[QUOTE=D0C H.;29135247]Well, at least I asked. Now im unsure if this feels any better than not asking though.[/QUOTE]
Better to wish you hadn't done something than wish you had.
I probably read that somewhere in this thread.
[QUOTE=MaverickIB;29135022]Also, "Whoa, you need a speed ticket darling?"
Seriously?
Smooth. Real smooth. I'm surprised she didn't laugh, knee you in the balls and call you a faggot for saying that.[/QUOTE]
I like it when people make it obvious their story is made up by inserting a line that sounds cool in their heads without realizing it would make them sound like a complete imbecile in real life.
If a girl told me I need a speeding ticket, I'd yell "FUCK THE PO-LEESE" and shove my meatstick into her poop chute.
[QUOTE=ScoutKing;29116795]I can't decided if i should forget this bitch or not.
I mean they are my friend, but at the same time, im tired of liking them and watching them go out with complete losers.[/QUOTE]
Speaking from experience when I say: walk away and don't look back.
If anyone needs advice I'm right here, I'm much better than OP
Yeah, well, you know, that's just, like, your opinion, man.
My opinion is.. like your moms opinion.. man..
[QUOTE=kaskade700;29139796]My opinion is.. like your moms opinion.. man..[/QUOTE]
This proves you can't give good advice, because you can't even take a complete joke without trying to turn it into a really bad joke.
[QUOTE=blacksam;29131189]Alright so I'm dating this really sweet catholic girl for about two months now. She chased after me for four months. She means a lot to me. Really has been the nicest to me. Looks after me and makes me laugh until I cry. I've seen her as the kind of girl I can talk to about anything and everything which is really helpful. We've talked about everything, except physical stuff.
[sp] We've made out. A lot. Friday night we're just hanging out up in her room listening to the radio. She's wearing these white shorts (Fucking love spring clothing) that leave almost nothing to the imagination. I'm lying down on the bed with my back against the wall. She puts herself right on top of me. I'm playing with her legs and trace my fingers right under her shorts. She giggles and all. And here comes the part where I question my man hood. I put my hands right under her shorts and panties. She does this thing where she sways her hips and is really mesmerizing. We're making out and she is kissing me like never before. I peel myself off of her and say," Whoa, you need a speed ticket darling." [/sp]
After just fooling around I go home and talk to her. I ask her what the deal was and why was I so lucky to get away with that. "I trust you and even if you crossed the line I'd tell you." I told her I was new to all of this physical stuff. Which is very true. She says she is too. I believe her. The reason I removed myself from her was I wanted to make sure she was comfortable before I decided to do it again. She respects me for saying that. It is a breath of fresh air. We talked for five hours about it. I told her it was glorious. Of course she says," I'm flattered and kind of embarrassed." and then she said," [b]black shorts or tight jean shorts?[/b]".
I can't decide.[/QUOTE]
bahahahhhHAHHAHAHHAHHA
There's this new girl at my work, I met her today. She's really hot and the only attractive (and young) girl at my work. Pretty much everyone else is an old lady in their 30s or older. Well, we talked earlier today for a bit, she was here filling out her forms and stuff to work here and I'm fairly certain she starts working tomorrow. She's really nice and so far I'm the only person there she has talked to (excluding our supervisor). Well we work in a job where it's kind of complicated as to what to do, and so I'm thinking about helping her on her first day, showing her how to do things and teaching her the rules and stuff. I'm just going to be friendly and not like flirty or anything, how does that sound? I'd especially like a girl's opinion, how would you feel if a male co-worker was being friendly and helping you out on your first day of work? Want to make her feel welcome here at work. Please reply :)
How can I make myself not feel like I need to have a relationship when everyone else around me is starting to get into relationships?
[QUOTE=ShivanCommander;29141072]There's this new girl at my work, I met her today. She's really hot and the only attractive (and young) girl at my work. Pretty much everyone else is an old lady in their 30s or older. Well, we talked earlier today for a bit, she was here filling out her forms and stuff to work here and I'm fairly certain she starts working tomorrow. She's really nice and so far I'm the only person there she has talked to (excluding our supervisor). Well we work in a job where it's kind of complicated as to what to do, and so I'm thinking about helping her on her first day, showing her how to do things and teaching her the rules and stuff.
I'm just going to be friendly and not like flirty or anything, how does that sound? I'd especially like a girl's opinion, how would you feel if a male co-worker was being friendly and helping you out on your first day of work? Also, I'm thinking about maybe buying her a coffee and bringing it to her for work, since that's sort of a really nice thing to do, does that sound like a good idea too? Please reply :)[/QUOTE]
buying coffee for her is overboard
and BE FLIRTY, because being friendly is for friends, not for hot chicks
I got a good tip for you all who are too nervous to talk to girls.
Do something new. I just changed my hair and I got some confidence from it (because it's fucking awesome). Got plans for a movie with this cute chick from school. It's all in the balls.
[QUOTE=FunTykoon;29141184]buying coffee for her is overboard
and [b]BE FLIRTY,[/b] because being friendly is for friends, not for hot chicks[/QUOTE]
This: Have no fear, and don't give her the wrong idea. Not doing so is not going to help you.
I fucking called it. The day I decide to nut up and be a man I don't see her. The sadness caused by this is making me think this whole 'dating' thing is a bad idea because I have no license, I have no car, and I have no real source of income. But on the other hand, I'll beat myself up over not asking if I do eventually get the chance for a loooooooong time.
I have a headache. I'm going to sleep.
That's why you wait and do it tomorrow or something. Christ, it's not the end of the world. You're just asking a girl out, there's not even a guarantee that she'll say yes. Stop getting so damn worked up about it.
Plenty of people go on dates without licenses, cars, or income. It's called middle/high school. My parents had to take me whenever I wanted to go on a date and whatnot. You'll live.
But it [b]has[/b] to be on a Tuesday!
-snip-
Taking her out to ice skating tomorrow. Apparently she's not too good at it and is gonna need help.
Good idea for increasing comfort with physical contact (she can be a bit reserved in that respect; she's 14 and I'm not sure if she's gone out with a guy), yes?
just got back from my first date. We spent too long at dinner, missed the movie. Went go-karting at Boomers instead. I drove us back to my house (she drove to my house since she was going to be near anyway), and it was really early (9PM early), so we went in, talked for like 10 minutes, then saw [i]Hackers[/i].
Overall it was pretty good, kinda got nervous during the movie and didn't end up pulling her in a bit closer which I'm regretting right now, but meh...
[editline]13th April 2011[/editline]
as for the physical contact (yeah, I should really be answering this question now.. :v:), just go ahead and help her with skating, don't be shy about it yourself or anything - if you make it uncomfortable, it will be uncomfortable. It may still be a bit uncomfortable for her at first, but if you don't make it a big deal, she'll feel more comfortable about it after a few minutes.
Given up trying to get into a relationship with a girl I've liked for months now. She seems very happy with her boyfriend, and I doubt they'd split soon. She said even if they did split up she'd wait until she met a guy she really liked, and not jump straight back into a relationship. i.e. She has no feelings for any of the guys she knows at the moment, including me. She still texts me every night and everything though, and we're planning a much belated meet-up after not seeing each other for about 6/7 weeks.
But oh well, School will be mixed gender next year, and for some reason the geekiest guys seem to get all the girls in my schools 6th Form.
How can I be more flirty, as you guys say? I’ve gotten a huge confidence boost lately, and would like to know.
[QUOTE=Maximo13;29144757]How can I be more flirty, as you guys say? I’ve gotten a huge confidence boost lately, and would like to know.[/QUOTE]
be fun and don't be a arsehole or be creepy
it has to be natural
[QUOTE=thisispain;29144781]be fun and don't be a arsehole or be creepy
it has to be natural[/QUOTE]
I'm pretty boring though, I don't watch any of the TV shows they do and most of the time I have no idea what they are talking about.
[editline]13th April 2011[/editline]
Thank you for the tip though.
[QUOTE=Maximo13;29144908]I'm pretty boring though, I don't watch any of the TV shows they do and most of the time I have no idea what they are talking about.
[/QUOTE]
well, get informed silly
What would be good things to talk about?
no-one's boring, you could make minecraft into great conversation if you know how
maybe minecraft is a bit of a stretch...
Just go "niccccccceeee to sssssseeee youuu" and pretend to be a creeper.
Works every time.
[editline]13th April 2011[/editline]
Being flirty is one of the things I'm worst at.
I am comfortable talking to girls and being around them, but I'm never actually flirty, I just talk to them normally.
[QUOTE=Jo The Shmo;29140391]This proves you can't give good advice, because you can't even take a complete joke without trying to turn it into a really bad joke.[/QUOTE]
Actually iirc there's a scene where he says something similar to the wife, just with it's your husbands opinion.
What the fuck date do I take a girl out on if I have absolutely no money?
I've been trying to figure this out for days.
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