It just kinda happens haha. It requires some maturity on both sides for it [i]not[/i] to ruin the friendship, though. At least in my experience. It's not very fulfilling though, regardless.
[QUOTE=Occlusion;28956699]i've always been interested (not looking for personal advice here) how do people go from being friends to fuck buddies? seems to me it'd destroy the friendship in any way i can think of[/QUOTE]
It works if both people are being honest.
A lot of the time, at least one person actually has feelings for the other one and thinks they'll be able to use the friend with benefits thing to launch them into a real relationship. That, or they're suppressing feelings for the other person.
If both people are truly just friends and are only physically attracted to each other with no romantic interest at all, it works out just fine. I've had them before and sex really was just something we did for fun, there was no romantic connection behind it or anything like that so no problems arose from it.
[QUOTE=thisispain;28955056]aww yes what a terrific litmus test[/QUOTE]
hey bro
he asked, I told
[QUOTE=Big Ben;28952568]I had a dream I asked a girl out and she accepted. I woke up really excited and then got depressed because I realized it was a dream.
I will now work harder than ever to get a girlfriend because that dream made me realize I'm pathetic enough to get excited that a girl said yes to me IN A DREAM.[/QUOTE]
[media]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OXlZ6edCHqI[/media]
I always meet the most amazing people in my dreams. Like not even girls, I shook Silver Stallone's hand in a dream once.
Also, relevant.
[media]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=N24fVEJyQKM[/media]
I get really jittery and it trip over my words a lot when I'm nervous/excited, and I will most likely be nervous as shitting fuck when I ask this girl out. What's the best way to be outwardly calm even if you're still flipping your shit on the inside?
Just do your best. You'll probably trip over your words and whatnot, that's life. It'll be that way until you learn to stop giving a fuck.
I learned to stop giving a fuck about what people think about me and my life has never been easier.
[QUOTE=Cl0cK;28961896]I learned to stop giving a fuck about what people think about me and my life has never been easier.[/QUOTE]
I normally don't give a fuck about what people think of me, but I do however, give a fuck about what this girl thinks of me. I mean, it's not gonna be the end of the world if she says no, but she's also the first girl I've ever been infatuated with enough to even contemplate asking out. If she says yes, I'll most likely go back to not giving a fuck within the week.
Just keep it cool and it will go pretty well I think.
[url=http://www.facepunch.com/threads/1062850-Maverick-s-Love-Relationship-Social-Advice-Megathread?p=28948337&viewfull=1#post28948337]I lied, one last update[/url]. I decided to tell her, and it all went swimmingly. She said she felt the same way and was happy to be friends.
All is good :D.
[QUOTE=Dark_Light;28962781][url=http://www.facepunch.com/threads/1062850-Maverick-s-Love-Relationship-Social-Advice-Megathread?p=28948337&viewfull=1#post28948337]I lied, one last update[/url]. I decided to tell her, and it all went swimmingly. She said she felt the same way and was happy to be friends.
All is good :D.[/QUOTE]
*next week* Damn! I know I said that was the last time, guys, but really, I don't know how to handle my relation ship with her.
Let's hope not
27th time's a charm.
Do what you've always done, get what you've always got.
Expecting different is definitional insanity.
I'm 17 years old and my mum doesn't like me having girlfriends (even through I'm almost 18 years old, my current girlfriend is older than me 18 years old) my mum doesn't doesn't like me having one, she says that I'm too young to be falling in love etc. as I've got my whole life ahead of me.
I don't want to fall in love or whatever I just what to build up experience for the future and loose my virginity, I don't want to be a 40 year old virgin, so when I meet the love of my life I have the experiance behind me to be able to catch her etc. instead of some 20-30 year old guy who is still a virgin and has never had a girlfriend.
Why is my mum so protective and against me having a girlfriend? She is always so nosy about it and wants to know details all the time and she holds a very posh attitude with everything, she even thinks my girlfriend is rough when shes not, how can I tell my mum to piss off in a good way?
She probably had bad experiences with relationships at a young age and is acting on her maternal instinct to protect you at all costs etc.
Just tell her you appreciate her concern, but you are old enough to know what you are doing and you can handle yourself. Has she met your girlfriend? You should try make her also realize that your girlfriend is a mature person like yourself and that you are having a positive effect on each other.
All the best.
Score. Came to my girlfriends town for a party and to spend another 2 days with her. We had the best fucking sex ever. Must have been the emotions and lust bottled up fron last Sunday when we almost broke up. Sex all night, and then a few times in the morning. A little minus is that she was on her period, so I kinda had to wash off blood in the morning. I was surprised she agreed to having sex, since most girl are disgusted my the blood, and believe that the guy is too. Hey, I'm so sick that I ate her out too, she got really crazy afterwards. :q: I was lucky - didn't taste any different.
Now my penis hurts a bit.
Wow I thought I'd not ask this sorta thing but whats a good conversation starter to a stranger in a lecture/practicals?
Something about the lecture? Repeat to her something you both just learnt, or something you found particularly interesting. Get her opinion on something topical that was contained in the lecture. Make a comment about the professor. Ask her for help on something you missed or didn't understand.
I've never been in the exact situation but I don't imagine it being much harder than something like "Did you get all that?" and just taking it from there.
[QUOTE=Dark_Light;28967054]She probably had bad experiences with relationships at a young age and is acting on her maternal instinct to protect you at all costs etc.
Just tell her you appreciate her concern, but you are old enough to know what you are doing and you can handle yourself. Has she met your girlfriend? You should try make her also realize that your girlfriend is a mature person like yourself and that you are having a positive effect on each other.
All the best.[/QUOTE]
Nah she dropped me off at the bus station where I met her the other day, they went to go to a shop and saw us walking along back to her place, that's the only time shes seen her, I wouldn't want to introduce my girlfriend to my mother anyway.
I doubt you'd want to, but your mother might appreciate the incentive and maturity, and if your girlfriend behaves I'm sure it'll show your mother that she isn't what she thinks she is.
I don't know your mother obviously, but I know that my mother would commend me if I were to introduce my girlfriend to her instead of trying to keep it behind her back, sort of thing.
In any case, you should talk to your mother first.
[QUOTE=Paravin;28967093]Score. Came to my girlfriends town for a party and to spend another 2 days with her. We had the best fucking sex ever. Must have been the emotions and lust bottled up fron last Sunday when we almost broke up. Sex all night, and then a few times in the morning. A little minus is that she was on her period, so I kinda had to wash off blood in the morning. I was surprised she agreed to having sex, since most girl are disgusted my the blood, and believe that the guy is too. Hey, I'm so sick that I ate her out too, she got really crazy afterwards. :q: I was lucky - didn't taste any different.
Now my penis hurts a bit.[/QUOTE]
this post contained neither the giving nor requesting of relationship advice
[QUOTE=Dark_Light;28968027]Something about the lecture? Repeat to her something you both just learnt, or something you found particularly interesting. Get her opinion on something topical that was contained in the lecture. Make a comment about the professor. Ask her for help on something you missed or didn't understand.
I've never been in the exact situation but I don't imagine it being much harder than something like "Did you get all that?" and just taking it from there.[/QUOTE]
Yeah guess I had that in mind, just needed to hear it I guess.
[QUOTE=JohnnyMo1;28968645]this post contained neither the giving nor requesting of relationship advice[/QUOTE]
hay guize i just had alot of sex lol im so cool
Tbh the eating her out whilst on her period part greatly distressed me. I've had period sex before and quite frankly the smell makes me nauseous, I don't understand how you didn't vomit into her vagina.
it feels good to brag about sex
irl it makes you look like a douche
here is makes you look like a douche
but you care less
[QUOTE=Dark_Light;28969820]Tbh the eating her out whilst on her period part greatly distressed me. I've had period sex before and quite frankly the smell makes me nauseous, I don't understand how you didn't vomit into her vagina.[/QUOTE]
I've done it before.
I wear my red wings proudly.
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