• Maverick's Love/Relationship/Social Advice Megathread
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Saw the girl again today. Didn't feel sick at all. Meh.
Juliet was 13 in the play. Romeo was never given a precise age, but he was supposed to be around 16 or 17. That's pretty creepy.
[QUOTE=Jo The Shmo;29023059]Juliet was 13 in the play. Romeo was never given a precise age, but he was supposed to be around 16 or 17. That's pretty creepy.[/QUOTE] correct me if I'm wrong Marriage were typical like that in the past, older men typically married 13 year old chicks as they were now able to get pregnant in basic terms
Yeah and kings and queens slept with their nephews to preserve their bloodline. It's still creepy.
Hellllooo hemophilia.
So I just remembered something from 2 1/2 years ago when I was just a high school freshman... (I'm going to put it very bluntly - I was a shallow idiot with his head up in the clouds, and I was also tech illiterate) There was this girl who really liked me at the beginning of the year. But me, being me at the time, didn't really like her all that much because she wasn't really one of the nicer looking girls at my school. So I kinda blew her off once or twice and I think she got the idea after a while that I didn't like her. She left my high school at the end of the year. I don't even know how I remembered this, but it feels pretty fucking bad bro... Looking back a bit further, this MAY have been the same girl from something a bit earlier. In middle school, we went on a class trip to Washington DC / New York, with our class and the 8th grade class of another campus of the school (private school with a few campuses in the area). On the train ride from DC to New York, I think she was from the other campus, and we sat next to each other and played on my old DS (the old fat DSs). IIRC I kinda liked her there, which would explain why she liked me at the beginning of freshman year - that trip was only a few weeks from the end of the year. Fuck I hate how stupid I was... :smithicide:
only got erect once today woopee but it made up for it by hurting like fuck
[QUOTE=MaverickIB;29009381]What? No. It's her parents, their word is final. He's just her fucking boyfriend, he has no business talking to them about how they should raise their child. He should just suck it up and deal with it. The relationship isn't doomed to fail just because some parents don't give a shit about what a pubescent boy has to say.[/QUOTE] I'm not pubescent. Furthermore I never said I was going to fight it or that the relationship was doomed to fail, it's just annoying is all. It's one of those things I'd like to do if the concept of consequences was removed for a day. Anyway, it shouldn't happen too often if she doesn't slip up often. Like she was banned from staying at mine for I think...5 weeks because she wasn't handing out resumes to get a second job, and she got a lift home with a friend of mine who had been caught for drink driving about two years ago (Despite the fact his breath rated about the same level as cough syrup - an error of judgement after he'd sobered up and thought he was fine to drive). Anyway, sometimes its deserving and sometimes its just downright silly. She's probably moving out at the end of the year anyway so it doesn't matter too much. I still get to go to her house this Sunday.
My girlfriend wanted me to give it to her... and I didn't. Did I make the right decision?
No.
By girlfriend I mean my left hand.
[QUOTE=Somebody_404;29034930]By girlfriend I mean my left hand.[/QUOTE] Then I guess you didn't make the RIGHT decision.
[QUOTE=Glitch360;28881805]It means that she isn't interested in you. Sorry bro[/QUOTE] Yeah I should clear this up a bit. On the day I was going to ask her only one of her friends (I'll call her blondie) came to class. So, since the term is almost over I thought, hell, why not ask blondie if her friend is in her relationship right now. So I ask her and she said that her friend was sort of seeing someone, and asked if I wanted her to ask her friend. Of course that'd be even weirder than what I just did so I said no. Last class I came in and started doing my normal routine. Blondie and one of their guy friends were sitting next to each other and talking so I thought, I guess she told her friend and now she is just going to avoid me. Then the girl I'm interested walks in and instead of sitting next to her friends she sits alone. I think she was already in class before I got there because I think her stuff was already in the room. I don't really know why she'd not sit with her friends since they seemed inseparable. It could be/probably is just a coincidence, but I don't know, and I know this sounds egoistic, I still feel its partly my fault, especially if they were arguing or something.
My family is taunting me (jokingly) because I'm attracted to a black girl even though I thought interracial dating/marriage/love etc. was strange when I was 6/7ish. :sigh:
[QUOTE=markfu;29035506]Yeah I should clear this up a bit. On the day I was going to ask her only one of her friends (I'll call her blondie) came to class. So, since the term is almost over I thought, hell, why not ask blondie if her friend is in her relationship right now. So I ask her and she said that her friend was sort of seeing someone, and asked if I wanted her to ask her friend. Of course that'd be even weirder than what I just did so I said no. Last class I came in and started doing my normal routine. Blondie and one of their guy friends were sitting next to each other and talking so I thought, I guess she told her friend and now she is just going to avoid me. Then the girl I'm interested walks in and instead of sitting next to her friends she sits alone. I think she was already in class before I got there because I think her stuff was already in the room. I don't really know why she'd not sit with her friends since they seemed inseparable. It could be/probably is just a coincidence, but I don't know, and I know this sounds egoistic, I still feel its partly my fault, especially if they were arguing or something.[/QUOTE] No. She's not interested. You're just trying not to accept this by tacking on meaningless details and convincing yourself you are the center of her life.
Any advice on getting through to shy chicks? I mean obviously go with: Try to overcome shyness with being outgoing and friendly, but be very careful to not be pushy or prying. Anything else that could work? All Im getting is one to two word answers. She did open up once when she was talking about a concert she went to. Me, being an idiot and all, chose the perfect words to nullify her enthusiasm about telling me about the concert. IN ANY CASE, I have decided to not be that retarded and be careful about what I say from now on. But that doesn't help me break through her shyness. Also, before anybody goes off saying "Well maybe she just doesn't want to talk to you. Deal with it." (Which is completely possible though) I happened to notice a personality questionnaire our whole class took. In which she rated shy in most aspects. So I know she rates as shy already. (Which poses another problem because I scored one point lower on the scale, which means I'm technically shyer) So not only do I have to break through her shyness to see if shes willing to want to talk to me, I have to break through my own. Any case, I have decided to actually put effort into this, and want to get to know her, which Im willing to work for. (As opposed to the past which I would give up at the slightest hint of negativity)
Shy girls that are interested in you will be shy, but if they're interested they'll still make attempts at talking to you. If she's not attempting to participate in conversations and is just shooting you one/two word responses, she isn't interested. Don't try to "break through," this isn't a movie. You'll just look creepy and make her even more reserved around you. Also, personality test things don't mean shit, do you realize how pathetic you sound trying to rationalize the possibility of her being interested in you because a test said she's shy? Just ask her out. If she says yes, she's interested. If no, then she's not. The concept doesn't change when the girl is shy or anything.
[QUOTE=MaverickIB;29047388]Shy girls that are interested in you will be shy, but if they're interested they'll still make attempts at talking to you. If she's not attempting to participate in conversations and is just shooting you one/two word responses, she isn't interested. Don't try to "break through," this isn't a movie. You'll just look creepy and make her even more reserved around you. Also, personality test things don't mean shit, do you realize how pathetic you sound trying to rationalize the possibility of her being interested in you because a test said she's shy? Just ask her out. If she says yes, she's interested. If no, then she's not. The concept doesn't change when the girl is shy or anything.[/QUOTE] I'm trying to rationalize her shyness, and a personality test lends credence. Of course there is a possibility that shes not interested in me, and Im not going to pretend otherwise. I had already planned on just plain asking her, but due to people traffic and my ridiculous nervousness, I got nothing accomplished. As "pathetic" as it may seem, and hard to understand, to such an [U]expert[/U] on relationships as you, stuff like this doesn't run easy for me.
Well growing some nuts and asking her out is really the only way you're going to find out anything. Much better than trying to "break through" and find out via stupid hints and shit.
Thank you for that advice after insulting me, but none the less thats what I'll just man up and do. And I never said "Break through". And to be honest, I have intentionally restrained myself from analyzing her like I normally do to most people. It just so happened that she scored shy and I noted it.
[QUOTE=D0C H.;29047239]Any advice on getting through to shy chicks? I mean obviously go with: Try to overcome shyness with being outgoing and friendly, but be very careful to not be pushy or prying. Anything else that could work? All Im getting is one to two word answers. She did open up once when she was talking about a concert she went to. Me, being an idiot and all, chose the perfect words to nullify her enthusiasm about telling me about the concert. IN ANY CASE, I have decided to not be that retarded and be careful about what I say from now on. But that doesn't help me [b]break through[/b] her shyness. Also, before anybody goes off saying "Well maybe she just doesn't want to talk to you. Deal with it." (Which is completely possible though) I happened to notice a personality questionnaire our whole class took. In which she rated shy in most aspects. So I know she rates as shy already. (Which poses another problem because I scored one point lower on the scale, which means I'm technically shyer) So not only do I have to [b]break through[/b] her shyness to see if shes willing to want to talk to me, I have to break through my own. Any case, I have decided to actually put effort into this, and want to get to know her, which Im willing to work for. (As opposed to the past which I would give up at the slightest hint of negativity)[/QUOTE] Yeah okay.
[QUOTE=MaverickIB;29047855]Yeah okay.[/QUOTE] Right, I suppose that is what I get for not proofreading my posts then. I put that, but didn't mean that. Shyness isn't a social disorder that needs treatment, I know that. I suppose I should have put "That doesnt help me get her to open up a little bit" instead.
"Hey I need advice from a guy" spent too much time as friends... meh, I'll get it right eventually
Tuesday is THE day. I WILL ask her out. Unless something goes wrong and I don't end up seeing her again for a while, which will most likely happen because I have the worst luck ever. Nonetheless this will not keep me from asking her.
[QUOTE=Big Ben;29048545]Tuesday is THE day. I WILL ask her out. Unless something goes wrong and I don't end up seeing her again for a while, which will most likely happen because I have the worst luck ever. Nonetheless this will not keep me from asking her.[/QUOTE] Good luck :love:
[QUOTE=Big Ben;29048545]Tuesday is THE day. I WILL ask her out. Unless something goes wrong and I don't end up seeing her again for a while, which will most likely happen because I have the worst luck ever. Nonetheless this will not keep me from asking her.[/QUOTE] Rated winner for this winning attitude. You could have left the "which is most likely happen part" out though. Sounds like you're trying to create a possible excuse for yourself. Just remember, if you don't do it for whatever reason, you will be a [b]big[/b] pussy. ;)
Don't rate him winner until he actually does it.
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