I told her what I was feeling and why I made that decision. I said I was leaving because I really just didn't want to keep talking, so now it's still so unresolved and awkward, eugh I don't even want to see her at school like this. I hate thinking that she's going to sleep hurt because of me, and had to resist the urge to fucking call her and be a massive pussy about it. I guess this'll finally make it clear to both of us that we [url=http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hedgehog's_dilemma]shouldn't be close to each other at all[/url]. We (or maybe just I) can't even be friends without fucking it up somehow. I figure I'm not 'over' her because I still care about her, but what the fuck why does that have to cause so many fucking problems, I care about a lot of people. This whole situation is fucking stupid and I hate it. I can't wait for it to all just fucking go away.
[QUOTE=Dark_Light;28634925]Oh my God, I feel so fucking stupid >__>. Okay so, coming off from my most recent decision to discontinue any relationship at all with my ex, I was having a rather low night in the past couple of days. Long story short, it came to me adding a fucking nickname (yeah this is embarrassing) to her MSN name just to serve as a reminder to not go back there, basically. By this point we had already began to grow apart, and were hardly talking at all (part of the reason why it was starting to hurt). I figured it would be best to just let it naturally happen, seeing as it already was, rather than making it explicit how I felt (like [i]last[/i] time). I figured it would just skip over all of the unnecessary drama, and keep us both from getting hurt or whatever. Anyway, so we were chatting today, and she said something, which I fucking absent-mindedly pasted back to her. Fucking Hell gsdkfmdsg. At first she seemed slightly shocked but fine with it, and eventually just went offline (essentially it was saying to not have anything with her). She came back like 10 minutes later and is immediately all like "why should I bother trying to be your friend again if you need to make yourself fucking reminders to not have anything to do with me" etc etc. She was also really hurt by the fact that I hadn't told her that I had decided to stop having sex with her again. By this point I just felt fucking stupid and embarrassed and said I was leaving, and she said that all she wants is to talk to me, and doesn't understand why I can't just be her friend. I told her what I was feeling and why I made that decision. I said I was leaving because I really just didn't want to keep talking, so now it's still so unresolved and awkward, eugh I don't even want to see her at school like this. I hate thinking that she's going to sleep hurt because of me, and had to resist the urge to fucking call her and be a massive pussy about it. I guess this'll finally make it clear to both of us that we [url=http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hedgehog's_dilemma]shouldn't be close to each other at all[/url]. We (or maybe just I) can't even be friends without fucking it up somehow. I figure I'm not 'over' her because I still care about her, but what the fuck why does that have to cause so many fucking problems, I care about a lot of people. This whole situation is fucking stupid and I hate it. I can't wait for it to all just fucking go away.[/QUOTE] Move.
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