• Maverick's Love/Relationship/Social Advice Megathread
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Someone who was in LA could please come and help spice up the chat threads forum with some Love advice loving.
[QUOTE=killerteacup;28253014]Someone who was in LA could please come and help spice up the chat threads forum with some Love advice loving.[/QUOTE] Why don't we use the chat forum as the love advice?
[QUOTE=Kingy_who;28253081]Why don't we use the chat forum as the love advice?[/QUOTE] Because this Thread is better than the chat forum?
[QUOTE=Kingy_who;28253081]Why don't we use the chat forum as the love advice?[/QUOTE] There's a thread in there, but its shit and I think we're waiting for Maverick to be the OP. Though hes offline so if a mod gives me the OK to make a new one I will. [QUOTE=Numidium;28253485]Because this Thread is better than the chat forum?[/QUOTE] It's really not. Maverick's help topic is good but love chat was better. I'm not saying this thread should be deleted or moved, on the contrary it should stay but someone needs to create a decent LA replacement in the chat threads forum.
Shit man, I really feel like a pathetic little boy now. I made a lot of mistakes post-breakup. Thanks for the thread, I'll keep this in mind. I'm glad I'm over her now, makes stuff so much easier.
Truth is I dont ever think I will fit in/ find true love. I am depressed most of the time and try to hide it at school by sitting in a group whom I dont talk to and masking my feelings with humor. 98% of the people whom I got to school with are total morons anyway, so I go home, plug in and escape to a world of video games to try and get away from all of it. I have also thought about suicide a couple of times, and no I havent told anyone exept my best freind. (That other 2 %) and he hasent realy helped that much, so all in all I am quite comfortable being by myself and just doing nothing. I have actualy accepted my fate, and hey, im okay with that, so I dont realy know what im going to do, ill probably just be that one guy no one ever invites anywhere. One of the main causes of all this depression is where this species is heading. Im not in this thread to look for sympathy I just wanted to get it of my chest and move on you know, try and tough it out until the time comes. Thanks.
[QUOTE=Awegner;28253664]Truth is I dont ever think I will fit in/ find true love. I am depressed most of the time and try to hide it at school by sitting in a group whom I dont talk to and masking my feelings with humor. 98% of the people whom I got to school with are total morons anyway, so I go home, plug in and escape to a world of video games to try and get away from all of it. I have also thought about suicide a couple of times, and no I havent told anyone exept my best freind. (That other 2 %) and he hasent realy helped that much, so all in all I am quite comfortable being by myself and just doing nothing. I have actualy accepted my fate, and hey, im okay with that, so I dont realy know what im going to do, ill probably just be that one guy no one ever invites anywhere. One of the main causes of all this depression is where this species is heading. Im not in this thread to look for sympathy I just wanted to get it of my chest and move on you know, try and tough it out until the time comes. Thanks.[/QUOTE] have this song as my olive branch: [media]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MKVBtEuPSwc[/media]
[QUOTE=Awegner;28253664]Truth is I dont ever think I will fit in/ find true love. I am depressed most of the time and try to hide it at school by sitting in a group whom I dont talk to and masking my feelings with humor. 98% of the people whom I got to school with are total morons anyway, so I go home, plug in and escape to a world of video games to try and get away from all of it. I have also thought about suicide a couple of times, and no I havent told anyone exept my best freind. (That other 2 %) and he hasent realy helped that much, so all in all I am quite comfortable being by myself and just doing nothing. I have actualy accepted my fate, and hey, im okay with that, so I dont realy know what im going to do, ill probably just be that one guy no one ever invites anywhere. One of the main causes of all this depression is where this species is heading. Im not in this thread to look for sympathy I just wanted to get it of my chest and move on you know, try and tough it out until the time comes. Thanks.[/QUOTE] No, you're not "okay with it" at all, and you haven't "accepted" it either. If you did, why are you talking about being depressed or considering suicide? You could find 'love' and you could fit in if you weren't a such a massive pussy. How old are you anyway?
[QUOTE=Dark_Light;28253744]No, you're not "okay with it" at all, and you haven't "accepted" it either. If you did, why are you talking about being depressed or considering suicide? You could find 'love' and you could fit in if you weren't a such a massive pussy. How old are you anyway?[/QUOTE] I "HAD" accepted it, only depression was before that.
[QUOTE=MaverickIB;28250879]I highly doubt there is absolutely nothing to do. 10 bucks says you're just too lazy to look for something. Weren't you the negative nancy that would always come in to LA and then never take our advice? Not going to waste my time if you're going to do the same thing here. Shit, you could just go for a walk or something. Be creative.[/QUOTE] This is true. Asked some girl if she wanted to go out today and we basically just walked around the city talking until we sat down on a hill in a park and just talked for a couple of hours. Enjoyed ourselves and I honestly didn't even have a plan for that. Just met up with her and walked.
[QUOTE=Awegner;28253664]All in all I am quite comfortable being by myself and just doing nothing. I have actualy accepted my fate, and hey, im okay with that, so I dont realy know what im going to do, ill probably just be that one guy no one ever invites anywhere.[/QUOTE] What is your "fate"? To be a lonely, miserable, depressed teenager for the rest of your life? Why does anyone want to be "the guy no one ever invites anywhere."? "Being yourself and just doing nothing" is not going to get you out of these lows. You're always going to feel miserable and pathetic if you keep hating yourself and giving up. Get out there, make friends. I don't give a shit if you think you're better or smarter than them, or that they're less mature than you. Because look, they're happy aren't they? Go socialize with them, and actually try have fun. Nothing is ever going to change if you don't do anything about it.
[QUOTE=i_speel_good;28251035]The breakup actually left me with feelings of being a badass. One day I just woke up and realized I didn't love her anymore. We were long-time friends since we were 9, with communication cut up when we were 13-15 because of moving to different schools. We met up one day and started talking again and a week later we were in a relationship, that lasted 7 whole months. All this time I was telling myself I'd never break up with her, and the only way we would break up would be if she did it. So that day I just woke up and told myself "fuck, I must end this". And so I did, and I've never been a happier man. My friends even applauded me when I got back from breaking up with her. She was convinced that I broke up with her because my friends told me so. Boy was she wrong. Most of my friends told me the same thing: "If you're 100% sure, go for it. If not, don't come back to me crying"! And so I did it. So here's a piece of wisdom for the wanderers of this thread. It was pretty tough. She had figured something was wrong because I asked her to go out earlier than the usual time I do. I hadn't seen her in 2 weeks either. So we meet up, spend 1.5 hours talking about boring bullshit (2 times she tried to rest on my shoulder, something she's almost never done before by herself), when I decided to say "I want to break up". She thought I was joking at first. I'm like srs face and tell her the reasons why and she looks at me and says "WAIT YOU'RE NOT JOKING?", which kinda caught me off guard. None the less, she decided to cut off all contact by herself! So did all of her friends, who I couldn't care less about. I've hidden her from my news feed but not deleted her on Facebook. And life's good. Yesterday I was talking to this chick and she asked me to go play Nazi Zombies together. Cool shit.[/QUOTE] Recently I'd been wanting to break up with my girlfriend and I just felt like a massive weight was lifted when I finally did it.
[QUOTE=Awegner;28253664]Truth is I dont ever think I will fit in/ find true love. I am depressed most of the time and try to hide it at school by sitting in a group whom I dont talk to and masking my feelings with humor. 98% of the people whom I got to school with are total morons anyway, so I go home, plug in and escape to a world of video games to try and get away from all of it. I have also thought about suicide a couple of times, and no I havent told anyone exept my best freind. (That other 2 %) and he hasent realy helped that much, so all in all I am quite comfortable being by myself and just doing nothing. I have actualy accepted my fate, and hey, im okay with that, so I dont realy know what im going to do, ill probably just be that one guy no one ever invites anywhere. One of the main causes of all this depression is where this species is heading. Im not in this thread to look for sympathy I just wanted to get it of my chest and move on you know, try and tough it out until the time comes. Thanks.[/QUOTE] Schools are always full of morons, if you ever get to an university to study, talk to people, they don't know what you're like and if you're unsociable or w/e, make a fresh start, people are less stupid and more mature in those kind of places, they understand people more, they know how hard it can be. Happens with a lot of people, it happened to my neighbour, he was going to school, he was teased by kids for being a nerd and an akward person, he just kept going, he got into an uni, made friends, bam now he's going to parties, has lots of friends and is a total different person. Never give up, it's stupid to give up, because if you give up and lack self-motivation you're gonna end up where you think you will end up - being forever alone and probably killing yourself, or just yeah... being forever alone. Also, you've probably seen this video atleast once, watch it again. [media]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KOuFa-AZqt0&feature=related[/media] It's really motivating Forgot to mention, if you have nothing in your life now, and you want something, you have to work for it, no one is gonna put everything you need and want your plate for you to have it. So just study, get a job, get into a better community, find a good friend circle, go out somewhere, like a convention that includes things you like, get to know people who like same things.
[QUOTE=Tosadalis;28253865]Schools are always full of morons, if you ever get to an university to study, talk to people[/QUOTE] I never go for girls in my own school, only ones from other schools.
[QUOTE=B-hazard;28253921]I never go for girls in my own school, only ones from other schools.[/QUOTE] My advice wasn't aimed for girlfriend advice, since he complained about people being jerks and his best friend not being too useful. It pains me to see how people are becoming depressed and it's all their fault, they think others are the main influence, but it's really themselves who tell that they can't accomplish anything, or start over.
[QUOTE=Faren;28253861]Recently I'd been wanting to break up with my girlfriend and I just felt like a massive weight was lifted when I finally did it.[/QUOTE] That's pretty much the gist of what I said. If you're sure you wanna do it don't wait, DO IT! [QUOTE=killerteacup;28251426]Whatever happened to ice skating[/QUOTE] An "ice" skating ring in my city gets set up only on the christmas festival that happens for 3 weeks every year also it sucks dick and it's the worst possible thing to do with your girlfriend IMHO. [QUOTE=Awegner;28253664]Truth is I dont ever think I will fit in/ find true love. I am depressed most of the time and try to hide it at school by sitting in a group whom I dont talk to and masking my feelings with humor. 98% of the people whom I got to school with are total morons anyway, so I go home, plug in and escape to a world of video games to try and get away from all of it. I have also thought about suicide a couple of times, and no I havent told anyone exept my best freind. (That other 2 %) and he hasent realy helped that much, so all in all I am quite comfortable being by myself and just doing nothing. I have actualy accepted my fate, and hey, im okay with that, so I dont realy know what im going to do, ill probably just be that one guy no one ever invites anywhere. One of the main causes of all this depression is where this species is heading. Im not in this thread to look for sympathy I just wanted to get it of my chest and move on you know, try and tough it out until the time comes. Thanks.[/QUOTE] You're basically me 3 years ago. SOCIALISE, FFS. Meet your friend's friends and make them your friends and hang out with them and make more friends. It's not that hard. I'm not talking real real friends, but people you can hang out with and talk. Real friendship will come with some of those. And with friends come girls who you can meet and get acquainted with.
Going on my third date with this girl next week. :D Thanks Maverick, your threads practically scored me this.
Is it a problem of any sort when I see a girl post on Facepunch and I blow my load?
This is actually useful. It works. No joke. Bookmarked.
Though I didn't go to love advice a lot Maverick is pretty awesome. Just started uni, a whole new fresh slate of people to meet :buddy:
[QUOTE=Maximo13;28254783]This is actually useful. It works. No joke. Bookmarked.[/QUOTE] Despite his aggressive posting manner, Maverick is actually quite helpful.
[QUOTE=MaverickIB;28238094]Taking advice from girls is a terrible idea. Girls will tell you that writing a note and/or telling a girl you've always loved her is cute/whatever. The bottom line is that girls think that shit is cute until it happens to them, which is when they find it creepy. In reality, they just want guys that look like Brad Pitt doing crap like that for them. It's okay to take a girl's input on problems you're having and whatnot, but you should take it with a grain of salt. Girls have a habit of living in fantasy worlds, they say they want guys outside their window holding a stereo, but when that really happens, they call the police.[/QUOTE] well this seems plausible to me [media]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d6FzeclcpLE[/media]
[QUOTE=Awegner;28253664]Truth is I dont ever think I will fit in/ find true love. I am depressed most of the time and try to hide it at school by sitting in a group whom I dont talk to and masking my feelings with humor. 98% of the people whom I got to school with are total morons anyway, so I go home, plug in and escape to a world of video games to try and get away from all of it. I have also thought about suicide a couple of times, and no I havent told anyone exept my best freind. (That other 2 %) and he hasent realy helped that much, so all in all I am quite comfortable being by myself and just doing nothing. I have actualy accepted my fate, and hey, im okay with that, so I dont realy know what im going to do, ill probably just be that one guy no one ever invites anywhere. One of the main causes of all this depression is where this species is heading. Im not in this thread to look for sympathy I just wanted to get it of my chest and move on you know, try and tough it out until the time comes. Thanks.[/QUOTE] 1. Work out. It builds your confidence and exercise has been proven to release "feel-good" endorphins in your brain. 2. New hobby. Try drawing and sketching, it's relaxing. Helped me when I used to be like you. :v: 3. Don't think too much. You say the cause is where humanity as a whole is heading.. 10 bucks you're under 18. You're likely a kid. You're entitled to your amusement and childish hobbies. Enjoy your youth while you're still young, man, and just don't think about that kind of shit until you're older. Stress ain't a kid's job.
my neighbours are massive alcoholics and fight all the time, how do i confront them about being violent loud pissheads?
Police?
[QUOTE=Eluveitie;28255007]Despite his aggressive posting manner, Maverick is actually quite helpful.[/QUOTE] I'd say his aggressive posting style actually helps the people who won't listen. As in, people who are the way I was. :v: You don't remember every nice thing said to you because for the most part, "nice" people don't evoke emotions. But I bet a person will remember everything said to him in an aggressive tone because he's either scared or slightly upset if he's the stubborn type and told to change. [editline]24th February 2011[/editline] [QUOTE=Contag;28256540]my neighbours are massive alcoholics and fight all the time, how do i confront them about being violent loud pissheads?[/QUOTE] Happens to me all the time. Call the police. You might not want to or you might have some sort of inhibition against "snitchin'" but just do it.
[QUOTE=MaveDustaine;28256514]1. Work out. It builds your confidence and exercise has been proven to release "feel-good" endorphins in your brain. [/QUOTE] I tried kick-boxing, now all my body parts and wrists hurts. Damn
[QUOTE=camaroni;28256549]Police?[/QUOTE] i live in australia, i'd probably just be describing their average night at home
Leave the country? I don't know.
This thread saved my relationship, thanks. [sp]sarcasm[/sp]
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