So there's this girl that I've known since December, let's call her Hanna. Hanna is a sweet, funny, friendly girl with awesome taste in music, and is damn hot too. When I first met her back in December, I was completely swept off my feet. This continued through January, but nothing had happened between us besides just hanging out as friends.
Around February a lot of stuff was going on in my life, so I ended up losing touch with her for about three weeks or so. Around this time, I find out from our mutual friend Mandy that Hanna has feelings for me, and that I should date her.
Then at the beginning of this month, I started talking to and hanging out with Hanna a lot. And all those feelings that I had for this incredible girl came back to me. So I find out from Mandy that Hanna still likes me, but is tired of waiting for me to initiate some kind of relationship. I found this out two days ago, on Monday. So at this point, I have a few options: I can tell her how I feel, I was thinking an in-person type of thing, and that would have to happen today, as the rest of my week is totally full. Or I could wait a bit, and risk losing her attention, and do something a little different. Or I could take some kind of alternative approach that I haven't thought of. Any suggestions?
[QUOTE=Upgrade123;28636156]So there's this girl that I've known since December, let's call her Hanna. Hanna is a sweet, funny, friendly girl with awesome taste in music, and is damn hot too. When I first met her back in December, I was completely swept off my feet. This continued through January, but nothing had happened between us besides just hanging out as friends.
Around February a lot of stuff was going on in my life, so I ended up losing touch with her for about three weeks or so. Around this time, I find out from our mutual friend Mandy that Hanna has feelings for me, and that I should date her.
Then at the beginning of this month, I started talking to and hanging out with Hanna a lot. And all those feelings that I had for this incredible girl came back to me. So I find out from Mandy that Hanna still likes me, but is tired of waiting for me to initiate some kind of relationship. I found this out two days ago, on Monday. So at this point, I have a few options: I can tell her how I feel, I was thinking an in-person type of thing, and that would have to happen today, as the rest of my week is totally full. Or I could wait a bit, and risk losing her attention, and do something a little different. Or I could take some kind of alternative approach that I haven't thought of. Any suggestions?[/QUOTE]
ask her out
[QUOTE=CorporalRoss;28636196]ask her out[/QUOTE]
I think I could probably ask her to a movie this Friday.
Do that, just don't tell her how you feel or anything stupid like that.
[QUOTE=zzzZZZZ;28627727]My parents are the biggest limit on my social life. My current grades are:
A+
A
A+
C
C
B+
Andd I'm totally limited from hanging out with people until both of those C's are B's.[/QUOTE]
True that. I have 4 classes at school, and 2 online at home.
A+
A+
A+
A+
B+ (like 89.3%)
B- (borderline C+)
They took away my texting during school hours 10am-2pm and after 11pm on weekdays! What?! Anyways, I just use that TextPlus app, lol. Suckers.
4 A*s at A2 eat my cock
All my friends (that are girls) are in relationships now :( seems very depressing somehow (not that i fancied any of them)
[QUOTE=Occlusion;28638397]4 A*s at A2 eat my cock
All my friends (that are girls) are in relationships now :( seems very depressing somehow (not that i fancied any of them)[/QUOTE]
Being the lonely one in a group is mostly always depressing. Don't worry too much about it though :)
Someone at my school wants to set up a blind date between the two most socially awkward kids in our senior class, both of whom are like "wahh I want a boy/girl friend!".
I think it'd be a good experience for both of them. :v:
[QUOTE=MaverickIB;28630477]Sometimes I go on places like that and purposely give people terrible advice.
You know, stuff like telling infatuated kids that it's true love, they shouldn't give up, and should write her a note or something. Makes me feel like I'm keeping balance in the world.[/QUOTE]
You're just generating more work for yourself and others like you.
It's the circle of life.
Besides, it's like how Apple designs their headphones to shit out on you after a certain period of time. Keeps them in business.
[QUOTE=MaverickIB;28640612]It's the circle of life.
Besides, it's like how Apple designs their headphones to shit out on you after a certain period of time. Keeps them in business.[/QUOTE]
but apple profits from this.
You don't.
Unless you get off to making kids feel less retarded.
he asked me out
i said yes
win at the game of life
[QUOTE=ScoutKing;28642095]but apple profits from this.
You don't.
Unless you get off to making kids feel less retarded.[/QUOTE]
I profit in the form of having something to do.
[QUOTE=Foghorn;28642993]he asked me out
i said yes
win at the game of life[/QUOTE]
I'm confused is this a new guy? You hussie you
Also WHAT 107 posts
[QUOTE=Occlusion;28618530]I've got the bad feeling she's gonna be a fat bitch. Don't know why.[/QUOTE]
I added her on Facebook before I decided to go with her. She's quite the opposite.
So this chick, who is pretty cool, nice and DAT ASS, likes me. Trouble is that she has gone out with quite a few guys in the past and pretty much just dated them for a week and then got bored and dumped them. She says she "really wants to work on that and not do that again". It is senior year so I generally dont give a shit, but i figured ti probably wasn't worth it. Should I or should I not?
No harm in trying.
[QUOTE=redonkulous;28645325]So this chick, who is pretty cool, nice and DAT ASS, likes me. Trouble is that she has gone out with quite a few guys in the past and pretty much just dated them for a week and then got bored and dumped them. She says she "really wants to work on that and not do that again". It is senior year so I generally dont give a shit, but i figured ti probably wasn't worth it. Should I or should I not?[/QUOTE]
Just go for it. If it only lasts a week, it only lasts a week. Nobody said you have to marry the damn girl.
I want to ask out this one chick at my school, but I keep on thinking that she'll just do what my ex did, and I think she'd reject me (as she is one year above me). She's also a friend, so that makes it a bit harder as well :(
What my ex did:
Basically went out with me try to get laid (I did not want to get laid), popular, and then impress my friend whom she tried to get out with (but failed).
Also, if does not help if I have the nickname "Flirty Freshman"
Just do it, pussy. Each person is a new flip of the coin, just because your ex did something does not make it any more likely that someone else will do the same thing. Also, if you ask her out correctly and she turns you down, the friendship won't be damaged.
1) I like your picture
2) Do I have to ask her out in person
3) What should I do for a date, the one with my ex was a disaster
Is there anything that I can do to help a friend through their feelings for their ex-boyfriend?
[QUOTE=MindMuncher;28647659]Is there anything that I can do to help a friend through their feelings for their ex-boyfriend?[/QUOTE]
hang out with them.
try to keep their mind of their ex
[QUOTE=ScoutKing;28647698]hang out with them.
try to keep their mind of their ex[/QUOTE]
I did and it did, but she started to get caught up in it after I left and I can't do anything but talk to her for now, since I can't go over there in the middle of the night to give her a hug or anything.
[QUOTE=Monovfox;28647337]1) I like your picture
2) Do I have to ask her out in person
3) What should I do for a date, the one with my ex was a disaster[/QUOTE]
2) Yes. Yes, yes yes. No a note does not work. No facebook does not work. Calling her does not work either but it's better than the other two.
3) Go grab a bite to eat. Go to the local park. Go fly kites. Go do something. Spend time with the damn girl. Get to know her better.
On an unrelated note: It's happy friends time at the girlfriend's house and I'm not there to enjoy it. Not anyone's fault really, just a bad stroke of luck/planning. Just sort of sucks cause I'm sitting at home doing shit knowing they're having a good time.
[QUOTE=MaverickIB;28647262]Just do it, pussy. Each person is a new flip of the coin, just because your ex did something does not make it any more likely that someone else will do the same thing. Also, if you ask her out correctly and she turns you down, the friendship won't be damaged.[/QUOTE]
The Gambler's Fallacy as it applies to human relationships.
[QUOTE=MindMuncher;28647744]I did and it did, but she started to get caught up in it after I left and I can't do anything but talk to her for now, since I can't go over there in the middle of the night to give her a hug or anything.[/QUOTE]
late night phone calls?
[QUOTE=JohnnyMo1;28648393]The Gambler's Fallacy as it applies to human relationships.[/QUOTE]
except that damaging a friendship by asking a girl out is not left to chance or probability (most of the time), so long as you don't ask like an idiot. Instead of believing there's a certain probability of winning when the two options are to win or lose, it's more of a "I've got nothing to lose so why not" thing - the only two options are to win or to have nothing happen.
[QUOTE=robmaister12;28648780]except that damaging a friendship by asking a girl out is not left to chance or probability (most of the time), so long as you don't ask like an idiot. Instead of believing there's a certain probability of winning when the two options are to win or lose, it's more of a "I've got nothing to lose so why not" thing - the only two options are to win or to have nothing happen.[/QUOTE]
that's not gambler's fallacy
gambler's fallacy is thinking that because you threw a coin into the air 20 times and it ended up as tails 17 times it means that heads is more likely to happen in the future when you do it again
[QUOTE=thisispain;28648811]that's not gambler's fallacy
gambler's fallacy is thinking that because you threw a coin into the air 20 times and it ended up as tails 17 times it means that heads is more likely to happen in the future when you do it again[/QUOTE]
Exactly. I wasn't referring to his odds of her saying yes, I was referring to the odds of her doing the same thing as his ex (using him).
Girls tend to make the same stupid mistake. They go through a time of being with jerks and whatnot, then apply the logic "Well, if every dude I've been with is a jerk, that means the next guy I get with will be a jerk. All guys must be jerks." When it's not like dudes get together and have meetings about treating a certain girl like shit. Just because a dude ate your dog in your previous relationship doesn't make it any more/less likely that the next guy will do the same thing.
The best comparison is the one pain used, with the coin. You can throw a (for the sake of the analogy, it's a balanced and fair coin) coin up into the air 99 times and it could land on heads every time. However, the odds of it landing on heads or tails in the next throw are still 50/50. Each toss is unique, the odds are the same for each one.
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