[QUOTE=MaverickIB;29172202]Um, there's not really anything you can do because that's just the way she is. She's shy around people she doesn't know, I don't see how that's a problem or anything like that.[/QUOTE]
It's not a huge problem but she doesn't like holding hands or anything of that sort because of it.
[QUOTE=Lukeo;29172488]Ask her out now.
Also relevant to this thread:
[media]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JjF932SFoCc[/media][/QUOTE]
okay, im gonna start growing me some balls.
Have maverick, I got two questions for you. This is my first time posting here so sorry if I do something stupid without knowing it. Anyways, the first one is serious, whats the best way to woo a girl over? The other one isn't very serious but I assume you have a lot of funny stories to tell, whats the worst date or girlfriends you have ever had?
[QUOTE=SaWAH;29166840]I don't really need advice, but I sort of have a question:
In the initial stages of developing feelings for each other, is it common that one of the involved people develop feelings quicker than the other one?
Just curious, how has it been for you guys?
[editline]14th April 2011[/editline]
Because I have a slight feeling that in the initial stages, the girl is often more into the guy than the guy is into her.[/QUOTE]
Though I suspect that it is more typical for women than men to jump the gun, I suspect the number of men that do is still larger than most people expect. I mean really, we live in the age of Minecraft and shitty male role models; of course men are gonna grow up to be pussies.
[QUOTE=FlakAttack;29173998]Though I suspect that it is more typical for women than men to jump the gun, I suspect the number of men that do is still larger than most people expect. I mean really, we live in the age of Minecraft and shitty male role models; of course men are gonna grow up to be pussies.[/QUOTE]
yeah i don't really see where you are getting that from
i don't really draw the connection of minecraft and men growing up to be pussies
[QUOTE=SaWAH;29166840]I don't really need advice, but I sort of have a question:
In the initial stages of developing feelings for each other, is it common that one of the involved people develop feelings quicker than the other one?
Just curious, how has it been for you guys?
[editline]14th April 2011[/editline]
Because I have a slight feeling that in the initial stages, the girl is often more into the guy than the guy is into her.[/QUOTE]
That's because you're the girl. You obviously can see your EXACT level of interest, but can only estimate theirs, and they probably won't come straight forward and say "Hey I am really really interested in you"
From my point of view it seems like the guy is more interested at first.
[editline]14th April 2011[/editline]
[QUOTE=DinoJesus;29173912]Have maverick, I got two questions for you. This is my first time posting here so sorry if I do something stupid without knowing it. Anyways, the first one is serious, whats the best way to woo a girl over? The other one isn't very serious but I assume you have a lot of funny stories to tell, whats the worst date or girlfriends you have ever had?[/QUOTE]
You sound like you just got a chance to talk to the host if your favorite radio show.
"Long time listener first time caller!"
[QUOTE=Jo The Shmo;29175470]That's because you're the girl. You obviously can see your EXACT level of interest, but can only estimate theirs, and they probably won't come straight forward and say "Hey I am really really interested in you"
From my point of view it seems like the guy is more interested at first.
[editline]14th April 2011[/editline]
You sound like you just got a chance to talk to the host if your favorite radio show.
"Long time listener first time caller!"[/QUOTE]
nah, i've talked about it with several guys irl
[QUOTE=DinoJesus;29173912]Have maverick, I got two questions for you. This is my first time posting here so sorry if I do something stupid without knowing it. Anyways, the first one is serious, whats the best way to woo a girl over? The other one isn't very serious but I assume you have a lot of funny stories to tell, whats the worst date or girlfriends you have ever had?[/QUOTE]
Best way to "woo a girl over" is to grow nuts and ask her out. Girls dig confidence more than anything, a lot of confidence can easily make up for any other shortcomings you might have. I have huge ears and crazy eyes yet I'm so confident that it practically oozes out of me, so I've pulled plenty of girls that had other guys going "What the fuck, why did she turn me down but hook up your ugly ass?"
I'm sure plenty of people have heard the "I fucked a fat girl," story.
You see, I'm not attracted to fat girls, but I always wondered why some dudes are. I figured there had to be some redeeming quality about fat girls that made guys chase after them. However, my curiosity wasn't nearly enough to make me even consider actually hooking up with a big girl.
Alcohol quickly changed that. I was at some decently lame party and there happened to be a large girl there. She wasn't slightly chubby. She was large. I went over to my friend that I came with and said "I'm going to fuck that fat girl," and he tried to persuade me not to, but my severely inebriated ass wasn't having any of that. So I walked up to her and said "Let's hook up in the bedroom upstairs." This approach actually works with most girls. Not always right away, but the confidence tends to overwhelm them. However, this girl practically said, "LETS GO," before I finished the sentence, probably because I was the first athletic built guy that wanted anything to do with her.
To make a long story short, it was horrifying. I was beyond drunk and I [I]still knew I was making a huge mistake.[/I] I mean, I've fucked some ugly girls without a care in the world due to alcohol, but I was seriously thinking, "Oh god, I'm totally getting traumatized right now" despite having a few gallons of beer and tequila in my system. It was so bad that after 5 minutes or so, I just had to get out of there. I needed to leave. I couldn't take it.
So I grabbed my friend and we walked 6 miles back to the dorm because the people that drove us there were too drunk to drive and partly because I didn't want to make eye contact; everyone there knew what the fuck I just did.
That was seriously the worst idea I've ever had and one of the only things I regret doing in my life. It was beyond terrible. I shivered and gagged a bit just thinking about it while writing this.
I came across this video and couldn't help but notice the similarities between the guy exercising and a certain facepuncher.
[media]http://www.youtube.com/watch?xl=xl_blazer&v=nhDH6QDDVvo[/media]
Cauliflower ears like a motherfucker.
[QUOTE=Str4fe;29173516]okay, im gonna start growing me some balls.[/QUOTE]
Make sure to water them daily.
By that I mean check out how the shower works, and then use it.
[QUOTE=MaverickIB;29175903]Best way to "woo a girl over" is to grow nuts and ask her out. Girls dig confidence more than anything, a lot of confidence can easily make up for any other shortcomings you might have. I have huge ears and crazy eyes yet I'm so confident that it practically oozes out of me, so I've pulled plenty of girls that had other guys going "What the fuck, why did she turn me down but hook up your ugly ass?"
I'm sure plenty of people have heard the "I fucked a fat girl," story.
You see, I'm not attracted to fat girls, but I always wondered why some dudes are. I figured there had to be some redeeming quality about fat girls that made guys chase after them. However, my curiosity wasn't nearly enough to make me even consider actually hooking up with a big girl.
Alcohol quickly changed that. I was at some decently lame party and there happened to be a large girl there. She wasn't slightly chubby. She was large. I went over to my friend that I came with and said "I'm going to fuck that fat girl," and he tried to persuade me not to, but my severely inebriated ass wasn't having any of that. So I walked up to her and said "Let's hook up in the bedroom upstairs." This approach actually works with most girls. Not always right away, but the confidence tends to overwhelm them. However, this girl practically said, "LETS GO," before I finished the sentence, probably because I was the first athletic built guy that wanted anything to do with her.
To make a long story short, it was horrifying. I was beyond drunk and I [I]still knew I was making a huge mistake.[/I] I mean, I've fucked some ugly girls without a care in the world due to alcohol, but I was seriously thinking, "Oh god, I'm totally getting traumatized right now" despite having a few gallons of beer and tequila in my system. It was so bad that after 5 minutes or so, I just had to get out of there. I needed to leave. I couldn't take it.
So I grabbed my friend and we walked 6 miles back to the dorm because the people that drove us there were too drunk to drive and partly because I didn't want to make eye contact; everyone there knew what the fuck I just did.
That was seriously the worst idea I've ever had and one of the only things I regret doing in my life. It was beyond terrible. I shivered and gagged a bit just thinking about it while writing this.[/QUOTE]
I cringed reading it, no man should ever have to go through something like that. Also my sister for whatever reason thinks you're a phony. Got any proof or something to prove her wrong?
[QUOTE=DinoJesus;29179701]Also my sister for whatever reason thinks you're a phony.[/QUOTE]
who cares
[QUOTE=DinoJesus;29179701]I cringed reading it, no man should ever have to go through something like that. Also my sister for whatever reason thinks you're a phony. Got any proof or something to prove her wrong?[/QUOTE]
this is a bad post and you should be ashamed
[QUOTE=DinoJesus;29179701]I cringed reading it, no man should ever have to go through something like that. Also my sister for whatever reason thinks you're a phony. Got any proof or something to prove her wrong?[/QUOTE]
1. Who cares.
2. A phony? What I am supposedly pretending to be? Experienced with girls? If I wasn't experienced with girls, I wouldn't have my inbox getting filled with "Thank you your advice helped me a bunch," messages. Even if I did give a slight shit, how would I be able to prove it?
pictures of you surrounded by attractive girls, of course.
Ummm, well there was this time I ended up with a posse of girls at orientation.
[img]http://i53.tinypic.com/20axuex.jpg[/img]
And then I met their moms.
[img]http://i56.tinypic.com/66fabl.jpg[/img]
[QUOTE=MaverickIB;29179996]Ummm, well there was this time I ended up with a posse of girls at orientation.
[img_thumb]http://i53.tinypic.com/20axuex.jpg[/img_thumb]
And then I met their moms.
[img_thumb]http://i56.tinypic.com/66fabl.jpg[/img_thumb][/QUOTE]
did you also bang their moms?
I never said I didnt believe you, I just said my sister didn't. I wouldn't be asking for help if I didn't believe you anyways. Don't see why all you guys had to snap on me for that
[QUOTE=MaverickIB;29179996]Ummm, well there was this time I ended up with a posse of girls at orientation.
[img_thumb]http://i53.tinypic.com/20axuex.jpg[/img_thumb]
And then I met their moms.
[img_thumb]http://i56.tinypic.com/66fabl.jpg[/img_thumb][/QUOTE]
Awkward turtle, haha.
mav your ears man..
[QUOTE=MaverickIB;29179884]1. Who cares.
2. A phony? What I am supposedly pretending to be? Experienced with girls? If I wasn't experienced with girls, [b]I wouldn't have my inbox getting filled with "Thank you your advice helped me a bunch," messages.[/b] Even if I did give a slight shit, how would I be able to prove it?[/QUOTE]
So does this mean you're not experienced with girls?
[QUOTE=Jo The Shmo;29181496]So does this mean you're not experienced with girls?[/QUOTE]
"If I weren't experienced with girls, I wouldn't have my inbox getting filled with 'thank you your advice helped me a bunch,' messages" Equates to, "My inbox is filled with 'thank you your advice helped me a bunch,' messages, therefore, I must be experienced with girls."
[QUOTE=Jo The Shmo;29181496]So does this mean you're not experienced with girls?[/QUOTE]
Poor reading.
If he did not, he would not; but since he does, he has.
[QUOTE=Phsykotik;29181863]Poor reading.
If he did not, he would not; but since he does, he has.[/QUOTE]
:effort:
I didn't refresh before posting.
No I was being sarcastic.
I was saying his inbox wasn't full of that, so I guess he's not experienced with girls.
I was just a joke.
[editline]15th April 2011[/editline]
A bad one seeing how it confused you guys.
more like it made no fucking sense
I need help.
I broke up with my girlfriend of 8 months last night, because I just wasn't feeling it anymore. I didn't feel like staying in a relationship and pretending to love her either, because that would've just hurt her more.
So I called it off, like I should've done, right? I said I was sorry, and I can't help the way I feel and it won't change.
The only thing is, she's texting today saying stuff like "We can go back, and forget this stuff happened. I can see you more, we can try harder to make it work."
What the fuck am I meant to say back to that? I've already told her nothing she can do will change the way I feel, but she keeps practically begging for me to give her another chance to make it work.
Sigh.
Tell her to, how to put this nicely... "Fuck off?"
e.
If it is not too much trouble, can you get a new number?
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